How has Rocky affected you?

topic posted Mon, October 16, 2006 - 11:55 AM by  ariel
Rocky has given me so many wonderful things, its hard to list them all. I didnt understand what a shimmy was before I met her, or how to layer for that matter. After my divorce, she offered support and guidance, and even hired me as a personal assistant when she needed some help and I was desperate for work. I learned a lot about showmanship from her - how to laugh and have fun while dancing, and how to break the wall between you and the audience, no matter how large the stage, with a look.

How has Rocky affected you?
posted by:
ariel
New Jersey
  • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

    Mon, October 16, 2006 - 12:31 PM
    Well, she complimented my dancing in a workshop, at a time when I was, and am, really struggling with keeping on. She has a way of making you feel like you matter, which is some neat trick for a lady who knows thousands of people!

    Also--she reminded me, just through her dancing, that the biggest reason to keep on is because this dance is about expressing joy. The rests--the politics, the disappointments, the aging knees (smile)--pffft. God bless her.
  • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

    Mon, October 16, 2006 - 10:08 PM
    three cheers for Morocco!
    I love her, i wish i could just sit and listen to her for a week straight (longer if my butt could take it) she has so knowlege, i love the stories i love the history, her style of teaching, the whole package. when i first started dancing i figured a dance a few years then i'd probably get to an age when i'd have to stop that was before i me her, now i know as long as i'm physically capable that age does not matter!
    She is honest, open and warm, i met her when i was going through a personal struggle, i'll never forget her putting her arm around me and telling me to believe in myself and my dance.
    • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

      Tue, October 17, 2006 - 8:43 AM
      Aunt Rocky is a treasure, pure and simple. She sets the standard for our dance.
      She could easily be a diva, but the thought would never enter her mind. She is enduring beauty, and her longevity speaks for itself.
  • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

    Tue, October 17, 2006 - 10:49 AM
    I owe Rocky everything I know and love about dance and Middle Eastern music, plus much more. I really have profound admiration for her. To me she's a true feminist role model....she knew wanted she wanted to do in life, she set about doing it, and she succeeded brilliantly. She's so deservedly confident and charismatic, and we need more women like this in all spheres (such as politics!) She's a great teacher with a light touch. She has the best zills, exquisitely beautiful hands, breathtakingly modulated shimmies & quivers, perfect posture, and a smile like golden sunshine. She's not only brilliant and the leader in her field, and completely tireless, courageous, very funny, wise, and beautiful, she also manages to be both honest and kind (and how few manage to combine these qualities?) to the many who seek to learn from her, both near and far. Of all the paths she could have taken and succeeded at in life, she chose this one, which could not have been easy when she started both performing here and traveling on her own to the Middle East in the 1960s! Just think...not only were there no guided tours, but there were no computers, no ATMs, no calling cards or cell phones, no Frommer's travel guidebooks....and more than anything, she wants to share what she knows with all of us. Another thing I love about her is that she's so smart and so knowledgeable but also very open-minded--she loves pop music and shaabi, appreciates well-executed fusion, and encourages emotional expression in dance onstage or in class. How has Rocky affected me? Very difficult to sum up. Dance makes me so happy and excited--it's something I look forward to constantly and love to work on. Since I became an adult and a mother, I didn't think I would find anything new to love just for myself, certainly not on this scale. I had not the faintest inkling or clue that any of this was possible before I met her, and I most certainly never dreamed I would ever perform any kind of dance in any venue whatsoever before I met her. My world is so much bigger, better, and more beautiful because of Morocco, and I think it must be true for all who know her. I love you Rocky!
    • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

      Tue, October 17, 2006 - 11:20 AM
      I don't know what to say, I'm too busy crying ... THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH, YOU WONDERFUL WOMEN!!

      You give me far more than you'll ever know - esp. when I'm feeling really stressed or "down" & wondering WHY I keep on keepin' on.
      It's because I love you back, bigtime!!!

      You have no idea what joy I get watching my little dance duckies become swans & FLY!!!

      Humungous cyber hugs,
      Rocky
    • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

      Wed, October 18, 2006 - 5:57 AM
      Rocky changed my dancing in an instant! With one Rocky-istic phrase that makes NO sense to anyone else I've repeated it to since, she made my once VERY American-broad dancing more subtle, internal and Middle Eastern. What kind of gift does a teacher have to be able to get a complex notion through in one tidy little phrase?
      She's incredibly powerful and admirable and honored by moi...and many, many, many, MANY dancers around the world...
      Gia
  • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

    Wed, October 18, 2006 - 6:55 PM
    Meeting her and watching her dance in her New York Studio was one of the high points of my bellydance career. AT the time I was something of a newbie. Coming from a fundamentalist Christian, south Georgia background I had one of the most wonderful conversations with her. She made me feel like it was OK to be Obessed with Middle Eastern dance and most importantly, She made me feel like I could be a dancer too. Watching her dance and taking her class I truly began to understand all the subtle, natural stylistic differences that give Middle Eastern dance it's unique character. Rocky makes it look easy! Something only the best dancers can do!
  • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

    Wed, October 25, 2006 - 1:53 AM
    Well I have never met our Aunty Rocky in person but her posts on the MED list opened up my mind so much and broadened my perceptions of this dance, made me understand what was real and what was fantasy (and that it was ok to like both, appropriately labelled), drove home points about safe dance too.

    I love her no-nonsense yet loving approach to e-communication. I feel she has been a major influence in helping me to understand concepts and realities of this dance and am so grateful that she takes the time to reach out to internet forums and share her knowledge and experience when we all know she is so very, very busy.

    It would be a dream come true to attend her weeklong in New York but in the meantime I am pinching myself because she is actually coming to little ol' Perth next year!!!!
    • Re: How has Rocky affected you?

      Wed, November 1, 2006 - 8:33 PM
      I have not met her in person either, but a couple of years ago I was lucky enough to interview her over the phone. I was a bit amazed that Rocky, as busy as she is, would take the time to talk to little me. When the tape recorder malfunctioned on the first interview, she was willing to do another. She was terribly nice, incredibly knowledgeable and so funny. I love her no-nonsense approach to educating about these dance forms. What an incredible woman. She is a blessing to our community. I just look forward to someday taking classes with her and seeing her dance live.

      Saraab al-Wajdi

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