Wow, sorry to hear about your wife's new stance, but maybe a starting point would be to inquire as to why the new decision. Why/what about the last experience changed for her?? Or maybe something else, not specifically from that one time, that has caused her to change her mind. One thing is for sure, don't pressure her or you'll probably wind up cementing her opinion. Good Luck.

I'm sorry to hear that your wife doesn't want to help you in that area any longer.
I agree you should talk to her. Don't push or be angry just talk. Maybe she will
come around. Hopefully she will. Good Luck Nathan!

Sorry to hear about your wife not wanting to do any further pegging. But you might just let the idea simmer in her mind for a while, don't bring it up, and maybe a few months down the road you can watch a movie or something to open up the dialog again and see how things go. If you push her into it, I am sure you will loose, and maybe she feels threatened by the idea, so just give her some time. Good Luck.

Kevin

join the club....it really sucks finally getting what you want then having it taken away for some stupid reason. same thing happened to me and the more I asked for it she would get more and more pissed off and last time she said ask again and it's over (divorce) so my advice to you is leave it alone and hopefully she'll see the light if not, you're screwed either way....

I would recommend to all you guys with this problem to have your perspective women check out sites like this or read more on the subject that make them realize how normal and common pegging or anal play is. I was uncomfortable, but also open-minded, about pegging after my boyfriend brought it up. After I decided to do some research on my own, and stumbled upon another pegging tribe site, I started to feel way more comfortable, and rather interested in pleasing my boyfriend in new ways. Hell, just the other day I read a blog on an eco/green site that touches on the topic of the prostate! www.care2.com/greenliving...leasure.html

The same happened to me. My wife is afraid that I would have an anal addiction, forgetting common sex. I'm afraid of becoming impotent, because of lack of same intensity of pleasure; anal and prostatic are obviously better. I've got just one prostatic orgasm, feeling first I was going to piss, but it was near a prostatic orgasm. So we are both suffering, she feels she's loosing his man, and I feel I'm loosing my manhood, but at night I only could think of her pegging me, once and again, I even beg her for that.

Gentlemen, please go to your bookseller and get a book on Tantric sex. It's romantic. It's sensual. It appeals to the majority of women's emotional sensitivities and provides a pathway for what everyone on this tribe wants :)

Because it erotically and positively promotes yummy ass/prostate stimulation play for boys and yummy kitty/vaginal play for girls. The focus is: I give pleasure to you, my beloved (sex partner) and you give pleasure to me, my beloved (sex partner). You don't have to buy into any thing else beyond that, because that's it's true and real message.

Just my 2 cents. Good luck and best wishes.