Is there a list of questions [someplace] about open relationships to ask a partner [and yourself] to get on the same page? Are there basic aspects of open relationships that should be sussed out before diving in [do's and don'ts]? Are there some decriptions for different types of open relationship models that can serve as guidance without labeling them as "the rule" so much as pros and cons of each?

Yes a load of questions, but this is the place I think...

It would help if the response was in a bulleted format, a list of questions or a reference referral for a good source would be the response...not a long personal statement... [just a suggestion].

thanks