I get obsessive about information and I can get that way if I find someone interesting because of what they know. But that will go when I feel I've learned all I can from them or I feel we've talked it to death. Maybe it's not obsessive so much as suffocating. I don't think about them all the time as a person but I will want to spend a lot of time with them. Of course in all that time I might never even ask them their last name, where they live or what they do for a living. LOL Those things won't matter at all to me, just what they know.

In relationships I'm not that way. I'm very much out of sight out of mind. Not only have I never looked in a man's wallet, I didn't even know people did those things until a couple of years ago. I thought it was completely bizarre. It never even occurred to me to want to do that. I just don't understand it at all. I never wonder what he does when I'm at work or I'm travelling for work. I don't even wonder what's going on when he's playing on co-ed teams even if they go out after. Then again, I know about all his past relationships and did before I ever had a relationship with him so maybe that's why. I'm a total believer in past behavior predicts future behavior and no book, psychology or anything else would budge my belief in that. I always see that play out. I wouldn't have any tolerance for someone who made me wonder what they were doing. They'd just be gone. I have a hard enough time even feeling anything for anyone or being involved with them let alone have that happening. No way. It just wouldn't be worth it to me.

I think I'm way off the Scorpio mark there. I'm not even like a Libra with that. I don't really know what that is.

I have a libra stellum in my 12th.Pluto,mars and venus all in libra.Mars/pluto conjunction.I've noticed that my most serious relationships had been with men who's pluto had conjuncted my sun,or my pluto had conjuncted their planets/ascendant.Or otherwise had strong scorpio placements.In one case, he had nothing in scorpio, but his ascendant and mercury 'fell' in my 8th house,and his pluto was in exact conjunction to my sun.That got downright werid,we just brought out the worst in each other.The same happened in another relationship, he had a stellum in libra plus libra ascendant,and was an scorpio sun.Extremely suffocating,obsessed,controlling.On both sides.An fatal attraction.One that once it was over...I was so relieved.Taught me alot.Power struggles sums it up.What's interesting is it made me realise how much of what was in me,that I felt uncomfortable with,and ironically attracted for a time in them.Then things 'changed',but I wonder if it had been more a case of my acknowledging what I denied, expressing it,communicating it.That they couldn't deal with? At the time, when I was involved with them,I'd be drawn like a magnet to these guys.Now they repulse me.Or I feel no pull toward them.