the influences of our youth

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With the death of Michael Jackson I have been thinking a lot about the things, events and icons that helped shape my youth....

tell us, what icons, movements or events shaped your life?
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  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:50 AM
    Mr. Carredio, US history teacher. Taught me critical thinking. He's an Icon to me.
    • Re: the influences of our youth

      Sun, June 28, 2009 - 9:52 PM
      Glad to see a teacher cited.

      Mine was Mr. George Lanchinese, Social Studies teacher. Ditto on critical thinking, through in personal integrity.

      Lanchinese got into hot water because of his strict grading. Parents did not like their perfect children getting blasted for bad grammar and spelling in a Social Studies class. . .

      Then there was the "Tiny" project:
      "Tiny" was a lummox; undoubtedly slow, who had been passed from grade to grade.
      Lanchinese moved him to the front of the class, and announced the injustice of assuming that someone could not learn. He said "Tiny" would get a "C" in this class, and would earn his grade fairly, because his fellow students should, and would give him any help he needed.

      He hinted it would be extremely hard for anyone in the class to get an "A" if "Tiny" failed to get his "C".

      Social Studies in real time, folks. Being a good citizen requires involvement.

      "Tiny" got that "C". Earned every bit of it.

      I can still quote George Lanchinese at length. The man dripped wisdom, logic, and responsibility in his sweat.
  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:52 AM
    I was on a tennis team for 6 years in junior an dhigh school. Being athletic, commited to a team, having healthy fun with others made its mark for me. I am forever grateful to our tennis coach.

    My school teachers in high school. Being in organizations in high school and college.

    I do remember clearly taking a day off from college classes for a demonstration teach-in about human rights and having a 6 credit semester class dropped an entire grade as a punishment for wanting to know about the world! We were in a rural area, that college and it was only 1970.

    From a small town and college then, I worked for an international airline and flew all over the world.. my world view changed and expanded as the 70's movements grew! My life was formed those years.. liberal, educated, learnign from the Experiemntal College and began yoga which I still study and teach. I play Woodstock music full blast! "It's a free concert from now on!"

    Much more but that is some deep roots..
    • Re: the influences of our youth

      Fri, June 26, 2009 - 1:26 PM
      The teachers in school, especially Mrs. Bernstein in the 6th grade. When my parents constantly called me stupid even when I brought home test scores of 95%, the teachers always praised me and gave me the confidence and knowledge that I was extremely smart. One want so far as to tell me "don't let anybody hold you back!" Funny when you hear it outside your home, but true. Next I'd say books, because they took me to places and introduced me to people I wouldn't have ordinarily met in my environment. I quenched my thirst for knowledge and it continues to this day.
  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Sat, June 27, 2009 - 10:13 AM
    I was a freshman in highschool when the genocide in Rwanda happened. I was well self absorbed and in my little bubble as any 14 year old teenager was. I remember seeing actual footage of bodies in rivers, desolated villages, people/children dead...everywhere. It hit me so hard, unlike anything I had ever been aware of up to that point in my life. It was a significant moment in which I was very aware of the world beyond my back yard. I am 33 now and it is still significant to me.
  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Sat, June 27, 2009 - 11:53 AM
    Gulf War 1.0 (Okay, so I was young, but not a kid anymore...still, a huge influence on me and my politics)

    The Red Scare - Nuclear War (was overjoyed when Gorbachev appeared)

    Three's Company (I grew up in a place where two girls and a guy was...well..."wrong")

    Finding out that my best friend's parents were swingers. (see above)

    Feminism (took years of deprogramming to recover from the lies accepted as facts by my brain with this one)

    Camping, canoe trips, hiking, fishing, hunting, building a house...the things I did with my Dad. They influenced me way more than I gave credit for at the time...in very positive ways. Life affirming...masculinity affirming. Thank you, Dad!

    Other than Three's Company, I can't think of any stars or cultural icons of that sort that really shaped me a ton...or at least not in a memorable way where I look back and think, "yeah, that was a role model, or a thing I learned to avoid." I guess I don't take celebrities all that seriously. They're for entertainment mostly...not shaping our lives...that's my context for them.
    • Re: the influences of our youth

      Sat, June 27, 2009 - 2:22 PM
      Beverly Hillbillies, Barney Fife, Gilligan's Island (MaryAnn was HOT!), Mickey Mouse Club sicko wierdo Annette Funicello as a Malibu surfer girl, Cap'n Kirk and Spock...Heeeeeeere's Johnny from just-died Ed McMahon. Oh what wonderful cultural Icons we were surrounded with in the glory days of 60-70s television.

      hahahaha I just couldn't resist a little sarcasm...

      Okay, seriously. A human stepping onto the moon, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Handbook to Higher Consciousness, Bruce Lee, Ken Kesey, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Max Headroom, my Granny K with her ever-present bowl of wiggly Jello in her fridge no matter when I happened to show up. Always had fruit in it, too, spread out perfectly through the entire bowl. How did grannies do that without having the fruit all settle to the bottom? Grandma magic??

      Then there was practicing Duck & Cover drills in elementary school with Bert the Turtle singing in the background on the projector after already having seen my Peace and Freedom Party anti-war activist stepmom's films of what happened to Hiroshima and Nagasaki along with the bomb tests in Nevada and the Pacific Islands (San Diego was a #1 target and we knew it as kids). Having my Uncle Kenny come home in a really little box from Nam, then a bunch of my older peer group surfer friends do the same thing a couple years later. Ronald Reagan as the governor of my state as a teen, then he becomes the disaster of a moron in chief as president a decade later. Watching cops smash into places and just enjoy beating people who weren't doing anything but covering their heads on the ground while they got stomped and then were charged with "resisting arrest" and "assault on an officer" (must have bruised their fists on their faces and kidneys)...then having it happen to me.

      Both good and bad, we are all such a HUGE collection of past influences, aren't we? Just all mixed up in a big stew!
    • Re: the influences of our youth

      Sun, June 28, 2009 - 11:50 AM
      Okay...in thinking about it...there are some cultural things that really heavily influenced me...in music and books:

      The Beatles
      Lennon and "Imagine"
      Bob Dylan - especially Masters of War and The Times They Are A-Changin'
      Pink Floyd - Animals, Wish You Were Here, Dark Side of the Moon
      The Doors

      Illuminatus! by Robert Anton Wilson
      More Than Human by Theodore Sturgeon
      Nightfall by Isaac Asimov
      H.G. Wells
      Edgar Allen Poe
      Shakespeare
      Lewis Carrol
      Mark Twain

      And on that note, I'll leave you with a few influential quotes:

      "If you take a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite your hand. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man." - Mark Twain

      "I told you so, you damned fools!" - H.G. Wells self-written epitaph in reference to witnessing his predictions of the atomic bomb come to pass shortly before his death

      ------
      And this, from Alice's Adventures in Wonderland - sage wisdom in comedic form:

      The Hatter opened his eyes very wide on hearing this; but all he SAID was, `Why is a raven like a writing-desk?'

      `Come, we shall have some fun now!' thought Alice. `I'm glad they've begun asking riddles.--I believe I can guess that,' she added aloud.

      `Do you mean that you think you can find out the answer to it?' said the March Hare.

      `Exactly so,' said Alice.

      `Then you should say what you mean,' the March Hare went on.

      `I do,' Alice hastily replied; `at least--at least I mean what I say--that's the same thing, you know.'

      `Not the same thing a bit!' said the Hatter. `You might just as well say that "I see what I eat" is the same thing as "I eat what I see"!'

      `You might just as well say,' added the March Hare, `that "I like what I get" is the same thing as "I get what I like"!'

      `You might just as well say,' added the Dormouse, who seemed to be talking in his sleep, `that "I breathe when I sleep" is the same thing as "I sleep when I breathe"!'

      `It IS the same thing with you,' said the Hatter, and here the conversation dropped, and the party sat silent for a minute, while Alice thought over all she could remember about ravens and writing-desks, which wasn't much.
  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Sun, June 28, 2009 - 2:33 AM
    The Beatles and the Maharishi. Space exploration. Vietnam and its lessons. Rock. Summer of Love. Probably more, but those come to mind off the top of my head.
    • Re: the influences of our youth

      Sun, June 28, 2009 - 9:03 AM
      Heavy metal music was a huge influence on my youth. That kind of music has supported what I really felt about myself and the world around me to this day.

      It gave a voice to my understanding that the universe is filled with magic and that I can be a part of that magic. (Ronnie James Dio, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden). Heavy metal taught me that I can kick ass and be stronger than those who try to drag me down (Judas Priest, Disturbed, more Iron Maiden, AC/DC) And that love, lust, joy, and good friends are the keys to the happiness of life (AC/DC, Van Halen & Hagar, Ozzy Osbourne, Kid Rock, etc)
      • Re: the influences of our youth

        Sun, June 28, 2009 - 4:34 PM
        I was a product of the 80s, but can't say it meant a whole lot to me. Who/what stands out? Actually, Thriller does stand out as a memory... In the classroom, perhaps my junior and senior year English Lit. professor who impacted me strongly. He was the only good teacher there. It
        was in his classroom that I learned about the spaceship Challenger.
  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:59 PM
    My grandmother...toughest person I ever met with the biggest heart to match

    Mr. Lipskee - 5th grade teacher - Learned to appreciate astronomy, science, history and being myself without following anyone

    My high school English Teacher - who's name escape - learned to appreciate poetry

    My music teacher Mr. Hughes - encouraged my pagan beliefs since he introduced me to interfaith studies

    My Science teacher in the 9the grade - Mr. Berman - made me love science even more


  • Re: the influences of our youth

    Tue, June 30, 2009 - 9:15 AM
    Many, many things, in no particular chonological order...

    Robert A. Heinlein's "Have Spacesuit, Will Travel."

    Susan Cooper's "The Dark is Rising" books.

    Robert Lois Stevenson's "Treasure Island"

    Disney's "Bedknobs and Broomsticks"

    "Mike Mulligan and his Steam Shovel", by Virginia Lee.

    My grandfather taking me "rambling" through the woods and swamps and showing me what things you can eat and teaching me about critters and bringing home lots of magnets from work for me to experiment with (he was a maintenance guy in a hospital). He even showed me how to make an electromagnet from the rheostat in my toy train set. And took me to climb on bulldozers at construction sites after hours. And made the sound effects for Mike Mulligan's steam shovel.

    My father, who taught me about integrity, honor, hard work, and self-discipline. And doing the right thing, no matter what. And helping those in need if I can help.

    My mother, who taught me about being true to myself, family values, faith, and self-renewal. And about being courageous. And about the importance of believing in myself.

    My little sister who was always there. We taught each other about loyalty, protectiveness, imagination, and mischief. And how to not get caught.

    My best friend who was (and is) like a brother, who has an incredible moral compass. He kept me out of trouble.

    The lady at the zoo who scolded me for dropping spit on the aligator from the boardwalk way up high. She's right. It didn't hurt anything, but I still shouldn't have done that.

    Mrs. Anderson and Mrs. Nichols who made middle school interesting. As promised, my first book will (eventually) be dedicated to Mrs. Nichols.

    Mr. Lyda who taught me to play the trombone and how to march.

    Mr. Rogers in high school who made us march and march and march and let us have fun.

    Dr. Deluzain who made me *think* in 11th and 12th grade English.

    Mr. McGhee who taught us many things that weren't in the Religions of the World book.

    Dr. Mix who made my life hell in University Physics I and II. It almost made me drop of of school at the time, but because I hung in there it made the rest of college seem remarkably easy by comparison.

    Heathcliff cartooons.

    Douglas Adams.

    Edgar Rice Burroughs.

    Richard Bach.

    T.H. White: "The Once and Future King."

    "Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind" by Shunryu Suzuki.

    The fall of the Berlin Wall.

    The Challenger explosion.

    That one guy standing in front of the tank in Tieneman Square.

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