i am a sexy lioness and i had a little trouble with my cancer boy... but i'll just tell you a little bit about us leos and that might be able to help you...
from a leo perspective i often found my cancer to be a bit too sensitive, always getting upset at little idiosyncrosies....
yes, leo's are very loyal, if we choose you then we will hold you in such high esteem (though i can't speak for males)...
but because of this we are very susceptable to betrayal... (we are likely to think you are betraying our friendship, than our trust or infidelity)
i have a LOT of male friends and i don't think cancer boy understood that... and yes we're pretty affectionate with these friends because we love to touch & be touched, but wouldn't betray our loved one (provided you don't betray us)
i imagine cancer's don't have many close friends of the opposite sex, is this correct? they strike me as being 'all in' with one person.
as for being out with friends, this is when leo's are in their element and feel most comfortable, and don't want to be smothered, if you give them space to run around, and act say as a base camp for them, they will most likely return to you every 5-10 mins.
so when ur leo just sits there at your social activities, it's probably because he's acting out as he would want it for himself... giving you room to run free and do your thang, on the proviso you return to touch him lots and flirt and make eyes at him.... acknowledge he is there.....a lot, but don't hang off him, this is where he will observe your independence and sex appeal to others around, and ultimately where he will fall for you watching how great you are....
as for wining and dining, then taking it away... well we want equality dammit... we love to shower attention and gifts, but dammit after a while we begin to get drained and want someone to do the pampering for us....
basically we just want to get some lovin back.... we see effort in a relationship as an investment.... and we stop as somewhat of a test to see what were gonna get back and test your love....
sometimes we get to a point where we want to know you love us not for what we do for you... but just for us.... get it?
so when your boys stop all that wining and dining... you show more affection than ever, your more likely to get the rewards...
yeah me and my guy didn't work out... i gave him a book on leo's and he just didn't get it....
he said i was a head fcuk...?????
but that's not what we're talking about here...
good luck...
from a leo perspective i often found my cancer to be a bit too sensitive, always getting upset at little idiosyncrosies....
yes, leo's are very loyal, if we choose you then we will hold you in such high esteem (though i can't speak for males)...
but because of this we are very susceptable to betrayal... (we are likely to think you are betraying our friendship, than our trust or infidelity)
i have a LOT of male friends and i don't think cancer boy understood that... and yes we're pretty affectionate with these friends because we love to touch & be touched, but wouldn't betray our loved one (provided you don't betray us)
i imagine cancer's don't have many close friends of the opposite sex, is this correct? they strike me as being 'all in' with one person.
as for being out with friends, this is when leo's are in their element and feel most comfortable, and don't want to be smothered, if you give them space to run around, and act say as a base camp for them, they will most likely return to you every 5-10 mins.
so when ur leo just sits there at your social activities, it's probably because he's acting out as he would want it for himself... giving you room to run free and do your thang, on the proviso you return to touch him lots and flirt and make eyes at him.... acknowledge he is there.....a lot, but don't hang off him, this is where he will observe your independence and sex appeal to others around, and ultimately where he will fall for you watching how great you are....
as for wining and dining, then taking it away... well we want equality dammit... we love to shower attention and gifts, but dammit after a while we begin to get drained and want someone to do the pampering for us....
basically we just want to get some lovin back.... we see effort in a relationship as an investment.... and we stop as somewhat of a test to see what were gonna get back and test your love....
sometimes we get to a point where we want to know you love us not for what we do for you... but just for us.... get it?
so when your boys stop all that wining and dining... you show more affection than ever, your more likely to get the rewards...
yeah me and my guy didn't work out... i gave him a book on leo's and he just didn't get it....
he said i was a head fcuk...?????
but that's not what we're talking about here...
good luck...
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Re: lioness n crabby male
Sat, September 30, 2006 - 7:28 PMWow!!! Alexendra I am a Leo male and you just nailed it. I have never hard it so clear. I need to send this post to my wife. She is a scorpio.
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Re: lioness n crabby male
Sun, October 8, 2006 - 6:34 PMI agree with you Alex. I am a Cancer on the cusp of Leo with a Leo moon - and the Cancer boys I dated were wonderful with intimacy, but they could not stand what a flirt I was. I was totally loyal and would NEVER cheat. But they just didn't understand that I NEEDED to be social and be the center of attention in order to have some energy to give them later...
I am done with Cancer men forever - pills I say! PILLS! At best, very loving and nurturing, at worst, bitchy and moody and not a lot of FUN!
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Re: lioness n crabby male
Sun, October 21, 2007 - 7:44 PMOutstanding points, Alexandra.
They all apply to leo males. At least, to myself and the other leo males I know. -
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Re: lioness n crabby male
Mon, March 3, 2008 - 7:34 PMThis Leo Virgo rising July 31 b-day male agrees. If I care for you I am loyal, fuck with me and you will pay. An elephant may never forget but the Lion ran the elephant off and he got lost. Flirt but touch base and don't get bent if I flirt, it is my life blood. Give me strokes and you can lead me around on a leash. I'm sixty years old but a passionate romantic and can tear the sheets up several times a week.
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