Hi,
I am a cancer woman and have recently discovered the magic that just gets illusioned, when you meet a Leo man.
To begin with I just got acquainted to him and I took it as a very casual acquaintance. But his persistence in attempting to ask me out got me one day. The few hours just flew and we had a mad time and things began from there for me. There is this strange attraction. I dont know what he feels about all this, but I am slowly loosing my self when around him.
And that is how i ended up in this tribe :) trying to find answers if this will ever work out and if i should even bother continuing.
Meeting this Leo man has some what turned into an addiction. I have and had true feelings. I am not sure if Leo's feel the same way.
I have had the displeasure of experiencing few white lies and careless neglect from him towards me and my feelings. That has already hurt this sensitive cancer. But i have tried to move on, brushing it off , affirming myself that there is nothing going on between us because I dont seem to mean much to him. But again after few weeks he is back to being the person he is (like nothing ever happened - forgot about the lies, how i must have felt), (pretending?) to be interested in me? And being a cancerian, i am again being swept off my feet when he is around.
But where is all this going? Will this continue to be so? Will I have to put up with his dis-honest side/ or so called 'cancer will feel neglected' in this relationship line of thought?
Should I think so deeply about the neglects? because I do feel very hurt and in situations like that feel like a DOORMAT (so used!!) and feel really bad. But other times, if I forget about being used part, it is just magical and wonderful. what to do? Is the attraction bit only temporary and so should I forget about him compeletly and move on?
any suggestions?
All the other posts I have read are very thought provoking, I meant it is true to an extent.
Are there any married couples or people in a long term-relationship (leo man-cancer women combination) who could advise?
I am a cancer woman and have recently discovered the magic that just gets illusioned, when you meet a Leo man.
To begin with I just got acquainted to him and I took it as a very casual acquaintance. But his persistence in attempting to ask me out got me one day. The few hours just flew and we had a mad time and things began from there for me. There is this strange attraction. I dont know what he feels about all this, but I am slowly loosing my self when around him.
And that is how i ended up in this tribe :) trying to find answers if this will ever work out and if i should even bother continuing.
Meeting this Leo man has some what turned into an addiction. I have and had true feelings. I am not sure if Leo's feel the same way.
I have had the displeasure of experiencing few white lies and careless neglect from him towards me and my feelings. That has already hurt this sensitive cancer. But i have tried to move on, brushing it off , affirming myself that there is nothing going on between us because I dont seem to mean much to him. But again after few weeks he is back to being the person he is (like nothing ever happened - forgot about the lies, how i must have felt), (pretending?) to be interested in me? And being a cancerian, i am again being swept off my feet when he is around.
But where is all this going? Will this continue to be so? Will I have to put up with his dis-honest side/ or so called 'cancer will feel neglected' in this relationship line of thought?
Should I think so deeply about the neglects? because I do feel very hurt and in situations like that feel like a DOORMAT (so used!!) and feel really bad. But other times, if I forget about being used part, it is just magical and wonderful. what to do? Is the attraction bit only temporary and so should I forget about him compeletly and move on?
any suggestions?
All the other posts I have read are very thought provoking, I meant it is true to an extent.
Are there any married couples or people in a long term-relationship (leo man-cancer women combination) who could advise?
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Fri, January 19, 2007 - 11:50 PMWait, I just read this story because I was surfing some tribes. This is my impression of the story. I felt like the moment you got married you thought it was a special cut off line, like the relationship had to be way different and had a certain air. Maybe thats why your guy got weird.
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Fri, July 6, 2007 - 1:46 AMi am born 7/24/1955 in geneva switzerland. i have been told that if i had been bornn 2 hours earlier id be cancer. i am an art historian and an artist.. probably my artistic sens coming from cancer bur t the taste for luxury dronm leo...
i have a nery good e-girlfriend whom i am goinf to visit soon in souther france and more...
i dont get well with a m mate, but its due to HIS nasty personnality!
thinking of more
xxx
harvey
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Tue, January 15, 2008 - 7:33 PMWell, I have been dating...well WAS a leo..myself bein a cancer......for about 4 months....NIGHTMARE! I have never met such an arrogant...pompous...selfish...self centered person in my entire life!! He says we have no "titles" meaning we are FRIENDS yet hes always mad cus i talk to men on my cell phone.....always askin me what i did the night before if he wasnt here...He would never admit to being wrong.....If i disagreed with his views....i was bein naive.....said i was always disrespecting him or "out of pocket" ...Drank constantly......sex was a joke.....HIS "me time" as he called and thats jus what it was HIS time...lmao....Got him a job thru my company and ends up he is sleeping with three of his clients and is STILL questioning what im doing.....and insisting to me that he isnt "sleeping" with them....LIES lies lies......Told me to never in my life call him again so i stopped calling...3 days went by and what do u know...hes calling me to talk about our "job" of course hes still questioning what i been doing in my spare time etc etc.....Pure craziness!!!! Its all a game to him and as far as im concerned...GAME OVER!!!!
whew....I feel so much better sorry so negative but this is my first Leo and will most certainly be my last!!!
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Mon, February 25, 2008 - 4:03 PMIf he is really into you, then you should see what he really wants from you. Leos tend to be sneaky,( I know Im a leo woman), They love to wine a dine. But If i were you I would just be careful.Don't let thoughs white lies pass. Don't let him use you. Try to act like you have plans with your friends if he wants to come over. Play hard to get. Don't become so available to him. He will want you more.
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Sun, March 23, 2008 - 6:37 AMWow!
Do u know me? You definitely just described my relationship with Leo bf!
One best desribes this relationship: Roller-coaster baby!
He is exactly like how u describe your man. I've been always the one ending the relationship and still the one mending it back. We've been "off" (as in no contact because i made myself unreacheable) for a year. I had a relationship with an Arian but like most relationships with fire, didn't work out. Well, mainly because i'm still not over my previous Leo flame.
And i thought he's changed.
And i was wrong again.
Worse.. i just found out that his chinese zodiac is a Horse. Combined with Leo.. that's a lion doubled!!!
Actually before reading your post i was just contemplating on leaving him for good this time without looking back.
But then again, after reading your post, could it be maybe that's just how Leos are?? Or are we Crabbies too Clingies???
Would it work to love them for who they are (we are capable of that, my fellow crab) while giving them a loooooooonnng leash (which is really something new for us clingers)?
What d'ya think?
By the way, Leo men out there please shed light.
Dragonness Crab
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Sun, May 11, 2008 - 8:50 PMMale persepective coming through...
First off, I'm the exact middle of Leo, (8/8), and while I must say that yes at times I can be the biggest pompous, arrogant, confident bastard around, the compatability of two people has more to do with upbringing and personality than just signs. I was brought up to be loyal and treat women with respect (and not just while I'm trying to get into their pants!) I can't speak for all Leo's, but this one here is definitely one that is exactly as what he preaches.
I married a Gemini (Apparently, a very good match), and we ended up divorcing after about 6mos of marriage and 3yrs total time being involved. But, as is her personality, she was deceitful and conniving. I can't change that. After we married, she took advantage of my wanting to go out and experience life. (I don't have much money, but I still like to have fun.) Still, she figured that I would somehow magically be able to provide for the both of us. A combination of these factors, besides her infidelity, lead to our demise.
My current flame is a Cancer, and I feel she is completely on my par. And I find the curiosity has been estatically piqued, but in no way do I want her to feel that I'm only after ONE thing. She is not a conquest. Then again this is the internet so I'm sure there are skeptics galore. But still, I can't keep thinking about her, and not in a 'game manner'.
Point is: Most men are jackasses, regardless of their sign. Some of us are actually genuine, again, regardless of sign. Chivalry and depth and involvement were taught in my family. But hey, take what you want from what I've said. Just don't lump every Leo into being deceitful and lying. Some of us actually give a rat's ass about our partners. Some of us actually continue the 'wining and dining' and the random gifts from the heart long after marriage, some of us are just hopeless romantics, regardless of whether or not we are Leos. -
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Re: Leo Man and cancer woman
Mon, July 7, 2008 - 9:45 AMAmen my Leo brother. I am a mirror of the treatment I receive. If she is attentive, loyal, earnest, truthful and loyal she will get that all in return many times over. If she is tricksy, I catch her in lies, she is not loyal I owe her nothing and even if the relationship continuse why should she expect what she doesn't give me? In pleasure I always give her 100%. I find great pleasure in her pleasure. In all things I am generous, giving and go out of my way to let my partner/lover know I am thinking of her.
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