This is cross-posted on 2 or 3 tribes, but I just want to say hello to the tribes I can't wait to be an active member of!

Hello Lovers!

Just back in NYC from so much traveling for work that I forgot that I never really left for good. And I just moved apts and changed jobs so maybe that's where the disorientation comes from to. I'm not new to poly, just the concept that there is a much broader community out there than I ever imagined! ANyway, I'm excited to meet folks I have more in common with that poly, etc. I've had some strange and unhappy experiences trying to do that through a Yahoo group's mixers that was all about creepy guys whose wives would try to "bring me to them" like I was a meal--it was unconfortable for me but it certainly not there fault that I found myself in the wrong places. But I've been reading here and I feel like I'm in a right place. You all seem a lot more in tune with my aura. If there are any casual poly mixers out there, I love to know!

SB