The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness

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Abstract:
By most objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past 35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well-being indicate that women’s happiness has declined both absolutely and relative to male happiness. The paradox of women’s declining relative well-being is found examining multiple countries, datasets, and measures of subjective well-being, and is pervasive across demographic groups.

Relative declines in female happiness have eroded a gender gap in happiness in which women in the 1970s typically reported higher subjective well-being than did men. These declines have continued and a new gender gap is emerging—one with higher subjective well-being for men.
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  • Re: The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness

    Tue, May 20, 2008 - 10:44 AM
    I have to agree with the statements above. Also, as a culture we've been moving more into self-reflection and self-improvement, where people are looking at themselves and their lives and saying "this job/family/house isn't enough, I want to be fulfilled as a person too". They want intellectual stimulation and emotional happiness as well. They've been looking beyond supplying the life basics and into the higher needs. They've been striving for more, sometimes unrealistically so or striving for too much, but looking foward. All of that also breeds a lot of analyzation (so many more people now not only see a therapist but openly talk about it).

    All of that means that people are both acknowledging how unhappy they were with past roles or past paths, and striving to get more now. Whereas our parents' and grandparents' generations didn't talk about these things. They hid problems, they didn't discuss emotional issues, they put on the happy face so people would think they were the good wife, mother, etc.

    I don't know that women are less happy now, as much as they are simply striving for more and raising the bar for what happiness means.

    I also don't know if women specfically are less happy, I would imagine that other complex issues in our culture and the mainstream values mean both genders are struggling.

    That kind of article makes me nervous because it seems like an argument for "see, you were all much happier when you served everyone else, when you were only a mother or a wife, when you didn't trouble us with those pesky goals and demands." Sort of like "you should've been happy with the little concessions we gave you. wanting more is just making you unhappy"
    • Re: The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness

      Wed, May 28, 2008 - 3:29 PM
      Plus, there's the fact that now that we are in a position to actually change the things we are unhappy about, we are more likely to identify them than we previously were.

      I don't trust things like happiness studies... most people couldn't tell you whether they were truly happy or not at any given moment, let alone document their personal happiness for several years.

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