I have a question (go figure *grin*) that has been heavy on my heart
as of late . . .
and I am seeking others perspectives/understanding --especially from the perspective of other mothers (although not exclusive to moms, either).

What of those who 'choose' not to make the ascension?

As a divorced mother, I often wonder what will happen --as I do not forsee my daughter's father making the 'shift'.

The root of that question is how will this affect my beautiful Angel, if at all?

It is one thing to know/understand and integrate that which Is. . . but when I look at my Angel . . . I can not help by wonder about such things and how it will impact her --and other children.

Any thoughts?
Any other mothers pondering the same question?


Endlessly Searching~
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    Re: Our Blessed Children

    Thu, August 18, 2005 - 9:22 PM
    I'm a man, so not a biological mother, though I feel like a mother quite often!

    Funny enough, I went to a local spiritual group the other day and they were explaining their view on this question
    It's a sweet way of looking at it, so here it is, rephrased and maybe tweaked somewhat by me:

    We are nearing the end of a 5000 year cycle
    Everybody (yes, everybody!) will be dealing with all their stuff in this final time before the next cycle begins
    Some will deal consciously well ahead of time, like the sages of old
    Some will kind of move with the flow and understand the process somewhat
    Some will be reluctant, but kind of get the basic gist of what's happening
    Some will resist and be dragged unconsciously and unwillingly (through their stuff). Ouch!

    So everybody's stuff will get churned and processed, but not everybody will do it consciously and sort of get to a conscious place of mastery in the process

    When the next cycle begins it will be a golden age for a time
    Society will be organized in a way that is based upon the freedom/clarity/compassion/strength, etc of the individuals
    Those who made less use of the oppotunities this time will naturally be in less of leadership space then and vice versa
    Also, some will just hang out in a sort of cosmic suspended animation till later on in the next cycle, and thus have less opportunity for individuation/experience/evolution ... although they will incarnate later and still get some of that, so ultimately free will plays out

    This is just one view, but at least it gives a not totally terrible picture!

    Is this what a Goddess would do?
    • Re: Our Blessed Children

      Fri, August 19, 2005 - 4:59 AM
      Ah, the beauty of synchronicity!

      Thank you jim, for your time and your insight~
      • Re: Our Blessed Children

        Fri, August 19, 2005 - 5:14 AM
        ~NAMASTE, Dear Brother~

        We are so very blessed to have men such as yourself who do not fear Goddess, but honor and respect Her --and embrace the Goddess within.

        Great Goddess and all Her glorious aspects are not exclusive to women, the Goddess is within All.

        A teaching from the Pleiades comes to mind that I will be posting a new thread on . . . 'The Lovers'.

        Again, thank you --for it is from your sharing that I am inspired to do so.
        • Re: Our Blessed Children

          Thu, August 25, 2005 - 9:13 PM
          one glimpse
          is all that is needed
          of True Love...
          one taste
          of that freedom
          that is borne
          from Truth...
          to witness
          the warriors
          of the Heart
          AND
          the passive
          defenses
          built
          in pain
          are all vital
          experiences
          in the development
          of spiritual choice....

          your daughter is blessed
          over and beyond
          any fears
          dearest....

          *eye to eye*
          • Re: Our Blessed Children

            Fri, August 26, 2005 - 3:37 AM
            *gentle tears*

            your words always cut through right to my heart . . .

            Thank you and abounding blessings to you~

            In Light, Laughter and Love~
            • Re: Our Blessed Children

              Sun, August 28, 2005 - 9:31 PM
              I have to say that I often ponder this question myself... except that my partner and I aren't divorced. If I'm going off the path of the thread, I apologize, but how does one deal with a partner who is choosing not to work through their issues? Maybe this isn't the right place, but it is something that has been weighing on my heart heavily lately too... I'm struggling. I've been told that he will either begin to make the shift, or we will go our separate ways. I feel as though we're coming to that crossroads. We have a 7 mo old daughter, so, Seeker, I can see what you're saying.
              • Re: Our Blessed Children

                Mon, August 29, 2005 - 6:47 AM
                Absolutely not, Yasmina . . . the details are not important, 'tis the same story.

                And if I have not had a chance to personally welcome you --Welcome, dear Sister~

                I currently have 90% of my focus on the Dolphin Protection Coalition (you can find it in 'my tribes'), so my stops here (and in other tribes) are far and few between at the Moment.

                But, as Goddess guides, here I am ;-)

                What you have been told is but a confirmation of what you already know within your heart.

                It is difficult, to say the least, for we so want those who we have encountered to come with us along our Path, and this is especially true for the father of our child(ren) . . . but their are many Paths that lead to the same summit, we all eventually make it their ;-) . . . some simply choose the longer, harder, more traumatic Path.

                We can not force a different way for them(even if it is for their 'own good') for we ALL have free will. How one exercises this tool is a personal choice --and all that we can do is love them regardless, bless them, and learn from the silent lessons they teach us. . . and observe and stand ready if we see that they are making a different choice.

                Feel free to send me a PM . . . it will be a 'quicker' route to me while I'm immersed in DPC . . .

                Blessed Be, Dear Heart --to you and that beautiful Angel I see peering at me ;-)

                In Light, Laughter and Love~
  • Re: Our Blessed Children

    Mon, August 29, 2005 - 10:35 AM
    ah goddess
    i ask such similar questions on quite a regular basis
    and try to be so conscious with the choices i make
    my babies are blessed, their papa is also starseeded
    we both have our human issues
    but share a basic vision for our children

    navigating separation (what is that nonsense anyway?) has been an interesting journey. seeking not to blindly follow the trail blazed by my mother, creating new ways of family, continuing to tap into the vastness of love, setting eachother free to truly unite.

    sister, your daughter has chosen you and her father. she knows you are a becon of light and has much to learn about the human condition and how to work to bring healing to the people from her papa. move from a place of non-reaction (relating to dad) and your daughter can't help but see the beauty path and stay on the good road.

    blessed be
    aurora blue