Hi all ! This tribe was recommended to me...and I agree, ...what a great tribe.
Any takers on a serious tribe identity, stalker issue or is this just for good happy sessions ;-) ? Where can I go? I feel like I am waiting at the door and need to sit on the couch. Please don't be intimidated because my dad was a shrink, non of it rubbed off. Is there a healer/comedian / shrink/lawyer in the house?
Any takers on a serious tribe identity, stalker issue or is this just for good happy sessions ;-) ? Where can I go? I feel like I am waiting at the door and need to sit on the couch. Please don't be intimidated because my dad was a shrink, non of it rubbed off. Is there a healer/comedian / shrink/lawyer in the house?
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 7:33 AMJust us chickens. :)
Is this about the photo theft person?
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 8:13 AMHowdy. We are arm chair advisors, if this works. All with different experiences.:)
Comedians?
Not us, no way. Surely not. None of us are even remotely funny. Really
*cough,cough*
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 9:41 AMThanks, I am grateful for this time ..
I found out about tribe thru my website designer who googled my real name and found HORRIBLE threads about me, using my real name , website and hometown. My designer mailed tribe and they had her remove them, but since they had been up for a year every time my name was googled those posts would appear (saved up for 4 year) and are still there sorta..tribe removed them and warned her but the leads are still there and it is damaging.. She accused me of stalking her both in tribes and in her blogs many times. . She has since posted over 50 real nasty posts about me personal stuff and always questioning my mental stability. This woman is a disgruntled student who wanted to perform before she was ready and quit my troupe in 2004...and she is still at it. She steals my photos and refuses to give me credit and she has networked with all the local belly dancers in the state to ruin my reputation. When I announce belly dancers coming to my festival she goes in and adds them to her friends list and sends them messages about what a nut cake I am and how she feels sorry for me and how sad I am. Then she invites them to stay at her house during the festival. Oh what fun..on and on and tribe does nothing. I am going nuts, I have to be on the defensive all the time and it is no fun. I live in fear at what i will find she has posted in the belly dance tribes I belong to. This is way beyond Internet harassment..it is my business and personal life at stake here. Well my time is up. Thanks for letting me vent this crap. -
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 9:52 AMWe'll take you back to talk more, if you want to, J. It's usually a good 24 hours for people to really cycle through here.
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 9:56 AMsounds good to me! -
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 10:11 AMOMG.. I'm so sorry your going through this.
First thing I would do if I were you, is starting cleaning up your friends list, only allow people you truely trust to remain. Next, mark everything you don't want this women to see as "friends only"
Consistantly send TOU links, to the posts you speak of, where she is talking filthy about you.
And if you must.. contact a lawyer to see where you stand, it sounds like Character assignation to me, but I would check into it, since you know this person outside of tribe.
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 2:13 PMWow that sounds awful :( You do need to report anything like that, people need to know they can't get away with that kinda thing.
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Tue, February 26, 2008 - 2:40 PMWow Jami, who knew the belly dancing world was so cut throat!! Hope it all gets sorted out, everyone seems nice in here so you should be safe amongst us, just don't give me your credit card details!
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Wed, February 27, 2008 - 12:00 AMIt's sad the extent to which some people will go to get their revenge. She sounds like an ego maniac. It sounds as though she's going about getting back at you for what sounds like such a minor affront to her ego. A more mature mind would've just continued with dance lessons and shown the world how good she could become, rather than trying to destroy the teacher who pointed out the actual level of her skill. -
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Re: Jamilla Tuesday 10 am. (certified interesting)
Wed, February 27, 2008 - 10:48 AM<<When I announce belly dancers coming to my festival she goes in and adds them to her friends list and sends them messages about what a nut cake I am and how she feels sorry for me and how sad I am>>
Real friends will see right through this and not believe a word of it.
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