Meeting fellow peggers?

topic posted Sun, March 4, 2012 - 6:17 PM by  Vincent
Hello everybody,
I'm relatively new to the pegging scene and I have to ask: how did you find that special someone who was willing to be your partner in pegging? Was it online? At a convention? Or did you ask your current partner to bend you over/bend over for you?
Stories, advice, anything is welcome!
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SF Bay Area
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    Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

    Sun, March 4, 2012 - 6:49 PM
    Hi! Oh man let me see.... My hubby had done it to himself too way before we met but when we first got married I found him on a similar site trying to figure out how to talk to me about. See what he didn't know was I always had penis envy and was so eager to know what its like to fuck someone. So after we talked about what we both wanted we decided to try it and haven't stopped since! Sometimes I think I want to do it more than he does, but I know that's not true lol
    • Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

      Sun, March 4, 2012 - 7:19 PM
      Thanks for your reply Kati. So when you met your husband, you had no idea he was interested in pegging? Were you interested when you met him?
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        Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

        Sun, March 4, 2012 - 8:06 PM
        Oh see when we first net i would have rather died then tell him! Same with him butwhen curiosity gets the better of you it ends up opening a new door and amazing experiences!!
  • Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

    Sun, March 4, 2012 - 8:17 PM
    Online. I am a member of, and have found partners there. Also met one BF on Adult Friend Finder before I left there.
    (I asked my two wasbands and they said no - thus the "was" part.)

    I did write a "how to" guide for both women and men as far as how to convince your partner to try it.

    Basically there is There is no cache of women just waiting to peg a man. It is hard to find a woman who is into it and I sympathize. If you are just looking to get knowledge and experience, go to a pro. If you are looking for a relationship with a woman who will peg you, you can either search on FetLife, or try to find an open-minded woman and convince her to try it.

    Here is one guy's story about getting his relatively non-kinky girlfriend to try pegging:

    All the Best,
    • Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

      Sun, March 4, 2012 - 8:22 PM
      Hi Ruby,
      Thanks for your honest words. I'm a bit confused by what you mean when you say "go to a pro." What does that entail?
      Also, your links were very helpful. Thank you very much.
  • Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

    Mon, March 5, 2012 - 6:34 PM
    This makes me appreciate being married so much more. I kinda just slowly hinted at her touching my ass until it eventually led to pegging. Took a while though. Pushing her finger down there during oral a few times, then bought massage toys, then she got comfy with being "down there" lol.
    • Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

      Mon, March 5, 2012 - 10:39 PM
      Nice! I'm so glad you got such a great response from her!
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        Re: Meeting fellow peggers?

        Wed, March 14, 2012 - 8:04 AM
        my wife introduced it to me!!

        looking back, and we talk about it all the time...she took her time not to freak me out.
        I never experienced any anal really before this.
        she took her time and then touched me right on the bud one night as I was laying down.
        It woke up a monster. I wanted her to touch me there all the time. what a sensation.
        it progressed easily from there.
        She was so happy to have someone who enjoyed it as much as she did.
        we both really enjoy it.
        we are so thankful to be together.

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