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The Peg Stand - Introduce Yourself

Ruby — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 22:42:18 GMT

Welcome to the Pegging 101 Community!

Take a moment to tell us a little about yourself, how you got here, where you are in terms of Pegging experience...and anything else you'd like to share about Pegging.

All the Best,
Ruby

P.S. If there was a place to sneak in a personal ad...introduce yourself and state what you are looking for here...AFTER you tell us a little about yourself, how you got here and your level of experience!

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What is your favorite pegging position??

karen — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 15:54:49 GMT

Cmon girls (and guys) tell us what your favorite position is...

mine is missionary with him on his back so i can see the expresion on his face as my cock slides into his arse...

Being larger built (allthough lots smaller and shorter than him) we have found that missionary is the best position for us, works the best physically, although i do love to bend him over on the bed and do it doggie style (thats the "im gunna fuck you" coming out of me though...) even if its not the most benificial position... sumtimes i just gotta do it even if it dont work physically...

Tell us what your fav position is... what works best for you...

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a question...

Danny — Sun, 13 May 2012 03:58:31 GMT

Hi, I'm Danny.
I wonder if you guys, who are getting pegged, are you bi or bi curious? I am kinda into dick sucking... But I want to hear what you are into... God bless strapons :-P

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Masturbation Month

Ruby — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 23:13:15 GMT

I hope you are all ready for May - Masturbation Month!
Since I am currently without a partner, my goal is to give myself (at least) one lovely orgasm every day for the entire month. I'm going to be really relaxed in June!
Anyone else have anything special planned for the month to celebrate this special holiday?

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A good pegging

Brock — Sun, 13 May 2012 20:29:18 GMT

My fiance' and I finished our projects on the condo at the beach so we decided to celebrate our accomplishments by having a nice dinner and going back to condo to relax. We finished dinner and on the way to the car, she said she was feeling a horny and started to rub my a$$. We got back to the condo, she and I both changed into a little more relaxing clothing and layed on the bed. I told her I was very proud of her because of her work ethic and how much I appreciated her help today working on the condo. We began a heated kissing session that eventually lead to me going down on her for quite a while. She finished, so I gave her a few minutes to recover and started back on her again. Before I did, I asked her where the larger of the two dildos for the Ultra-Harness were because I use it on her and couldn't find it before we left for the beach. I thought she packed it but she said she couldn't find it. I went to my bag, grabbed the Ultra-Harness with the didlo and returned to the bed. I proceeded to go down on her again and used the dildo (that normally she uses with the harness) on her. I brought her to another orgasm and she said no more. She got a big smile on her face and said it was my turn. She grabbed the harness out of my hand, got off the bed, stepped into it, pulled it into place and made the necessary adjustments. There's something sexy seeing her wearing her harness!

She told me to get on the floor and gave me some pillows to put under my a$$. She grabbed the bottle of lube, poured some on me and her dildo. With my legs in the air, she asked if I was ready and stuck it in. She leaned in to give me a kiss, driving the dildo in even further. With both legs over her shoulders, she was really getting into it. She said she really loves watching my face and asked me if it feels good. She leaned back a little so she could stroke me, almost bringing me to orgasm. After a few minutes like this, she then said she wanted to take me from behind. She pulled out and I got on my hands and knees, giving her full access to my a$$.

Sliding the dildo back in, she leaned down and I could feel her breasts on my back. Her left arm was under my stomach, while her right hand was jerking me off. She asked me if she was hitting my prostate and I told her she was driving me crazy! She knew I was getting close because she said, "Your hard as a rock." She knows I'm close when this happens. Picking up the pace, her hips were hitting my a$$, making the familiar slapping sound that we hear when I do her from behind.

I told her I was about to finish and she stroked me even faster and pounded me even harder. Within a few seconds of the increased pace, I blew my load. She slowed down and eventually stopped. Pulling out, she told me she loved doing that to me and she's glad she makes me feel good.

I am a lucky man to have a woman like her and even luckier that she loves strapping it on and giving me a good pegging!

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Pegging while Pregnant; what harness to buy?

Pete — Mon, 07 May 2012 21:21:09 GMT

My wife and I are really starting to enjoy our our time with the strap-on. But now she is a few months pregnant and I'm concerned that the harnesses that we have (which we haven't been thrilled with anyways) aren't going to fit much longer. I'd like to buy her a new one that allows for a "double" dildo, and hopefully will last a little longer into pregnancy. She was a size 20 before pregnancy anyways, so she's not a small person (which makes it sooo much hotter when she takes me from behind!).

So, anyone have experience pegging while pregnant? Warnings, concerns, suggestions?

Any recommendations for a good quality, comfortable harness comparable with double dongs (or a separate dildo for her) and made for bigger women?

Here's what I've found so far:
http://www.sextoy.com/KinkLab-Low-Rise-Leather-Strap-On-Full-Curve/sku-CNVSR-KL871
With this: http://www.sextoy.com/Fetish-Fantasy-Elite-7-Vibrating-Penetrix-Dildo/sku-CNVELD-PD4538-12
Do those look like they'd work together? Good choices? Bad?

Any help would be wonderful!!

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why is it so hard to find a woman who wants to peg?

christian — Fri, 04 May 2012 21:23:12 GMT

U would think that with all the girls wanting to show men what it feels like it would be easier. I spent 5 years with a girl that a year into it i introduced her to pegging. It was the most amazing connection that we had and enjoyed it so much. I would lick and put toys in her and she would do the same back. She took more of the dom approach and definitely loved the control of being able to make me suck her strap on. She loved to dress up and bend me over in all different kind of outfits. She would take dirty to me and even throw up against the wall and would be thrusting me up against the wall before i knew it. I had a bit more experience then her due to i was playing with toys at a youg age but all she wanted to do was learn. It seems if i mention it to a girl now they are totally freaked out. Out. I dont understand why? Can somebody please tell me how to find another one?

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Post Pegging Video links here!

Ruby — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 21:57:13 GMT

I wanted to consolidate the offerings here on one thread...
Please remember that this is not a place to post the typical humiliation, degradation, verbal abuse, CBT pegging videos - that's not what this group is about (read the rules if you didn't know that. They are at the top of the group and you have to click "more" to see all of the rules.)

Here's the first one!

http://www.xvideos.com/video1025250/jade_strap_on

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multiple O's

Jessi — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 16:12:16 GMT

How many of you have been fucked to orgasms with out touching yourself or being touched or fucked your man into an orgasm in this manor? How many have made him cum a second time? What about a prostate orgasm? I was fucked my man to a double O last week and this week mad him basically squirt, later found out it was a prostate orgasm. :) Thought it was pretty darn awesome and wanted to know how many others out there have experienced this awesomeness?!

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Fav pegging position

Jessi — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 14:27:15 GMT

New-ish to pegging, mainly do doggy. What is your fav. pegging position? I want to try a new position that is easy for new and intermediate people.

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Any of you guys use prostate massage toys?

Ruby — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 07:15:58 GMT

Like the Vice or the Nexus G-rider or the Aneros toys? What do you use and why do you like it?

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What do you Watch?

Ruby — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 09:58:33 GMT

Here's a question: When you watch pegging porn, as a sensual pegger, what do you like to see most as a man or woman, what do you like to see the least? A friend and I were just having this conversation and I'm curious. He said as a male he really has no desire to see a closeup of the man's asshole or watch the man suck the dildo (we're talking pro porn here) and wonders why they can't focus on the beautiful woman who is pegging the guy more?

Personally, I enjoy watching the man's face, I enjoy watching him jerk himself off, or her doing it, and I like to watch the action from the side in profile - I have no need for a closeup view of his asshole either. Of course more than anything I enjoy it most when there is actual chemistry between the couple and more normal bodies moving in normal ways...with lots of kissing (which completely leaves out pro pegging porn) and I mean real kissing - not those stink your tongue out and pretend like you can hardly stand to touch each other kind of kisses. Who the hell started that shit? Fire them now...

What do you like to watch?

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toys

jenn — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 00:07:30 GMT

hey, i just got a butt plug and a cock strap for my man. i am not really sure of the best use for either of these and could use some good ideas?

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Meeting fellow peggers?

Vincent — Mon, 05 Mar 2012 02:17:07 GMT

Hello everybody,
I'm relatively new to the pegging scene and I have to ask: how did you find that special someone who was willing to be your partner in pegging? Was it online? At a convention? Or did you ask your current partner to bend you over/bend over for you?
Stories, advice, anything is welcome!
Cheers,
Vincent

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How Porn Ruins Pegging

Ruby — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:18:35 GMT

(The original article can be found here, complete with many links: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2012/01/how-porn-ruins-pegging/ )

If you are interested in exploring pegging,
this article is for you.

How does porn ruin pegging? Goodness, let me count the ways...

Porn is Not Reality. First there are the aspects that are common to all porn. Fake bodies are the order of the day. The men usually have huge cocks. Women use muscle relaxers to accommodate insertion of these huge cocks in their anal passages. Unnatural (and uncomfortable) positions are commonly used so that the fake bodies and insertions are more visible for the filming. Kisses turn into weird things with tongues battling each other outside of mouths. When porn ventures into pegging you can add a few other things as well. The women now have huge cocks and the men are the ones taking the muscle relaxers. The men being pegged are verbally abused, beaten, humiliated, dressed in women's clothing and fucked in a manner where it appears to be painful. And there is absolutely zero intimacy.

This depiction of pegging may feed some people's fantasies, but it does nothing to encourage exploration of pegging for most couples. In fact, porn's representation of pegging makes my mission infinitely more difficult.

What's my mission? Simple. To convince as many heterosexual couples as possible to give pegging a try. I want to educate them about the realities of strap-on sex and help them leave behind the twisted circus-type of pegging that porn portrays. I want to tell couples how it can be intimate, luscious, amazing and unbearably sexy for both partners and how pegging deserves to be checked out as a potential addition to every couple's sex life. I realize that strap-on sex will not be on the menu for exploration in every relationship and even when tried, not every couple will decide they want to keep it in their treasure chest of sexual choices. Yet pegging is represented so bizarrely in porn that it is no wonder that many couples have a hard time even considering it.

If everything you have ever seen about pegging involves so many things you want no part of - why would you even try it? I'll tell you why...

Because humiliation, lack of intimacy, verbal abuse, feminization and pain do not have to be a part of pegging!!!

Before I go any further...this article is directed at couples and single people who might describe their sexuality as 'relatively non-kinky' and are interested in gently exploring new sexual territory. These non-kinky people are the ones who are scared away from pegging by porn's portrayal of it. Big time.

I don't believe that porn 'should' be done a certain way. There are indeed people out there who get off on exactly what is portrayed in pegging porn and sometimes even practice it in a manner that is similar to how it is shown. I encourage everyone to do whatever turns your crank sexually in a responsible, consensual manner. I'm just trying to give equal time to people interested in a kinder, gentler experience...an intimate experience.

So, taking a closer look at pegging in porn, here is what we find...

Female Dominance (FemDom) is the order of the day. The kind of female dominance where the women are nasty bitches. They look mean, snarl, yell, hit the man and seem to have no concern for his enjoyment. The men in pegging porn are to be used and abused. What's the reality? There is definitely an inherent switch in the usual dominant and submissive roles when you are engaging in pegging. It's unavoidable. Because the woman is now actively running the fuck and the man is allowing penetration. Don't let the power of the words 'dominant' and 'submissive' fuck with your head, though. Pegging can be done in a way that the extent of a man's submission is simply the vulnerability of the penetration. And the extent of the woman's dominance can be just that she must actually figure out how to work the strap-on in a way that is hopefully pleasurable for them both. Women who practice pegging are not all mean, nasty bitches and men who enjoy pegging do not all crave being treated poorly. Know that pegging can be as dominant/submissive as you want it to be. You get to choose.

Feminization is big in pegging porn. Probably because there is indeed a role reversal. The man is penetrated and the woman does the penetrating. But there is no rule that says the man being pegged must wear lingerie, makeup, wigs and high heels. The role reversal can just be the wonder of experiencing the passive as opposed to the active role. A man's masculinity is not affected by pegging! Some very, very masculine men really love pegging, believe me. Feminization is not mandatory. Oh - and if any of you are still holding onto the (old, tired) misconception that men who enjoy pegging are gay - information on that ridiculous notion is here.

Humiliation often plays a big part in pegging porn. No, men do not have to be made fun of and called 'bitches' with their 'man-pussy'. Men do not have to suck the dildo and pretend it's a real cock. And for the sake of everything that is hygienic and safe, men do not have to take the dildo into their mouth after it has been in their ass. (I have to say here that in my opinion that is the single most disgusting thing I have ever seen in pegging porn.) Instead, pegging can be a loving, intimate exchange full of passion, respect, fun and good times. Really. Humiliation is absolutely not an integral part of pegging.

Pain is portrayed a lot in pegging porn. The man's face is shown screwed up with pain while the woman slams into him with an impossibly large dildo. Here's the reality. Pegging done correctly should never hurt....ever! The men in pegging porn have likely taken muscle relaxers to accommodate the huge toys and are acting like it hurts because that is what the directors want. Please undo the automatic connection of pegging with pain in your minds, people. It. Should. Not. Hurt. If enough time is taken to warm the man up and prepare him, it is really a purely pleasurable experience. One that he will probably learn to crave. No pain.

Whipping, spanking, etc. is almost always in pegging porn. It is often a part of the whole FemDom thing. But please understand the reality, once again. To enjoy pegging as a couple, neither of you need ever lift a finger in any way but loving, caressing and tender. Pegging can simply be a slow, sensual and exquisitely lovely fuck. If you are not into spanking, whipping, etc., then don't include it in your pegging experience. It is not mandatory.

No Intimacy can be detected in pegging porn. I am talking none. No tenderness, no connections, no love...it's pretty sad, really. Because there is actually tremendous potential for intimacy with pegging. You are trying something new together. It can be a very sweet and soul-baring kind of experience full of amazing discoveries. Did I mention the man's orgasms that are 10 times more powerful than anything he has ever experienced? Did I mention women can find a lot of pleasure in pegging, too?

What Pegging Porn Will Never Show You

The role reversal can rock. The physical sensations of the different roles and the emotional aspects that go along with them can be eye-opening and can bring about renewed appreciation for your partner...because you are taking on their usual role. For the men, being penetrated requires being open and vulnerable and not being in control. Men can gain a better understanding of how women experience sex, basically. They can learn first-hand why warm-up and foreplay are important for women before intercourse and how they might not always be in the mood for penetration. For the women, they can learn that fucking requires far more than they ever realized. They get to experience the strength, endurance, stamina, grace and responsibility of running the fuck. There can a thrill of power, as well. Thrusting into your partner and seeing the ecstasy it brings him can be quite heady.

You can talk with your partner all day long about how sex feels for you but pegging gives you the opportunity to have an experience that approximates trying out sex from the other side. This has the potential to create deep intimacy because it builds understanding and compassion of your partner.

For the non-kinky couples who find their way through the minefield of misconceptions and misleading portrayals associated with pegging porn, the rewards are rich indeed. How do I know this? Well...I've been there (smile). But it's not just me. People write me and tell me their stories. They speak glowingly of pegging being just like another way of making love. Their letters describe how much closer they are since exploring pegging and how it totally rejuvenated their sex life. I can feel the thrill behinds their words on the screen. Their ability to walk past the images and stereotypes created by pegging porn and continue to sexually explore together is praiseworthy.

One last thing...if you would like to introduce the concept of pegging to your partner...do not show them pegging porn! After reading this article, I don't think I need to go into the reasons why. Instead, here is an article that can give you some guidance for talking to your partner about it (of either gender). Please read it before you talk with them. You'll be glad you did. And since often it is the men who would love for their woman to be open to pegging, here's some extra reading I recommend - "Her Strap-on Fears".

Love each other...and Happy Pegging!

©Ruby Ryder

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Harder Than You Think

Ruby — Sat, 05 Nov 2011 00:59:48 GMT

I recall reading a post where a guy asked, "What was the most embarrassing or funniest thing you've ever said while being pegged?"
The funniest answer I read was, "You fuck like a girl!"

Admittedly there is a learning curve when a woman dons a strap-on. As women, we've never had a cock, haven't a clue how to work one and definitely have no clue how much balance, strength, endurance and grace it takes...especially if we want to be more than the stiff-hipped automaton portrayed in many porn clips. There is a roll of the hips, ladies, that men do so well...because they were born with a cock. Their hips have grace..

Beyond the right motion, though, there is the balance and strength thing; figuring out how to hold yourself up and fuck him without falling on him or thrusting too hard or squishing parts of him (preferably not the balls!).

Then there's endurance...Recently I had the pleasure of fucking a guy until I was hot and covered in sweat and exhausted. He described his pleasure as reaching a plateau, an extremely pleasurable one, and just luxuriating there in bliss...for as long as I want to keep fucking him. I gave him a good long ride. Excellent workout. Highly recommended!

So here's a salute to you men. You rock! Before pegging, I never knew what it took to actually fuck someone. It was harder than I thought it would be...but well worth the effort to learn.

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Sexual Art Of Pegging is the AWESOME!!

Tits MaGEE — Sat, 03 Mar 2012 09:12:16 GMT

My husband and I enjoy the art of pegging. I believe every man should experience it at least once in their lives. If you are a woman, like me, who has penis envy you should try it! This art of sex is so intimate you can't describe with words. It doesn't make a heterosexual man gay! Actually for a heterosexual man to express their sexuality with this art makes them more of a man! I hate people who are closed minded and can't explore sexuality with their partner. I like to think that sex is a wide open book and everyone should explore and experience the different types of sex. I support all pegging lovers!

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Femdom Literature

darius10 — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:42:36 GMT

I have recently gotten my fiancé into the idea of role reversal and Femdom and she would like to learn more about it. I bought her a book called "She's on Top" and she absolutely loved it. Are there any other books that you would recommend she read? We're not looking for cheesy Fabio-cover-esqe books, more along the lines of education and training.

Thanks in advance!

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A Friendly Reminder...

Ruby — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 08:54:48 GMT

Please no posting of pics where "slaves" are getting fucked by unnaturally large strap-ons. There are plenty of places on the internet where you can peruse pics of that sort - this tribe is not it! This is not the tribe for "slaves" or "punishment" or things better posted in the BDSM groups. Use good judgment, people!

Also - If a picture has a mark from another website it will be deleted - and that is going in the rules. If you found it on a tumblr blog then credit the blog - but please no stealing pics from commercial pegging sites - I'll take them down.

I now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

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video

nicebutthornee — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 15:41:35 GMT

very powerful fucking
http://www.yuvutu.com/modules.php?name=Video&op=view&video_id=609007

I can watch this vid 20 times . Its so good

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RodeoH harness

Ruby — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 08:04:57 GMT

Anyone try them? They look so comfortable, are cheap and would be the perfect thing to have on under my skirt so I can get the dildo out of my purse, slip it in and go to town...while perhaps out on the town...!
http://www.shevibe.com/rodeoh-harness-black-and-red.aspx

And by the way - SheVibe has phenomenal prices on many different varieties of harnesses...including the RodeoH.

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Sensual Pegging - New Tumbler Blog!

Ruby — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 22:02:00 GMT

With the intention of increasing the sources of non-dominant, loving pegging photos and discussion. This is a great one!
http://sensualpegging.tumblr.com/

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whats the best way to go?

Erin — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 04:15:01 GMT

I'm newbie and have a few questions. First... i have been looking at all different type's of strap-ons to use on my boyfriend. I have used a ripple anal plug which he liked but liked my fingers/hand better. I'm looking into getting a strap-on and not sure what to look for. He likes width vs. length and I would like to have penetration, but not a necessity. The different types I have been looking at are the “Feeldoe " "Double Delight Strap-On" "Vac-U-Lock Harness and Dong" or "Hollow Strap-On" I would like to get some feedback on what works, does not work, etc. Any and all will be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!

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I dream every day of my wife feminizing me...

Tim — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 18:39:01 GMT

I am looking for advice on how to get my wife to feminize me without her realizing that it is my idea... I want to be a wife for her and so many of things about me and our relationship are already feminine that I am only shaving and dressing away from my goal. What do I do next?

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Happy Thanksgiving

mrmoondog — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 15:09:23 GMT

Hope everyone gets stuffed, or stuffs someone, in a loving, caring way.

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To ask or not to ask

tommy — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 14:15:29 GMT

Hi all

I´m fairly new to the topic, but recent events have caused me to wonder whether I should ask my GF to peg me or not.

Some background: I´ve always enjoyed playing with my butt when masturbating, and usually it involves fantasies of submission as well. I like to feel like a dirty little whore who craves to have my butthole stuffed, and sometimes I spank myself too. I´ve kept this to myself, except from once when an ex put a finger up my butt. It was weird, but felt nice too, like I came closer to her. For a while this made me wonder if I´m gay or bi, and for a while I was very frustrated since I wasn´t attracted to guys at all. So then I come to the conclusion that I´m not, or maybe a little bi, like probably most people are. After a while I also found that submission or enjoying anal stimulation is completely normal for straight males. I love my current girlfriend so much and we have a good relationship with good communication and lots of fun :D

So up until now enjoying anal stimulation has been a little secret of mine. However, with all my girlfriends I´ve introduced them to anal sex with them on the receiving end and they´ve all enjoyed it. My current girlfriend particularly enjoys it, she goes all crazy when I fuck her from behind, It´s so nice to watch, and I like it more than vaginal sex. I feel that I can relate more to her experience since I know how it feels. And of course that its a little dirty and kinky. We´re also into BDSM, and she really like it when I dominate her and tie her up, spank her etc.

The other day I bought a butt plug to surprise her with, and decided that I´d try it myself first so as to know how best to please her with it. It´s a bit large and has vibration. Thing is, it made me come like never before, like, I thought I was about to die at one point, lol. So needless to say, I can´t wait to use it on her. But I´m also considering asking her to use it on me. I remember thinking just after "... should have been her now" (we live in different cities). It would be nice to let her take part in such powerful pleasure on my end too.

There are two things that make me hesitate about this: Firstly, she´s very inexperienced with guys and I´m her first real BF. She´s a bit freaked out by sucking me and jacking me off, although she wants to learn but is probably scared of not getting it right. So she´s not the most proactive type in bed, and prefers that I take the lead. So I´m unsure whether she´ll enjoy it. Secondly I´m unsure if I´m comfortable with being the "one on the bottom", I´m worried that I´ll lose some of my "manliness" with regard to the other domination/submission games that we sometimes play. I really enjoy the feeling of being a rock solid man and her being a horny little slut in lingerie begging me and whatnot. But I´m also wondering if this pleasure in dominating comes from a a need to compensate for being a little ashamed of my own submissive fantasies, that it would be more healthy to be blunt about it. If someone from the BDSM community would ask me what I am I´d reply "switch".

I guess I´ll have a good opportunity of bringing the subject up when introducing the butt plug to her, so when she tells me how good it was I just go "I know" with a telling look on my face and read her reaction to it. And then let her know that I tried it myself, and that I´m considering asking her to use it on me. I´m sure she´ll be open to the idea, as she´s said before that she likes it when I open up and dare to be vulnerable around her. I have no problems with my mojo in general, she´s head over heels over me. Only thing would be her being shy and not knowing what to do to please me. I guess she could benefit from me handing some power over to her.

So I don´t fear her rejection or anything, I´m just trying to figure out wether I actually want to confess to her that I also like it in the ass too, and if I´d actually enjoy it... It´s nice to have my own secret in a way, makes it more spicy when I´m on my own.

Any input or other suggestions on how to bring it up is appreciated!

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communicating...talking while pegging

bodag — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 01:40:40 GMT

I want to know how you communicate with your pegger or peggee.
At first I didn't know what to call the dildo. Being hetero, I was reluctant to call it a cock, or dick.
I say to her that she is so hard, or your so big.
I now feel a bit more comfortable talking to her.
I even ask her to rub her balls on my balls.
I am getting more relaxed. The more I open up the more we talk.
my wife loves me to talk to her during this.
We don't get into hard core slut talk.

I am interested to hear what you all say to your partners.

Bob

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Pegging 101 Just Hit 1000 Members!

Ruby — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 05:02:25 GMT

Yes, pegging is becoming more and more widely accepted, appreciated, enjoyed...around the world!

Know that you are at the forefront of this movement. You are enjoying an edgy, thrilling, relatively new sexual experience for heterosexual couples! Tell people why you like pegging, encourage them to try it out, dispel their misconceptions, be a messenger for pleasure...even if you do it anonymously on the internet!

Happy Pegging,

Ruby Ryder

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What's Involved in an Anal Orgasm?

Ruby — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 01:06:41 GMT

For now - since we are on a Pegging site - let's just concentrate on a MALE anal orgasm.

Anal Orgasm Defined:
Through anal stimulation only (without penile stimulation) a man experiences a type of climax. Sometimes called a Prostate Orgasm.

A Different Kind of Pleasure
When the prostate is stimulated (by fingers or toys) there is a feeling often described as a warmth or tingling or itching that spreads throught the region - absolutely pleasurable.. Pleasurable, but completely unlike stimulation of the penis. Some men describe the sensation as so intense that it's like having a continuous orgasm and if they actually reach an orgasm, it's like icing on the cake or an unnecessary dessert after a sumptuous meal. A few men have actually expressed to me that they do not want their penis to be stimulated during pegging, because it actually interferes with the prostate sensation.

Orgasms Are Different, Too
Men usually describe the anal orgasm as being different in that it does not have the rhythmic contractions a normal orgasm does; the seminal fluid sort of dribbles out of the end of the penis and can sometimes look watery in comparison to normal ejaculate. Pretty much all men say this kind of orgasm is very pleasurable. There are differing opinions as to whether they enjoy it as much as a regular orgasm with stimulation of the penis, or an orgasm that results from stimulation of both the penis and the prostate.

Encouraging Factors
Not all men can orgasm this way (just as not all women can have a G-Spot orgasm), but your chances of experiencing it improve with practice, and maybe a few other things... Some men claim that a bigger toy was what kicked them over the edge to an anal orgasm. Others say it was a finger that could be applied to exactly the right spot. Some say relaxation is a big factor. Another factor is thought to be how long since the man has experienced his last orgasm; the longer period of time (within reason) the more likely anal stimulation alone will result in orgasm.

My partner and I are working towards giving him an orgasm solely through anal stimulation. We almost got there the other night! There was definitely that spot that sent him to the moon and proved his religious beliefs despite his claim of possible atheism (Oh God! Oh God!). He did have an orgasm several hours earlier in the evening before our anal play, though, which could have taken the edge off just enough to make an anal orgasm harder to achieve. We'll just have to keep practicing. Nose to the grindstone and all that!

What experiences have other people had? I'd love to hear what worked and what didn't...how it felt...what is your favorite kind of orgasm? What feels the very best on your prostate? What got you there?

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How has pegging changed your relationship? Or has it?

Ruby — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 07:43:23 GMT

Curious what couples have experienced...

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best positions

misha — Sun, 18 Nov 2007 16:46:24 GMT

Looking to start a thread on best positions. I like a low table due to our respective sizes, face to face, a pillow under my butt is the next best. When were tired her leaning against the wall is good.

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pegging vidio as they should be

lucky guy — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 21:14:41 GMT

Wish this clip was longer but this is amost the way I like it . I prefer to finish the job at hand instead of having to do it myself.

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Women's Fears of Pegging

Ruby — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 03:42:21 GMT

Pegging…this thing we love and indulge in with such passion and excitement…requires equipment. Indeed, much has been discussed here at Pegging Paradise about the necessary equipment; lube, harnesses and dildos. Let’s back up a step, though. Let’s talk about the step between convincing her to try it and the act of pegging itself.

She needs to actually strap on a cock.

This is not as easy for a woman as you may think. I am going to address this article to you men who want more than anything for your woman to fuck you with a strap-on. Let’s say you have already broached the subject – she’s interested and considering it….

Assuming she understands that the male prostate can provide intense pleasure and she really wants to give her partner pleasure
Assuming that she has gotten past the misconception or fear that her partner is gay
Assuming that she is open enough to not be freaked out by sex toys in general

Even assuming all the above, actually strapping on a cock may be a huge step for a woman. If you sense some reticence, consider the following…

She is being asked to do something that messes with strict social gender roles. Though one can say it’s just a toy and it doesn’t mean anything other than that you like to use toys…that’s not the reality of it in that moment when the buckles are fastened and she has…a cock. Having a cock, penetrating and thrusting are quite male-associated things.. The whole idea that she could take on the active, penetrative role might take a while for her to be okay with.

Some women have fears that they will look ridiculous. Partly because they have never had a cock hanging between their legs and it looks quite strange from their perspective. They are not sure how to work it, completely unfamiliar with the body motions required to fuck their guy. At first it feels quite awkward and it is common to feel a little ridiculous.

What most women do not realize is that if their guy is interested in strap-on sex, actually seeing her put on a harness and dildo is so fucking hot they can barely stand it! (And she thought she would look ridiculous…)

There are women who cannot reconcile wearing a cock with their femininity…they want to be feminine and see strapping on a cock as acting like a man. Though it is far from that cut and dried, there is no denying that the role of strapping on a cock and fucking her man requires a woman to be active instead of passive, giving as opposed to receiving, penetrating instead of penetrated.

Indeed, there are a fair amount of emotional factors that can interfere with…strapping on a cock.

So take it slow. Let her hold the dildo in her hand and fuck you with it first for a few times so she can see how intensely it turns your crank. The first time you bring out the strap-on…try to have it fairly well adjusted to begin with so she can just step into it and you can fasten the one side waist buckle. Otherwise all the straps can be a lot to figure out. Once on – tell her how unbelievably beautiful and hot she looks…because you know she will.

For the first time she does you…consider asking her to lie on her back and you can ride her. That eliminates the skill factor on her end – and gives her a great view! Plus access to your cock, which in pegging play is always a good thing. (Do make sure you tell her that it is common and normal for men to lose their erections or for them to come and go and it still feels incredible.) Tell her this so she won’t worry whether you are having a good time or not. And keep telling her how good it feels while you are riding her. Make sure she has no doubt that you love it.

Above all…have fun. Laugh and play and talk and experiment together…that’s the stuff good sexual relationships are made of.

Happy Pegging,
Ruby Ryder

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Clean-out

mrmoondog — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 12:46:36 GMT

This question is for the pegees. Do you clean yourselves out before a pegging session? If so, what do you use.

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VIDEOS FREE PEGGING/ STRAPON

Jim — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 20:23:42 GMT

If you are looking for some free pegging/ strapon videos try http://www.xtube.com and then for search put in strapon or pegging both of those will bring up different videos.

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Hi folks

Jim — Sat, 03 Sep 2011 16:08:43 GMT

Hi, I just joined the group and wanted to introduce myself. I'm a Bi guy, from So. Cal., and I was introduced to this activity a few years ago by a bi woman, who preferred women over men most of the time, meaning that most of the time our sex was me giving her oral and occasionally fucking her ass, since she didn't want any guy's cock in her pussy. I was very vocal about my desire to fuck her hot, tight, shaved pussy every time we ended up in bed, and she finally made me an offer. She would let me sink my cock into her promised land if i would let her strap-on a dildo and fuck my ass. I know she expected me to refuse, and when I immediately took her up on the deal, she was somewhat surprised. We agreed that we would get a room for the weekend, so as not to be disturbed, and fuck our brains out. She had a harness, but I went to the book store and got another one, a sportsheets corset back harness in purple velour, along with a dildo to go with it. I selected a fat, 9 inch one, with balls and a suction cup base. She was relentless as the week went by, telling me how she planned to fuck my ass for several hours, telling me about how I would be her bitch all weekend long, and maybe longer, if I got off on being fucked like she did. She also said since I would be getting fucked like a girl, I needed to shave my entire body so she could try to imagine me as one of her girlfriends.

We met after work on Friday, and drove up the hill to the High Desert, got a room, showered, got dressed, and went to her favorite bar,. which was a gay bar of course. We had several drinks, danced a few times with each other, and with some of her friends, all of whom she had told that I was going to be her bitch for the weekend. I even danced with one of her guy friends who said she had told him that she was planning to fuck my ass. He asked why I was with Kim instead of finding a guy, which I took as a hint that he wanted more than to dance, so I told him that I was doing this for the first time, and had never been with a guy. About then Kim grabbed me, told me and every one around that it was time to go, as she was ready to fuck, as she showed off a long bulge running down the leg of her jeans.

We got back to the room, and I undressed her , taking off her top, shoes, jeans, bra, and finally her panties, as i slowly slid her cock down my throat, all the way down to it's balls, and then pushing and pulling her hips back and forth, getting her to fuck my face. We were both surprised that I could take her 7 inch cock without choking, or gagging, and she made a comment that perhaps she should bind me to the bed so she could go back to the bar and bring her friend back so I could suck his cock while she fucked me. Would you like to watch me suck off another guy?, I asked., and she murmurred something to the effect of, "maybe later, after I've had my way with you.". Then she pulled the cock out of my mouth, and told me to strip for her, and to be quick about it, But I Took my time, stripping in a manner that would have made her cock stand up if it was a real one. When I was down to my speedo breifs, I got the harness I had purchased, and presented it to her with a smile. She looked at me like I was crazy, and asked if I was sure I wanted a cock that big for my first time. I answered by slipping it into my mouth, again all the way to the base, and holding it there as I nodded and began removing the harness she was wearing. As I slid the cock back out of my mouth she was telling me that she loved the harness I had got, and that if I wanted a big cock, she was going to happily give it to me. As I adjusted it on her hips, I continued sucking it like a slut in heat, and as I finished, I looked up to see her taking picture after picture of me devouring her cock. I just slid the tiny briefs I was wearing off, lubed the fat phallus with astroglide, and got on my hands and knees, presenting my hairless ass to her. She worked a finger, then two, and then three into my asshole, remarking that she was going to fuck my balls off as she lined the fat head of her cock up with my ass. I was as relaxed as I could be as she slid the head past my sphincter, pausing to let me adjust to the feeling of her cock before grabbing my hips and slowly pulling me back against her. I was just about to let her know that I didn't think I could take any more when I felt the latex balls of her cock against mine and she ground her hips against my ass before she slowly began drawing it back out. She started slowly, but within minutes was stroking faster and faster as I drove my ass back against her thrusts, becoming more vocal with each stroke. My cock was as hard as stone, even though neither of us had touched it, and it was slapping against my stomach each time she drove into me, as I begged her to fuck me harder, and faster, and deeper. She was teasing me about being a horny little anal slut as she continued fucking my ass like a machine, and I was working my way up to an orgasm when she suddenly pulled out of me, and told me to lay on my back. As I rolled over, she took my legs and pulled them up as she slid back into me and began stroking slowly but deeply in and out. She teased me about my cock being harder than she had ever seen it, and told me to place my hands on the headboard. From somewhere she produced a set of handcuffs, and cuffed one hand to the headboard, then another set of cuffs appeared, and the other hand joined it's mate. "Now my little bitch" she said, "I'm going to really fuck you like the anal slut you seem to want to be!". I told her that I wanted her to fuck me like a bitch in heat, as I began to lift my ass to meet her strokes. She played with my nipples, kissed me, and pulled on my balls to make sure she got every inch of her cock inside me, and I begged her to fuck me, to make me her bitch, and to make me cum, and suddenly, a wave of pleasure washed over me as I began pumping my balls dry, even though my cock had never been touched. I was whimpering, and panting, cumming for what seemed to be an eternity, and still she pumped her cock in and out of me. I couldn't stop cumming, and she loved it. She wiped up a big dollop of my cum, and slowly inserted the finger it was dripping from between my lips, and I sucked it deep into my mouth as I came again, and again. Every time I thought I was done, she pinched my nipple, or pulled on my balls, or stroked a finger along the cum covered length of my cock and made me cum again. Then suddenly she collapsed against my chest, her breasts slipping through the puddles of my cum, and told me she couldn't fuck me anymore, and when I looked at the clock, I knew why, she had been pounding my virgin ass for two and a half hours without stopping for more than a moment. Her eyes lit up as my cock slowly started swelling between us though, and kissed me deeply as she drew her cock out of my well fucked ass, before sliding up, lining her ass up with the pierced head of my cock, and seating herself all the way down onto my shaft. "My turn" was all she said as she began rocking up and down my length, even as she slipped out of the harness. She tossed the harness aside, after removing the dildo, and grinned as she slid it back into my ass as she fucked her own ass with my cock and began playing with her beautiful, shaved pussy, making a show of it as she teased me about how good a cock would feel in it, asking me if I knew of one that she could use? I wanted to feel her pussy around my cock, but also knew she wanted to keep it in her ass for a while, so I grabbed the harness off the night stand, removed the 7 inch dildo affixed to it, and slid it into her pussy as she began rubbing her clit for all it was worth. Then all hell broke loss as she began to cum in an orgasm that rocked her universe. Her ass was gripping my cock so tightly, it made me cum again, and as I pumped what was left in my balls into her ass, she began squirting tiny jets of cum too which she caught in her palm, and when she was finished pumping , she brought her hand to my lips, feeding her essence to me. As I licked her cum and my cum out of her hand, she dragged herself up my body, planting her sopping wet pussy over my face and settled in for a good long licking. I never did get to feel her pussy on my cock that weekend, but we fucked each others asses till we both were raw and drained completely, and she took a whole bunch of pictures, which she showed to all of her girlfriends, telling them just how much of a slut I was for her cock, and how much it excited me being fucked, as well as fucking.

That's the story of my introduction to being pegged, and I loved every minute of it. It showed me that I didn't need to deny that side of my sexuality, and I will always be thankful to Kim for showing me that I am able to cum from deep inside myself, in a distinctly different way than what I get from stimulating my cock. I also found out that my desire for a TG or TS is not something I need to hide, since I can be satisfied with a wet pussy, or a hard clit>

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How many into sucking the dildo?

T. — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 19:27:51 GMT

How many people are into guys sucking the dildo? I was wondering because most pegging porn has the guy sucking the dildo. For me it’s hard to find pegging porn I enjoy since it almost always has guys sucking the dildo, which turns me off. I was just curious if lots of people enjoy that act regularly in their pegging and if the porn available is representative of the majority of peoples taste.

Of course most pegging porn is a bit more “femdom” than how my wife and I approach pegging. We open to a little light bondage (light spanking, tied up) for all kinds of things, not just pegging, but that’s our approach. But we're not into heavy femdom.

I guess it’s to each their own. But as a guy, even as much as I enjoy pegging, the two things I’m not interested in are sucking the dildo and wearing women’s clothes. To me these are peripheral to the pegging.

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Favorite Lube?

Ruby — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 22:00:50 GMT

Okay - it's been a while since anyone has talked about lube here...so let's hear it.
What's your favorite lube for pegging?

Mine is Maximus, made by BodyWise - the same folks that make liquid silk. It is marketed specifically as an anal lube.
I like it because it's a gel consistency, clear, not bad tasting and H2O based so compatible with all the silicone toys I have.

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How much is to much?

Jim — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 18:37:07 GMT

Because of medical reasons my wife can not wear a strapon so we engage in using a lot of toys. When we want to play around I will make sure that I am cleaned out really good, that use to be quite a few bags of water but I now use a shower unit and in a couple of hours I am very clean. I like her to use a lot of our toys on me. Starting out with plugs and beads about every 30 to 45 min. she will tell me to go bend over and she will change it out, part of the fun part I never know what she is going to grab that keep it interesting not knowing whats coming . She knows that I like her to use a long double headed on me it's 18 inchs and so far I have been able to take about 15 inches. Our normal play time is about 5 to 6 hours. She will not let me come until the very last it makes for a great time. We try to do this at least once a month and some times twice. So I was wondering if any of you play around that long? So far this has not caused and problems, but one thing I have noticed is when we buy new toys they keep getting a little bit bigger and a little kinkier. Do any of you find that you are doing the same thing?

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Erotic Pegging Stories

Ruby — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 06:02:57 GMT

Most of you know that I have a blog and a website that offers erotic pegging story memberships. I don't talk about it on the forum here too much because I don't want to be spammy. I have no forum on my website and this way cool group is one of the very few places for pegging enthusiasts to indulge in shop talk and ask questions of others who share our passions...we have nearly 1000 members (950 as this goes to post)!!

Having said all that...I am going to indulge in a rare ad for my website. Because I'm having a subscription sale. 40% off until the end of the month on my "I Want It All" membership, which gives you access to everything on the website; all archived stories as well as a story a month for the next year. If you enjoy quality pegging erotica, check it out:
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/membership-signup/

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Erotic video of the "Share" dildo

Ruby — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 17:55:11 GMT

http://fetlife.com/groups/233/group_posts/1656894

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Did it spice things up?

Ruby — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 09:58:56 GMT

I've heard stories from couples who have been married for some time that the introduction of pegging into their marriage bed, whether it be loving, non-D/s pegging or pegging with role reversal and D/s play...it totally spiced things up and suddenly their sex life was the best it's ever been...!
Any stories?

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thanks for letting me join

Metalmom — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 15:15:51 GMT

I'm new to tribe.net and am still working on my profile. I am very pleased to have found you! In my opinion pegging doesn't have to be painful or degrading. In my experience it is beautiful and enriching for both of us.
Hugs,
Metalmom

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Non-Dominant Pegging

Victoria — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 06:52:32 GMT

I wrote recently that I prefer "loving, egalitarian pegging without the femdom stuff." http://tribes.tribe.net/peggingisforeveryone/thread/2e9199fd-403d-438c-8ddd-57369b860846 How, some of my friends on the group asked, could a woman pegging a man not be dominant? Allow me to explain.

First, let me tell you about the kind of pegging I like. I like the unusual -- and powerful -- feeling of having a penis between my legs. It may be artificial, but it's always big and hard -- unlike real ones. I like to be the one doing the penetrating instead of always being the one penetrated, the role reversal. Sarah at MyVag.net said it nicely http://www.myvag.net/smut/penetration/3/ :

"Ok... besides being penetrated, I have done a bit of thrusting myself, since the purchase of a shiny blue strap-on dildo. This was something that I was fascinated with for some time before getting to do it. For me, being the person in charge of penetration was not a power trip, it was simply sexy because it involved an entirely different set of movements and actions. Anything new is almost automatically exciting.

"Also, while it isn't so much a reversal of who is powerful and who is passive in bed (because I'm almost never passive or submissive in bed), it is a reversal of who is active and who is receptive, if that makes sense. Instead of taking something into me, I get [to] put into somebody else. This can be sexy when it simply involves fingers or kisses, but having hip action involved is much satisfying in the way it relates to fundamental sexual reflexes (want to move hips!)."

I like stimulating my man's ass and prostate, which are very sensitive areas that I believe most straight men would enjoy having stimulated more often. I also like to peg him with love and joy for both parties. (Think about it, guys -- and it seems to be men who are less likely to get this -- don't you want to give love and joy when you screw your wife or girlfriend?)

OK, Vickie, some of you are thinking, isn't it still a form of dominance any time a woman is pegging a man in the ass?

I don't think it is necessarily. To explain, let me tell you now about the kind of pegging I don't like. I know about this only from what I've read on the Internet and seen in porn videos, but I believe it exists in the real world. In this kind of pegging, the woman has to force the man into it and/or belittles him once she does. This kind of pegging stems from two related, and mistaken, beliefs about the act. (Note to D/S and femdom folks: I'll have something to say about roleplaying games below.)

Men have to be forced to get pegged, the theory goes, because men don't (or shouldn't) want anything up their asses. As I said before, the anus and prostate are very sensitive organs, and I think almost any man would enjoy pegging if he relaxed and gave it a try (assuming his partner gives him plenty of time, love, and love. http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/bend_over_boyfriend )

A related beliefs goes like this: If a man does want something up his ass, there's something wrong with him. When he is penetrated, he is acting like a woman or a gay man and is therefore less than a real man. There are all kinds of troubling assumptions built in to this one:

1. The one being penetrated is some kind of victim. Anyone on the receiving end of good vaginal or anal sex can tell you this is not true. (It's even built into our language: Why is telling someone to "get fucked" some kind of curse?)
2. Women and gay men are inferior, and a straight man should avoid acting like them in any way. I hope I don't have to refute this one in this day and age.
3. A man who wants to be pegged by a woman is gay. Not true. If you are a man happily having sex with a woman, you are not gay. As sex advice columnist Dan Savage has said "if a straight woman is doing it to a straight man, it's hetero sex, however uncomfortable it might make some insecure little pricks." http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=7446 Yes, pegging is similar to acts enjoyed by gay men, but so is getting a blowjob, and I don't see any straight men turning down blowjobs from willing women.

I want to point out what Kate wrote to Dan Savage http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=284718 :

"<em>Are there any forums out there dedicated to the discussion of pegging for mostly vanilla women? Everything I've come across plays into stereotypes that plague male-on-female anal sex. ("Take my cock up that little ass," etc.) I don't peg my man to work out my aggression, I peg him because the prostate is a wondrous thing. I can't swim with the hardcore kinksters. Is there a pond for vanilla fishes like me?

"Pegging Is For Everyone</em>"

And received this answer from guest advisor Violet Blue http://www.tinynibbles.com/ :

"Pegging in most porn is festooned with stereotypes of shame and pain, like most sex in mainstream porn," says Violet. "And unfortunately, these stereotypes have seeped into online sex culture.

"But you don't have to be Mistress Asscrusher and he doesn't have to answer to Worthless Buttslut in order to enjoy strap-on sex. Like I explain in my book, most couples who peg do it because it's fun, intimate, new, exciting, and quite loving. PIFE need not feel isolated. She should start a forum of her own, on a space like Tribe.net, and she'll be pleasantly surprised at how welcome and happy she'll make the many women like herself feel."

Of course, Kate did go on to create the group, Pegging is for Everyone, and those of us who want to practice -- and talk about -- non-dominant pegging will be forever grateful.

(Note to those who are into female dominance [femdom] and male submission: If you like scenes in which the woman is insulting the man for getting pegged, and everybody involved is into it and no one's feelings are getting hurt, I say, more power to you, enjoy!)

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This is a Question for all….

Summer — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 01:29:38 GMT

Ladies, What male celebrities would you like to peg? Face up or face down? And men what Women Celebrities would you like to drill you?

With any of them I would want to be face up so I could see there face and if there were 2 or more have one sitting on my face while the other is drilling me.
Sisters- Emely & ZooeyDeschanel , Mother Daughter- Nomie & Ashley Judd, Sandra Bullock, Kim Basinger, Reba Mcentire, Stanna Katic, Amanda Tapping, Emma Watson & Bonnie Wright, Liv Tyler, Holly marie Combs, Valerie Bertinelli, Mila Jovanovich, Kim Cattrall, Kristin Davis, Hally Berry, There are many more but I can’t think of the right now.

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Newbie here -

Dennis — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 20:50:37 GMT

I have not had the opportunity to experience this yet, but am very interested.

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How can a man find a woman to peg him?

Ruby — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:12:49 GMT

Many men want to find a woman to peg them - and it won't happen by posting short posts that say something like ,"I'm in San Francisco and looking for a woman to peg me!"
Finding a woman to have a relationship with who enjoys pegging requires a concerted effort on an alternative dating site...I wrote about it here:

http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2010/08/frustrations-of-a-wannabe-peggee/

If you just want the pegging and not the relationship...go find a pro domme! Don't pursue the strap-on instead of the woman...

http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2010/11/theres-a-woman-at-the-end-of-that-strap-on/

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Hot Amateur Pegging Videos...

Ruby — Sun, 15 May 2011 00:27:17 GMT

http://www.xvideos.com/video976037/girl_fucks_a_guy_with_a_big_strapon
http://www.xvideos.com/video384128/strapon_sex

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Pegging Video's ??

glenn — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 11:43:31 GMT

Hi

My wife and I are new to Pegging but loving it.

We were looking for some Pegging porn to watch in the build up. Apart from the BOB DVD's there seems to be very little, or certainly that we can find on the net, of Loving Pegging. Everything seems to be very Fem Dom, lots of pain and humiliation.
We like the intimacy of what role reversal can do and my wife like bringing me to orgasm through anal and prostate stimulation. When we have sex it s a loving sharing thing that we both enjoy greatly regardless of who is on top and who is penetrating who.
Are there videos that show loving couples enjoying Pegging without the dramatic Dungeon Fem Dom style or do my wife and I have to make our own??

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Very Very funny!

Ruby — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 06:32:52 GMT

Okay everyone, I just found this and laughed hard and long - watched it twice! Absolutely hysterical. Enjoy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grGrN_nuWg8

Happy Pegging,
Ruby

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First time....

Yikes — Fri, 15 Jul 2011 03:24:37 GMT

There we were, on our first trip to an adult store...she had never been...walking up and down aisles...every once and a while she'd bend down in front front of me, stopping short, gently bumpng her ass into my crotch..exquisite...picking up assorted toys, putting them back on the hook...me saying "anything thing you want, go for it..."... not buying anything, as we exit she whispers in my ear, picking up some anal beads, "how about I shove these up your ass and pull them out as you come?" ( "Do it...yeah.") She puts them back on the shelf...walking out, a pretty looking femle clerk with dirty blond hair, nice body, sweet smile, saying "see anything you like?" "First time we've been out without the kids in forever... just looking." "We're an an Adult Toys are us." says tthe clerk..."wow,, look at those!" She says, touching my love's tits..."those are nicer than mine." She hugs my sweetheart, "you make sure you come back." "We will" we both say.

Months earlier the love of my life says to me, "I've always wondered what it would be like to use a strap on." "What do you mean?" "Oh, you know, fuck a guy with a strap on." "Hmm, up the ass, huh? Well, I'd be willing to try anything twice." "Twice?" "Sure, first time you really can't tell, there are too many distractions, you have to try it a second time just to be sure."

I had never thought about this before. I was married for 23 years, sex was mostly non-existent...divorced for 4 years, flirted and fooled around, then met this amazing woman... Driving home, 2 hours...the thought of getting fucked up the ass by this amazing woman with a rubber dildo is getting me excited and equally worried; she has satisfied so many of my fantasies I just had to do this for her but where do I begin...?

The internet of course! Reading all about pegging, prostate massage, toys, strap ons, harnesses, etc...

So one night I go to eBay, so many good reviews on the Feeldoe, how the intimacy, skin to skin contact, her pleasure, hands free, strapless-strap on, all that...I end up bidding on, what I think is, a genuine Feeldoe...I win the bid, it arrives and sure enough it LOOKS just like a Feeldoe but it's not; wrong color, wrong "firmness," not at all like what I've read about...this one is definately harder and firmer, not quite a hard plastic, not quite a jelly, not quite silicone but a lot like all of the above. Now, of course, the "dealer" is no longer on eBay... Oh well...Boil it, clean it, it was new in a sealed package...from some manufacturer in England...

I bring it to her house and she is too shy to even look at it...for months it sits hidden in her underwear drawer...

Then, one night, we have a chance to stop in that adult toy store: driving back to her place we talk about the different toys, videos, etc we saw, what we found to be interesting, strange, exciting, all the while she keeps rubbing her breasts and pussy, reaching accross the seat and stroking the buldge in my pants...I reach accross and put my hand up her dress, I can feel the wetness through the nylons, gently stroking her swollen clit, "Oh God! Just drive us home so I can try on my dick and you can fuck me."

Now I'm extremely excited and scared...we get home and we quickly disrobe, hands and tongues exploring, she reaches in the drawer and pulls out the "feeldoe," turns on the vibe, rubs it against her tits then against my dick, she is stroking both with her hands, "so, you want to stick that in me?" I ask, breathless with anticipation, excitement, and fear. "I just want to see how it feels." She inserts the bulb end into her dripping pussy, "Oh God!" She begins stroking the dick, her body is already flushed red with excitement, I put my mouth on a nipple and say, "how about a blowjob, want me to suck on your dick?" She just moans out an "uh huh." I get on my knees and begin working her plastic/jelly/silicone prostetic dick with my mouth, tugging it with my teeth, as her pussy juices run down the inside of her thighs.

After only a minute or two, "get on the bed." She instructs, "on your knees." "I have some lube." "I don't think you're ready for that, I'm just going to rub it against your ass."

The buzzing of the vibe, the feel of her hand stroking the faux-dick, brushing in rythymn against my cheeks as the head and shaft ride accross my ass-hole, her other hand reaching around to stroke my dick; the array of sensations is amazing! She leans in and breathes into my ear, "Get a condom and fuck me baby."

I am only happy to oblige....

....That was almost a year ago...now she is gone from my life....and I am deveatated!

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Pegging with diabilities

bodag — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 02:19:11 GMT

my fiance recently had two surgeries on her lower back.
so now, she sits in a chair(with arms) next to the bed, and I lay on my back facing her like a gyno exam.
She is able to penetrate me quite well from this position.
she can change speeds, depth, hard, soft...
she misses the body contact....but this must do for now.

We have been pegging for several months now
and we've bought a few dildos in during this time.
we have a jelly type that is 7.5 long and 1.75. wide.
the circumference using a sewing tape is 5".

We bought a cyberskin that says 8" by 2"
the circumference is 6"
the size difference is quite noticable.
we worked up to it with the jelly type one first.
with much encouragement from her it went in and felt great.
we really enjoy our toys.

I had been reluctant to have a dildo with testicles howver the new dildo has them.
I have found that she uses them like a handle and can control the dildo easily.
I have also found that the when it is pushed in and out rapidly the testicles feel great against my bpttom.

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Pegged myself

Matthew — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 16:58:18 GMT

I read through a number of posts and looked at several pictures on the web and got myself quite HORNY. I have been really drawn to two related sights lately, Strap-On Helga and her close friend Strap-On Jane. So after the kid was off to bed and we had settled in I snuck off to the bedroom and changed into a cute pink corset and and matching pink crotch-less panties with a small matching tutu skirt and waited for my partner to find me. She awww you look so cute but I'm tired, She dutifully gave me a BJ with a little cum filled kiss at the end but I was still feeling the need for her thighs slapping against my booty. Well that didn't happen so after she drifted off I grabbed a selection of my favorite toys and the yoga ball. When I haven't had a partner there is nothing like the ball to hit that male g-spot! That hit the spot but I sure am itching to have her back behind me again soon!

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First Pegging Last Night

Ryan — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 14:04:46 GMT

My wife and I did our first adventure in pegging last night. We both had fun but are wondering something. She bent me over the bed and I enjoyed the psychological aspect of it very much. Just the thought of her bending me over and pounding me is very erotic. My question is what are the best positions for stimulating the prostate?

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first pegging

bye — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 18:02:18 GMT

Hello all I just wanted to say I read the last post on what to do to prepare and I am looking for my first pegging experience

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Sex wasn't on the menu.....

Noah — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 10:22:53 GMT

Well sex wasn't on the menu Friday nite, long week, rugby training, and the wee one not feeling well.... But .... Dinner was nice, everything sorted and a bottle of wine just opened.... Cool... We had some catcth up to do .... So we decided to move to the bedroom to finish our bottle of wine..... But.... 2 seconds flat and we were horizontal, naked and in heat like two dogs....I remember biting her shoulders and spreading her legs to find a little warm stream.... Dripping ..... She turned around and asked me to turn around and started to play with my ass..... She used to pass her fingers between her legs and then on my hole...... That was sooo fucking cool....it wasn't long before she was fucking my hole from behind... I know the feeldoe is not the best but for this situation it's magic.... I was that close to come and she stopped and told me it was my turn to fuck her ass......but i had to keep the dildo in...at this stage I didn't know where I was anymore and plowing into her soft tight little hole while having mine stretched by the dildo was phenomenal.... She came, biting the pillow and seeing her coming drove me insane.... But .... Again she moved behind me and kept on fucking me first nice and slow, but as soon as she got her strength back she fucked me hard .... She told me to keep the cheeks of my ass wide open so she could plow in even deeper... And she did ...ohhh she fucking did... And I came ..... Ohhhh fuck ........never experienced anything like that......I came with my ass .... A super fucking ass orgasm.... As soon as the first tidal wave subsided she started to move again slowly holding my cock, stroking it....and in about what felt a life time I came again , this time ejaculating but still feeling the warmth from the first .....we passed out .... Just to wake up later on still feeling "her dick" still inside me....

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I was wondering what does a guy do to prepare for pegging?

thret — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 15:37:21 GMT

I mean, should guys clean themselves out before a pegging and how should one go about it? I have experience some messy situations in the past while experimenting.

If this was mentioned in another post I apologize and hope that some one can lead me to that post. You are also free to elaborate in here as well.

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Muscular fitness blonde fucks guy in the ass

dayana — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 23:40:47 GMT

I found this one, looks hot cause the girl is bigger and more muscular than the guy. She dominates the guy and she looks like a real boss. the guy looks like a slut.

http://www.pegginghim.com/2008/11/01/muscular-hot-blonde-babe-fucks-a-guy-in-the-ass/

Let me know what you think about Muscle Women fucking average straight guys in the ass.

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Change in the Photo Rules...Post Them!

Ruby — Fri, 13 May 2011 07:57:06 GMT

Initially I asked that photos not be posted here if they were not of you and yours...
Modification - photos allowed. Please post them sparingly, just the best ones!
This is a nod to the "visual" men (and women) we have here....I get it!
I don't want to deprive you of a few thrills. Words can't do it all...
Ruby

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Newbie here... My girlfriend and I picked up a Purple Feeldoe for me...

Prog — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 22:55:41 GMT

holy SH** that thing is huge. We are new to this and I had a little experience with Aneros before. But we wanted more and ordered the purple feeldoe online. I almost cried when it arrived. I could only go halfway before I asked to stop and pull out. :'|
Yikes.

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Pegging Class in Camarillo, California

Ruby — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 21:22:49 GMT

This was posted in events - but I don't think many people see it there.......

Ruby Ryder - "The Pleasures of Pegging"

West Coast Power Exchange South Social In Camarillo

When: Sunday February 13, 2011 at 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Where: Sportsman's Restaurant 4426 Central Ave, Camarillo

• Be Aware: Age requirement is 21 and over. This is an open event in a public venue so no obvious fetish wear, cameras or recording devices of any kind are allowed. It is free to attend. Please order lunch or a drink as a courtesy to the restaurant. We are in the back room. Limited seating, so best to come early.

“The Pleasures of Pegging”

The practice of pegging, also called strap-on sex or “bend over boyfriend”, has definitely gained in popularity in recent years. While many people are curious about the act, most are apprehensive about actually trying it due to misconceptions, lack of familiarity with the equipment, safety concerns for their partners, and misinformation.

Ruby Ryder is a writer of erotic Pegging stories and a steamy blog at PeggingParadise.com. Ruby is a self-described “Pegging enthusiast” whose goal is to inform and inspire people who are curious about Pegging to explore the singular pleasures it can provide both partners. Bring all your questions and get some answers! Come find out what Pegging is, and what it isn’t…find out if Pegging is for you...

Hope to see you there!

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Are Your Sex Toys Making You Sick?

Ruby — Sun, 01 May 2011 00:20:23 GMT

Toy Talk…

Part of pegging, a very important part, is of course the dildo. If you use butt plugs in your play I’m talking about those as well. In fact let’s just leave the whole pegging concept behind for a moment (with reluctance) and talk about sex toys that are insertable. Whether you are a man or a woman…whether you are inserting them in your ass or your vagina or your mouth (or your partner’s)…You need to make sure that the toys you use are not toxic!

A Little History…

The sex toy industry is not regulated…by anyone. Sex toys are classified as “novelty use”, and not under scrutiny of any agency for consumer safety. “Novelty use” means that the item basically has no use and therefore is not regulated (wow, could we teach them a thing or two). Never mind that we are indeed inserting these items in, well, most of our insertable places with mucous membranes and delicate tissues galore.

Toxic toys contain PVC plastics with “phthalates” (pronounced tha-lates), which help to soften the toys. Greenpeace has called on the European Union to ban the use of phthalates in adult novelties, as they have already banned them in toys for children. The latest research indicates that exposure to these substances can upset the body’s ability to regulate hormone production, damage reproduction, and can cause liver and kidney defects. They can also possibly cause cancer. The adult toy purveyors point out that no studies have been done that have positively shown these sex toys are toxic. This is true, because it is hard to prove a connection since the damage is cumulative over a long period of time and no one wants to pay for the study…certainly not the toxic toy makers.

Here’s how I look at it…If I take a toy out of the package, insert it and then experience burning in my vagina/ass/mouth for a few hours, no one needs to do a study that proves toxicity to me; I assume it! And this happens to people, believe me. I have decided to err on the side of caution where sex toys are concerned. If you would like to do the same, here is some information to assist you in your quest…

Rather than go into all the science and controversy around phthalates, I offer a few links to some excellent articles. Here is a piece by Emily Gertz in the Grist from December of 2005: http://www.grist.org/article/gertz1/
This article by Violet Blue in the SFGate.com November of 2007 is quite good: http://articles.sfgate.com/2007-11-08/living/17267800_1_toy-store-phthalates-rubber-toys
Another by Trisitan Taormino in the Village Voice January 2007: http://www.villagevoice.com/2007-01-30/columns/dangerous-dildos-part-1/
Greenpeace article Bad Vibrations September 2006: http://www.greenpeace.org.uk/blog/toxics/bad-vibrations-we-expose-an-eu-sex-scandal

The Bad Guys

The old guard of adult toy companies typically buy the cheapest toys they can get, usually from China, thereby maximizing their profit. They really don’t care whether they are safe or not. After all, whadda ya gonna do – return it? Not. This attitude is so sex-negative it appalls me. They assume that there is shame and/or embarrassment connected with sex toys, so of course no one would actually take the trouble to return the “Doc Johnson Huge Double Monster Jelly Dong”, even if it caused burning in orifices that didn’t go away for hours.

For the most part, they are right. Even the most sex-positive person would probably just chalk it up as a loss and throw away the offending jelly monster, right? Who wants to return a used sex toy? So until now, they have been able to get away distributing poor quality, toxic toys without any blow-back from the consumer.

The Good Guys (and Gals)

Sex in the City deserves a nod at this point for the infamous episode with the “Rabbit Pearl” vibrator by Vibratex, which brought sex toys more into the open. As sex toys became a more common purchase, a more savvy consumer emerged and awareness of toxicity increased. These new consumers demanded high quality, non-toxic toys that were made to last.

Manufacturers started joining the movement…because if there is a market for it, someone will make it! (Kind of like, if they build it, we will insert it? No, not quite.) This new generation of sex-positive companies are challenging the old attitude of “who gives a crap about the customer”. They have research and development departments, use the best materials and actually test their products on real bodies! They make promises to the customer to sell only non-toxic toys. They stand behind what they sell and want to provide customers with toys that are well made, safe, long-lasting and do what they say they will do. It is from these companies as well as sex educators like Violet Blue and Tristan Taormino that the information about toxic toys is spreading.

Clues For Recognizing Phthalate Toys

The Smell – toxic toys have a strong chemical smell, which only partly goes away with repeated washings.
See-Through Dildos – Not all see-through dildos are toxic, but most are. If it is see-though and flexible and soft, it’s probably toxic. A few see-though dildos are made with a substance called “elastomers”; those are safe. See-through hard plastic is safe, too, but a much less desirable texture for a toy.
Price - The cheaper the dildo – the more of a guarantee it is toxic. You may be tempted to buy the $10 bright red see-through dildo (they are kind of cool looking)…but you will get what you pay for. Though those brilliantly colored crystal jelly dildos are cheap – they are toxic! In fact the word “jelly” is often synonymous with toxic in the sex toy world.

Be aware that jelly toys are porous and can not be reliably sterilized! That, by itself, should be enough to stop you from buying them…even without the toxicity.

Safe Toys! (Toxic Toy Alternatives)

100% Silicone – If you are looking for silicone - silicone is always opaque; never see-through. Best to stick with manufacturers you know and trust.
Glass – gorgeous glass dildos are available in an amazing variety of colors and shapes. Not usually for strap-on harnesses.
Metal – the weight and heat-conducting ability of metal is marvelous and touted by many. Again, not usually for strap-on harnesses.
Hard Plastics – Hard plastic is safe and has no phthalates.
Elastomers – Though this is PVC, it is food grade vinyl, like the plastics used for leftover food storage containers. Phthalate-free.

As a consumer, know this…Reading labels will not always help you! As awareness has increased about toxic toys, the unscrupulous companies have even taken to labeling their products according to what the customer is asking for – which sometimes has no bearing on what is in the package. Basically, since people are asking for phthalate-free, toys are sometimes labeled as phthalate-free when they are not. Again – no one regulates this industry so they can get away with it. All you can do is to stick with the companies that you know and trust. They are out there, believe me!

This is the beginning of that list. It will no doubt grow over time.

Phthalate-Free Sex Toy Stores/Online Stores
The Smitten Kitten in Minneapolis and Denver
Babeland in San Francisco and New York
Holistic Wisdom online only
Trinity Romance in British Columbia
Pure Pleasure in Santa Cruz
The Rubber Rose in San Diego
D.Vice in Australia

As I understand it, the Smitten Kitten is a pioneer in this area and deserves points for pushing the toxic toy issue up in the public awareness. They formed the “Coalition against Toxic Toys”, which health-conscious sex toy retailers and manufacturers join in their efforts for the industry to be self-regulating and offer transparency regarding the products they sell. The Coalition’s website is, as I write this, under renovation but will surely be back soon.

Phthalate-Free Sex Toy Manufacturers
Erotic Embrace
Big Tease Toys
Vixen Creations
Fun Factory
Lelo
njoy
Tantus
Vibratex

I wish you all lots of hot, squirming, gasping and Non-Toxic Pegging.

Ruby Ryder

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Pegging reference on TV!

Ruby — Fri, 06 May 2011 08:37:26 GMT

Jon Stewart's Daily Show - best part is at the end...
http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/tue-may-3-2011/exclusive---the-wedding-banners-uncensored

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Wills and Kate - a Commemorative Plate...OMG!

Ruby — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 01:24:03 GMT

This is really hysterical...and on-topic!
http://gribsbysshop.bigcartel.com/product/the-gribsby-plate

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Welcome to Pegging 101

Ruby — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 22:11:24 GMT

Years ago, Kate started this group as a place where non-kinky pegging enthusiasts could gather and share thoughts and experiences. Her intention was that it be a place where the stereotypes of pegging porn (humiliation, domination, abuse, feminization) were left behind and people could just shop talk about how to have mind-blowing prostate orgasms in a tender, loving and intimate way.
I contacted Kate because it did not appear that this group was actually being moderated. She replied and said that she had abandoned it long ago because it had "turned into every other pegging porn group out there and had zero interest" for her. She offered to make me moderator and I accepted.

I respect Kate's initial goal as a worthy one. I am (obviously) a pegging enthusiast and would like to spread the word about the pleasures of strap-on sex to vanilla couples as well as kinky couples. I know that many times vanilla people are scared off from considering pegging by the porn stereotypes as well as misinformation and misconceptions. Although there is a need for a non-kinky place for people to find out about pegging…I don't believe this is the best format for that. (I am working on a website to meet that need.)

But for this group…I believe there are more kinky pegging couples than non-kinky pegging couples. For many people, pegging is often accompanied by and intimately intertwined with other kinks...the type of kink completely depends on the couple involved. Pegging is found more in the kink community simply because it is still considered fairly edgy. Also, pegging couples are often experimental and enjoy sexual exploration. Read…kink.

The rules on the home page will tell you what types of kink are not suited to this group. In general, though, I want this to be a very allowing, welcoming, non-judgmental place. Different strokes for different folks and all that…I like long deep strokes myself!

(I’ve removed all the personal ads – if you would like to place a personal pegging ad, please create your own tribe to do that. There are places on the FetLife to post pegging ads as well.)

Happy Pegging,
Ruby

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dildo suggestions

darius10 — Sun, 17 Apr 2011 18:02:57 GMT

My girlfriend and I are in the market for a new dildo to be used on me. I'm looking for something with at least 6.5" insertable, between 1 1/2-2" wide, o-ring compatible, and firm enough to be used for rough sex. A lot of the dildos we've seen look nice but they're all so floppy and it looks like they'd fold in half whenever she tried thrusting against me. By the way, I'm not wanting to spend over $100.

Any suggestions??

The Tantus "Adam" seems to be the best fit so far. My only concern is the rigidity...

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Overheard and Unmistakable

Ruby — Wed, 23 Mar 2011 18:32:36 GMT

The first touch of my tongue is always a rush for you.

I lick your cock slowly from base to tip.

Warm and wet, I caress it, tease it, toy with it.

Yesterday you described your ass as “willing and wanting”.

I can help you with that.

I push my middle finger deep inside you.

Rendered speechless by the dual sensations,

You writhe with desire for more…

More of everything.

Pushing your legs up, I push into you…

With my smooth, sexy, silicone.

Your face looks so tender that I must kiss you.

I fuck you sweetly and softly,

With your cock sliding in my hand…

Until your brazen ecstasy is overheard by everyone…in the hotel.

Ruby Ryder
http://PeggingParadise.com

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The other side of the story ...

kerfuffle — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 06:47:14 GMT

I need advice. My guy has mentioned his interest about pegging. He was introduced to anal play by an ex-gf but has never done pegging (yet). He has used dildos on himself independently since then.

I was open about the idea of pegging, did all the research, read the recommended books .. but what if it is really not for me? I've tried but I cannot do this for him. I like a dominant man (not dominant Dom per se), have submissive tendencies so I think if I actually peg him .. I probably cannot look at him in the same way any longer. It will kill my love so to speak. This is a personal thing which I can't quite explain fully and hopefully will not be savaged by you guys too much :)

Finally for a few months he's stopped bringing it up, swears he's okay doing without it, will not "look elsewhere" to be satisfied ... but once a while I still catch him looking at sex toy shops for strap-ons, or relevant porn .. even tranny stuff (which makes me feel bad since really how can i compete with a girl with a real cock). i don't snoop but I will walk into the room to ask him something, and he'll hastily shut things down .. but obviously one can still see what's on the huge monitor.

Is this relationship (marriage) a recipe for disaster if I cannot satisfy this side of him. From what I've read here, it's not a desire he can stamp down.

We do not have an active sex life. Last year's tally: 1. Hand and blow jobs occassionally throughout for him. He's my first real lover so all this is completely confusing to me - on top of everything. This is really breaking me and our relationship.

Do I submit to his wishes .. do this for him - and perhaps alter my perception of him (my issues yes but it will still affect both of us)?

Do I leave so he can find someone that can satisfy him? We have been married 2+ years, no kids. I do love him very much. We are not 'kids' i.e. we are in our 30s (early & late).

Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.

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Approaching the idea of ANY ass-play with shy boyfriend...

Jessica — Wed, 01 Dec 2010 01:12:58 GMT

Neither myself or my boyfriend are very experienced sexually outside of each other, and whilst we're both generally really open, whenever I pay particular attention to his (amazing) ass he gets quite shy and laughs/changes subject.

I desperately want to experiment and try licking/fingering/pegging him, but I'm 1) completely embarrassed and worried he'll think I'm slightly strange, and 2) worried that at the end of it I won't even find that I enjoyed it as much as I thought, and then it's an awkward memory!

What are your experiences of first getting your guy to try this kind of stuff? Any advice for a COMPLETE newbie?

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My Experience with Pegging; it probably saved my marriage.

Nancy — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:00:48 GMT

I have been married to my husband for the past ten years. Sex was always good and plentiful, especially the first year, but i guess that routine sort of made it uneventful in the long run. Three years ago, my husband and I were in a sexual state that I would describe as rutine, bored, with less and less intimacy shared between us, so much that I was seriously thinking about having and affair, and I later learned that he almost dis have one. Realizing the danger this posed to our marriage I decided to talk to my husband very openly about it and so we did, after much soul searching and trying to figure out what happenend we decided to try harder to renew our intimacy and bring exitement and fantasy into our love life.

Days later, one night while drinking some wine and talking about how to introduce more spice into our bed my husband passed the laptop he had been toying with and asked me to read the web page that was open. Wow!!!! did that reading surprised me. The page described a sexual practice called pegging which basically is the penetration of the male's anus by a female wearing an artificial penis. I didn't understand it at first, I just looked at him and back at the page and back at him. You wan't me to do this to you? I asked. He looked at me with a strange look and said to me Yes, I would like to try this with you, I have been thinking about it since I first read about it in a magazine and have sort of developed a fantasy around it. You want to spice up our sex life and I think this could be it.

I can not tell you all the different, confusing thoughts that crossed through my mind, and that was just in the first minute!!!!...Is he gay????? was perhaps the first and most troubling so i just sort of blurted out the questionto him . He answered that he thought not that he had never been attracted by other men and that his thoughts about anal sex were incensed by thinking about me. We sort of wandered off the topic that night as we both sort of got hot and bothered and ended up having a session of hard lustful sex. (Pegging had just begun to enhance our sex life).

In the following days I read all I could find in the web about pegging (also called BOB or Bend Over Boyfriend) anal sex, sex toys, strapons, dildos, but plugs and all sorts of related matter. The more I read I realized that it was a practice more common among heterosexuals that I would have thought and apparently one that helps couples share a greater intimacy and trust than regular sex and also giving great pleasure to both partners. I guess I became more informed about the importance of role reversal games in some relationships, I also was led by my readings to learn about the excitement that bondage can bring into sex play. I took a crash course in alternative sexuality with all my reading, alternative being defined by anything different to missionary sex. I made up my mind, I would fuck my husband!!!!

I planned this very careful, laying out a course in my mind to bring our new experience in the bedroom to fruition as exiting and pleasurable as possible. First I went shopping. A visit to a large sex shop turned out to be at first daunting but with the help of Robin, a lovely girl that worked there, it ended up being a very satisfying and fruitful experience. I looked around at first and I must have looked lost so Robin came to me and asked if she could assist me in finding what I needed. I was determined to accomplish my mission so I conquered the impulse to flee and my shyness and explained to Robin exactly what I had in mind. She smiled and told me that she new precisely what I needed and told me that it was nothing strange that more and more she had women customers coming to the store with the exact same request. She showed and guided me through all the products available for anal sex, explaining them and their use in fine detail and giving advice on how best to use them to further enhance the moment and the pleasure. She explained all about anal beads, butt plugs, probes, dildos, harnesses, etc., I was amazed at the extent of variety that existed in the world of sex toys. She also showed me some other items for my pleasure and for light bondage, restraints, feathers, light whips, vibrating bullets, clit stimulators and so much more. Mind Boggling!

I spent three hours at the store with Robin, learning, understanding, getting this oh so stimulating ideas. Finally I purchased a set of anal beads, 2 butt plugs in different sizes, a feldoe strapless strap on dildo, a vibrating dildo for use with a strapon, an o ring harness, a double dong dildo, 3 different flavored lubricating gels, a set of body restraints, some massage oil, an eye mask, and a copy of the Bend Over Boyfriend DVD. Armed with this I went home to start my plan, I was ohhh so horny after all this titilating reading and shoping, I could hardly wait.

That night, when my husband arrived home, I had a bottle of our favorite wine open and some light finger food ready at our living room gently lighted by some candles. When he entered he knew something was up and smiled to me and gave me a big kiss. We sat and talked and drank some of the wine and soon I started to make out with him finding him more than willing and ready. We spent a while in the living room where I let my hands wander all over his body, later we moved to the bedroom where I proceeded to undress him slowly as we kissed and touched, finally naked I made him lay on his back and after sort of rubbing my body all over his proceeded to give him a nice and slow blow job. While I gave him head I used my hand to massage the underside of his cock, his balls and kept going lower sort of lingering for a while in his perineum, he seemed to like this by his moans and movements, I finally started caressing his anus and did so for a while then I stoped licking his cock and payed the attention of my tongue to rimming his anus thus lubricating the area and making him give this little jumps of pleasure. I returned to my ministrations to his manhood and then I started slowly pushing my saliva lubricated middle finger against his anus, slowly, as I had read, letting him feel it and get used to it, slowly opening him to it. Slowly I had the tip of the finger inside, I let it rest for a few seconds and then slowly started going deeper, Finally I was in him, my whole finger, I sort of started moving it towards him, looking for the knob I had read would be his prostate, I guess I found it because he started squirming and moaning in amost exiting way. I played around for a while, moving my finger in and out, massaging his inside all while giving him pleasure with my mouth and tongue. He kept moaning and moving his hips to the rythm of my finger, harder each time, I inserted a second finger, slowly, letting him acomodate to it, and kept on thrusting, all of a sudden his moans became much louder, he tightened his butt and legs and I felt his warm cum spill forceful from his penis into my mouth, he trembled and shook, he had a tremendous orgasm. I pulled both fingers from his anus, fast, as he came and grabed his buttocks pushing him deeper inside my mouth. He lay in front of me exhausted, spent, relaxed and happy. A few minutes latter he kissed me and told me he just had the best and strongest orgasm of his life. As we layed side by side I kept caressing his body, ever so slowly, and soon he started caressing me and in a few minutes he was between my legs eating his heart out. He had me on the verge of orgasm with his tongue and the jumped and penetrated me fast, hard, making me cum almost instantly as he reached his climax deep inside of me. We were spent and fell asleep in each others arms almos inmediatly. Next morning when he awoke he repeated to me that it was the best sex of his life. I just smiled and told him that I had a few more surprises for him. He laughed and just asked WHEN?

That same night I was ready again, horny and excited, I could not wait to see him trembling with pleasure under me again, to see his face contorted by the delight that my actions gave him, I wanted to do it all to him, but I had to go according to the plan, I wanted him to like it, to enjoy it, I did not want to scare him or hurt him.

He came home a little early and we had some wine while talking in the bedroom, suddenly he started kissing me and whispering in my ear, his whisper was I want more. So I gave him more!!! That night I started the same as the one before, fellating him while I used my fingers on his bum, after a while I placed a good dolop of lubricant in his anus and rubbed it in with my fingers, then I started inserting into his butt a string of anal beads, each one bigger than the other one, one by one until all that was out was the ring for pulling them. I the asked him to fuck me. He penetrated me and started fucking me, faster and faster as I caressed his butocks, his movements and his hands made me reach an orgasm very soon and I almost missed his but I realized he was starting to cum and pulled the beads from his ass fairly rapidly as he orgasmed. He screamed with the power of the feeling as his orgasm exploded harder by the sensation of the beads. He just fell asleep totally spent after. I let him sleep for a while an d some time later started kissing his butt cheeks, licking and rubbing, he woke up and my hand realized that his cock did too. I asked him to lay face down and continued to kiss and massage his butt and back. I applyed again a lot of lubrication on his anus and took out the smaller butt plug that I had bought. I proceded to slowly insert it into his whole, easing and going, allowing him to relax his muscles, to get used to it. He felt a little disconfort when the thickest part was reached but he relaxed and allowed it to slide in without pain. Finally he had it all in him. I played with it a little, sliding it a little bit in and out and later finding it better just to push on and off on the base, he went crazy, his moaning, his face, his body where just incredible. I loved seeing him in such an extatic state, I felt the power that I had to bring him so much pleasure. With the butt plug firmly in his ass I made him lay on his back and stradled him from the top and fucked our brains out until we both came in explosive orgasms. After, but a while later, I extracted the butt plug very gently from him and went to sleep.

Next day he left for a business trip that would keep him away for 3 days, I asked him to take the butt plug, the bigger one we had not yet used, and asked him to call me in the night when he got to his hotel. He called that night and I could tell he had had a few drinks, he was very mellow on the phone and I asked him if he would be willing to try some phone sex with me. He laughed and asked me if I was serious, when I told him I was he decide to play along. I started to tell him I wanted to make love to him that I wanted to make him squirm under me, that I wanted him to cum and cum from my actions. He started to breathe a little heavier and I asked him to get naked and to touch himsel, to caress his body, his cock, his buttocks, to get nice and horny. I then told him I wanted him to penetrate himself with the butt plug. He was kind of hessitant, told me we could wait until he got home, I was sterm, NO do it now! To my amezement, his voice became lower and said yes that he would love to, tell me how. I told him to thoroughly lubricate it and also his anus and to slowly insert it all the way in. To make this story short, he did it while I talked him in, guided him, told him what I was feeling and wanted to do to him, hehe got kind of dirty for a while, he spent an hour on the phone with me while he played with his butt with the plug and we both masturbated until we came. The next two nights were a replay of that first one. When he came back home I just ordered him to strip and gave him a long massage with some hot oil that got him extremely horny, I asked him to lick my pussy as I gave him head in a side 69 position. After a while and being very hot and excited I got up went to the bathroom and put on the harness to which I had attached a vibrating dildo (I had practiced by myself before in order to get this right) I returned to the bedroom and was really surprised by the look in his face when he saw me wearing my new "huge" cock! There was surprise, lust, excitement and maybe a little fear in his expression which turned into a beautiful smile. I asked him to get up and proceeded to tell him "Now I'm going to Fuck You" his expression again showed all the mentioned emotions and he hugged me and kissed me. I made him bend over and recline his arms and head over the back of a chair and proceeded to apply a great amount of lube to the dildo as well as on his anus. As I lubed the dildo it felt strange, started to think as if that huge cock was mine, started feeling as if it was, wanted to have him massage it. I then placed the head of the cock in his opening and very slowly started to penetrate him, again slowly to allow him to adjust not to tighten and feel pain. The head slipped in and he started telling me how good it felt, I pushed it in a little more and he stopped me, asked me to hold on for a second, I waited and a few moments later I continued to go in, a littl emore, now a little faster, hearing his moans, feeling his his buttocks as they started to push against me, more, deeper, deeper until I was totally inside him. I waited for a moment and started pulling out, about half way, and the in again, a little faster evry time, out, in, By then I realized that the base of the dildo pushed against my clit and also felt the vibrations and it was working me up very much, his hips moved, more and more, searching for more, falling on my rythm, I sort of lost myself on my pleasure and just fucked and fucked him. I had an orgasm and kept going at him since I realized he was in heaven and had not cum yet. I asked him to masturbate himself while I kept fucking him and after a while he had the most noisy and incredible orgasm. I widrew my cock from him and asked him to come to the bed, there we lay for a while and then I asked him to lick my pussy, he was tired and told me so but something within me just made me tell him, lick! and so he did until he brought me to a new orgasm. By then he was also pretty worke up again so I asked him if he wanted me to fuck him again, his answer was YES PLEASE! I layed him on his back and brought his legs up around my shoulders and after applying more lub I entered him, not as slowly as before, but he did not seem to mind, kind of liked the litlle roughness. I fucked him hard and deep, faster and faster while with my hands I stroked his penis. In no time he had another very strong orgasm.

For a few days we sort of kept experimenting with the different toys and concentrating mainly on his pleasure, on his anus and prostate. My sense of power grew as the role reversal of the situation permeated in our minds and we both enjoyed it very much. A few days later when he got home I asked him to take a bath and after he finished I blindfolded him and led him to our bed. There I had everything ready and proceeded to tie him up face down. It was tremendously erotic for me to watch him laying naked and unable to move on our bed, his ass exposed and totally under my control for me to do with it as I pleased. I rubbed oil all over his body, spent a while on his cock and the crack of his ass, enjoyed the view of the shiny back and butt, I couldn't resist it and gave him a spank in one of his cheeks, he jumped and groaned at the unexpected sting but did not say anything, I then layed on top of him and rubbed my body against him, rubbed mi cunt against his buttocks, made us both hotter. I then proceeded to put on the harness this time fitted with the feldoe and simply penetrated him fast and proceeded to fuck him without stopping until I came. He was trashing and moaning enjoying himself immensely but had not yet cumed, I got up and turned him around and proceeded to penetrate him again while stroking his penis with my hands, harder, faster, deeper, his moans so loud now, he came all over his stomach. I then proceeded to lick his semen into my mouth and then gave him a deep wet kiss so that he could taste himself. He kissed me back and we both licked our mouths as he learned what his taste was. He never complained or said anything and must have liked as we have done that many times since then and he is always eager and submissive.

We have continued to explore the role reversal angle enjoying our very private moments very much. As I said before, I had started to enjoy wearing the harness, my fake penis, toying in mind with the thought that it was mine really and I wondered if my husband had similar feelings but in reverse. One night I asked him to wear a very sexy bikini panty of mine, just for the fun of it, I wanted so see him with them, he started protesting but after a couple of kisses he decided to play on. He put on the panties and layed in our bed in a half turned position. Wow!!!! I almost had an orgasm right there, he looked so hot and sexy. I decided to play it for all it was worth and put a bra on him too, a sports bra, mmmm my pussy got so wet, he looked fantastic. I embraced him and started taliking to him as if he were a woman, feeling him up with my hands, making him hard inmediately, I whispered to him that I wanted him and that I was going to fuck him. I proceeded to undress him and made love to him as if he were a woman and I a man, fucking him with passion and tenderness.

All during this time we also have regular sex and we have explored more and more of each other, I also have learned to love anal sex in which we engage often, many times with a vibrating dildo inside my vagina as he penetrates my anus. Since he has come to enjoy anal penetration so much, many times when we are going to have regular sex I previously insert a butt plug in his ass so he can enjoy the fullness and the friction in his prostate while he makes love to me.

What can I tell you? Today my marriage is stronger than ever and we have gotten closer and closer to each other. We have a great sex life full of fantasy, imagination and variety and a complete trust in each other, which is why I think that we have been able to open up and play all this different roles with each other. I probaly could go on and on telling you all the different stories of our sex life since we opened ourselves to new forms of sex, we have so much variety now. So, really pegging has improved our lives so much in more respects than just the sex since it created a much stronger bond among us and increased the trust that we have in each other freeing our imaginations and bodies to really enjoy ourselves and each other.

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Our First Time...and I Came Too Soon! >.<

Sierra — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 00:49:51 GMT

Okay...so I've posted an introduction to myself on the pegstand...which may explain a little more about this....and I have a little story to tell. My boyfriend and I just had our first pegging experience. Admittedly...it was just as I expected...except for one small fo-pah on my part...I came too early.
Here's the whole story. We've prepared long and hard for this...both of us did a little research, I taught him how to properly and comfortably take insertions (finger, small toy, plug), he even tried out the Share solo one night in the shower so he'd get past the "size" anxiety. So the night finally came...we sat down for a couple of drinks, then proceeded with fun foreplay while I inserted his plug. We played around for a bit, then I put on (or in?) the Share with a pair of tight panties for stability. We started with the rear entry position on the bed...nice and slow at first. But only about 5 minutes into a nice rhythum, I came. I was....mortified! And then I cried (I'm one of those who cried when mad or frusterated). My boyfriend assured me repetedly that he loves me, that he was happy to see I enjoyed it so much, and that we're not normal (we always joke about being offkilter and loving every minute of it). I suppose I was embarassed that I came so soon. I mean, the Share does give vaginal stimulation, but hardly gets my clit. I guessing it was greatly due to the physolocigal excitement...which then I felt (as best as I can describe it) as sort of guilty that I came off of this quicker than I ever had from sex (besides deliberate not-really-fulfilling masturbation). So, we continued, trying different positions: face to face, bend over the bed, and finally him riding on top. After his attempt at some ill-timed dirty talk (wished he would have waited another time since we never do that) we never finished. I was upset that I had finished early, and he never did. After a break, and normal (yet highly fulfilling) sex, we talked and he said he could have came within the first few minutes, but held off on it because he wanted me to experience more than that.
I guess I dunno how I feel now. I'm trying to evaluate. I really enjoyed fulfilling my long-time fantasy with someone who I truly love. I enjoyed the whole role reversal, emotionally and physically. I love the closeness we have now. And it was comical how he complained about his hips being sore and the front of my legs being shaky as well... we plan on doing this again...I just wonder why I feel a little akward now. I certainly have more respect for what little pimply teenage boys go through...the performance anxiety, the premature release...etc.
I guess I want to ask: Has anyone ever came so soon like me? Has anyone had mixed emotions after the fact (especially being the one who wanted it to bein with)? Any other comments, suggestions, and questions welcome as well.

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Strap-on Suggestions???

darius10 — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 16:20:47 GMT

Hi!

My girlfriend and I are interested in getting a strap-on to be used on me. Do you have any suggestions? I've seen so many out there and most of them look like rubbish. We don't want to spend hundreds of dollars, but want a sexy, sturdy and comfortable harness / dildo. Any suggestions?

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Getting to it, an atypical couple.

Tue, 04 Jan 2011 18:55:15 GMT

I'm a straight male in a monogamous relationship of around a decade - I don't identify as submissive or dominant, and neither does my partner. Traditional male/female roles are plentiful, and often times reinforced heavily through our own culture, as are preconceived notions about what those roles entail - point being that we've had a pretty vanilla sex life so far. I'm 6 years her elder, and though I'm technically more experienced (as I had been with other partners before her), my sexual being is somewhat stunted compared to hers - I've always found it difficult to discuss sex, desires, fantasies, and though I've been more open as of late, I still struggle with expressing myself. She is a saint - patient and loving through it all.

About a year or so ago, I stumbled across pegging as an activity, possibly through a late-night HBO show or some other media-centric mainstream outlet. I was intrigued - more so from the form and function rather than the dominance/aggression side of things. As a teenager figuring out what felt good and what didn't, I had on more than several occasions experimented with anal play, and the notion of enjoying it carried a weighty stigma throughout my formative years. I liked it, but as a straight guy, I wasn't supposed to like it. This show/segment brought up all that sense of enjoyment and I did a little research. I purchased a small plug, and though the sensation was enjoyable, it wasn't enough. I bought an Aneros Progasm...and WOW. Though it is a little large, I've adapted and adjusted somewhat. We've also enjoyed greatly the LELO Gigi vibe, but have not used it often internally.

My partner, being much less reserved about sex - though "adventurous" would be a stretch - has never been shy about toys or masturbation; she is all in all a well-rounded and sexually confident person comparatively. She has stated on a number of occasions that anal play (on her) holds no specific pleasure, and we've made a few of our own attempts to no avail - but she hasn't shown much of an aversion to play when it comes to my own back end - though cleanliness is a concern.

Recently I've confessed my open-ness and desire to be pegged by her. She did not back away (thank Jeebus!), but did show a bit of reservation. She finds the wearing of a strapon somewhat comical, and though I've assured her that any laughter would be joined by my own - because it IS funny, after all when you think about it. I showed her my Aneros, but not used it in front of her - that will likely not be happening any time soon, as I find it more of a personal item. We did acquire a LELO Bob, but have not tried it yet. She is also concerned that this is something which will replace regular sex - which we both enjoy thoroughly. Why?

Traditional roles aside, I'm what one would expect from a woman in our society, sexually, and she is the typical male...I enjoy loads of foreplay, giving and receiving - and it often takes quite a while to reach orgasm, if at all. Maintaining arousal is not the problem, I manage to have quite a bit of control over that department, but reaching an ejaculatory orgasm during regular sex is not always in the cards, and has been the case for almost the last year. And, of course, she reaches arousal immediately, is impatient with foreplay and would rather get to the penetration, and reaches orgasm easily and often...

It's that "impatient with foreplay" that is the issue, I think. Now the subject is out in the open, we've talked about it, she's stimulated me with beads once, and has witnessed my subsequent orgasm. This is what concerns her - after the past year in which my orgasms have become less frequent, my opening the discussion about male anal play, and having a powerful orgasm quickly and easily; she is concerned about this being the only thing that will get me off. This is the origin of her reluctance.

So, the questions posited after my lengthy introduction and ramble - for those of you engaged in non-dominant pegging or anal play: 1.) Was your partner enthusiastic, willing, reluctant, or opposed at first? 2.) What were their concerns, outside of cleanliness (which I've learned is common)? 3.) Has strap-on or anal play replaced your normal routine, or has it been added to regular sex? 4.) Have the incidents of regular sex decreased in proportion to pegging, or anal play?

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Aural Erotica

Ruby — Fri, 17 Dec 2010 07:21:47 GMT

Memories...of your smooth body, shivering under my fingers. You undulate to meet my caresses, trying to get the most sensation possible from each finger as it slips inside you; you want it so much. New territory for you, unexpected...yet shockingly pleasurable. You come back for more, ask for it, welcome it...welcome the thrills. I stand at the foot of the bed in my heels. You are open and ready before me on your knees. I marvel for a long moment at the perfect height match...my strap-on and your gorgeous muscular ass. Pushing inside you I hear what I have so waited for...your moan. It is so primal, so involuntary, breathless and filled with passion. Each stroke tears another from your mouth without your consent. I live for that sound.

Ruby Ryder
http://PeggingParadise.com

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Just got pegged today

David — Fri, 10 Dec 2010 22:46:46 GMT

Just got home from visiting a friend of mine. While there, she kept trying to persuade me to let her fuck me with her strapon. After playfully stringing her along for a few minutes, I finally agreed. She used a vibrating penis that also extends the vibrations to her clit. I think she got more enjoyment out of doing it than I did as her eyes were rolling back, she had a devilish smile while muttering almost under her breath how fucking hot it was. The longer she fucked me, the harder her thrusts became until she finally slowed to a stop. She didnt say it, but I think she had a silent orgasm.
Just wanted to share my experience.

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I can't wait to have my wife's dick in my ass

John — Thu, 02 Dec 2010 20:04:01 GMT

I am so anxiously awaiting to fucked in the ass and to feel that great orgasm I have been reading about.

I would not even mind for a man to fuck me in the ass. That might even feel better ;-)

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Advanced Pegging

daniel — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 14:42:51 GMT

I thought it would be good to start a thread for people to talk about "advanced pegging" topics. There is a ton of stuff out there about beginning pegging, and what to do to start out (and much of it is the same), but there is very little for those who have been doing it for awhile and want to explore ways to make it even more fun and exciting and fulfilling.

So what are some of your tips, suggestions, and questions for "advanced pegging"

I think that the enjoyment of pegging comes from two sources. There is the physical aspect and there is the mental aspect. I think that most people enjoy both aspects, but for many, one side or the other is at least slightly more dominant. For me - I love the physical pleasure but the mental aspect of it is even better. That being the case, I am always looking for ways to increase the mental aspect of pegging. Along those lines, sucking on the dildo is a great way to increase the mental aspect of pegging. There are other posts about this subject and it looks like there are a wide range of feelings on that topic.

Another mental aspect I have found exciting is setting up a mirror so you can see yourself getting pegged. I have never done it before, but I would love it if my girlfriend would make me bend over the counter in the bathroom in front of the mirror so I would have to watch myself as she . . . well . . . you know . . . :)

Anyone else have any thoughts, tips, suggestions, or questions about advanced pegging?

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is there a such thing as too often?

MasterSodium — Fri, 05 Nov 2010 16:26:32 GMT

Hello again. got another question for y'all.

I'm wondering, how often is okay to be pegged, without risking any damage to your anus? Obviously if things are forced, its not good. Considering you go slow, keep everything lubed, and its not a painful experience, is it okay to to get pounded for a few days in a row, or multiple times a day? We've always been good and I never feel any pain or discomfort afterwords (aside from usual tight, slightly warm feeling when first putting in the largest toy we're gonna use that time and some gas afterword), but I don't want to start experiencing pain or discomfort.

I'm not trying to turn this into an all the time, every day thing, me and my wife have quite a variety of interests we like in the bedroom (she really needs to be punished before she gets to do my ass again, cause she's been really naughty), but sometimes I find myself wanting it a few hours after doing it, or the next day.

Also, if you do it more often (say once a week or so), is it easier to take the larger toys with less prep beforehand, or do you pretty much have to start from scratch each time?

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New with a question

MasterSodium — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 20:44:18 GMT

hello. I'm somewhat new here (been lurking for about a month now). Me and my wife have been pegging for a while if you go by time, but only on occasion, so a few times total. I definitely love it, and she's really into it as well (she was the one who brought it up, so I'm pretty lucky there!). After our last time, we really decided we wanted to do this more often, and wanted to intensify the pleasure for her while fucking me. Since we don't really like vibrations all that much, we just got ourselves a standard sized share, (haven't tried it yet, but can't wait to "share" with her) and I was wondering if there's any techniques people have used to help get her off while using it? Of course I'm good with giving any clit stimulation, but we'd like to give her the "fucking my man in the ass" orgasm.

Previous pegging I've dressed in lingerie, and sucked her cock, which gets her (and me) really hot, but still don't put her over the top enough for the big O (without one of us rubbing her clit). Any advice would be great!

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firstime

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 20:31:52 GMT

i'm looking for first time strapon fun fantasy i would love to show up at a paty at a hotel room and i turn out to be the party oh my

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Anal Orgasm Question

Kurt — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 21:22:03 GMT

Hey everyone, I had a question for people that have more experience than myself. My fiancee and I started playing with some anal with fingers/toys and will be ordering our first strapon soon. She can usually make me 'orgasm' by rubbing my prostate but I've never ejaculated from it- don't get me wrong, it feels amazing and she can make me come like that several times in a row (very similar kind of thing to her g-spot orgasm).
My question is, is there something we are not doing right? (relatively, I mean, I do enjoy it..) I read about men being able to have a complete orgasm with ejaculation just through anal stimulation and she and I both want to be able to do this. Thanks for your expertise! :-)

also- we were planning on getting the tantus bend over beginner or intermediate kits- thought? Where can you go for the best price? (our local store doesn't have the best selection for strap-ons :-/)

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Are there any DVD titles that you like?

Ryan — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 16:02:38 GMT

I'd love to find a video or video series that centers on pegging that is not FemDom per se. I know about Bend Over Boyfriend, anybody have any luck in finding anything?

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any advice

Mon, 23 Aug 2010 21:04:38 GMT

Hi every one, I am looking for links to informational sites about pegging, I had an issue and my wife is no longer into pegging, if you read my blog you'll see what I am talking about. it is way too long to post here, so any advice on the " ins and outs" (sorry couldn't resist) of pegging would be appreciated. I found a couple articles and would like to learn all that I can so I can talk my beautiful wife into taking my back door again.

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My GF is gonna take care of me tonight!!!

Frank — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 18:37:51 GMT

I'm so excited!!! She started off as the curious one, but once we did it once I was hooked. It feels so good being filled up, but I LOVE women! Its SOOOOO great when she climbs on top and fucks the daylights out of me - the amazingly intense feeling inside combined with her soft skin and breasts rubbing against me. She loves to make me come that way - she'll pound me for awhile, then come close to me and kiss me or suck on my nipples while she pins my cock against my belly and makes me scream. I LOVE IT! We do it this way 2-3 times a month and its always mindblowing. Glad to have the opportunity to share. Speaking of sharing, we would be open to a swap if there's another good-looking, sane couple here in Maine that's into this;)

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A few questions from the slightly experienced.

David — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 12:16:35 GMT

First and foremost, the only position my wife and I have both found comfortable is with me lying on my back and her lying on her side below and perpendicular to me. This also provides her with easy access for the "reach around". My question is what other positions are feasible for not so experienced lovers and how do we make them comfortable. I would like to do doggy style as would the wife but so far it feels as though its too tight for me or perhaps the wrong angle of penetration. I mostly want her hands on my hips out of this so any other positions that would promote that would be welcome as well.
The wife wants to know if there are any tricks to prevent fatigue when she is the one doing the humping. She has the problem that her hips and knees get tired and her arm gets tired from the reach around too quickly.
That's all we can think of for now. Thanks in advance for any input. Really appreciated.

KittensTiger

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First timer newbie question

russ — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 19:35:33 GMT

Hi Tribe, first post here, my wife has agreed to take me from behind for the first time, we are currently looking at kit, probably a feeldoe so no messing with straps.

Question is how doyou guys go about getting clean before hand, i assume an enema is the best option but how do you do that? with a douch thing, i want to do it alone inn the shower so the wife does not have to deal with the messy stuff which will put her off.

cheers

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So I tried it for the first time today!

Anna — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 02:44:09 GMT

So I tried it for the first time today and I have some questions. My bf wasn't big on the feedback part I think he was embrassed. So I started by fingering him with one finger that's as far as we got I know this takes time and I and understanding of that. I went slowly into his anus with lube I started with slow circles he got hard. Does that mean he liked it ? Then I went in deeper it didn't seem to bother him what did thou is wen I went in and out. He said he felt like he had to go to the bathroom so I stopped and took my finger out. When I did this he told me to put it back in. I wad trying to find his prostate they say u can feel it better when thier hard but I didn't feel it I wanna know is there a way to find it ? After that we had sex but before we started I noticed a fluid coming out of the tip of his penis but he didn't have a crazy orgasm like I have heard of does anyone know what that could be ? Then we had sex he came very quickly was that from the anal ? I also noticed that he moaned alot more then normal. He said we could try it again if anyone could give me some feedback that would be great !

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I want to peg my man sooo bad but

Anna — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 03:14:52 GMT

We tried fingering and everytime I tried to talk dirty to him about it he just replies with a guess u could say a nervous laugh maybey this is a sign he isn't itno it ? Any suggestion anyone plz

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Feeldoe slim or Tantus silk medium

tech — Thu, 27 May 2010 01:34:26 GMT

Does anyone own the Feeldoe Slim specifically? how do you like it and would you recommend it to a beginner? I am also looking into the Tantus Silk medium. Any thoughts?

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Bonnaroo

Tue, 29 Jun 2010 05:01:56 GMT

If it has grammatical errors or if there are lines that don't make sense, please point them out to me. I have never written a story, if I get comfortable enough, I may post it.

Bonnarroo, 2009. I make eye contact with you as I am dancing, I smile an open mouth smile, and raise my eyebrows...just once so that I don't seem desperate. You walk over and begin dancing with me. I allow you to be behind me for a few minutes, close but not touching. Your hands would make contact with my hips only sporadically because you are trying not to crowd my space. The song ends, I thank you for the dance, but before I can finish, another song comes on...my favorite, "Let's Get It On."
I don't know if you knew what I was feeling or if you were just giving in to your own needs, but you grab my right hand in your left and your hand goes around to my back. You pull me so close and tight that I can't help but let you lead. At the exact moment, the words "...givin' yourself to me could never be wrong if the love is true..." comes on you take my chin and tilt it up to you and kiss my closed lips with your closed lips. The second kiss both of us have slightly parted lips and your mouth is taking in my upper lips as I get a sampling of your lower lip. Your hand wraps around mine entirely and you press it to your heart. Your right hand is still pulling me close. My head is now on your chest. I have just become a believer in Love At First Sight.
The song ends and you don't release my hand, I am praying to myself that you never do. You lead me to a little path behind the stage, it is a well worn path, because of the nature of the gathering, it is deserted. Everyone is engrossed in the music. We only go about 20 feet before you spot a picnic table. Again, you lead and I follow. That seems to be the natural order for us. A very peaceful feeling comes over me, I feel protected and safe for the first time in my life with a man. I know that I am about to give myself to you not just physically, but completely.
You tell me to sit on the bench facing you. You remain standing. You undo the button on your jeans, I begin to blush, but you take me by the chin, just as you did earlier, and force my gaze upward. I look at your beautiful brown eyes and you finish unzipping your pants. The pants along with your undergarments are in a puddle around your ankles. I start toward you with my entire body. "Don't move," is all you say. I swallow hard and deep, almost a gulp. You tell me to open my mouth and I part my lips. You smile and say, "Wider baby." You take a step toward me and your hard shaft is right in my face. You tell me to put my hands behind my head, you place your big strong hands around my wrists and you are holding both my wrists and my hands at the same time.
I look in your eyes now with out hesitation and all my insecurities are gone. I want your cock. You place the head on my lower lip, I lick across your opening and taste you. It was like the first time a child discovers sugar. Once I had that taste I knew my appetite for your cum was insatiable. I licked on your head and closed my lips around it. I was nursing it, nursing your head. The smooth tip behind my teeth and nestled between my tongue and the roof of my mouth. I suck and pulse my mouth on your cock.
You slide another inch into my mouth, your magnificent head is now in the middle of the roof of my mouth. I am still nursing. You are letting me get used to the feel of your cock between my lips. Another inch, my mouth is filling with saliva and I swallow it down, "No, no baby, no swallowing." I blink to tell you that it won't happen again. You slide the rest of your hard shaft in my mouth. I gag. My eyes open wide, I am scared that I have done something wrong, that I won't be what you had expected. You are quick to reassure me, "Perfectly normal, love. It's okay."
Now that you have seen how much I can take, you begin to slide your cock out of my mouth. I don't want you to take it from me and I lean forward as you pull away. Your hands which were just holding my hands and wrists, now take control. They are no longer resting on my head. I can feel your strength. I felt your passion as we danced, but now I feel your power. You hold me in place and slide your cock from the depths of my throat and pull it all the way so that the head is just resting on my lips. Exactly where we started.
As you slide your head back in, my lips naturally cover my teeth protecting you. I love how you smell, I love how you feel. You are sliding so slowly in and out of my mouth. I am swirling my tongue and learning the textures of your cock. When your head is the only part in my mouth I lick the rim, I like to use the top and underside of my tongue to make love to you. I am not making love to your cock, I am making love to you. Your cock is just reaping the benefits at this moment.
You take my head and tilt it sideways and your cock falls from my mouth, you replace it with your balls. I take each one in my mouth giving it special attention. My hands are weak and I can no longer help you support them. You tell me you will let my hands go, as long as I promise to keep them to my sides. I nod. You release my hands but your hands remain in my hair. You are back to sliding your cock in and out of my mouth, this time with much more fervor. You are making love to my mouth. Then you begin wrapping your fingers in my hair, I know the intensity is about to increase. Your cock is sliding in so fast and deep that I am gagging and slobbering. I moan and grunt. I want so much to please you but I am being pleasured as well. It is an overwhelming experience.
I suddenly take control of my mind again. I realize that you are so busy fucking, and slamming my mouth with your cock, that you are lost in the moment. As your balls are hitting my chin, I use the slobber that has started dripping from my chin and lubricate my left hand. I reach between your legs and go toward your ass. You know exactly what I am doing, and you spread them for me. You have shown me with that one movement that you respect my decision to "disobey". You want me to be happy and you know how to give and take.
I place my fingertip on your ass, thinking that I will have to massage and coerce it to accept my finger. It is open and ready. My fingertip slides in with ease. You moan and grip my hair tighter. I slide the second lubricated finger in as well.
You are fucking my face and each thrust allows me to get deeper with my fingers. I start to fuck your ass with as much force as you are fucking my face. You grab me so hard and pull me so close on your that your cum shoots straight down my throat. The successive squirts are filling my mouth, I am gagging and gagging. It is either going to come up or down and I quickly swallow all of it. Your cock is still in my mouth and my fingers are still in your ass. It is a lovers embrace. Neither of us want to pull away first.
We can hear the music again, it never stopped, but we just realized that we hadn't been hearing it. We were completely absorbed by one another. The entire world didn't exist. I start to ease my fingers from your ass and you pull your cock out so that we are disconnected at the same time. You squat down in front of me so that I am a little higher than you are. Your hands are on my thighs. You lean in and kiss me. Swabbing my mouth with your tongue, letting me know that you will always kiss me, always start and end with me, my mouth, my kiss.

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Trying tonight - Peggee in the UK

slewis — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 14:08:42 GMT

We've messed about with the full sized feeldoe but it was too big for a beginner like me! The smaller blue feeldoe has just arrived and we're going to be trying it tonight! My wife's very excited about this as she loves playing with my ass. I'm hoping for a good banging session and will report back on my experiences tomorrow. I've never been pegged but have had lots of ass-play in masturbation. I think i'm going to lay on my back with my legs up and do it face-to-face. Anyway I'll report back tomorrow.......

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Y.P.F

tech — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 02:44:49 GMT

There is a movie called Young People Fucking (Y.P.F). Check it out has a funny pegging scene in it.

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Feeldoe question

Horrorfront — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:21:21 GMT

New here but wanted to ask a quick question to those that it will apply to. I am slowly breaking in my wife to the idea of pegging and I think I'm really close to having her pop my "pegging" cherry. The question is this: I want a feeldoe and am torn between the classic and the more. I like both depth and girth and not sure which one I'd like more. Right now my girls favorite toy for me is our conical plug that maxes at 2" wide and is 6" long. I can take that with very little effort on my part. So to all of you out there what do you think would be my best bet? Thanks in advance

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Going to get pegged for the first time...

Random — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:03:18 GMT

Hey guys!
You all probably get this a lot, but... I'm going to get pegged for the first time sometime soon!
My main question is what position you would recommend we start with.
Any other tips also appreciated!

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pegging

elias — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 16:36:47 GMT

i am new to this topic. i have a female friend who has experienced using a strapon on her boyfriend and ever since then i can't stop thinking about it. i find myself incredibly interested in it though i have never expericed anything like it. it is such a turn on to see a woman wearing a strapon. i was just hopinfg for smoe feedback from people who have experience. i can't really explain why it turns me on the way it does. i like to hear from both the woman and the men. i hope one day to experience this.

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I need advice, PLEASE HELP!!!!

Amber — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 08:43:36 GMT

My husband and I have done this only a few times before, but it has been a while. In the past when he has asked me to do it, I was a little bit apprehensive, but knowing how much he wanted it, I did it. Although there have been a few times when I have not done something right and it was painful for him, we eventually figured it out and he really enjoyed it!! That made me VERY HAPPY!!! While I do enjoy knowing that he is satisfied, the experience was stressful for me. At that time I had very little stress in my life and that little bit of stress every once in a while was no big deal. Now I have a great deal more stress in my life and it seems like it is just one more thing! I think the stress comes from being scared I will do something wrong or hurting him. I work in surgery and I often see terrible injuries that, were most likely caused by something WAY more wild than this, but I still have the fear of causing him one of those injuries. I am so focused on making sure that I am careful not to hurt him, and that he is very satisfied, that I dont reach orgasm. Then he gets upset because he thinks I didnt enjoy it! I also feel Iike I look VERY silly wearing the strap on, I am already insecure about the way I look ( after 2 kids ) it just seems to make it worse. We have very few chances to have sex ( the 2 kids cause a distraction ) I dont want it to end badly each time. Yea, I could "Fake It" but then I am very ill and frustrated until the next time we actually get some time alone and can have sex.
I know how much he enjoys it, and I want to do it for him. Can someone please help me become more comfortable with this so that I can please him and maybey even enjoy it to?

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very new to pegging

IAmMeSoSmile — Thu, 22 Nov 2007 05:23:43 GMT

my husband just approched me a few days ago that he wanted to be pegged. needless to say he scared the daylights out of me. I can say that this web site has helped me by reading the questions and responses about different topics and that it is very "normal" for a man to want stimulation from his wife in many different ways my thing is I am scared to do him. He went and even got a strap-on for me to do him with but I am uncomfortable with the idea of doing him. Can anyone give me some advice for myself to relax and do him? I know it turns him on big time the idea of me doing him and i want to give him the satisfaction he wants but i have never done anything like this before. Help!

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nicebutthornee — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 06:45:52 GMT

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Hiring an escort to peg me

John — Fri, 16 Nov 2007 00:38:18 GMT

I want to get pegged. NOW.

There is no way I could EVER get my wife to peg me. Besides, even if she did, she'd ruin the mood with all her bitchin' and whining.

I have concidered hiring an upscale escort to strap it on and do me. Most of them will do it.

Any suggestions, comments, or personal insults that go straight to the core of who I am as a person?

Thanks.

John Mark

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Help me understand

Brad — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 16:04:40 GMT

As a total new guy, I can see the kick of having a dildo up my ass, but what is the thrill for the woman?
Brad

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