Sober BDSM is a place for those of us into the twelve steps and BDSM or in relationships with people who are kinky and sober. AA, NA, CA, MA, SLAA, Alanon, CoDa, whatever 12 step program you are in; this is a safe place for you. If you are wondering how you could possibly have fun playing without drugs or alcohol, join us for a while and see how you can get higher clean and sober than when you are intoxicated.