It entirely matters if being evil is going to further my empowerment. I am driven by my desire to be forgiving, graceful, and sassy. If being girly does that, then I accept those joys and consequences (collecting thousands of products in the bathroom, for instance)

But if being evil, is going to help my empowerment (wearing don't-fuck-with-me boots, and maybe being surly at a bar, expressing my anger in a healthy way)then I accept those joys and consequences as well.

I don't consider myself a nice person. Nice doesn't even factor in. Nice is on the scale. and I am definitely OFF the scale.
;P
And modest too.
;P;P

I have no time for negative energy. I have the ability to combat negative with negative but choose to rise above the situation. Its taken me years to get there and I like what I see in the mirror. I see a very happy person who thanks the universe every single day for the love and luck I've had in my life.