Hello. I'm Daniel. This is apparently "a place for gay/bi men to meet up" so I'm going out on a limb and share about myself a bit and invite those who feel resonance to reply. I hope that's an OK use of this "discussion" space.

Something about me: bi/queer, poly with a beautiful partner (female) of 6 months who fully supports me meeting and being involved with others. Committed to sexual safety, honesty, and good communication. BDSM/kink-friendly, switch, flexible, open to lots of things when the emotional connection supports it. I live on the Peninsula in the SF Bay Area and have lots of interests many of which show up on my profile.

Something else: I have less experience dating and being in sexual relationship with men and on average I'm more emotionally suspicious of men. I'm more often attracted to bi/queer men, men within 5 or so years of my age (29), men who are emotionally well, men with kink/BDSM experience, men who feel spiritually plugged-in, and men who are dynamic/flexible in their gender and sexual expression.

I am blessed with quality friendships and am especially seeking someone who may wish to explore the male lover/relationship category. And no urgency vibe or immediate hook-ups from my side; I'm holding out to see if I can find a kindred spirit/friend and fantastic sex in the same male human, trusting it will happen when it's time.

Long message, thanks for taking the time. Hope everyone's enjoying as much quality companionship and juicy intimacy as they care to.

Daniel