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Everytime I send a message to these muscle daddies, they dont seem to answer back, you give them a compliment and you think they are so shallow about being so hot and sexy they would say thank you. I would be honored to have a muscle daddy as my partner. I could spot him as he works out and he can help me get in better shape. There are some that arent like that at all, and they do answer back and start chatting. I also wonder if muscle daddies snub other muscle daddies.
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Re: Stuck Up
Sat, February 2, 2008 - 7:06 AMLittle brother
There will always be "that element" in just about every group of Gay Guys.
In my 51 years it seems to me that there's very little "middle ground".
The Twinks call me "Grandpa" and make Viagra jokes about me and about them being so "young cute and virile" and about how ALL old Men like me "Desire" them (*UGH*! last thing I need or want is a cutsey young "Man-Child" no matter how big his cock is or how tight his ass is!)
The Bears won't accept me becuase they tell me I'm not "large enough" to BE a 'BEAR',wich generally translates into "your not Fat Enuff" even though I am furrier than 90% of them.
And the Big Muscle Daddies just don't think i'm "muscled enough" to be in their Legue.
Then there's the concept of the Internet itself. In 11 Years on this Internet I have become "Internet Buddies" with over 3 thousand very HOT Men,to date...only 8 of these Men have taken the effort to actually MEET Me in person. This is how,as you know,I met my recent partner-to-be Don. Unfortunatly I live here in WA State and Don lives in Idaho,but he took the effort to meet me after gushing over me on the net for five months and after our first weekend here in my Sling we KNEW we were meant for each other.
As ya know little Br'o, by early summer,I will be moving to Idaho to be with Don.
There is an element on the net who just want Men to gush over their Pictures,and then once in a blue moon there are guys like Don out there who are genuine about meeting Men on the net they find Hot and seeing if a freindship or a partnership is possible.
8 out of 3 thousand is not a 'good average' but I'd not met Don if I'd given up.
There is a Man out there for everyone,one just has to weed through all the self adoring Adonise's to find him.
I do think *most* married-to-the-gym Musclemen are in fact 'stuck up' or...so into their bodies that they haven't got time for...You...or Me! -
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Re: Stuck Up
Sat, February 2, 2008 - 8:27 AMWell said Jake! As I am slowly getting myself adjusted to life in a larger gay community (oh wait, I was the gay community in my part of Wyoming) in Utah, I am getting a good dose of this. Thanks for the pleasant reminder that its OK to just be who we are and let it all work itself out. The words of encouragement are greatly appreciated :) -
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Re: Stuck Up
Sat, February 2, 2008 - 8:43 AMThe world is full of assholes. Especially in the "gay community". Alot of fags are such fucking victims they think it's some entitlement they have to be assholes. Many are unfriendly jerks most of the time. Negativity is bad if it predominates no matter who you are.
AND, alot of HOT muscle bears or silver daddies or whomever we personally may think of as HOT, are people just like us. ( I've been told I seem unapproachable and that some people think I'm hot. lol Totally laughable. I don't think of myself as hot for one. Maybe a little hot. I like to think I have a nice dick and am a good guy with a big heart. But unapproachable? I'm the most approachable guy around. lol ) They most likely are busy living their lives just trying to survive by slaving away at some fucking job they hate working for a boss they despise. Or maybe they are happy with work and don't hate their boss. lol Point is, people are busy unless they spend all their time smoking pot and mooching off others. Some mens seeming inaccessibility is part of what makes them attractive to me. And when someone I think is hot is attracted to me too, there's no better feeling in the world. Just live your life and follow your heart. Life has few guarantees. If you stay open to possibilities you never know what can happen. Look at Jake. He's found happiness. If we give up, we will surely never fullfill our desires.
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Re: Stuck Up
Fri, May 9, 2008 - 1:59 AMUgh I've met and seen men who went from very hot/foxy/very sexy to being ugly assholes in a matter of seconds as soon as they open their mouth to flip out, or give attitude or think that the entire universe and everyone in it revolves around them.
I just ignore the assholes and self absorbed people and don't even have them as friends or have anything to do with them since there are enough hateful people and assholes in the world already. -
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Re: Stuck Up
Sun, May 11, 2008 - 8:30 PMMichael you have done what a lot of us have done, I approach people and give them a compliment, sometimes they answer sometimes they think I want to marry them . lol. Sometimes they get very inappropriate and rude, but that's life. I don't like everyone that approaches me and I am sure not everyone I approach likes me. You can have such a great time when there is no expectations, always remember that. Kindness, courtesy and the ability to ignore assholes is necessary lol! DOn't allow others to dictate how you live, if they don't respond you will be amazed how many of those guys are not only self abosorbed, but are insecure and will always be insecured becasue they only live from the outside. Anyway don't pay attention and keep on hunting those men, someone one with values that likes youmay respond, in the meantime have fun!
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