Ever shy away from real life meeting...

I'm playing hard to get.... :)

Dunno.... water balloon fight? Teepeeing the neighbors? some sort of mischief...

I'm also NOT meeting people to hook up or date
so I think that there is a huge difference in being open about who I meet

Oh, good! If Simpleton hasn't met you either, I can stop feeling like it's *me* that's scary <lol>. Now, if we could only find a day when we could all go someplace at the same time...

I've met around half of my Tribe friends and lots of other Tribers that I don't know well enough to add to my list (mostly 'cause I sometimes blog personal stuff). Pretty much everyone has been VERY nice, and I consider some of my Tribe pals to be among my dearest RL pals now. I always meet people in a public place the first time, too, so that takes the worry out for me.

So, nope, I love meeting people IRL : ). Come play with me!!!!

>> spooked Loki, why? <<

She and I have the same way of adopting or not-adopting someone into the heartspace pretty much on first meeting. That is, we both have a way of deciding, right off the bat, whether or not we love you, and if we do, we love you pretty much wholly.

I adopted a person once that she did not adopt. It wasn't the first time for that, but it was the first time a triber came over to the house and I don't think she was prepared to see such a gorgeous woman on my arm that day. That's pretty much the size of it. It didn't cause any long-term problems at all, and I still have the friendship and I still totally love the person in question and sweetypie is cool with it: in fact, I think it's probably blown over since person ibn question has moved to the west coast of the USA and gotten herself a steady guy and all that good stuff.

My sweet lady's totally adored three tribers that visited at the house and been totally jealous of just the one. The one she was jealous over was not a big deal, there no fights or tears; but, it left a wrinkle in her mind that one day I might leave her for a woman I meet online. I won't ~ you've got to understand, I *love* this woman, I mean, holy crap I love her, like frighteningly a lot ~ and I think on some level she knows this well, but, this is part of her romance; this is how she engages in romance: it involves a certain amount of jealousy and even malice. Maybe it's a Siciliana thing; I don' t know.

The person she was spooked by is aware of it and has been 100% classy about it, and frankly, I find the whole thing sexy as hell, and so I'm not really complaining. My jealous wife is HOT. HOT!!!!!!

She's always known I was a terrible flirt, and it's not a problem for us very often, and when it is, I can't deny that the mischief in me loves it, and the hedonist in me really enjoys the process of proving, once again, that we're a solid couple, till death we won't part, and till then it's just going to have to be literally awesome lovin' forever and ever, amen.

shy away from meeting?

nah, i just go in full on. i'm not really the "shy away from" trype.

though i have adjusted meetings to include other people when the person
i'm supposed to meet seems to be having unrealistic expectations.

I'm not sure I've changed so much from back then, but I'm probably just so tired I don't give a shit, lol.