nathan i know when i first tried it i was scared but as i saw the posts and information on this site and some talking with friends i became more comfortable with the idea. My husband and i have been doingit for about 18 months now and it is not often and only when we are both in the mood for it but it does take a lot of communication and trust. Give your wife time for if she is like me there is a lot of fear with this as a new experience let her read and do research about pegging and maybe she will come around for you like i did my husband. I hope she is ableto understand like i do for my husband that it is another form of love making and can be a very fun and fulfilling part of lovemaking.