I am an Aries sun(barely i am born on the cusp march 21) scorpio rising and cancer moon. Two months ago i met a beautiful Leo woman( she is leo sun aries rising and virgo moon) and we hit it off immedietly. The fireworks i tell you!! She had just gotten out of a relationship (i didn't realize how recent it had been until just the other day) and she wanted to take her time getting to know me. She told me stories of her past heart break and how she wouldn't get into another relationship without knowing the person. I was patient, caring, kind and she was the initiator almost 90 percent of the time with everything. When we hung out, had sex etc... not that I am docile she just took charge and because she had emphasized needing time I was giving it to her. Even so we would end up spending 4 to five days a week together. If there was the slightest bit of me wanting to take charge or express my feelings about things she would pull back. But when i gave her the freedom and basically power she could not get enough of me! I became frustrated recently feeling like this whole relationship or non relationship was in HER hands and not mine. I started to see how SELFISH she was being by having restrictions on what we could say or not. We were dating exclusively but we sure as hell coudln't talk about it. Then she might have to admit it! Two days ago she started acting strange i confronted her on it and of course she didn't like that. She then tells me that she ran into her ex girlfriend and realized that she still has feelings for her and wants to date her and see if it's still there. I was so blindsided! I felt used. She felt she was being honest . She says she has feelings for me, cares about me, likes me but has to know about this ex girlfriend before moving forward with me. All i have heard of her ex for two months is how miserable she was with her, how all her friends and family hated her. How she kicked her out of the house and had been OUT of love with her for 3 months before they broke up. Now she suddenly gets these feelings for her again. I told her theer was NO way i was going to see her while she was seeing her ex as well. I feel it is a slap in the face. So we are no longer seeing each other until she figures things out! I am hurt and don't know what to do. Walk away? Or fight for her?