The real love relations (relations without conflicts) can also be understood through the words synergy and exclusiveness.
Synergy happens when man and woman (as unique personalities) form unity (their internal mutual world) to be more adjusted to external world (that is around them). So, such synergy is, first and foremost, based on cooperation. But can the woman be cooperative with man?
In exceptional variant of man-woman combinations - yes.
For cooperation, man needs woman's agree-ability.
In my experience and opinion, woman is more irrational, than rational creature. So, woman's agree-ability depends on how man SOUNDS TO WOMAN, not on the reasoning logic, included in his speech. Her perception is more subjective, than objective. So, this is a reaction on revealed personality (in broaden sense) in his words.
In ordinary relations the man's words sound strange to woman. In exceptional variant man gets the solidarity and cooperability of woman, because he SOUNDS TO HER GOOD (positively).
So, there are two reactions on man's speech: PRO and CONTRA. PRO is exceptional variant. CONTRA is ordinary relations.
The relations based on synergy and solidarity of woman with man are exceptional. This gives the feeling of exclusiveness in relations.
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With interest,
Igor Ternovski