dirty old man

topic posted Fri, August 4, 2006 - 5:26 PM by  Fritz
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is an old man a dirty old man?
does he need extra thrills in order to get excited?
or does he simply makes better sex, because
he doesn't care about what others are considering dirty?
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Fritz
Germany
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  • Re: dirty old man

    Fri, August 4, 2006 - 6:50 PM
    It's a subjective thing.... if he is dissipated, smells bad, and presses himself on you; he's a dirty old man. If he's attractive, takes care of himself, and you like hanging out with him; he's a boyfriend!
    • Re: dirty old man

      Sat, August 5, 2006 - 6:42 AM
      There are two kinds of "Dirty" to consider Fritz

      Uncleanliness and a "Dirty Mind"

      The young Twinkie Bois wouldn't THINK of going out to their Circuit-Boi Club without first Showering,and then drowning themselves in "Cologne"(a butch product re-naming of "Ladies Perfume").
      A man over fifty knows what he "smells like" and is comfortable in his own skin and "Mansmell" and his odor rarley offends fellow bargoers.

      Young Twinkie Bois get squeamish when you mention "Fetishes" such as Pissing,Felching,or Dirty-Fucking a hole. to them "If It Isn't CLEAN"..It's not right.
      The mature Older Man knows the sheer-joy of so-called un-clean fetishism,and knows that "Cleanliness ISN'T next To Godliness" and thus,can enjoy the "dirtier" side of sex without hangups.
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        Please

        Sat, August 5, 2006 - 12:54 PM
        Okay, this is not at all how I define myself.

        I am over fifty and I do not take part in the fetishes you list. (Nor do I denigrate or put down those who do.) Please do not say that this is an attribute of all older men.

        I take pride in being clean, in smelling good, in taking care of my body so that it is NOT offensive to others in public. Truth to tell, I do not appreciate 'manscents' unless they are emanating from someone I really really like and he is giving me really really good head.

        So please, I know this gets said all the time, but generalizations are worhtless. And insulting.

        And why this reverse discrimination? It makes one sound bitter and angry (and defensive about being old) to denigrate someone simply for their youth.

        I hoped this tribe would lead to an appreciation of ourselves as grown-ups, but I have now had two instances in which I became pissed off at the same-old same-old of ageism and reverse ageism, and I am thinking about taking off.

        Sorry, Felix, but that's just how I feel.



        • Re: Please

          Sat, August 5, 2006 - 3:22 PM
          David, I think like you that cleanliness is for us self understood and no matter of discussion as long as we can think clearly.
          My provocation should be a general insult, ageism nor a dicrimination.
          The opposite was intended, namely that a mature man isnt depending on prejudices.
          So I am proud to be in the age I am right now.
          Ageism comes from stupid people since they ll want to get older.
          IOnly insecure men feel insulted (but I dont want to insult You personally)
          • Re: Please

            Sat, August 5, 2006 - 7:41 PM
            David
            I used No "Reverse Discrimination"
            Older Men in General do not "Go Nuts" with being as squeeky clean as the twinkies do.
            Go to ANY "Circuit Boi Club" and it isn't the GIRLS who choke you as you enter the Club with "Perfumes" it's the Boi's!
            There are other reasons why older men CHOOSE not to bathe daily and drown themselves in cologne.
            1.) a LOT of us are no longer attending employment on a daily basis,so the dire NEED to be 100% clean and odor free isnt a pressing Issue. And secondly,many of us have discovered as I have that,left alone,unless you get "Skunked" a Man's body takes care of itself(A Medical Fact).
            Todays young Boi's use the term "Dirty Old Man" for a LOT of reasons,one of them being we dont "smell like a fresh clean Daisy" like they do.
            As Fritz said below, Only an Insecure Older Man would take issue with anything our youth does or doesn't do.
            This isn't Ageism its differences in age gap and Lifestyle.
      • Re: dirty old man

        Sat, August 5, 2006 - 3:07 PM
        I agree with you Jake.
        "Dirty old man" is a certain state of mind - not the cleaniness.
        although I am not into piss nor scat, iI am relaxed about it.

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