awesome thanks siobhan

siobhan! i guess i should be checking here for more action! whoa! the topics are quite eye catching indeeed.

well, i have tried the rabbit and that was pretty damn intense. if you can take it and are expecting that...it really is quite the *experience.

i have also found that most of my partners have been a little bit "afraid" of the contraptions, so they are not always easy to break out and "play" with them around. I ended up keeping them for my own use.

i used to have quite a few of them, but the only one that has lasted is this really simple pink (cheap) model from spencers gifts (believe it or not - it was a gag gift). i rarely use it, but as simple as it is, it does the trick.

if you are going for adventurous tho, try the rabbit. you will not believe that lil guy.

other things that i looked at that seemed really cool to me were those butterfly clit clip things? very interesting concept. :) and the remote control eggs. i enjoy the idea of my boyfriend having the egg "remote" and how that might catch me off guard. but, i cannot imagine where i might use that!

She's right. Astroglide is horrible !!!
As far as having a partner, I've even heard sexologists say
that masturbation & all that shouldn't be in "competition" with
sex with a partner. But, it also depends on the partner !

If he's total stick in the mud, especially about the whole
mutual masturbation thing, then, God only knows that you're
better off on your own ! Sometimes, guys just think they know
everything & they end up turning you off, instead of turning you on.
Most of them just simply REFUSE to learn about what makes YOU feel good.
They only think about themselves. That's why I'm still (at least vaginally) a virgin.

But, as far as using sex toys, I haven't had a problem. My hymen's still intact & all that.
Already, I've used toys ranging from "butterfly" vibrators, working my way up to using dildos.
The transition for me was pretty quick. Sounds weird, huh ? But true.
The trick's always to remember to relax (particularly, in that area), & above all, go slowly.
I learned that little trick on m own. You also wanna tease with it (the dildo) a little before
inserting it into your vagina. Letting everything build to a crescendo, if you will.

Once you're there, YOU'LL LOVE IT !!! HAHAHA !!! ;-)