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topic posted Sun, June 4, 2006 - 5:19 PM by  Alex
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Amendment bid to limit unions to men, women
By Peter Baker, Washington Post | June 4, 2006

WASHINGTON -- For the first time in his second term, President Bush will revisit the emotional debate over same-sex marriage. In two speeches, he will press the Senate to approve a constitutional amendment this week defining marriage as the union of a man and woman.

Bush's opposition to marriage between gay partners helped power him to reelection in 2004, but since then he has remained largely silent on the issue, to the consternation of some conservatives who have asserted that he has not exerted leadership.

Now, with midterm elections approaching, he is returning to a topic that galvanizes an (redneck) important part of the Republican base.




Um people ..... We have REAL issues in this country.

what an asshat


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  • While we are seeking to restrict the “Activist Judges” in this country with an amendment to the constitution prohibiting same sex marriage perhaps it is time to take a look at another “activist” judgment: Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1 (1967), in which the United States Supreme Court declared Virginia's anti-miscegenation statute, the "Racial Integrity Act of 1924", unconstitutional, thereby ending all race-based legal restriction on marriage in the United States.

    Hail Bush!
    • its vital that we fight the War on Sodomy....our Dear Leader thus commands.
      • What is sad is that people buy into this shit.
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          <What is sad is that people buy into this shit.>

          re-worded: "what is GOOD is that people don't buy into any LIBERAL shit, because shit, it is -- to the tune of the left not controlling a single branch of government." but, of course, in left-world, no one is to blame for having NO message--so, blame karl rove! can you say 'pathetic'?
          • I do not understand is how gay marriage affects those who are heterosexual--why the public outrage? The legal status of a gay person's relationship in no way negatively affects the lives of others, if they mind their damn business.
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            Salil, the public was at one point against interracial marriage too, but when it was finally legalised in the early Seventies, did the world end? Whose lives has its legality ruined? It only affected those desiring to enter into unions with people whose skin pigmentation differed from their own. This is similar--a hot button for conservative Christians, sure, but certainly not an infringement on their right to judge, condemn, bitch, and discriminate.
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            Seth, rant all you want about "LIBERAL shit," but do you not find it all ridiculous that our brave and fearless leader selects now as the time to reignite the fires of controversy around gay marriage and flag burning? And don't you think this will shore up his favour with the Religious Right?

            Is it not disappointing that amendments outlawing gay marriage and flag burning are foremost on Mr Bush's mind at a time when: we're losing wars against terror (and drugs); contemplating armed aggression against Iraq (and N. Korea); posting armed forces at our southern borders to keep them damned wetbacks from tryin' to pick our produce; curtailing the freedoms of speech and reproduction, and the rights to privacy and due process; Americans travelling abroad face greater risks because we are increasingly detested; our deficit is at its all-time highest; resignations and allegations of impropriety in the current Presidential administration abound; and Presidential approval ratings are abysmally low, even according to FOX News?

            I challenge you to disagree constructively with my assertions above while answering the question I asked. Failing that, I challenge you to make a logical, linear argument proving that, by making said assertions, I am merely parroting a liberal party line, mouthing rumours and lies, and generally being a puppet of the bleeding hearts who have no stomach for the real work necessary in this country.
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              First off, did I defend the gay marriage ban?

              No.

              I merely made a statement of fact.

              Also, to say we're losing the war on terror and drugs is absolutely ridiculous.

              illicit drug use has been declining for well over a decade, and we've gone from 1 AQ successful attack against non-combat US assets every 1.5 years to none since 9/11

              Domestic terrorist bombings, including abortion clinic attacks, since just after 9/11

              and since 2002 we havent had any other sort of successful domestic terror plots.
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              <do you not find it all ridiculous that our brave and fearless leader ...>

              in fact he is quite brave and very fearless. not a single democrat has a different plan from the one he implemented wih regard to the middle east. now, some fools like murtha and kerry are caling for withdrawal by the end of the year, but thaT IS INSANE AND EVERYONE KNOWS IT. BUSH WAS IN THE HOT SEAT AND HE LED--UNLIKE CLINTON, THE wimp.

              <...selects now as the time to reignite the fires of controversy around gay marriage and flag burning? And don't you think this will shore up his favour with the Religious Right? >

              i hope so. i'm against gays being married --not because they are 'less' than hetero's, but children shold be raised by a man and a woman. we cannot condone marriage by any other name because its not marriage. civil unions, no problem. if in fact it's politically mptivated, i have no problem with it--whatever it takes to keep power out of the hands of democrats--at all costs, i am for. the Left is not responsible, as is evidenced by the last 6 years out of power. they have no idea which end is up and you know it. anything to keep them out.
              • Why do you say children SHOULD be raised by a man and woman? Shouldn' t they be raised by those who love them and wouldn't dream of hurting them, folks who would move heaven and earth for them to ensure they're safe, clothed, educated, fed? Isn't that what's paramount?
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                  children should be given a chance to be raised by a man and a women. that is natural. a traditional marriage provides this. they can never get the same nourishment--i do not care how the ;eft spins it-- from a same sexed couple, nor should they. furthermore, you cannot have children grow up in the confused atmosphere of man-man is equal to man-woman. i feel bad for homosexuals that this is the way it has to be for the good of our children and society, but in fact it is.
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                    <i feel bad for homosexuals that this is the way it has to be for the good of our children and society, but in fact it is.>

                    I was raised by a mother who allowed a brutal step-father to abuse me. I don't believe that is a better upbringing than being raised by two loving parents, whatever their gender. I feel bad for anyone who can't see that simple, compassionate reality.
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                    You baffle me, Seth.

                    Tue, June 6, 2006 - 10:48 AM
                    Seth, I know you will almost instinctively reject the ideas contained in my post, but I will post anyway, with the hope you will resist your automatic responses of, "that's just how the left spins it."

                    >> Children should be given a chance to be raised by a man and a women [sic] . . . <<

                    What does this have to do with gay marriage? Adoption and foster care by gays, and reproductive freedom regardless of sexual orientation, are two separate issues unrelated to whether gays will or should have marital rights. "Traditional" couples fail to marry half the time--what, are we going to outlaw gay marriage, and mandate hetero marriage of parents?

                    I fail to understand why the Right continues to pretend it cares about (American) children and their welfare. Were they a priority, our Child and Family Services/ Department of Social Services programs would not be as undermanned, underpaid, under-funded, unappreciated, and overworked as they are. We would worry less about welfare moms' income and more about whether they had access to education, health insurance, and housing, making it likely they were able to get off the welfare rolls, and that their children did not repeat the cycle.

                    >> . . . [Y]ou cannot have children grow up in the confused atmosphere of man-man is equal to man-woman. <<

                    Though its bigoted stance is clear, what, precisely, does this mean? Please explain it to me.

                    It has been consistently shown, in study after study since (at least) the Seventies, that a child's sexual identity is not tied to that of his parent, that homosexuals are just as likely as heterosexuals to raise hetero children. I know this as a man with a psych degree, and a man with extensive experience in social services, trying to house children with folk who were not going to abuse or neglect their young charges.

                    The last year of my employment as a state social worker there were easily over a thousand displaced children living in group homes, juvenile lockup, or moving from crisis (three-day) placement to crisis placement. That year, 2002, only *eighty-five* people were approved for foster parenting.

                    These kids develop attachment disorders, abandonment issues, problems coping, emotional instability, etc., while in the system, and precious few folk want to care for damaged children, especially for the rate paid by state agencies. To turn away a gay couple that passes all standards for foster care/adoption is as ignorant, shortsighted, and criminal as refusing to unite an interested white couple with a black kid. Hide behind faux morality and mores all you want, but face the facts: the children who fall between the cracks of the system, through either the willful stupidity of administrators or the reluctance of ordinary people to help, become the adults of whom you are afraid.

                    The government—Right AND Left—would be much more effective addressing this instead of gay marriage, but no, homophobia and “liberating” Iran’s children is more important, I guess.

                    >> [Children] can never get the same nourishment from a same sexed couple [as from a heterosexual couple] . . . <<
                    How do you know?

                    >> . . . nor should they. <<

                    Why?
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                      Re: You baffle me, Seth.

                      Tue, June 6, 2006 - 1:11 PM
                      ba,
                      with all due respect to your pysch degree and social work, i don't put a lot of weight in 'studies'. i go by common sense as a father of three. i don't want my kids growing up thinking there's a choice to be a homosexual. if, they happen to be a homosexual, i will love and support them as much as i would if they were straight. but making it an equal choice (thats what legalized gay marriage would do) does not fly with me or most parents. we don't care if our kids end up gay, but we don't want them to be--we think that being straight is a more normal lifestyle and that's what we wish for. sorry of the truth disturbs. i know you've got your "you're a homophobe" dagger out, but the charge simply isn;t true. some people believe that you have a gene that makes you gay. if that were true, i'd support gay marriage. but, i don't think it's true in the least. it's probably somewhat true. certain people are just born gay. that's fine. i believe that it is a choice for many people as well. and i don't want that choice to be put in front of my children. finally, i believe, deeply, that the overwhelming amount of children, living with a mother and a father, are way better off than children raised by same sex parents. the left must knock down this idea by talking about rampant child abuse and failed marriages. but, since i think the left has zero credibility in any area of life--any area of life -- i believe that whatever they tell you, the opposite is true.
          • re-worded: BALA Bla bla blaallala


            Yeah yeah we have heard it Seth. Sing a new song. And fucking tell it to my heart...
            • First off, did I defend the gay marriage ban?

              No.

              I merely made a statement of fact. "

              So what was your POINT?

              Do you even have one?
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                yes, my point is that congress is supposed to represent the people. If the people that want something that may violate the constitution, it is congress' DUTY to amend the Constitution.

                Maybe remedial civics would be helpful.
                • and my point is sometimes people want something that is dead wrong. perhaps having a soul would help
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                    Well, sorry, the government isnt here to have a soul, its here to operate within the boundaries set forth by a little thing called the Constitution.

                    And who the *hell* are *you* to dictate whats right and wrong?

                    EVERY major religion in the WORLD demands homosexuality be repressed. Everything from Islam to Hinduism, Buddhists to Christians, and various animists to Shinto.

                    If Homosexuality is ok, then why not polygamy? Can't consenting adults do what they want? Hell, why have any norms and mores at all then?

                    Look, I don't give a rats ass if you or anyone else wants to bugger another dude, and hell, I'm all for chick on chick experimentation, but the fact of the matter is most of the world thinks its abhorrently wrong, and *your* singular opinion in a democratic republic is fairly irrelevant.
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                      It's the next step in the civil rights continuum. Nothing is going to stop it.

                      And I don't give a rat's ass about polygamy - it's just harder to keep track of property that way.

                      It's pretty funny that you threw animists in there with "major religions." To which animist traditions do you refer? There are certainly plenty of animist traditions that embrace homosexuality.
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                        Why is it funny? Animists still make up a significant portion of the global population.

                        I'm not sure that you can say there are 'plenty' animist traditions that 'embrace' it

                        there are animist traditions that have a limited place in their society for homosexuality, yes, like the southeastern native american tribes, and others that have limited acceptance for certain practices (west african manhood rituals), but to say that they 'embrace it' is far from true.

                        Africa is a great example though, everywhere outside of South Africa (the first equal rights for gays/lesbians Constitution) has prohibitions against homosexuality, and they base these laws on their deep traditions, including their animist religions.

                        "Homosexuality is against African norms and traditions, even in religion it is considered a great sin," former president of Kenya Daniel Arap Moi


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                          I just needed clarification - the neo-pagan movement worldwide is very homosexual friendly. I see what you're saying now.
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                            right, so the moral and religious traditions of the vast majority of humans on the earth today abhor homosexuality.

                            why are you so sure YOU are right?
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                              <why are you so sure YOU are right?>

                              The "moral and religious traditions" have failed. I don't give a shit about them and their priorities. I care about civil rights.
                              • And Bush cares naught for civil rights, but for the approval points from the morally outraged, as they are in the 'vast majority.'
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                                  stop misusing 'civil rights'

                                  Bush obviously cares deeply for civil rights - we aren't living in anything close to a police state right now, and we easily could be.

                                  What I find amusing is that you think that the President should advocate something that is so clearly against what the majority wants, but only in *this* case.
                                  • yer saying an equal right to marriage isnt a civil right?
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                                      Do you even know what a civil right is?

                                      obviously not, because if you did, you'd know that an 'equal right to marriage' is not protected in any way shape or form in the Constitution or the USC, therefore there's no way that its a 'civil right'

                                      I can reccomend some intro civics books for you
                                      • 14th amendment? recommend books all you want but i can read the constitution.
                                        "No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."

                                        eat it up bitch. ill take that apology any time.
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                                          Howabout you learn to read, bitch?

                                          nowhere in 14th amendment is any protection of marriage states or implied.

                                          I'll take that apology for being a moron any time now.
                                          • "I'll take that apology for being a moron any time now."

                                            go ahead and tell yerself yer sorry!
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                                              Hey, einstein, learn to read.

                                              I said there was no Constitutional protection for MARRIAGE.

                                              There's not.

                                              I also said that homosexuals are completely protected via the 14th amendment. They are allowed to marry exactly who straight people are allowed to marry. thats EQUAL PROTECTION. and its not thin at all. its exactly why SCOTUS hasn't picked up one of these cases.
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                                                <They are allowed to marry exactly who straight people are allowed to marry.>

                                                This is true.

                                                The Constitution was never intended to ensure equal rights for all citizens. Hence, the 14th and 19th amendments and the need for an ERA.
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                                                  So the whole 'equal rights' and 'civil rights' argument for gary marriage is totally logically fallacious.

                                                  I
                                                  • whose gary? and when are you guys getting married? Wont you be a bigamist then?
                                                    • Chill, Paul.
                                                      • ill pass.
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                                                          Yeah, you'll pass, because you can't engage in a real discussion.

                                                          The fact remains, the 'equal rights' and 'civil rights' argument simply doesnt hold water when discussing gay rights.
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                                                            <The fact remains, the 'equal rights' and 'civil rights' argument simply doesnt hold water when discussing gay rights.>

                                                            Not in the context of the Constitution as it stands. Rather than try to get the existing language to protect gay rights, we should ressurect an Equal Rights Amendment.
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                                                              Right - I'mnot contesting that - that argument is totally sound.

                                                              But thats not the argument the pro-gay-marriage lobby is making.

                                                              they're presenting a fallacious argument in order to present themselves as somehow being treated unequally, and thats bullshit.
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                                                                <they're presenting a fallacious argument in order to present themselves as somehow being treated unequally, and thats bullshit.>

                                                                I understand that, but I don't think most of the protestors realize how full of loopholes is the Bill of Rights. I don't think they mean to be fallacious, but they're spinning their wheels.
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                                                                  Look, it doesnt matter what they 'mean to be'

                                                                  they are presenting their case as if they are some how being treated differently, or unequally, than straight people, under the law.

                                                                  This is simply not true.

                                                                  It is a fallacious argument, and its manufactured to appeal to a sense of fairness and equality in Americans by painting themselves as victims of unfair and unequal treatment.

                                                                  that's bogus.
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                                                                    <It is a fallacious argument, and its manufactured to appeal to a sense of fairness and equality in Americans by painting themselves as victims of unfair and unequal treatment.>

                                                                    You're right. They're a bunch of felatious fags. Shame on them.
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                                                                      that's cute - but its also just ducking the issue.
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                                                                        <that's cute - but its also just ducking the issue.>

                                                                        I am not ducking anything. You and I obviously don't agree and we won't agree on this. I don't think that all the people who support gay marriage and abhor the idea of a gay marriage amendment are intentionally misinterpreting the Constitution. I think that a lot of well-intentioned people truly believe that the founding fathers believed in love and brotherhood for all and that when they said "all men are created equal," they meant all people. What you and I understand is that they were talking directly to a monarch and thumbing their noses at the idea of the inherent divinity of persons of royal lineage who happen to end up on the throne.
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                                                                          none of that has anything to do with what I am saying.

                                                                          I don't care how well intentioned they are - misrepresenting their situation is unacceptable.

                                                                          If slavery were argued against because "slaves are being used to mate with horses and create a new race of horse people" it wouldn't matter that slavery was wrong, the argument would be bullshit.

                                                                          The *fact* is gay people are equal under the law, and for them to insist that they aren't is merely a ploy, conscious or not, to play to people's emotions, rather than reason.
                                                                          • We all know that being equal under the law and equal in society are two different things, however. We also know that since gay marriage is not a thing which abridges OTHER people's rights, to pass an amendment specifically outlawing it would surely abridge their right to the pursuit of happiness.
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                                                                              Uh, yeah BA, it does abridge my right.

                                                                              See, if gay people are allowed to marry members of the same sex, but straight people arent, then gays have more rights than straights.

                                                                              this is basic John Stuart Mill, people.
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                                                                                <See, if gay people are allowed to marry members of the same sex, but straight people arent, then gays have more rights than straights.>

                                                                                That makes no sense.
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                                                                                  Yes, it makes complete sense.

                                                                                  Seriously, this is elementary, guys.

                                                                                  BA - straight people ARE NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY WHOMEVER THEY WANT

                                                                                  straight people can ONLY marry someone of the opposite sex

                                                                                  gay people can ONLY marry someone of the opposite sex

                                                                                  if gays can marry someone of the same sex, but straight people can't, then gays have broader rights than straights.
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                                                                                    < Yes, it makes complete sense.>

                                                                                    No, it doesn't.

                                                                                    <if gays can marry someone of the same sex, but straight people can't, then gays have broader rights than straights.>

                                                                                    No one on the pro-gay side of this argument has ever or WOULD EVER try to define marriage as between a man and a woman unless one is gay and then may marry a person of the same sex. There will be no gay test, Salil. There will be no gay union card necessary for same-sex marriage.

                                                                                    But you know this.
                                                                                  • <<if gays can marry someone of the same sex, but straight people can't, then gays have broader rights than straights.>>

                                                                                    Salil, your comment made sense up until this point. If gay marriage becomes legal, then of course straight people would also be free to marry someone of the same sex, just as gays currently are free to marry someone of the opposite sex.

                                                                                    So the claim that, under that scenario, gays would have broader rights than straights is nonsense. Similarily, the claim that gays currently have the same rights as straights because they're both allowed to marry someone of the opposite sex, is also nonsense. Straights can marry according to their sexual preference. Gays can't. That is not equal.
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                                                                                      No, BA, just because it doesnt make 'common sense' to you doesnt mean its not perfectly logical.

                                                                                      The facts are thus:

                                                                                      Straight people can marry anyone of the opposite sex

                                                                                      gay people can marry anyone of the opposite sex

                                                                                      sexual preference has zero bearing on marriage.

                                                                                      its that simple.

                                                                                      now, if gays can marry the same sex AND straights can marry the same sex, then yes, both groups would be equal again - but nowhere have I seen a provision for straight 'homo-sexual unions'.

                                                                                      If two best friends who decide they're going to be bacehlors for at least 10 more years, but they want to share benefits, and they're straight, want to get married, and they can, then yes, the law would be equal.

                                                                                      but for BA to assert that no straight person would ever want to marry another straight person of the same sex is absolutely full of cow pie.

                                                                                      Hell, 'Will and Grace' already showed us a gay man marrying a straight woman - to think that the law would never be challenged by two straight guys wanting to get married is ridiculous.

                                                                                      <Straights can marry according to their sexual preference. Gays can't. That is not equal>

                                                                                      No, they can't.

                                                                                      Straights can marry according to their opposite sex - their sexual preference, be it bi, kids, dogs, horses, or jelly beans, is irrelevant according to the law.
                                                                                      • Salil, you should rethink this argument. It's got a fair number of holes in it.

                                                                                        <<sexual preference has zero bearing on marriage>>

                                                                                        Absurd!! Are you suggesting that, just because the institution of marriage happens to fall in line with the sexual preference of a majority of society's members, that it's only a coincidence??? That really the two are completely unrelated? Is it only a matter of luck that this venerable institution didn't arise between, say, humans and goats?

                                                                                        <<now, if gays can marry the same sex AND straights can marry the same sex, then yes, both groups would be equal again - but nowhere have I seen a provision for straight 'homo-sexual unions'. >>

                                                                                        That's because 'straight homo-sexual unions' are an oxymoron. Sure, 'gay heterosexual unions' are also an oxymoron, but it's an oxymoron that is forced on a segment of society due to its rules.

                                                                                        <<but for BA to assert that no straight person would ever want to marry another straight person of the same sex is absolutely full of cow pie.>>

                                                                                        Salil, let me explain some things about how the state regards marriage. According to the state, marriage must be between two people in a loving, committed relationship. You can't marry someone for any other reason than that, or else it's called Marriage Fraud. I discovered that when my wife and I applied for her green card after we got married. So the idea of two straight people getting married for some reason other than to be in a loving, committed relationship (which would then mean they aren't straight) is already illegal.

                                                                                        And of course, the same can currently be said of a gay person marrying someone of the opposite sex. That is, assuming they're not in the closet still, which accounts for the vast majority of these types of marriages.

                                                                                        <<Straights can marry according to their opposite sex - their sexual preference, be it bi, kids, dogs, horses, or jelly beans, is irrelevant according to the law.>>

                                                                                        Salil, can you not see the glaring illogic in this statement alone? "Straights can marry according to their opposite sex, and their sexual preference is irrelevant." But it's not irrelevant. Straights' sexual preference is respected and encouraged. Gays' are not. Certainly that isn't irrelevant. Such an argument could only be advanced by someone who is not gay.
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                                                                                          No, actually it doesnt have any logical holes in it at all.

                                                                                          <Absurd!! Are you suggesting that, just because the institution of marriage happens to fall in line with the sexual preference of a majority of society's members, that it's only a coincidence???>

                                                                                          Here's where your ability to comprehend abstract logic seems to be breaking down.

                                                                                          It has nothing to do with 'coincidence' or 'intent' - it has to do with the law and the facts.

                                                                                          The indisputable facts are as I stated:

                                                                                          Straights can ONLY marry members of the opposite sex
                                                                                          Gays can ONLY marry members of the opposite sex

                                                                                          thus both are equal under the law

                                                                                          This has *no bearing* on sexual preference. Person X is not asked whether they're bi, like goats, or what have you when they marry. Nor are they asked if they're in a loving relationship. Nor are they asked if they're attracted to their partners. You may assume from context, sure, but this has absolutely zero legal bearing on the matter.

                                                                                          <That's because 'straight homo-sexual unions' are an oxymoron>

                                                                                          no its not. I'm using homo-sexual to mean what it actually means - 'same gender' - maybe 'straight same gender unions' would be easier to understand.

                                                                                          <According to the state, marriage must be between two people in a loving, committed relationship>

                                                                                          wrong. each state has its own laws regarding the definition of marriage, but I challenge you to find that wording in any of them.

                                                                                          What you go on to discuss has to do with something else entirely, and thats immigration code - not marriage law.

                                                                                          <Salil, can you not see the glaring illogic in this statement alone?>

                                                                                          absolutely not. Its 100% logical. You may not find it rational, or sensical, but it is, without any doubt, logically sound.
                                                                                          • <<No, actually it doesnt have any logical holes in it at all. >>

                                                                                            In other words, "these aren't the droids you're looking for." (Waves hand...)

                                                                                            <<This has *no bearing* on sexual preference. Person X is not asked whether they're bi, like goats, or what have you when they marry. Nor are they asked if they're in a loving relationship.>>

                                                                                            The fact is, in this country, one is asked if they're in a loving relationship when they get married. This is the part of every marriage ceremony, whether it's performed by your local witch doctor or the justice of the peace, that ends with "I do."

                                                                                            Therefore, sexual preference is crucial to marriage. Marriage is the institutionalization of the sexual preference and mating habits of a vast majority of humans. That's how it arose.

                                                                                            To say that gays and straights are both equal under the law because they can both enter into a heterosexual marriage is not logical. One group's preference is met, whereas another group's is not. It's the same as saying everyone is free to eat whatever they want, so long as they eat only Mars bars. "But what about the diabetics?" someone might ask. "What about those of us concerned with tooth decay or malnutrition? What about people who just don't like Mars bars??" Well, they're just as free to eat Mars bars as everyone else.

                                                                                            You might say my analogy is flawed because everybody needs to eat, whereas not everyone has to get married. To which I would respond, the coupling instinct, which marriage institutionalizes, is common to all humans, gay or straight. Just because, due to a history of openly sanctioned and institutionalized homophobia from which we are only just now emerging, this institution only covered straight people is no reason to continue such injustice. It would be no more or less fair to say that only Catholics can get married.

                                                                                            <<maybe 'straight same gender unions' would be easier to understand.>>

                                                                                            If gay marriage were legalized, and assuming that a marriage is legal for reasons other than being in a loving, committed relationship (of which I'm not convinced), then your entirely hypothetical "straight same gender unions" (SSGUs) would also be allowed. Why wouldn't they? If you can get up in front of a justice of the peace with your platonic friend who is a woman and say "I do" when they ask if you'll love and protect, yadda yadda yadda, then what's to stop you from doing the same with your buddy who is a guy? Salil, if your point on this thread hinges on the notion that gay marriage can't be legalized because it doesn't include these SSGUs, I'd say you need to rethink this.
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                                                                                              In other words, you can't find any logical failures in my statements. Please try.


                                                                                              <The fact is, in this country, one is asked if they're in a loving relationship when they get married. This is the part of every marriage ceremony, whether it's performed by your local witch doctor or the justice of the peace, that ends with "I do." >

                                                                                              Hooooooooooooooooooorse hocky. Cooooooooooooooooow pie.

                                                                                              liaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar.

                                                                                              www.capitol.state.tx.us/statut...toc.htm

                                                                                              Please click on 'marriage license' and tell me where you have to check mark 'in a loving relationship'

                                                                                              No luck, liar mc lies alot?

                                                                                              <Therefore, sexual preference is crucial to marriage>

                                                                                              This has no bearing on the legal codes regarding marriage - its an assertion made by you with absolutely no substantiation - this language is simply not found in the legal codefication of marriage.

                                                                                              <Marriage is the institutionalization of the sexual preference and mating habits of a vast majority of humans>

                                                                                              Again, tangental to the argument. This may be a factual statement, but it has NOTHING to do with the logic of the argument at hand.

                                                                                              What you are doing is the exact same thing the Gay marriage lobby is doing - trying to turn the *justice* issue into an *equality* issue.

                                                                                              <To say that gays and straights are both equal under the law because they can both enter into a heterosexual marriage is not logical.>

                                                                                              yes, its perfectly logical. As I have said before, you may not find it rationable or sensible, but its fully logical, which is why you keep having to reach outside of the logical construction of the argument in order to attack it.

                                                                                              <Well, they're just as free to eat Mars bars as everyone else. >

                                                                                              Yes, if the law was 'everyone can eat only mars bars' then everyone is equal under the law.

                                                                                              'everyone can drive up to 65 mph' - even the people who don't LIKE driving under 65 mph?

                                                                                              yes, everyone is equal under the law.

                                                                                              <It would be no more or less fair to say that only Catholics can get married>

                                                                                              This analogy is so flawed I can't believe you came up with this. this is showing a clear prejudice towards a singular religion, which would be illegal under US precedent as derived from the establishment clause.. Not only that, not all citizens are catholics - you're putting the limitation on the wrong pool.

                                                                                              If you said 'all citizens can marry only X' then yes, that would be EQUAL under the law, even if it was unjust.

                                                                                              <the coupling instinct, which marriage institutionalizes>

                                                                                              again, you're going into some unsubstantiated historical analysis of the development of marriage which has no bearing on the equality issue.

                                                                                              I understand if you can't wrap your head around the logic because it flies in the face of your 'common sense'- but equality and justice are two distinct realms within the legal system.

                                                                                              but anyway, I could just as easily say that marriage institutionalizes the procreation instinct - not the coupling instinct, and I would have vastly more data to support my assertion than you would to have yours (coupling is a relatively modern contrivance, still challenged by many cultures today, Islam, Christian sects, etc).

                                                                                              <then your entirely hypothetical "straight same gender unions" (SSGUs) would also be allowed. >

                                                                                              according to you?! You write the laws? You're big on assumptions Paul, and low on substantiation.

                                                                                              <Salil, if your point on this thread hinges on the notion that gay marriage can't be legalized because it doesn't include these SSGUs, I'd say you need to rethink this. >

                                                                                              Hey Paul, do I need to get you a book on reading comprehension? Where on EARTH did I ever say that gay marriage can't or shouldn't be legalized? Please find that statement somewhere, otherwise stick to the argument at hand and stop making shit up.
                                                                                              • Salil, calm down, there's no reason to get all ad hominem here. When you resort to "liar mc lies alot", I get the unmistakable feeling that you are really 8-years-old, and my desire to continue debating with you evaporates. OK? Just stay civil, this isn't the slap war you're having with Cameron.

                                                                                                <<Please click on 'marriage license' and tell me where you have to check mark 'in a loving relationship' >>

                                                                                                Okay, perhaps you aren't required to be in a loving relationship when you get married, contrary to my assumption. Therefore, on what basis do you believe that SSGUs would not be allowed if same-sex marriage were made legal? Because it's not specifically stated? If so, then how do you explain the existence of non-loving-relationship heterosexual marriages nowadays? Those aren't specifically granted either.

                                                                                                <<Yes, if the law was 'everyone can eat only mars bars' then everyone is equal under the law.>>

                                                                                                No, because following that law has radically different consequences for different people, based on conditions they can't control. See, that's why I mentioned diabetics. Such a law would mandate life-threatening diabetic attacks among certain people, which are conditions too onerous to impose upon a single group of people. Similarily, gays can only get married to someone they are not attracted to and with whom they do not have a loving relationship. That's too onerous a condition as well, while for straights, the opposite conditions exist.

                                                                                                <<'everyone can drive up to 65 mph' - even the people who don't LIKE driving under 65 mph? >>

                                                                                                No, because driving speed is a choice. Anyone has the same capability of choosing to live within that law (admittedly even me). On the other hand, sexual preference is not a choice.
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                                                                                                  Well, then don't lie and present it as fact. Pointing out that you are a liar when I've just shown that you are in fact a liar, is not ad hom.

                                                                                                  <Therefore, on what basis do you believe that SSGUs would not be allowed if same-sex marriage were made legal? Because it's not specifically stated?>

                                                                                                  Yes, because its not specifically listed, and would fly in the face of the 'gay people love eachother and therefore should be allowed to marry' argument.

                                                                                                  <If so, then how do you explain the existence of non-loving-relationship heterosexual marriages nowadays? Those aren't specifically granted either. >

                                                                                                  No, but they arent specifically prohibited. As I've said, time and time again, sex is absolutely irrelevant in a marriage, legally. All that matters is that both members are of the opposite sex.

                                                                                                  <No, because following that law has radically different consequences for different people, based on conditions they can't control>

                                                                                                  Look, Paul - you're trying to argue a logical legal point with rationality - I don't dispute the rationality of your argument, but that's not what we're discussing. The LAW in this case is EQUAL - its the CONSEQUENCES that arent.

                                                                                                  <No, because driving speed is a choice. Anyone has the same capability of choosing to live within that law (admittedly even me). On the other hand, sexual preference is not a choice. >

                                                                                                  That's purely your opinion at this point. And whether or not its not a choice is irrelevant to the simple fact that YES - everyone is equal under the law, therefore equal protection is achieved
                                                                                                  • <<Well, then don't lie and present it as fact.>>

                                                                                                    That's the thing; I didn't. I expressed what I thought to be the truth, and worked with you to discover what the actual law said. When you provided your source that didn't include "love and committment" as a qualification for marriage, I tentatively accepted that hypothesis even though it contrasted with my own understanding. That's a good faith commitment to discovering the truth, and it's how adults communicate. Cluttering that process with "Sir Lies Alot" brings it to 3rd grade playground level. Nuff said (let's hope).

                                                                                                    As for the rest of your comments, I sense you're about to link to dictionary.com soon and the whole argument will degrade to what is the meaning of "is." But I'll try to clarify my point relative to yours, until we reach that juncture.

                                                                                                    <<Yes, because its not specifically listed, and would fly in the face of the 'gay people love eachother and therefore should be allowed to marry' argument.>>

                                                                                                    <<No, but they arent specifically prohibited.>>

                                                                                                    OK. You've said that SSGUs would NOT be allowed because they're not SPECIFICALLY GRANTED. But you agree that non-loving-relationship heterosexual marriages (NLRHMs) ARE allowed because they're not SPECIFICALLY PROHIBITED. This isn't consistent. Are you suggesting that, if gay marriage were made legal, that there would be some kind of test, say a polygraph, to determine for certain that the two people are actually in love? Or rather, would you concede that no such test would likely occur, and therefore SSGUs would be allowed in exactly the same fashion that NLRHMs are currently?

                                                                                                    <<The LAW in this case is EQUAL - its the CONSEQUENCES that arent.>>

                                                                                                    I expect there is a legal standard where one can show that obeying a law results in unintended consequences for a small portion of society based on circumstances beyond control. But that's my supposition.

                                                                                                    <<That's purely your opinion at this point.>>

                                                                                                    Salil, are you suggesting that some people might be completely unable to drive under the speed limit due to circumstances beyond their control? Or would you conced that breaking the speeding law is always a matter of choice?
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                                                                                                      The thing is, you did:

                                                                                                      <The fact is, in this country, one is asked if they're in a loving relationship when they get married. This is the part of every marriage ceremony, whether it's performed by your local witch doctor or the justice of the peace, that ends with "I do>

                                                                                                      When you say, 'the fact is', you, by definition, abandon all pretense of opinion.

                                                                                                      Anyway, the fact of the matter is love, sex, and goat fucking are in no way relevant to marriage.

                                                                                                      SSGU are prohibited now because one can only marry a member of the opposite sex. The pro gay marriage lobby is arguing that 'two people who love eachother should be able to get married' - they ARE NOT saying 'any two people under the sun should be able to enter into a contract that allows them to mutually allocate and share assets, and to be treated as a singular unit for tax purposes'.

                                                                                                      If anyone even brought up the idea, publicly, that SSGU's should be allowed to happen both sides would immediately shut the argument down.

                                                                                                      The fact remains - this is not a civil rights issue. all parties are being treated equally under the law. this is a matter of injustice *not inequality* and should be presented on its merits alone, not a fallacious appeal.

                                                                                                      and as far as all the tangental stuff about choice, I won't address it, because I can wrap you up in an argument about 'what choice is' from here until Mill, Kant, et al rise from the dead.
                                                                                                      • I said:
                                                                                                        <The fact is, in this country, one is asked if they're in a loving relationship when they get married. This is the part of every marriage ceremony, whether it's performed by your local witch doctor or the justice of the peace, that ends with "I do>

                                                                                                        This isn't a lie. Have you ever been to a wedding in this country that didn't include the "I do" bit? Neither have I. Therefore, if I erroneously assumed that this is codified in law, it by no means insinuates that I've lied. We don't need to go on about this digression, but if you can understand the difference between knowing the truth but saying something different in an effort to mislead (see Cheney and Rumsfeld's comments about WMDs) versus being fairly confident about a subject but admitting a different set of facts when confronted with them, you'll get a lot further in your debates. Your Lies A Lot comments make me embarassed to be discussing issues with you, honestly.

                                                                                                        <<If anyone even brought up the idea, publicly, that SSGU's should be allowed to happen both sides would immediately shut the argument down.>>

                                                                                                        Probably right. In the exact same way, if anyone were to bring up NLRHMs right now, quasi-legal as they are, no one would argue that they should be legal as they too represent a bastardization of the concept of marriage. In the end, SSGUs and NLRHMs can either both be tolerated, or both be declared illlegal. They are the same issue.

                                                                                                        <<this is a matter of injustice *not inequality* and should be presented on its merits alone, not a fallacious appeal.>>

                                                                                                        Where do you see the injustice? I'm curious.

                                                                                                        <<and as far as all the tangental stuff about choice, I won't address it>>

                                                                                                        It wasn't tangental, but a direct response to one of your claims. You claimed the speed limit law was just as unjust against people who don't want to drive 65 as the marriage law is unjust against homosexuals. I don't blame you for stepping away from that one, and I do feel like I've dodged a bullet in not having to read your longwinded exploration of existentialism. The fact is, in your example, one case involves a conscious, free choice to break the law, whereas the other involves something that is not chosen. That makes it a bad analogy, without any deep discussion about the nature of choice.
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                                                                                                          Paul. I told you it wasnt a law, you insisted it was. You either lied, or you talked completely out of your ass with no clue whatsoever about what you were discussing. You choose.

                                                                                                          And yes, I have been to a marriage that included no such thing.

                                                                                                          And you can be as embarassed as you want, it doesn't change a thing.

                                                                                                          <Probably right. In the exact same way, if anyone were to bring up NLRHMs right now, quasi-legal as they are, no one would argue that they should be legal as they too represent a bastardization of the concept of marriage>

                                                                                                          thats two people of the opposite sex who no longer love eachother? That's a huge leap of sociological insight on your part, and I believe your conclusion is egregiously flawed, because of the vast amount of legal precident here.

                                                                                                          The fact is there's ONE concern regarding marriage - that you're of the opposite sex (and usually, not related).

                                                                                                          <Where do you see the injustice? I'm curious.>

                                                                                                          Because non-sensical restrictions are injust.

                                                                                                          <The fact is, in your example, one case involves a conscious, free choice to break the law, whereas the other involves something that is not chosen>

                                                                                                          No, that's YOUR opinion. YOU are claiming that being homosexual isnt a choice. There's no scientific debate thats settled that question yet, and most americans still believe it is a choice.

                                                                                                          Hell, *I* will claim that in most cases homosexuality isnt a choice, but I don't think that policy should be made around my unsubstantiated opinion.
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                                                                                                            Oh, AND NO - I most CERTAINLY did not 'claim that the speed limit law was unjust'

                                                                                                            try to read what I'm writing with some modicum of comprehension.

                                                                                                            I said that speed limit laws WERE EQUAL
                                                                                                            • <<Oh, AND NO - I most CERTAINLY did not 'claim that the speed limit law was unjust'>>

                                                                                                              <<try to read what I'm writing with some modicum of comprehension. >>

                                                                                                              Pot. Kettle. Black.

                                                                                                              I didn't claim you said the speed limit law was unjust. Please Mr Liar Liar Poopy Head, looooooooooordy lord people!!, try and read what I'm writing with some modicum of comprehension.

                                                                                                              What I actually said was:
                                                                                                              "You claimed the speed limit law was just as unjust against people who don't want to drive 65 as the marriage law is unjust against homosexuals."

                                                                                                              Put anther way, you claimed that the marriage law was no more unjust against homosexuals as the speed limit law was unjust against people who don't want to drive 65.

                                                                                                              <<I said that speed limit laws WERE EQUAL>>

                                                                                                              That is correct. You also claimed that the marriage laws were just as equal. The difference, as I've pointed out ad infinitum, is that every person with a drivers license has the exact same ability to obey the speed limit, whereas homosexuals do not have the exact same ability to obey the marriage law, since the latter case would require them to either never get married or marry someone whom they don't love. That's why, while the speeding law is equal, the marriage law is not. Get it?
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                                                                                                                Yes, you DID claim that I said the speed limit law was unjust, learn to read your own writing.

                                                                                                                "You claimed the speed limit law was just as unjust against people who don't want to drive 65 as the marriage law is unjust against homosexuals."

                                                                                                                Try to follow along, I know it might be hard for you, but just try - if the above statement is true, then you are claiming that I said the speed limit law is unjust. Here's why:

                                                                                                                1) I said laws preventing homosexuals from marrying were unjust. THEREFORE, according to you, I ALSO said that the speed limit law was "was just as unjust"

                                                                                                                2) I didn't say ANYTHING about the speed limit law being unjust. I said it provided equal protection under the law.

                                                                                                                If you can't follow simple, precise, and direct statements without twisting them, don't bother engaging me in debate.

                                                                                                                Insults are only amusing when they're directed appropriately. Insulting me when YOU are the one with the comprehension problem is pointless.

                                                                                                                "Put anther way, you claimed that the marriage law was no more unjust against homosexuals as the speed limit law was unjust against people who don't want to drive 65. "

                                                                                                                Again, no i didn't. Go back and READ what I actually said. I NEVER argued AGAINST the unjustness of the marriage law, I was rebutting the INEQUALITY argument. Its not my fault you dont understand the difference between Justice and Equality.


                                                                                                                <is that every person with a drivers license has the exact same ability to obey the speed limit>

                                                                                                                prove it.


                                                                                                                <That's why, while the speeding law is equal, the marriage law is not. Get it? >

                                                                                                                no, howabout you take a basic course in the Philosophy of Law? BOTH laws are EQUAL because they affect ALL people EQUALLY.

                                                                                                                A law might be EQUAL and yet UNJUST. Can you pound this idea into your frontal lobe for me?
                                                                                                          • <<And yes, I have been to a marriage that included no such thing.>>

                                                                                                            Cough--bullshit--cough. Of course, I knew you would make exactly that claim.

                                                                                                            I said:
                                                                                                            <Probably right. In the exact same way, if anyone were to bring up NLRHMs right now, quasi-legal as they are, no one would argue that they should be legal as they too represent a bastardization of the concept of marriage>

                                                                                                            To which you replied:

                                                                                                            <<thats two people of the opposite sex who no longer love eachother?>>

                                                                                                            No. NLRHMs are two people of the opposite sex who never did love each other, but decided to get married for some other reason. They're the same as SSGUs, but of the opposite sex.

                                                                                                            <<That's a huge leap of sociological insight on your part, and I believe your conclusion is egregiously flawed, because of the vast amount of legal precident here.>>

                                                                                                            It's not a huge leap to simply see what's going on and comment about it. Currently, people of the opposite sex get married for reasons not including love. Right? With me so far? Now you're saying that if gay marriage were made legal, that this non-love loophole would be closed for people of the same sex. That makes absolutely no sense to me, and I'm guessing you don't actually believe it either, but are sticking to it for its debating value. Is there a vast amount of legal precedent revolving around NLRHMs and SSGUs? What is it?

                                                                                                            <<YOU are claiming that being homosexual isnt a choice. There's no scientific debate thats settled that question yet>>

                                                                                                            I'm making no claims on my own. The psychiatric community stands behind me on this one:

                                                                                                            "Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that efforts to repair homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in psychological accouterments."
                                                                                                            American Psychological Association, Statement on Homosexuality, July 1994
                                                                                                            www.utc.edu/StudentOrgs/Spectrum/apa.htm

                                                                                                            <<and most americans still believe it is a choice>>

                                                                                                            For a time, most Americans believed Saddam orchestrated 9/11, and that Iraqis were involved. Many Americans think the world is 6,000 years old and was created in exactly 7 days (and scarily, some of these are republicans in congress). Sorry, I've got little patience for the imbecillic perceptions of "most Americans."

                                                                                                            <<Hell, *I* will claim that in most cases homosexuality isnt a choice, but I don't think that policy should be made around my unsubstantiated opinion.>>

                                                                                                            I've got good news for you, Salil. In this case, your opinion is not unsubstantiated.
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                                                                                                              <Cough--bullshit--cough. Of course, I knew you would make exactly that claim>

                                                                                                              1) how many times have you claimed bullshit, only to have me prove you ridiculously wrong, eh Paul? you'd think someone who regularly made ridiculous claims about someone else, and was always wrong, would have SOME sort of a learning curve. The fact is I was a witness for two friends that got married by a justice of the peace with absolutely no ceremony - they turned in their paperwork and signed some papers - that was it.

                                                                                                              2) then why bother asking? So you could pretend to be psychic after the fact?

                                                                                                              regarding the rest of your argument, you simply can't seem to wrap your head around marriage statues. Let me try one more time.

                                                                                                              Currently, Marriage has nothing to do with love - it has to do with two people being members of the opposite sex.

                                                                                                              The pro-gay marriage lobby is trying to redefine marriage - 'two people who love eachother should be able to marry regardless of their gender' - they are presenting their argument as if they are being treated unequally under the law. If they presented their case and said 'love is really irrelevant here - we want to expand marriage to simply mean a union between any two people, regardless of gender or sexual preference - this would cause them to confront this idea of SSGU's.

                                                                                                              I'd wager that since 70% of americans are against gay marriages, at least 80-90% would be against SSGU's.

                                                                                                              And yes, there's an amazing amount of legal precident regarding NLRHMs - every time there's a divorce and the judge wants the unloving couple to work it out, or work on their relationship, there's precident.

                                                                                                              The APA is not a Psychiatric organization - its a Psychological Organization. There is still plenty of documentation that shows that homosexuality, in some cases, is in fact a choice. And the fact is, neither of us know to what extent the nature/nurture roles play, so dont pretend that you do. Americans may be totally wrong, and the APA may be totally right - but thats totally irrelevant.

                                                                                                              Congress doesnt care what you think about the imbecillic thoughts of Americans - its the JOB of the congress to care what PEOPLE want.
                                                                                                              • <<The fact is I was a witness for two friends that got married by a justice of the peace with absolutely no ceremony - they turned in their paperwork and signed some papers - that was it.>>

                                                                                                                The fact is, Sunny and I were married in exactly the same way. We were asked the questions by the justice of the peace, to which we answered "I do." But that's okay, I know you'll never retract your story.

                                                                                                                <<2) then why bother asking? So you could pretend to be psychic after the fact?>>

                                                                                                                Really just to gain greater understanding of the manner in which you lie. And as far as my psychic ability goes, consider this: Given that I have never heard of a wedding not including the "I do" bit, and therefore understand that if such weddings occur, they must be an extremely small minority, I still could have predicted with 100% certainty that you would claim to have been present for more than one such wedding (by saying you were at two, you could claim that this was part of a common pattern). Statistically, the chances of this being true are miniscule. However, I predicted it nonetheless. So what does that say? That I have unleashed my psychic ability, or that you are utterly predictable?

                                                                                                                <<I'd wager that since 70% of americans are against gay marriages, at least 80-90% would be against SSGU's. >>

                                                                                                                There you go with that famous reading comprehension again. I posted this statistic on this page already. I wish I'd taken your wager:

                                                                                                                "Half of Americans (51%) continue to oppose legalizing gay marriage"
                                                                                                                people-press.org/reports/display.php3

                                                                                                                <<And yes, there's an amazing amount of legal precident regarding NLRHMs - every time there's a divorce and the judge wants the unloving couple to work it out, or work on their relationship, there's precident. >>

                                                                                                                Salil, NLRHMs are marriages that were never about love. It's not about working anything out. That's what happens in once-loving relationships. This is about a marriage of convenience, same as SSGUs, that were begun at the outset for a reason other than love. You claimed there was a vast amount of legal presendence regarding such relationships. I'm still waiting for you to support that claim.

                                                                                                                <<There is still plenty of documentation that shows that homosexuality, in some cases, is in fact a choice.>>

                                                                                                                You forgot to post a link from the Washington Times or Focus on the Family to support this.
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                                                                                                                  <The fact is, Sunny and I were married in exactly the same way. We were asked the questions by the justice of the peace, to which we answered "I do." But that's okay, I know you'll never retract your story. >

                                                                                                                  Why on EARTH would *your* story be any more plausible than mine? Why would I retract my story? YOU'RE the one who has been systematically proven to either be speaking out of your ass with nothing but anecdotal evidence, or a liar, not me.

                                                                                                                  <Really just to gain greater understanding of the manner in which you lie.>

                                                                                                                  Ah, now you're accusing ME of being a liar, outstanding. Well, hotshot, I've proven the fact that you're full of it, why don't you take a shot at substantiating your accusations?

                                                                                                                  <I still could have predicted with 100% certainty that you would claim to have been present for more than one such wedding >

                                                                                                                  Well, then you would have been totally wrong. I wasn't at two.

                                                                                                                  <That I have unleashed my psychic ability, or that you are utterly predictable?>

                                                                                                                  Paul, it would only MAKE SENSE that I would only talk about something I have knowledge of - oh wait, that doesnt make sense to you, because you talk about things you're cluleless about.

                                                                                                                  So see, by you saying 'I KNEW you were going to say that' is ridiculous.

                                                                                                                  Now, regarding your poll - polls over the last few years have shown a steady rate of opposition - the Pew poll is the only one showing the 51% number, and its a dramatic departure from just a few months earlier showing 68% opposition. Your singular poll doesnt contradict my assessment, which is based on years of polling.

                                                                                                                  www.cbsnews.com/stories/20...01828.shtml

                                                                                                                  "just 30% favor gay marriage. "

                                                                                                                  washingtontimes.com/national...2153r.htm

                                                                                                                  "When asked whether they thought same-sex "marriages" should be recognized by the law as valid and come with the same rights as traditional marriages, 68 percent of the respondents in the CNN/USA Today/Gallup poll said they should not. "


                                                                                                                  <NLRHMs are marriages that were never about love>

                                                                                                                  yes, like pregnancies, etc. Divorce proceedings still say the same sort of things.

                                                                                                                  Take time, work it out, etc.


                                                                                                                  <You forgot to post a link from the Washington Times or Focus on the Family to support this.>

                                                                                                                  Paul, I know its hard for you to understand that someone might just know more about certain things than you do, but:

                                                                                                                  salmon.psy.plym.ac.uk/year1/p...ice.html

                                                                                                                  The debate is there. it doesnt reflect MY OPINION - but I at least understand that MY OPINION doesn't mean that there's not a debate.
                                                                                                                  • We're getting far off track. The original point we were arguing was this:

                                                                                                                    You said allowing gay marriage would not be fair because it would not include SSGUs (same-sex single gender unions not involving love), while NLHRMs (opposite sex unions not involving love) are currently allowed. This would mean that straight people would have fewer rights than gays. I've shown that SSGUs (while being so utterly hypothetical as to be a non-topic) would not necessarily be treated any differently than NLHRMs. Thus, stating that gay marriage is not fair due for this reasoning is a non-starter.
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                                                                                                                      you have NOT shown that they would be allowed.

                                                                                                                      you have shown that you ASSERT that they would be allowed, but contrary to your personal beliefs, you don't write policy.
                                                                                                                      • I have shown that your clinging to this issue as, apparently, your primary objection to changing the laws, is just you being argumentative, but reflects nothing beyond that. I'm kicking myself for getting embroiled in another one of your "argument for argument's sake" debates where you pick a highly unlikely hypothetical and hold it up as a thing that could actually take place.
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                                                                                                                          you obviously have failed to comprehend any of this thread.

                                                                                                                          1) the argument the pro-gay marriage lobby presents, that they are being treated UNEQUALLY under the law is what I have rebutted

                                                                                                                          2) I have asserted that IF gays are allowed to marry members of the same sex, then straights, IF they are not allowed to marry members of the same sex, WILL be treated unequally under the law.

                                                                                                                          To this you have merely responded 'of course they will', with absolutely no substantatiation to that claim. If SSGU's are allowed under these new laws, then BY definition my assertion, by virtue of its construction, wil be rendered false.

                                                                                                                          You have failed to rebut anything I have said, but rather re-stated my assertion.

                                                                                                                          for instance

                                                                                                                          "If cows are not allowed to pee then they will be angry"

                                                                                                                          and you have 'rebutted'

                                                                                                                          "Nuh uh! Cows that are allowed to pee are happy!"