hi
couldn't resist the invitation. you know how everybody looks for thier "SOUL MATE" ? well for us it's been exactly the opposite. we are 180 degree opposites. our biorythms are exactly 180 degree opposite. our charts are opposite. our beliefs, likes, dilikes etc.etc. are OPPOSITE.
made for very exciting first 20 years to be sure. but since we GAVE OUR WORD to each other till death do us part and for better or worse and since we are both people of our word there was no turning back. we stuck it out. after awhile we realised that bieng exactly opposite made us VERY STABLE. when i was up she was down so i carried her.... and vice versa. when important descisions were afoot we had the benefit of one or the other bieng up for it. when things needed doing one of us was always up for it. when you put two 180 out of phase together what you get is FLATLINE STABLE. so forget all the soulmate crap. when both are UP or both are DOWN you're in deep shit. who's going to take care of you when both are down? who's going to make sensible decisions when both of you are UP ? if you see my point. and finally someones has to be the last resort. the buck has to stop somewhere. but for it to work BOTH have to be honest in thier intentions and fair to a fault. no one can take advantage of the situation. in short both have to be completely devoted to the other.but not OWNING each other. both have to submit totally to the other. both have to give 100%. i don't think much about my happiness. but NOTHING upsets me more than her bieng unhappy. in that way i gain my own happiness.
kapieche?