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I just took at a the folks in this tribe, I see alot of faces from the astro tribe.
So what do you all think about the state of the astronaut's tribe and the Social order, of or lack there of ?
Since I've been on tribe just over 3 years now this has been one of the busiest ones, moderator-less.
It really is more of a social click than an educational forum, Though I do learn allot from it here and there, but not that much more human understanding than I did working a bar for 3 or so years, Sometimes you actually get to squeak a bit of Astro understanding. Mostly by watching interactions and checking charts, see how they play out in an online forum. Along with a few that post who actually have good understanding of the art.
Lately Again It's kinda a compulsion to go see what new drama is going on. "Car crash rubbernecking" or I guess the "Soap opera"
I used get a lot of this working the bar in a small town. I got bored of this a few times now and had stopped even signing on to tribe.
So what do you all think about the state of the astronaut's tribe and the Social order, of or lack there of ?
Since I've been on tribe just over 3 years now this has been one of the busiest ones, moderator-less.
It really is more of a social click than an educational forum, Though I do learn allot from it here and there, but not that much more human understanding than I did working a bar for 3 or so years, Sometimes you actually get to squeak a bit of Astro understanding. Mostly by watching interactions and checking charts, see how they play out in an online forum. Along with a few that post who actually have good understanding of the art.
Lately Again It's kinda a compulsion to go see what new drama is going on. "Car crash rubbernecking" or I guess the "Soap opera"
I used get a lot of this working the bar in a small town. I got bored of this a few times now and had stopped even signing on to tribe.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 9:03 AM<So what do you all think about the state of the astronaut's tribe and the Social order, of or lack there of ?>
I still say that tribe is like the Wild West, and this is no surprise with no mod or any kind. I am no doubt one of the worst offenders when it comes to shooting up the saloon. But I don't really know what people expect when anarchy is the order of the day. People grouse about it, but then every few months decide yet again not to have a mod ~ even a rota of mods or a mediating group where not one person is determining or enforcing policy. So the trolls come and various instigators incite riots of all descriptions.
But I have to figure that in spite of the complaints, that is what is preferred there since the obvious remedy keeps being rejected. I am sure many people do as you have done, Dragon, and just leave the tribe ~ at least temporarily.
Since no member clean up is ever done, no one really knows who is active and who left years ago without unsubbing tribe. Unsubbing that particular tribe doesn't remove you from the active member list., so the place looks huge. How many people actively post there on any kind of regular basis? I know a lot of people lurk, but even so, 5000+ active members listed doesn't look right even on the surface considering the comparatively small number of posters.
In any event, if the consensus is that no mod is wanted, I think people have to expect some chaos ~ LOTZ papering the tribe with 9 threads in one morning, all posted by his alts and expounding the same incomprehensible and never-explained personal version of astrology and never having any real interaction with anyone other than some alt of himself; trolls invading at random to insult and to chew people out for even discussing astrology, not to mention taking their personal crusades against some people there to heights unattainable were a mod there to quash the nonsense; unstable types with some bizarre views of people with certain signs or aspects that they cling to for dear life regardless of any reasonable argument to "look at the whole chart;" and the people, such as myself, who get peeved, particularly when friends or obviously sincere people are targeted, and get all Joan of Arc on some thread. Creating the friendly town of Astroville did no good ~ the water supply there got contaminated, too. So what can you do? Stay and put up with it or leave and not is what it looks like to me.
Many people say that the internet is not like RL. I totally disagree. At least on tribe, it is all too often very much a mirror of the real world, warts and all.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:34 AMI like the astronuts tribe (it was named aptly) & it's Wild Wild West forum. I get the feeling that astrology conferences are kinda the same way (passionate, cranky & eccentric) with the main differences, that people have paid $ to attend & are looking each other physically in the eye.
I think the bottom line with the squabbling, is that people need to get it out of their system & it is easy enough for me to stop opening a thread once I have determined that the last 30 posts or so have just been a personal quarrel that doesn't involve me.
I think it is an important skill to learn how to identify & avoid trolls, if one chooses ~ for being on tribe & applying to 'real life'.
I also think that the interpersonal struggles do reveal quite a lot about those who engage in them & with their natal charts on display, it is an astrological research arena
& that the sensationalism of the tribe does keep the *drama* factor alive & although some people do leave (mostly temporarily) ~ it keeps the tribe active during all of these 'maintenance down times' ~ at this point in tribe's history, any action is good ~ I know that most of the other tribes I belong to have been non-active for a while & even if there is limited academic astrological posting, the drama-factor keeps the blood pumping ~ right now the astronuts tribe is really the only tribe that keeps me checking tribe every day & IMHO still keeps tribe one step up from facebook.
I really don't think the 'unpleasantness' keeps people from posting there ~ I just think it fills in the 'dead air' between academically minded astrological postings ~ I do my part & contribute as much as I am able ~ starting threads on topics that interest me & contributing to threads that I like ~ but, I think it is 'wishful thinking' to say that the tribe would be better if more of the in-fighting was halted ~ I think there would just be more dead air (like many of the moderated astrology tribes that I belong to) & that, until tribe gets it's technical issues all straightened out & can begin to attract more 'new blood' ~ the drama may actually be keeping it alive.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:42 AMps ~ I don't think 'member clean up' is useful in any way ~ sure most of those are dead profiles ~ but, some people just periodically lurk & there is no way to distinguish them from an actually dead profile ~ putting up a notice for everyone 'active' to sign in and/or sending out PM's to everyone is likely to be more work than benefit, without guaranteeing complete accuracy ~ it seems dumb to delete profiles from a public tribe ~ I don't see a need to 'clean it up' just for the sake of orderliness itself -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 12:23 PMWhen the argument is made that a prospective moderator has responsibility for a tribe of over 5000 members, it should be understood that this is not in fact the case, but there is no way to prove it. Having inflated numbers may help tribe advertise itself, and it is true that with people coming and going it is not possible to have a static picture of the site or of any tribe, for that matter, but having no real idea of who is actually here and who is not just muddies the waters. If there is no mod and continues to be no mod, it is basically irrelevant, however.
I can cope with the place without a moderator ~ have been doing so in my own way for a while now. But if the point is that people get turned off by the tribe because of chaos reigning, either they should realize that is the way such things will go and accept that or forget about it. To gripe about how it isn't the user-friendly place they would like it to be and how everyone should just get along is of no help and totally unrealistic. This sort of attitude also peeves me.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 5:33 PMJust opening a discussion on...
And btw I don't really suggest a Mod. Though on occasion a good doorman might be helpful...lol -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 6:13 PMAs we all acknowledge, whatever the inflation of the numbers, we are talking about a highly popular, highly active tribe. Why fix what ain't broke? There are plenty of other astrology based tribes if you are looking for more order. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 7:59 PM<Why fix what ain't broke?>
That is what I am saying. These old timers have a problem, they can seek the remedy ~ otherwise they should shut up. They say they don't like the tenor of the social exchange ~ Well, I don't like their whining and complaining about it if they aren't going to step up to the friggin plate. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 8:31 PMSee I get Dragon's point.
Some of us (old timers or not) came on to the astronuts tribe to learn something about astrology and exchange ideas regarding astrology. While I have learned some things, the level of drama - distraction, really - has gone up in the years since I first joined.
Amiable, what makes you think that some of us "old timers" haven't tried to step up to the plate, whatever that means? Really what is your proposed solution for the old-timers? I mean motherfuckers get on to astronuts lately to act a fool. I'm not worried about a fucking mod but jesus fucking christ on a goddamn wooden crutch, it seems that what is happening on astronuts is a symptom of what's going in the human world - namely, the focus of attention upon bullshit and trivial matters. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 8:50 PMFeeling somewhat passionate, Brian? LOL.
What I mean about stepping up to the plate is, if you don't like something, do something. Don't just bitch. And if you find this all going on in the "real world," then the same applies. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 9:42 PMPassionate? I wouldn't use that word, amiable....I call it what it is - "fed up".
In the case of stepping up to the plate, I have done my part to try to derail/stop the drama posts before they start (however backhanded my way had been). For my trouble, I got drawn into a fucking flame war. Why? Because I guess there are some people that just want to watch the world burn (or at least have it turn into a cacophony not unlike the squabble of billions of parrots) so that they aren't bored. Saying that if you don't like something change it is all fine and good but for the most part it really doesn't do shit on some occasions. It's fucking discouraging really because it begets a tendency for one to not do anything because what been tried before has failed, leading to a "fuck it all" attitude and keeping quiet when trying again despite failure is a better option.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:14 PM<In fact, amiable I see you participating in some of those drama drenched threads. What do you get out of participating in them? >
A variety of things, actually. And some of them come to me, not I to them. One could say that is a matter of perspective, which of course it is. I definitely have my own perspective. How could I not?
You seem to fail to see that while you sit in the sidelines for most of this, some of us are carrying on trying to do some course corrections ~ with greater or lesser success. I'm just saying, walk in my boots for a while. Then tell me how you like the scenarios. I'd be fascinated. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:56 PMRE:
You seem to fail to see that while you sit in the sidelines for most of this, some of us are carrying on trying to do some course corrections ~ with greater or lesser success. I'm just saying, walk in my boots for a while. Then tell me how you like the scenarios. I'd be fascinated.
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Oddly enough, amiable, from my side of things, you seem more like you are "attention-whoring" on some threads. So if your participation is more for the sake of getting things back on track within a thread, my apologies.
Myself, I have been burned, so no more for me. I only participate in threads in which I think I can actually learn something and that haven't gone to shit. However why would I need to "walk in your boots"? I just told you that I tried to do some "course correction" myself. In fact I remember doing that about 3 years ago in one post where I compared astronuts to a sandbox. That didn't win me any popularity but then again, fuck a popularity contest. To end, my way of bringing things back to the purpose of the astrotribe is to do what I'm doing now. When I get tired of that, I figure I'll do like Dragon and attend to real life. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:10 PMWhatever blows your skirt. Far be it for me to say anything about anyone who has tried their own measures. I just get sorta pissed when I get dumped on for holding my own in a problematic situation. Not asking for support. Just no shit for doing the best I can.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 8:56 PM~~ namely, the focus of attention upon bullshit and trivial matters. ~~
LOL.. Ya and just a s a place to escape the stupidity of the RL and maybe get to relate to some like minded intelligent folks you might not get to meet or relate with in real life.
But Mem makes a very good point. The marketing factor of numbers. I mean when folks see 5000+, well it must be something worth while checking out. And the Noise like a bar scene is kinda raw energy that attracts and keeps things going in the long run.
To be honest I first joined out of boredom, Looked like a happenin' room. But then I got caught up in the actual art of astrology.
I was one of the not knowing too much past Sun Moon Rising signs....
Humm maybe I have more 11th house type life experiences than I think I do, at least as the wall flower watching.Or the Bartender-Foreman kinda position of runnin'- directing the show.
I guess sometimes this Childish behavior just gets tedious...
But I am expecting my RL social life to re-start soon, and I'll get borred of the tribin thing again.... -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 8:57 PM~~Feeling somewhat passionate, Brian? LOL.~~
As always.... The main reason I kinda like the Dude..
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 9:06 PMTry being the shiny attraction for a troll. Or having to duke it out with the guru because his wife is the jealous type. Not everyone's situation there is the same. Some of us don't get what we came there for, but something else. Yeah, it is always the option to be ladylike and demur. And that gets you exactly where in the scheme of things?
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:13 PMRE:
I really don't think the 'unpleasantness' keeps people from posting there ~ I just think it fills in the 'dead air' between academically minded astrological postings ~ I do my part & contribute as much as I am able ~ starting threads on topics that interest me & contributing to threads that I like ~ but, I think it is 'wishful thinking' to say that the tribe would be better if more of the in-fighting was halted ~ I think there would just be more dead air (like many of the moderated astrology tribes that I belong to) & that, until tribe gets it's technical issues all straightened out & can begin to attract more 'new blood' ~ the drama may actually be keeping it alive.
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MaryEllen I don't agree with that for 2 reasons.
1) I think it's allowable to let a tribe die, once it's purpose (whatever it was) has been fulfilled. If the moderator doesn't choose to scrap the tribe once it's dead, it will be there for future members to look at and post in if they wish.
2) Drama as a technique for advertising works but I think that works for only so long until people get bored of watching the drama. Using the drama keeps a tribe alive, and Tribe in general, but at what cost? I can see that people come to Tribe to get away from the dreck of Myspace, Facebook, etc. What if those people come here and find it is more of the same because of the drama? -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:23 PMI am not fond of it. But I think you have to realize that it is the friggin hand you are dealt there in one way or another, and you can choose to swallow it or not. If you don't like it, petition for a mod. But don't expect a good response to that. It seems obvious that there are more people who prefer to bitch about it and do nothing than there are people who really kind of give a shit about changing it. Because there are solutions. It is just that no one is willing to invest in them. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 10:36 PMActually, I am somewhat reminded now of trying to talk to exio about being responsible for children ~ and he has never had any. Certainly makes his expert opinion questionable. No ~ be where I am for a while and then talk to me about it. -
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Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:09 PM>>Actually, I am somewhat reminded now of trying to talk to exio about being responsible for children ~ and he has never had any. Certainly makes his expert opinion questionable. No ~ be where I am for a while and then talk to me about it.<<<
I'm sorry you think you need to battle with someone who doesn't know what it is like to be responsible for children but was this in regard to exio's astrological position about children or something he just thought up? Not everybody is gonna be a fucking genius in relation to some subjects. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:13 PMComplicated. He was talking about women. Equated parenting with being a babysitter. Ask Dragon about that. You two get along better than I do with either of you. LOL.. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:25 PMThat my thing in life. I kinda identify in some way, to just about everyone. gets me in trouble often when folks want me to chose a side, Ive been shoved out of both sides for not siding with either and siding with both. I'm very flexable, just only one person.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:46 PMI certainly respect perspectives of people I personally don't even respect ~ such as sherpa. I respect much about him, but not him. I think he is basically a coward. At least that is the side he has shown to me. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Sun, May 31, 2009 - 11:57 PMBut you guys think and do whatever you please, which you will anyway. I am done.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Mon, June 1, 2009 - 8:41 AMSorry I got all crabby yesterday. Another lunatic went after me last night, necessitating my unsubbing from a tribe while posting here. Fortunately, that tribe has a mod, so by the morning the freak was history and I was invited back with apologies.
Ultimately, I agree with mem that tribe needs to get its hardware and software problems resolved so that people will subscribe or resubscribe to it. I think that if that happens many of these crazies will hit the road and there will be a lot more substantive activity. At the moment, however, it seems like the nuts are as abundant as the bugs. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Mon, June 1, 2009 - 12:02 PMYa well I looked last night and it looks like the resident nut is talking to himself again in like 6 threads...
Awhile back that was the last straw that had me stop looking for a while. I remember a whole page one day of nothing but Mr Lord himself..
And sometimes I think Raymond should write his book on his Blog and just put a link in his post.
Though he is harmless enough and an Ok dude..
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Re: Speaking of Social
Mon, June 1, 2009 - 1:38 PMRE:
Sorry I got all crabby yesterday. Another lunatic went after me last night, necessitating my unsubbing from a tribe while posting here. Fortunately, that tribe has a mod, so by the morning the freak was history and I was invited back with apologies.
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It's funny you'd say that. Here it is Dragon and I have the placments in Cancer and you were the one that was "crabby". Hehe. No worries.
I find that there are a few things that I care about. I also find that I can get frustrated easily when I don't know how to solve a problem. So yeah I will bitch about something but only to find a solution later on. Once I get it off my chest, I find my solution and I'm done.
Tribe...I have no idea on why the nutjobs are attracted to Tribe lately. Maybe I shouldn't have wished to have the splendor of /b/ brought to Tribe. In any case, "nuttier" people are something I'll have to deal with until i get bored of them. Then it's hasta la pasta. -
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Mon, June 1, 2009 - 2:48 PM<It's funny you'd say that. Here it is Dragon and I have the placments in Cancer and you were the one that was "crabby". Hehe. No worries.>
Um. My Venus is in Cancer trining my Virgo Jupiter/Asc conjunction. Even so, I don't think I should consider a career in the hospitality industry. -
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Re: Speaking of Social
Mon, June 1, 2009 - 3:03 PM>>>Um. My Venus is in Cancer trining my Virgo Jupiter/Asc conjunction. Even so, I don't think I should consider a career in the hospitality industry.<<
Yeah, like I'm suited for my Customer Service job...
Mars in 6th House Cancer square Sun/Moon conjunction in Libra.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Tue, June 2, 2009 - 6:59 PMSherpa fucking ROCKS to the utmost highest
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Re: Speaking of Social
Tue, June 2, 2009 - 8:50 PMNot in everyone's estimation, princess.
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Re: Speaking of Social
Tue, June 2, 2009 - 10:26 PM"Sherpa fucking ROCKS to the utmost highest"
Or some might say he Sucks ROCKS to the.................LOL
He's just a guy. I had lunch with him last time I visited East Bay. Words, Astro and metaphysics are his biz.
One would hope after all those years he'd be kinda good at it...
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Re: Speaking of Social
Tue, June 2, 2009 - 10:44 PMNo doubt everyone will have their own personal impressions. No big deal. As I said, for myself, there is much I respect about him without necessarily respecting him so much. But that is my opinion based on my own experiences.
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