shared laundry facility rules?

topic posted Fri, July 4, 2008 - 2:18 PM by  ix-chel
ok, this isn't really a pp mama thing, but a general question. for those of you who use a shared laundry facility in your building or otherwise, what are the rules of etiquette? i've never before lived somewhere where the drying of other people's laundry is so frequent. i don't want to snap at anyone, but i think it's incredibly rude to dry someone else's laundry! i mean, you don't know what setting they want to put it on, how long it needs to dry or even what shouldn't be dried! what if you shrink or damage their stuff! i've never experienced this before & i thought i nipped it in the bud the first few times a neighbor dried my stuff, but now 3 different neighbors have taken the liberty of drying my shit & i don't want to come off as ungrateful, but it needs to stop! i'd so much rather they set my wet laundry aside than go ahead & dry it. it makes me feel like i owe them something. have any advice?
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ix-chel
Portland
  • Re: shared laundry facility rules?

    Sat, July 5, 2008 - 1:33 PM
    while it's a pain to have to deal with someone's neglected wet laundry, these people are nuts! i would never, never dry someone else's laundry ... who knows what's in there that could be ruined!

    i'd leave a note, too .. and a spare laundry basket is a great idea.
  • Re: shared laundry facility rules?

    Mon, July 7, 2008 - 8:42 AM
    never heard of that before. i lived in one building where people were reticent about touching each other's laundry (though there were only three machines and about 30 units in the building) and another where we have about 10 of each everybody always takes each other's stuff out if there's no washers or dryers left and the owner of the stuff is not present to deal with it themselves.

    are your machines pay machines? i guess in my buildings nobody puts the dryer on because it costs money.

    i'm such a carefree laundress i'd be nothing but happy if somebody dried my laundry -- bras be damned, i hate laundry.

    don't you and your partner oversee renting in your bldg? if so, can't you be kind of high handed and make policy for the whole bldg and not worry about posting a note everytime? it seems fair enough to ask that people just remove stuff from the machines and put it in the provided basket(s).

    i know this must be a real pain with diapers involved at all. yay EC!

    • Re: shared laundry facility rules?

      Mon, July 7, 2008 - 11:29 AM
      details: our machines (one washer, one dryer) are pay machines. we have 8 units with a total of 14 people making laundry. i have thought about writing up a list of rules, such as liquid users wipe up your fucking mess, don't dry each others' stuff, etc, but i hate coming off as some bossy mother hen. this is what mystifies me; people are so willing to spend their quarters (or as i call them, laundry tokens.) to dry my laundry! and they never put it hot enough or long enough, so all my shit is damp at the end of the cycle anyway!

      well, i've drawn a little sign that will stay in my laundry basket so i never forget it. i'm feeling pretty confident & at the same time, i'm feeling kinda "duh" for not thinking of it myself!

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