Hey what's up?
I hope eveything is everything you all hoped it would be so far this day...if not, then YOU must do what YOU need to do to make it happen!
anyway, I need some feedback on a subject that is near and dear to my heart, that is friendship relationship issues.
Has anybody ever hurt a friend and then tried to reconcile the relationship?
please offer some "practical" ways to mend the friendship eventhough the person hurt won't let go of the pain though they say the've forgiven.
Losing a friend (I mean a "real" 25 years plus friend) is like experiencing a death of a loved one...can anybody relate?
I hope I'm not bring anybody down with this one but; I wanted to know how the "real lovers of love" deal with friendship relationship issues.
have fun and enjoy your day!
Felicia :)
I hope eveything is everything you all hoped it would be so far this day...if not, then YOU must do what YOU need to do to make it happen!
anyway, I need some feedback on a subject that is near and dear to my heart, that is friendship relationship issues.
Has anybody ever hurt a friend and then tried to reconcile the relationship?
please offer some "practical" ways to mend the friendship eventhough the person hurt won't let go of the pain though they say the've forgiven.
Losing a friend (I mean a "real" 25 years plus friend) is like experiencing a death of a loved one...can anybody relate?
I hope I'm not bring anybody down with this one but; I wanted to know how the "real lovers of love" deal with friendship relationship issues.
have fun and enjoy your day!
Felicia :)
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Thu, August 2, 2007 - 2:24 PMI've been through something similar to that. A friend of mine back when we were still in school had this erroneous impression that I was having a go at his woman, simply because she and I knew ourselves from way back. There was nothing going on between us, but since I couldn't make the risk of losing my buddy's friendship, I had to have a sort of peace offering ... even though I wasn't really at fault or anything close to it. Sometimes you just have to do what it is you have to do, even when you really don't have to. -
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Fri, August 3, 2007 - 5:42 AMPhilip, I like the idea of a peace offering.
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Fri, August 3, 2007 - 6:20 AMIf you want to, yes that would be a frist step in the right direction. As long as you're being true both to yourself, your God, and to your friend. You've got to create a suitable environment where you and the person can patch things up.
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Fri, August 3, 2007 - 5:19 AMFelicia, you need to find the real compatibility. Only in this way you will find the exceptional level of real love. -
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Fri, August 3, 2007 - 5:37 AMGreetings Igor,
you are right...if there was real compatibility there would be an equal amount of attention given to the maintanence of the love. All involved would be equally responsible for the upkeep of the relationship. I understand that intertwined in love is pain and it is going to happen as long as we are on this earth. It is inevitable that we will hurt the ones we love over and over and over. If there was "real compatibility" we would know this and understand that love repairs itself and then we could grow from this point.
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Sat, August 4, 2007 - 10:13 PMDo not leave the efforts to reconsile. There are many interesting cards available at net. Send them freqently. Do not let ego come in way when one attempts to reconsile.
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Re: I was just wondering what the lovers of "Real Love" have to say...
Mon, August 6, 2007 - 5:29 AMhello Arun, thanks to you and to everyone of you "lovers of real love" who responded.
...good words from all of you
I am happy to report that I was persistent in my quest to make amends with my friend and it has paid off, we talked over the weekend. It is still very early and we are both kinda tip-toeing around each other being careful not to push any buttons. At least we are talking :)
enjoy!
Felicia :)
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