lol Edward...they were lying...

Exio...that's if you are with your same mind...

Hey ever watch the movie switch?

Rob, hey sweetie. Actually I didn't even consider it. I thought your question was, what would we do if we 'could'. KWIM?

I didn't assume it had anything to do with sex. My brain just went there.

One thing I'd definitely do as a guy would be to build a platform for my motorcycle so the female me could turn it around in my steep downhill garage without having to ask a man for help.

Rob, I've had men say things to me that make me realize we women can have it much easier than you guys. I've been told, look it's not a matter of 'if' when you go out and you want it, it's which one, or which one(s). Mostly, true. Not to be arrogant, because that I am not, but yes it is that easy most of the time. Not always, by any means.

But the good looking men I meet seem to do pretty well. They are not hurting for attention. I think the difference is, not all women want to bring it home, and most men are willing to, if the energy is right. I did on fairly regular occasion when in the mood the past couple years, but stopped when I was done with the occasional visitor experience. When I started wanting a companion and enjoying them, and had to take what I was doing more seriously, because I didn't want to hurt people, I changed my one night or casual night ways.

I don't consider this dynamic 'power'. And I've seen the way I and other women react to men I'm into. I am not sure who has the most power. ;-) If a man meets a pretty woman at a bar and wants to take her home for fun, he usually leaves it there. That gives him power. If a woman says no because she really likes him and wants him to not take her lightly, he still has power. She is denying herself physical pleasure because she may want more from him. See my point? I think it's really important for both partners to give themselves the gift of honesty and self-awareness, because then both are served well. I did not hide my lack of commitment the past couple years, and I never felt guilt or discomfort with the short-term lovers I had. So I gave myself power, and feel they enjoyed their own, as well.

You just did not take all the various diseaes that can be communicated on the sexual front., Edouard, including some that are live-long and /or mortal.
i think that the scenario is just a fantasy....
and you can go read Looking for Mr Goodbar for the rest of the story.