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I recently came across a website for a dancer that threw me for a loop a little bit. Her website seemed to consist entirely of pages and pages of photo's of her (literally everywhere she could stick a new photo she did) with "comments" from her fans (in large bold type) about how hot she was but not much about her dance ability. I'm sure she's a fabulous dancer and she's quite lovely but her site looked like a web shrine to her vanity, not a working professional site. So how much is too much? What things you shouldn't do/say/post on your site if you're trying to promote yourself as a professional dancer? Should you limit yourself with your pictures?
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 12:55 PMDear Phaedra,
I also find such sites to be really of no value whatsoever for marketing purposes. They seem instead to be a sort of self activated techno shrine to the person about whom they are supposed to be imparting information. I think we should apply the same concepts to advertising ourselves on the net that we for an article about what we do and who we are, or an advertising campaign for our products or services. the concept is old but proven. Answer these 6 questions as succinctly as possible
WHO are you?
WHAT do you do?
WHEN are you doing it?
WHERE are you doing it?
WHY are you doing it, as in a mission statement to your prospective audiences.
TO WHOM are you marketing, who is your prospective audience?
For this to all come together it is pretty clear that it is not about YOU , but about the people you are marketing to. Obviously this person you have talked about has missed that point entirely!! Maybe that is good, in that prospective customers will be tempted to look at her site for 10 seconds and move on to someone else who has more on the ball as to caring about something other than their own images on the computer screen!! I am sorry to admit that this kind of stuff does bring out the sarcastic beyotch in me!! LIke you, I see a clear line between intelligent promotion and making it all about MEEEE!!
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 2:12 PMI very much agree with this. There comes a point when your perspective audience gets lost in all the flashy pictures. Yes, pictures are helpful. There are some people who would be willing to hire her based on the fact that she's hot. That's wonderful for her. Some people will hire her on pictures alone. I think in that case, she's won her target audience over.
In the case of testimonials from customers and fans, yes, it does help. It helps a lot! After all, if so many people love you, then your perspective employer is going to think perhaps they should love you too. However, I wouldn't put up testimonials that attest to my beauty unless it directly relates to my performance ability. If I'm beautiful, great, but anyone with eyes can see that in a few pictures. I want my testimonials to tell them how wonderful of a service they'll be getting with me. I want them to talk about how beautifully I dance, that I'm incredibly inspired, or I'm filled with this incredible passion. I want the testimonials on my site to be convincing to someone that will hire me, so things like "set the stage for the entire party" or "completely wowed the audience" would be good. Testimonials should tell the perspective audience something they can't already see from a picture.
If you really MUST have pages and pages of photos, they should be broken up in a manner that's easy for the audience to pick through and find the ones they want. All the studio shots should probably be in a sub-gallery in her case, aside from the most recent ones. Also, any older pictures should probably be cut back to a couple from each year. Your potential audience doesn't want to see every picture of you in costume ever taken! They want to see some recent shots to give them an idea of what to expect. What types of costumes are you wearing to shows? What will your hair likely look like? They're buying your image now, not five or six years ago. Yes, having some pictures from your past is also nice, but they should be limited. Personally, with my ever-changing hair cut, color, and style, I don't like to use any pictures from over a year old. I have a few of them up in a gallery of old pictures from projects I've previously been a part of, but I don't want my audience seeing me with green hair only to be surprised to find out I'm now a blond! It's all about selling me as I currently am.
While I don't know the site you're talking about, and thankfully haven't seen any like it, I do think that's going a bit too far. There is a difference between marketing and vanity. Since our image is what sells, we do come closer to that line than many other industries, but I think it's positive to be aware that line exists and not to cross it. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 2:22 PMi know there are some people who use their headshot from when they were 20 something, even tho they are pushing 50, that's a surprise for ya! ^_^
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50 is the new 20
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 8:37 PMArtemis is one of the few Names that I know of who does not use old photos. Maybe the old photos are a trademark, a logo as it were, and therefore more a question of keeping your brand than of being a fat head.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 12:55 PMLol, I know who you are talking about.
I think a site is best when kept professional, too many photos overwhelms the potential customer. I believe that quotes should be attributed to one's talent/contribution to the art form, (especially with so many photos, if you're hot the reader will get it, you don't have to beat them over the head with it.)
If you are trying to promote yourself as a professional, you should have recent professional photographs, that are kept in the dance context. I don't like seeing pictures of dancers lying on a bed or rolling in the sand (a little too budoir for my taste) you should have some shots of live performances if possible. You should keep your bio brief and concise. Too much reading tends to bore the client and most of the GP will have no idea who you are talking about anyway.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 1:00 PMTanya, that was another thing I noticed, there only seemed to be a couple (and I mean that literally, like 2-3) of her actually performing. The rest all appeared to be studio shots from photo shoots. I'm not trying to be inflammatory or step on anyones toes or bash anyone's sites, I'm honestly just curious about what is too much! -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 1:02 PMHer site is too much. I'll say it plain out.
Too many photos, too much text, too much "I'm so great", its a giant vanity project. I'm also not fond of her quote about dancers who "work for shwarma" undercutting is a problem, but I would probably not hire someone who openly degrades other people in her same profession. The idea is to uplift the art, not insult the individual. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 1:17 PMI would also like to point out that self promotion is part of the package. Dancers need to market themselves as "a step above the rest" for hiring purposes. Ideally all dancers in an area will be adhering to (at least) minimum pricing, so bargain hunters won't have options, and then the competition comes down to talents and abilities. Looks do play an important part in the hiring process (I may get flamed for this but I'll say it anyway) when people are hiring a dancer sometimes they have a specific look they are going for. A good dancer should have enough pictures to show off multiple looks (folkloric, egyptian, american classic, turkish, fusion, whatever they do) and the pictures should be clear and recent. I want to see faces, bodies, costume details. There are many beautiful pictures of bellydancers in nature or other interesting settings, but these should not be the majority of your photos. Your photos should reflect what you "will" look like when showing up to a gig. I like a head shot in the mix too so I have an idea of what the person looks like close up.
Text should be well written and clear. Get to the point, who are you, what do you do, what makes you the dancer for me or my establishment. I also like to see that a dancer is working or can work with other dancers (be it in troupe format or a partner situation.) You should give some background on your education (or travels and studies) but don't overwhelm me. There are a few dancers I know that have downloadable resumes if people want their entire background and I think this is a wonderful idea.
If you are listing places you work, you should have a lasting relationship with the establishment. A dancer can land a gig on a fluke but to keep a gig you must have talent and dedication. If you are dancing somewhere public (a hafla or event) put that on your site. I may want to see a dancer in action before I hire her.
I'm not fond of insulting other dancers to elevate one's status. It's too "Mean Girls" for me. If you have the accolades and the abilities play it up, but don't elevate yourself by putting others down.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 8:12 AMDancers who work for a bit of FOOD? is this a joke or does this exist? =) -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 2:58 PMSadly, it exists.
Some don't even demand that.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 6:04 PMi've danced for food. but it was a student thing, the venue doesn't pay so they don't get anyone but students and open dance nights.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:17 AMI think the trend is heading more toward pro shots instead of live shots. Most sites have many more pro shots these days. I like to have a mix of both, but it is hard to get a good shot while dancing! -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:29 AMDear Andalee,
My Pro still shots are all done in studio, with a great photographer, make-up artist, etc. and usually I am dancing instead of posing so that they do not seem artificial. I think it is possible to get the best of both worlds that way.
I am incredibly unphotogenic and it takes forever to get any good shots of me, so I feel lucky to have the photographer my dance company and I work with. Anyone who has any problem finding a good photographer, ask your local professional make-up artist because that esteemed person has probably worked with just about all the photographers in town!! that's how I have found all of mine, starting with Hallah Moustafa suggesting ( read that as "insisting"!!) I use one of the photographers she was working with. It has been great.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:33 AMThe thing about professional posed shots is people are now aware of the extent that photoshopping is used. A live shot here or there often gives a more realistic impression of what the dancer could possibly look like.
I think Jerry Bezdikian has very interesting photos and unusual design elements, but if a dancer was only using his photography I would wonder what she really looked like. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 7:59 PMThat's one thing I'm well aware of. Many of the photographers I've talked to have said, "We can always photoshop that out later". As much as I appreciate them hiding my flaws, or flaws that I may have that day, I'd rather the audience see me and not just the wonderful image the photographer will concoct of me.
There's also another thing to drive me away from studio shots and more towards performance photos. When audiences see a pretty photo of a dancer, that tells the audience nothing about the service they're buying. They do get a pretty image of the dancer, but they're not really getting a chance to see her "in action". While I love studio shots for the introduction or about page for a dancer, it doesn't give the perspective buyer a good image of what to expect.
That's the thing about "action shots". The photos I gravitate towards show the audience interacting with the dancer. I've had a number of people I've asked to review my site say they particularly like the picture of the girl putting a dollar in my belt. There's another favorite that didn't make it to my site because it wasn't a flattering picture of me of me teaching a male audience member how to dance to the amusement of his friends. These sorts of things show the audience what they can expect when they hire me or show up to one of my shows. Pictures where the audience is smiling or interacting with the dancer show a potential audience member how much fun your shows are and they're more inclined to believe they'll enjoy the show too. Photos of a dancer teaching a class to a whole bunch of smiling students are a lot more likely to sell the class than just a studio shot of the instructor in costume. A potential student is more likely to say, "They all look like they're having so much fun! Now I really want to try it out." A picture in costume looks pretty, but tells nothing about the classes at all. It's left up to the description of class in the teacher's own words. Any picture where the dancer is interacting with a happy audience or group of students goes a long way to showing the entertainment value of that service. Photos on stage simply don't have the same appeal, but at the very least give a realistic impression of how the dancer looks "in action".
Personally, I don't understand the trend towards using more and more professional shots. Perhaps fewer dancers are getting professional quality photos of their shows? Whatever it is, I find studio shots much less useful as a consumer than I do shots of the dancer "in action" as a teacher or a performer. After all, they may be very photogenic and have beautiful studio shots, but not be able to dance at all, or aren't anywhere near skilled enough to teach at a level they claim they can. I've seen some stunning studio photos of dancers with gorgeous costumes, only to find out when I talk to them that they're rank beginners and have had less than a year of training in belly dance. It's always something I try to think about when thinking about the balance of studio shots and "action shots" on my site.
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Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:27 AMI think promotion becomes egotism when a site has stuff like "the only authentic teacher in America" on it. -
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Re: When does ?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:53 AMOr "The best dancer in the tri-state area, the midwest, east coast, or some other number of states".
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:52 AMThis might not have been your intention, but most of us know quite plainly who you're talking about. Mostly because she just relaunched her website and there's a thread on bhuz where she's asking for feedback. With that being said, this entire thread sounds snarky. Don't mean to be the party pooper police or anything, but she might appreciate if you gave her CONSTRUCTIVE feedback directly to her. She did ask for it after all and I know a few of you are over on bhuz.
So instead of starting a thread that innocently asks the question (although I do think it's a good question), you might want to offer feedback and generalize your question a bit more. As it is now, it just seems like an attack on one person.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 10:58 AMHi Rya,
I see what you're saying but this is an honest open-ended question on my part. I really don't know, I'm a baby student dancer and I honestly wanted an answer about this. I've seen Shira's site of course and I really like hers but I've also seem other sites that seemed a little off to me. I'm not exactly sure who you think I'm talking about but feel free to PM me if you'd like! The thread was never intended to be snarky, it was an honest attempt for information on my part!
Thanks!
Faedra
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 11:01 AMDear Rya,
I for one, have no idea who everyone is talking about. I am not active on Bhuz.. I see this as being kept very general in its flavor, though one particular site may have started the discussion. For me, it does not matter about the WHO of this conversation as much as the value of the information being shared here about what is good marketing on a website. I am curious abut who it is because I am nosy as all get out, but it has not dampened my enthusiasm to not know and I have not asked. I thinkl her site is an example and it might have been any site that is set up along the same lines. It is an example and not the focus of the discussion, nearly as I can see.
Yeah, sometimes moods can sneak up on us. I know it happens to me about 10 times a day! Relax, you are among friends, very moody friends.....
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 2:19 PMI agree with A'isha, I also don't know who it's about but I think this can be a civil discussion.
I like a website that has some pictures and testimonials but is mostly clearly laid out information. Razia's is one of the best I've seen:
www.raziadance.com/
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Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:13 PMOh wow Sabine, Razia's is REALLY nice!! It sort of looks like Hannan Sultan's and I really like hers too! -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 9:50 AMit was designed by the same person. ;-)
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 8:17 PMI have to agree, I have NO idea who this is about. I'm not on Bhuz, so I must have missed out on the whole thing. While I AM really curious as to who it is (more so I can see the sight and make my own opinion rather than taking someone else's word for what's there), I'm not exactly about to ask. Realistically, MUCH more of this discussion has been interesting on a business and marketing level. What sells in our industry? What should we be aware of? What should we be careful of when designing our own sights. Since my sight just went up and I'm still getting a lot of new feedback, topics such as this are incredibly useful to me. I think it's wonderful that this discussion was brought up, though it's a shame so many people think we must all obviously know who it's about, and that so many people obviously do.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:38 PMdoes anyone have some examples of sites where the self promotion was done tastefully, leaving the ego out?
i agree that clients prob don't want to see you in every costume you've ever worn. but i do! hahaha. (undergrad. in costume design + sparkly beautiful hips = addiction ^_~)
im not on buzz, so i have no idea what site this is about. maybe some do's instead of don'ts would bring the thread to a more constructive place?
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:25 PMYep, I agree that it's very obvious who this post is about. It's a valid question, but has gotten a wee bit personal. It's a shame no one mentioned any of this to her on her thread asking for criticism.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:30 PMI'm with Aisha, I have no idea who this was meant to address. I don't even have a Bhuz account. The snarky bitch in me is viciously curious, but overall I find the topic to be relevant and to hold good insight in the area of studio v. performance shots and how much self promotion is ok before one sounds like an egomaniac.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:57 PMThe thing is, nothing said here hasn't been said over there, but it's not being taken at face value. I would post what I said here on Bhuz if I thought it would be understood, but the last time I reached out the person in question I was retaliated against. I have mentioned no names, no locations and no links have been posted.
Let the record reflect that this very behavior has been indulged in at Bhuz with links and personal commentary to other dancers. This remained vague enough until pointed out. But now that it has been pointed out it is easier to put two and two together.
I would also like to mention that the individual in question is no angel when it comes to making fun of others, (with links and photos) and has brought this on herself by creating a hostile bubble around herself. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 4:31 PMI don't think it was that vague, to be honest. I figured out who was being talked about from the first post. I figure most bhuzzers wouldn't really need it pointed out to put two and two together. I know I didn't.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 5:51 PMI'm not saying whether it's justified or not. But if we go with the "But she does it too" thing, it's just gonna go downhill. I, for one, am going to let her know what I think via private message. But I will admit, I'm only going to say it since a lot of other people agree. Otherwise, I thought it might just be me.
I don't want to go on any long preaching sermon about us working together :-P Cause we are all women after all and there are hormones involved...always. lol
I don't know. Just struck a chord today. And I do admit that I've seen snarky stuff on there too. I don't know. *big sigh* Can't we all just get along? lol
I feel like the Beatles should be playing in the background. I'm not normally on this crazy kick of world belly dance peace. lol
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 6:23 PMNo, I understand what you are saying, tit-for-tat is no way to conduct behavior. I miss-spoke (miss-posted?) in haste because of my personal feelings/frustration. I do think the topic is worth discussing, be it about web-pages, promotional material, and in-person conduct. feel that people's work speaks for itself and that excessive promotion is actually a turn off.
Regardless of this persons page the topic should be discussed in broad terms.
I feel that in order to solicit proper feedback the person seeking the feedback should honestly want it, and not be soliciting it for attention/fawning behaviors.
I will admit that when I posted my web page I solicited the opinions of close friends and other dancers whose opinion I trusted and probably got better more honest feedback, then had I questioned a bunch of strangers (internet friends.) -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 7:02 PMThat's very true Tanya. I think getting honest advice works best from a circle of people you truly trust. Not the type that will just say, "Oh! It's great!" but meanwhile they are thinking "yeesh". lol
I'll also agree that I've been to some dancer's sites that really are offputting. Whether it's "oh! oh! oh! look at me! like me! love me!" or filled with waaaay too personal info or even (and yes, I've seen this) obscenties and saying catty, tacky, or just plain spiteful things about other dancers. From a dancer's perspective, it makes me want to stay far away from them and if I try to look at it from a customer's standpoint, it just makes me think they aren't very professional. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 8:51 PMI know what you mean! I've seen all too many sites where I just want to write the dancer and say "What were you thinking?" It's not just the ego feeding sites. There's tons of other sites out there that don't give the dancer a professional image for a variety of reasons, be it ego, cattiness, or an obvious lack of knowledge about the subject they teach or the art form they perform. It drives me crazy! In the end it turns me off from that dancer and I'm less inclined to work with them or learn from them in the long run. When it comes to professional dancers, I like to associate with those with a level of professionalism, and sites like those tend to scream that there's a lack of professionalism.
As for site reviews, I've been kind of going crazy with the friends I've had review my site. I mean, I trust them and all, but it always makes me wonder when people give the feedback of "Wow! You put that together yourself! You did a great job! It's so professional looking!" Of course, with the way my friends are, I'm sure they include a "Who knew you had it in you?" silently at the end! I've been saying for years that I'll never design my own website because web design and I don't get along, so many have been shocked to find I've gotten over that phobia! Still, a part of me wants a little bit of constructive criticism back. It can't be ALL wonderful! Maybe the faults aren't big enough that my friends thought them worth mentioning? Still, at least I know my friends would tell me it was a horrible site if it was. Strangers? Well, you never know what to expect with them. Some will tear you to pieces, just because they can. Some will say nothing but nice things, just because it's not worth the bother. Others still will give you a sensible critique, but you never know what you'll get in the end. I'd rather start out with a group of people whose opinions I trust first!
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 8:36 PMI think this is where a lot of us who aren't on Bhuz took the commentary. Personally, I think it's difficult any time you've got a dancer saying "I know exactly who you're talking about." This happens all the time in the dance industry. I've even seen topics on tribe about local dance instructors in this area that are none too subtle about who they're talking about. In a community where there's only one dance instructor "at the local college", it's kind of hard NOT to know exactly who you're talking about. That particular commentary was very "behind the back" on a public forum and while none of the commentaries were untrue, it still was very obvious who the dancer in question was to anyone from the local area. Unfortunately, when there are valid questions spawned by an obvious source to anyone in the know, it's really hard to ignore the glaring "I know just who you're talking about" and just focus on the question. Like I said, with the commentary on the local dance instructor, it just makes me wonder what this same dancer would be willing to say about me behind my back. It made it really hard for me to answer her question without making an opinion one way or another on the particular dancer in question.
Personally, I'd say a lot of the commentary of "I know JUST who you're talking about" wasn't really necessary. However, there's been a lot of good information put out there, a lot of it by people who have no idea who this dancer is and are instead answering the question simply based on the information provided. There are a lot of people, even knowing the dancer in question, who offered honest advice on what a dance site should include for good marketing and how to sell yourself well. Self-promotion is a tricky business and really does require a certain level of ego, and I think it's good to have a discussion about when the line gets crossed and just enough ego becomes too much.
Now that I know it's all over Bhuz, I did have to take a moment to consider whether this "behind the back" conversation was all that ethical. Honestly, having taken a moment to think about it, the fact that it's taken this long for anyone to mention the Bhuz thread, I don't feel so bad about it. There's been some really good information put out here, both by people who know the dancer in question (some more personally than others I guess), and people who don't even have an account on Bhuz to check into it! Much of this conversation (until now) has NOTHING to do with the dancer in question and more to do with what kind of content is appropriate for photos and testimonials on a web site. And I'll be honest, I know for a fact this isn't the only woman to create such a site. I've seen several "ego boosting" sites from other dancers, so while this dancer may have sparked the conversation, she's far from the only one that's an example of this type of behavior. I think it's definitely something to look into.
And just for the record...now that I know where to find the information behind who this dancer is and where the discussion of her site is happening, I'm going to avoid it. I think this conversation is far more valuable than whatever I would get out of looking the conversation up on Bhuz. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 8:42 PMI understand your point Kisaya, but a lot of bhuz users come here too, and it really was made completely obvious who was being talked about, whether someone brought it up or not. This isn't a local community thing, but goes beyond just localities. There's a lot of overlap on these bellydance networking sites, and I just think it's unfair to the dancer being called out (not by name, but who needs a name when the identifying details are so obvious) so publicly.
It's unfortunate, because this really is a valid topic. IMO it should have been kept much more vague from the get go, with other examples, not just the original dancer in question. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 8:53 AMIn hindsight, I should have never mentioned bhuz...but it was one of those days that what came from my brain I spewed on the keyboard. Does anyone mind if I start a new thread on this topic? It is a good question, I think this one went a little off topic :-P
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 6:15 AMI just came across this post. Just to let you all know this dancer knows you are all talking about her and criticizing her. I have come across so much negativity in the last couple months it is incredible. I do understand the original question.... but along the way on this thread it seemed to become a bashing session. Why is it anyones business really if they choose to have alot of photos on there site? I do too. I am a photographer and am lucky enough to have a ton of great photos. I didn't read all these posts...or go through her whole website....
I do think in general it is best to keep it professional. I personally might not add any comments about being hot.
I do believe you do have to market yourself and promote the heck out of it...b/c there are so many dancers now..and if you want to get any gigs you have to work hard at it.
Just a note to be careful what you say....it is always bound to come around....those on facebook know exactly what I am talking about..LOL -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 7:22 AMWell, from one message board to another to another. It just seems a bit endless.
I will admit that I got into specifics when I shouldn't have, but again I cant delete my threads, or edit them.
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"A gentleman never insults anyone unintentionally."
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 7:46 AMAs the maybe-Wilde aphorism goes, "A gentleman (or lady) never insults anyone unintentionally." That is definately my goal, but it takes lots of practice. -
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Re: "A gentleman never insults anyone unintentionally."
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 2:18 PM"A gentleman never insults anyone unintentionally."
ROTFL!! I LOVE this!! And now, it's my goal, too. :)
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 1:16 PM-I think it is important to have a website you like and represents you the best it can.
-Websites are visual. You do need photos on the site. Since people may not sift through your gallery, I think it is valid to keep photos scattered about your site. My favorites are the photos that make sense in the context. For instance, on a page about teaching, I think it's fine to have a photo of the person teaching with students around. As long as it isn't cluttered or outright bizarre, I think photos on non-gallery pages are acceptable and good.
-I'm torn on the comment thing. I've seen people who are up and coming post compliments from clients and/or their teachers. On one hand, I think it's good for potential customers to see so and so dancer is well-received and talented. On the other hand, I find them a little off. I don't know why. I guess I were a pro and had a pro site, I may have a list of references or comments available, either on the site or through email, should someone ask.
-I too hate when people write stuff like "the best dancer ever" or "the only authentic." For me, as a student, it sends red flags when someone seems to slam everyone else.
-I think I am in the minority, but I like having a good solid bio read. When I look for a new teacher, I like to know what s/he is about, and I've sometimes decided not to go with someone, based on having a bio that seems mean or too self-congratulatory. I think Aziza's website deals with it well. It has a small bio and then you can choose to read more.
-With photos in a gallery, I think the most important thing you can do is be organized. Some people have slow internet connections or don't have the time/patience to look at all the photos. I think when people create albums it's the most helpful, so if I want to see what they look like performing as opposed to studio shots, I can see it.
-With the gallery stuff, I think it's important to note whether the photo is recent or from 20 years ago. I think if it's possible, keeping the freshest photos makes the most sense. Like if you go from blond to black hair you should have those photos available and make well known that you are no longer blonde. People do want to know who they're getting.
-I think it's not only important to be mindful of what you write on your site but also on the internet. Tribe does pop up in Google. There's nothing special to making a Bhuz account. As long as you can live with the consequences of your actions.... In my blog (which is indeed public), I try to write truthfully and clearly, so the entries are things I believe in, written to avoid confusion (sometimes but not always the case, and stuff I will stand beside, should my writing get called out. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 1:26 PMI also meant to add this point.
-Clear writing online is absolutely imperative. What seems funny or benign to you can so easily be interpreted as an insult, because people can't hear your tone or read your body language. Also you can't always quickly apologize or explain a misunderstood comment. And even if you do apologize, chances are people may not read it and remember you in a bad light.
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 2:23 PMYes I think there should be recent photos, especially on the home page .....but ya know ... I LIKE to see older photos of dancers, too. A single polaroid from 1987 isn't going to have the clarity and quality of a new studio photo but it will have a spirit and essence.. a picture is worth a thousand words..so if a dancer has been dancing a very long time, I think it's ok to put a few older photos up... -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 3:12 PMDefinitely. I like seeing old photos of people. I was typing so much that I should've written (there we go with the clarity in writing) that the latest photos should be the most prominent and the older photos should be clearly labeled as such. I've seen a few dancers' sites where the most prominent photos must be from years ago. Quite a shock when I see them in person
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Sun, June 28, 2009 - 4:40 PMI think I found the site in question and I took a look at it. My personal opinion is that the site is missing a lot of the info that I would need in order to feel that she is what she claims to be, but her day job seems to be PR so i have to assume she's got her own angle on what the potential customer thinks is important - and since I am not one of them, who cares? As far as the somewhat derogatory remarks about other dancers in her blog entries... she is probably as surprised by how word-gets-around as some of the posters on this thread are. Hey, live and learn!
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 6:38 AMWow, I was away for the weekend and I didn't realize this was going to spiral out of control like this. I just wanted an answer about what is the best way to look professional when working on websites. I never meant to cite anyone specifically. It's a little difficult for me because I wanted to ask the question and I did my absolute best to keep this professional and open-ended. I have not posted any names or links or pointed any fingers and I feel like this has gotten a little out of control and that's not what I wanted. Whether or not you know who the dancer in question is, this thread was never meant to be about HER. It was about the trend I've seen with several other websites. In the interest of keeping the discussion lines open I'd like to start another thread and see if we can move away from this one. I do appreciate all the wonderful helpful feedback from some of you that gave me a great idea of what a successful website needed! -
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Out of control?
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:55 PMTry starting a thread about Miles Copeland if you want to see out-of-control! and welcome.... -
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Re: Out of control?
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:57 PMhahhahaa, did you ever see that picture of him on gilded serpent where he was in a suit of armor? it was captioned "miles is ready for your feedback" hehehe -
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website design
Tue, June 30, 2009 - 6:37 AMI would have thought that a website is designed with the idea of the kind of customer you are trying to attract. So the younger and more glamorous dancer may be seeking the corporate events, the parties and her photos will refelct that.
A teacher may protray a more practical shot of her teaching.
But you know even the older dancer/teacher like myself thoroughly enjoyed having studio shots done that were HR and could be used to enhance publicity.
I do know the website you are talking about being a Bhuzzer and I think the worst fault was that you weren't immediately sure you had scroll down for information. I think it was desined to show a rather beautiful woman in glamorous costumes and frankly that IS what attracts hirers. Someone hiring a dancer for a big corporate event might take no notice that she has been trained by the best teachers in Cairo but if she looks like a work-a-day gal in less sparkly gear, bang goes that engagement.
For many of us that's not what the dance is all about but we have to accept it is for many. The website shows an image of our dance that is expected by a lot of people and is a very professional-looking one.
Frankly a lot of websites "over-egg" the erformer for me. I find some hilarious ; especially I have to say one or two of the older uS dancer...you know the only authentic etc then of course we do have someone being saved by helpful sea-creature.
But in the end if it's out there, we'll talk about it..
Recently on another forum a European dancer asked for views on her website and her lack of experience, lack of professional image and some startlingly innaccurate "history" of bellydance led to much discussion. She went away and had another look and I wouldn't think it was a happy experience but it was al good advice.
The only thing to beware of is a personal vendetta and this is clearly not the case here
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 3:25 PMGoing back to the original question...
Aside from web sites, here's another angle to explore this idea from.
In belly dahce shows, it is common for the emcee to ask dancers how they want to be announced.
Some people provide bios that contain a great deal of detail about their training background and performing experience.
Other people provide comments explaining something about the type of dance they are doing or perhaps a synopsis of what the song lyrics are about. In other words, they provide information that will help the audience better understand what they are seeing performed.
Some don't use bios, but they'll offer comments about where they teach or regularly perform.
Which approach do you think will better help the dancer achieve her aim of self-promotion?
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 4:25 PMPlease take the comments that I'm about to make as being my personal philosophy based on 28 years of working as a sales and marketing professional in the high-tech industry, and NOT as commentary on any specific web site other than those I own and maintain myself.
Regarding photos, I don't have a problem with dancers using photos shot in a studio environment on their web sites. If a web site's purpose is to promote the dancer it features, then it needs to put forward a certain aura of polish and professionalism. That's how you convince clients that your skills as a performer are valuable enough to justify charging $250 for doing a 20-minute performance at a private party. In a studio environment, the photographer can provide a not-ugly background, and can set up high-quality lighting. Those things are not feasible in a real performance.
That said, some studio portraits look too "posed" and fail to convey a sense of movement, drama, and genuine facial expression. Of course, it's possible to overcome this. If you look at my gallery at www.shira.net/shira/shiragallery.htm and scroll down to "Photos Taken in 2008", the ones of me wearing the midnight blue dress were all in a studio setting, and the way I overcame the too-posed look was that I brought music to the studio, which the photographer played during our photo session, and I DANCED instead of standing in frozen poses.
Now, I do agree there is value in showing some action shots of live classes and/or performances. If you scroll down to the "Photos Taken in 2006" on the same link, you'll see some action shots from live performances. I removed the background from the photos of me wearing the red dress for two reasons. One was that the actual background was ugly - it was someone's living room. The other is that I preferred not to upset any of the audience members by posting photos of them without permission. (I did get permission from the guy who is dancing with me in one of them.)
You can see that I do what some people on this thread recommended - I have a gallery page full of thumbnails. People can click on whatever thumbnails they choose in order to see a larger version of any given photo on that page. And you'll see that I've included both recent photos and ones from over 20 years ago, but I label them with the year so that someone looking at the site will know which most closely represent what I look like today.
I see no harm in sprinkling photos of yourself throughout a web site. I do it. My rationale is that 1) a text-only page can be boring to look at, 2) the Internet is a visual medium, and 3) from a journalistic perspective I think of my web site as being like a magazine, NOT like a PhD dissertation. Magazines have photos, and therefore so do many of the articles on my web site.
When it comes to testimonials, I've always been torn on that score. I personally don't feel persuaded when I see a testimonal published on someone's web site. Well duh, of COURSE the web site owner is going to post only the favorable comments!!!! But I don't see harm in doing it. Some people may be convinced by them, and others won't. I don't currently have any testimonials published on my web site, but I have been thinking of going to some of the workshop sponsors who have hired me to request testimonials. And you can bet that once I have them, I will post them. But when I do, I'm going to give careful thought to HOW I incorporate them into my web site. As has been noted on this thread, sometimes testimonials can be off-putting. There's a delicate balance to be considered.
Anyway, the whole issue of promoting yourself is one that lots of dancers struggle with. Some people are modest and feel uncomfortable advertising the positive things they offer. Some people are very full of themselves and make you deaf from how loudly they toot their own horns. And I think the overwhelming majority are somewhere between those extremes. Ultimately, each of us needs to decide what type of clientele we wish to attract and then design our web sites in a way that will be appealing to those prospective customers. -
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Re: When does promotion become egotism?
Thu, July 2, 2009 - 6:25 PMregarding how hard it is to get good photos while dancing: when i took photo we learned that sports photographers would take upwards of 12 rolls of film in a game, and get one or 2 good shots, if they were good AND lucky. digital photography makes it a lot easier/cheaper to get good shots while dancing. of course there is still the background issue ^_^
another fun tidbit, that has relevance if you bear with it ^_~: in Japan when you go on a job interview/make a resume they expect you to down-play yourself, in a humble way, and the people considering you for the job will mentally say "well if s/he says he's ok,s/he must be fantastic!". however in the US, when you go for a job/ do a resume it's expected that you're going to cherry pick your accomplishments, and generally spin things to make yourself look better than you might really be. someone looking at your resume is likely to think "she says she's great, so she must be ok". im sure that, in addition to person to person variance there must be regional variance within the US so there is probably a social/cultural component that gets lost over the internet. where a dancer's target market (local people who's gigs she can actually get to) might see the amount of promotion as appropriate, where as people from other towns/regions might think it too much/too little.
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