I'm pretty new to tribe, is it always this quiet? I post messages and eagerly log on to read new posts and .... there aren't any! Anyone else getting this or am I just in the wrong tribes??
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Elizabeth
Miami
  • Re: Psychological Effects of Silence???

    Sun, April 13, 2008 - 7:40 AM
    Hi Elisabeth...

    Many tribes seem to experience migration.. being busy for a time and members moving on to new ones (or remaining members and simply having concersations in the new tribes) .. I am in many "silent" tribes... do the tribes you are a member of have recent posts ?

    Maybe if you put some of your interests into this thread - folk might be able to give you some pointers to related active tribes ?

    The ebb and flow of the weekend is weird.. .sometimes quiet and it seems everyone is off having a good time or they only tribe from work (hehehe) other times it seems weekends are used as catchup time by folk busy through the working week... I was going to be active here tonight (my time) but just spent two hours on the phone - maybe everyone is on the phone talking to tribe mates rather than posting .. or else sleeping.. a lot of a lot of folk on Tribe are Americans and maybe they were asleep ??? Even Tribe addicted Insomniacs gotta sleep some time :)

    Also - a lot of posts in my tribe list seem to be in "Private Tribes" ..

    Anyway - Welcome to tribe ! Hope you like it.. I love it !

    Bloke
    Australia
  • Re: Psychological Effects of Silence???

    Sun, April 13, 2008 - 5:04 PM
    I think Tribe is a bit quiet actually. Not every tribe, but most of them. Even the ones that have some recent posts have very few responses to any new topic that is posted. I'd love it if some of the tribes I'm in were more active. I end up joining more and more tribes so that there is usually something to talk about somewhere on my list every day.

    It does seem to have a bit of a psychological effect on me. I want more action in the tribes that interest me, and I feel members have abandoned their interests. Maybe not in their daily lives, but they don't write about it here in the way they are invited to. Some tribes have hundreds of members, but very few of those members ever post anything. I wonder how many members in most tribes actually visit tribe. There seem to be more inactive members (ones that haven't posted or altered anything in their profiles for more than two years) than there are active members in all but the newest tribes I frequent.

    What can we do? Make the action ourselves. And look for the tribes that people actually contribute to. One way to do this is look at tribes that active members belong to, bookmark those that interest you, and then join later on if you find continued activity when you go back to look at them.
    • Re: Psychological Effects of Silence???

      Sun, April 13, 2008 - 7:39 PM
      Well...........guilty as charged. After being pretty active on tribe for nearly a year, I've decided to hang back a bit - that and I'm doing other things. And yes, the better weather has a lot to do with it. In addition to the internet, I have also been known to pick up the phone and chat for lengthy periods of time with my tribe friends........at least those ones in my time zone. If Goat Lisa reads this, she will probably reply with a "are you talking about me?" Yes, Lisa, I am talking about you.

      As much as tribe is a lovely addition to my life and I do get a ton out of it - laughs, smiles, insight, intrigue, friendship, acknowledgment - I've found that getting that stuff out of RL has a different affect on me. I can't quite explain it..........I value and cherish my tribe friends and interactions - but I need the face to face and voice to voice stuff too. Oh - and a RL hug can never be replaced by the internet. Sad, but true.
      • Re: Psychological Effects of Silence???

        Sun, April 13, 2008 - 8:33 PM
        <<Oh - and a RL hug can never be replaced by the internet. Sad, but true. >>

        Dam straight Heather !!!!

        But I will give it a go.. (((((Heather)))))... nice to see you about :)

        And Christine - I totally know what you are saying.. when you have a tribe or two on a topic that is dear to you and it dies or is quiet .. ' tis a bit sad.. I try and stimulate them with threads.. and sometimes you have to be controversial to do that... but it is also a bit frustrating to see you originate all the posts in a tribe.. even if they do get replies..

        And Elisabeth.. when tribe is quite - I generally use the time to check friend profiles and read tribes I have never visited.. and like Christine, I tend to join a lot of tribes so there are some new posts to read..
        • Re: Psychological Effects of Silence???

          Tue, April 15, 2008 - 10:04 AM
          Or do what I do and don't log in for a number of weeks and then find yourself presented with hundreds and hundreds of messages.

          I do undertand the problem though, it seems to have be very quiet lately, especially when you look through a Tribe's history and see the number of posts there used to be compared to current day. Only way to get out of that is to make a concerted effort to post, the more you do so the more others will reply (hopefully). Perhaps everyone should try to think of a few new topics to post in a handful of their Tribes, if five people choose to post one new topic in five Tribes then that is 25 new posts and then hopefully that will get people talking.

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