scorpio rising popularity can be damaging.

I read you loud and clear, Lexie. So many people respond to such carnal feelings easily. Some people cannot help but exude sexual energy even when you really dont want to. It makes it easy to draw people to you and its sometimes nice to feed off of such positive energy.But it is like findin the needle in a haystack when it come to which one is a good one

"Thank you Jag,I been trying my best not to feed any hype. Not many people can even figure out that its a scorp thing or try to analyse what sign I am. some people thought I was leo.
I know some other people with scorpio rising and in their world, they too are popular and magnetic and scrutinised. It is something I am just recently learning that is attributed to this sign. The scorps I know are not oversexed or skulking in shadows and violent. But I know that i can brood and be vindictive.
Perhaps my situation is unique. I am just venting right now because I think Im losing my baby and Im trying to figure alot of it out."

You are unique in certain ways. Anyone who has Scorpio prominent in the chart or has Sun, Moon and Ascendant in Scorpio has to deal with the similar issues of sexual magnetism. Just integrate into your life.
My moon, eros and psyche are also in Scorpio and they all conjunct.

Miki, in my experience, this is normal.

I think we attract people who are subconsciously attracted to our exuded sexuality. They don't know what they see in us, and some of us don't know why this happens...But I think one day, it just clicks with them and they can't remember why they wanted to be with someone who was...well, good in bed, but also required some effort on their parts. I expect it depends on the individual in question- water signs deal with me the best, earths sort of look at me funny and ignore my emotions...and fire and air signs- forgettaboutit, they simply can't deal.

I believe our spiritual level has alot to do with sex appeal. Its a vibe we give out and a charisma that is unique. On a positive side, it can open many doors. It is very easy to win the hearts of people. It can also attract the wrong kind of attention from hateful jealous saboteurs and submarine comanders. But that is my challenge.
I think you are doing fine if you have been weeding out people through your 6 month process of being cold to scare them off. Must suck for them, though.

I like a connection on all levels, spiritual and intellectual being mandatory as well as very sexual. That's probably why I like Aquarians so much because they can match that part of me. Plus they are usually strong enough to let me have my own interests and my alone time which are also musts for me. I'm extremely reclusive so I have to have someone who understands that. And knowing that I have the ability to just walk in and turn them on doesn't hurt.

I can't say I've had short term relationships because that's not true. Starting from high school the relationships I had went on for years and they stay in touch, mostly hoping that I'll be single again and they'll get another chance.

I think that's two things: the potent sexualily and the strong independence they sense. Let's face it, people want what they feel they can't really have.

Ah sean, i'm the same way. I never understood people who 'get comfortable' in relationships. I 'get comfortable (see: gaining weight and not dressing nicely)' when I'm SINGLE, not dating. If I have a man...through conscious efforts and a stronger interest in sex than food, I look good for him.

It's very frustrating when we're seen as a damn fine temporary lay when all you want is to be in a long term relationship. Alas, that's always been really hard for me to find.

Lots of good points here everyone, and much of what was said also rings true for me as well. For starters, I'm one of the most unassuming, kept-to-myself people out there (though I'm still strong and strong-willed), but yet and still, I seem to draw many types of situations (plus unwanted attention) to me. Man, where to begin. For starters, I know very much about the BS that can go on at work. I remember a few years back, at the job I was working at before the one I currently have now, I met this girl - she was shy, quiet, kept to herself, and she definitely was not like most girls (or people in general) that I'm surrounded by most of the time. I glanced at her for a brief moment (she didn't know I was watching her), thinking to myself, "If only I can get to know this girl, and have something with her." But, I didn't think it could/would ever happen, so I pretty much brushed that notion aside. Then, one day, all of a sudden, she came up to me, smiled, and started a conversation with me, and from there, we became very fond of each other (and the more she was around me, the more alive she became.) As the months went on, the closer we got (neither of us were with anyone), but things slowly, but surely, started to change around the workplace. One day, she got promoted, and when that happened, we couldn't see much of each other, anymore. And, on the days we would see each other, it seemed as if many folks - especially the top dogs (managers, supervisors) were keeping a close watch on us. Many times, I would try to be alone with her (either in the breakroom, or other places, so we could enjoy our time), but then, all of a sudden, people who normally wouldn't pay attention to either of us, would find ways to either sneak up listening to our conversations, or just downright get in the middle of them (and also trying to find ways to get me out of the picture.) We were never officially a *couple* (and neither of us asked to exchange phone numbers), but one day, I decided to ask her out (since we didn't see much of each other in the workplace, anymore). In a shocking move, she turned me down, and of course, I was crushed, severely. And, not too long after this happened, I left the job, and I haven't seen her since. To make a long story short, I *strongly* feel that the big dogs at that job manipulated her into staying away from me. I have many, many reasons as to why I think and feel that way (I won't get into all of them, though), especially, since she was a fairly naive girl (she was smart, but still, fairly naive about the ways of American society...and the workplace..she was from Russia), and, also, the big dogs didn't like me too much, anyway, since I refused to kiss their asses, and didn't care to mingle with them much of the time, and I could also expose much of the dirt that went on "behind-the-scenes" (in a performance evaluation, one of the managers had the nerve to tell me that if I wanted more money, I had to "kiss ass," --that's a literal quote--and the way they saw me lollygagging with some of the co-workers who didn't rank, I had to do this with the big dogs, too, he told me. Puh! Ain't happenin'!) It all sucks because this girl was one out of only 3 girls in my entire life, thus far, who I really, really, really fell achingly for. (She was a Virgo Sun, btw..I seem to attract many Virgos.) I mean, I've found tons of girls attractive, but only a handful of them stole my heart.