About a month ago my boyfriend of only 3 months told me he liked girls to use strap-ons on him. I initially, calmly, freaked out. I had all the fears that were mentioned in other posts on here... is he really gay?... will he not want to have normal sex anymore and what fun will that be for me?... I probably won't enjoy it because it is "weird"...will it be dirty?... but after stumbling upon this "tribe" I felt soooo much better and actually really got into it the first, and one time (so far!), that we have done it.

It went fine, but since I am new to it, and we were both way too drunk, neither of us could cum! That sucked, but it in the end it was a bonding kind of experience. He asked if I enjoyed it and I told him that I would enjoy it much more if I could make him go crazy next time! Next time will probably be soon, and I really hope to see him writhe with ecstasy. Any tips for this newcomer on how to help make that happen would be appreciated!