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Hi all, I am just another blogger confused about a capricorn. Met this lovely, confusing the hell out of me guy almost a month ago through mutual freinds. We hung out on a saturday night and things moved VERY quickly. I'll spare you the hot details. LOL. Well, I woke up that sunday morning with that OOPS fator & i was suprised that I wasn't ready to run away . Although that may of been hard because he had me in his embrace/ restraint., I'm not a cuddler unless it's a boyfriend. It usually makes me very uncomfortable. He on the other hand had me feeling quite cozy. We spent half the day watching movies, well atleast he did. I can't seem to sit still for to long..lol. His friend poppd up at my door 2 pick him up and spoiled the party. I heard from my friend that my cap was avoiding his phone calls like he didn't want to leave. He gave me the wierdest goodbye I've ever had. He kissed me on my lips, cheek, fore head and eyebrow? wierd but nice. so he called me 2 say hi the next day, VERY brief but left me feeling like I made a good impression after that big OOPS factor. NOW, this is where the chase begins. I call him, no answer. He calls me, I answer. I tex , no responce...no responce.....no responce. About two weeks go by and I got the feeling that he wasn't interested. so , i texd him and told him I enjoyed his company but i'm a big girl that can take a hint and to take care. I got an immediate responce and he said, " NO NO NO baby I will see you soon." We hooked up again had a blast. Basically a repeat of the first weekend. A couple days later i texd him and no responce. A week went by and he didn't call to say hi or anything. I was trying to be patient becasue of the whole distant cap thing and that failed quickly so I texd him askin if he liked me and he replied, YES YES YES. ????????? I don't get it. I have virgo best friend and she thinks that him saying yes three times was an irritated yes and i took the other way. I don't know if it's a virgo thing but she can't step out of her box sometimes so I don't know if she's the best person to ask in this case. I feel like i'm in grade school. I got butterflies and asking my friends if he likes me. I've read all the other bloggs about these reserved, in there box capricorns. I understand , that's who they are and don't want to change it. I just want to understand how someone can blow u off and then pop up like nothing's happpend. His distance makes me feel like he is not interested. I'm not clingy. I don't expect anything from him. Just a casual hello and his company would be nice and I told him the same thing but got no responce. I would appreciate your input! Does he like me ; )????
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Unsu...
Re: Aries women Clueless about capricorn male?
Mon, April 20, 2009 - 3:50 PMhonestly, I don't know if its a capricorn trait but it does sound like he's pissing you around. the abrupt mannerism of any guy doing that could mean multiple women on the go.
Unfortunately, people do that and have an innate ability to court with many of the opposite sex at one time.
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Mon, April 20, 2009 - 4:52 PMHey, thanks for responding. I do assume with most guys I start dating that they have a lil black book as well as I ... ; ). I would think that his "lil black book" and/or other engagements would have nothing to do with a simple hello. Odd. I've dated plenty and this has never happend. I'm stumped? I'm always the "one" getting chased. First time for everrything..lol. I wonder if my infatuation with him is that he's not infatuated with me..wow, now that could be a no brainer? I definately feel out of "my" aries box letting a guy that I'm just dating get to me! Bitter/sweet
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Tue, April 21, 2009 - 2:36 PMI agree with red here
Not an astrological thing, though maybe he lied about his sign too.
Wishing you godspeed.
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Wed, April 22, 2009 - 7:52 AM
wow.
you have an amazing capacity for patience.
for me... the person I am dating needs to want to be with me as much as I with them.
anything else sets up weird power, control and needy-ness.
and needy is just creepy. coming from me, or coming from the other person.
it ain't at ALL healthy.
Aries are always all up in our heads.
what did the three yesses mean?
who the fuck cares - the dude ain't calling you back.
no offense, but consider that maybe you should expect better.
I get the whole we desire what we cannot have...
but see it and move beyond it. Do you really want to hang out with flakes?
I get that 90% of the population sees the whole dating thing as a Pursuer/Pursuee... game, battle, ordeal.
lying, compromising and seeing what you can "get-away-with" to get a piece is just part of that.
with prizes of affection as trophy...
shallow and tenuous foundation for a relationship... no?
if one plays games with people, then one should expect to attract players.
but what if there is a different way of seeing it?
Aries are all about being up in our head.
maybe that means... That in someways WE are the ones that have to begin to act in new ways.
sorry stepping off my soap box now.
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Wed, April 22, 2009 - 10:27 AML OL. LMAO!!! No offense taken at all! I love your straight up , tell it like it is style. I want to hear what I need 2 hear. Appreciate your frankness. Thanks -
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Re: Aries women Clueless about capricorn male?
Wed, April 22, 2009 - 4:25 PMTom said more of what I wanted to tell you.
Capricorn men rarely get in relationships because their shy and prefer to work hard instead.
Of course, then you get the 'smooth' Capricorns who think their frank sinatra or elvis (both cappys). These guys are total love rats..... worse than Libra men at times.
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Sat, April 25, 2009 - 12:29 AMProgress .........Mission impossible. Didn't hear from him scince his last "yes, yes yes" tex . Heres the funny part........My girlfriend shares a mutual friend with this guy and through the grape vine, he said, she said, I called him every day???? Even funnier, I am pressuring him to come to some sort of decision??? I don't know how he pulled that crap out his.......? I don't get it . he must be ....."special" . I basically gave this man me on a silver platter with the burger king " have it your way" menu deal. I BLUNTLY told him my intentions were just to have fun, drama free, no expectations, no attitudes, not clingy , no strings, no ties and In all honesty thats how i feel when it comes to "dating". If not in a comitted relationship I expect and give the same respect. I hate it when guys start acting like were in a relationship and everything that comes along with them when we are simply dating. I have no clue what the underline reason is for him lying to his friend. But I'm assuming he would look very "special" If he told him my true intentions. Poor guy, can't handle a real women w/ no strings attatched. Can't handle the heat in a fire proof kitchen?? Cap clueless once again? I hope for caps sake he is the weekest link. What I do know for sure, is that my aries fire was put out very quickly to the point of being odd. I was clearly on could none for a moment in time. o'well, till next time........hopefully cupid will be on his A game the next time I get stuck w/ butterflies. -
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Sat, April 25, 2009 - 8:52 AM
Capricorn, Aries, Martian... we all have insecurities, and we all show them in various ways.
the boy is flattered by your actions, and his insecurities took him to some odd places...
can any of us *really* say that we are 100% proud of our treatment of others 100% of the time?
can any of us say that we are 100% honest about how many times we have called or have had others call us 100% of the time?
anyway, glad you have resolution... for now.
if you are a typical Aries, you will, no doubt infuse much more *drama* into the situation...
so... good luck with that.
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Sat, April 25, 2009 - 10:56 AMAlso, as an Aries, you will forgive and forget very quickly.
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Sat, April 25, 2009 - 1:55 PMI can say as an aries, I am very forgiving. I assumed another aries trait was honesty? Personally I can't relate to "not" being upront and bluntly "honest". No need to bend the truth to strangers or people that are close to me. I feel the energy you feed is what u recieve. Decieve and be deieved....karma ...ect.... My conscience is lit 24/7 unless it's a harmless white lie that wont bring karma or negative energy to me or someone else. When I attempt to lie, I studder. When I do lie, I find myself at tug a war with my conscience and and up spilling my guts in the end. It sucks at times!! As an aries, I thought we generally are more upfront and honest people? They say we can't lie worth a dam, so I've heard. So, in regaurds to stirring up drama ......Not this aries. Drama usually finds me and being that "drama" is a shit starter I'll have to quote my uncle Dave by saying," U start shit, U get your ass whooped." I know honesty is unfortunately a rare trait to have. I've met some Aries that are like a self image of me and other aries that are totally oppositte. Why is that???
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Re: Aries women Clueless about capricorn male?
Sun, April 26, 2009 - 5:46 AMWell, I'll try and explain some of my knowledge about Aries through my little brother as an example....
Firstly, Aries are trusting but different circumstances can make them liars too. My younger brother is an Aries but his moon sign is Sagittarius.
He's a compulsive liar but I'm not sure if that's either his peronality traits or the fact that he's got paranoid schizophrenia.
He lied to loads of people that he had cancer so that everyone would give him lots of sympathy and attention.
I'm a Taurus and through going up we were great friends as bros but we had huge fights - physical and verbal. We'd make the Gallgher brothers look tame in comparison.
The only way we'd make friends again is purely because my little bro would be the bigger man and make peace. I'm a moody git who keeps grudges. He would never bring up the past and would never read anything past face value.
I would say to him "I just won a million pounds!" and he would go "Really!? Awesome!!"
I've learnt though that despite you lot coming across as naive and sometimes stupid, you're actually a higly intelligent bunch.
However, so are Capricorns and they bottle up all their feelings. I don't make many Capricorn friends to be honest since they are way too anti-social for me -
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Sun, April 26, 2009 - 6:02 PMWow... I'm glad you both keep the peace after all was said and done. Your bro sounds quite the oppositte of me. I have encounterd 2 aries like myself and two or three that sound more like your brother. How can I find out what moon i'm in? I was born march 21, 1979? Curious if that has alot to do with it? -
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Mon, April 27, 2009 - 10:21 AMAhhhhhh, let me introduce you to an interesting topic then....
Your moon sign is either the Capricorn, like mine or the Sagittarius moon, like my brother.
March 21st in 1979 becomes the capricorn moon or if you were born earlier that day, it will be Sagittarius.
People may give you all this spiel about moon signs, mercury, venus, mars yadda yadda yadda.
I look at it in a realistic way since your 'sun sign' and 'moon sign' is basically your logic side of the brain and emotions.
ID and Ego (Sigmund Freud called it that).
I reckon you're a sagittarius moon like my brother for some reason. You sound more outgoing and extroverted like a Sagittarius moon does. My Capricorn moon makes me more introverted and a workaholic with little social life - which suits me fine.
So, in conclusion, your ego is that of an aries but your emotions and needs are that of a sagittarius. Just like Mariah Carey :) -
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Mon, April 27, 2009 - 6:31 PM; ).....I can dig it. Interesting, Music is my passion. I sing and write lyrics. Definately NO comparison to Mariah carey. Wish I could hit a note like her. Thank you very much for the useful info!!!
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Fri, July 24, 2009 - 6:47 PMcap. don't read into him. you'll waste your time. nothing deep there. call me negative....i love caps but they are not deep. don't expect entertainment...it won't happen -
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Re: Aries women Clueless about capricorn male?
Sat, July 25, 2009 - 1:13 PMYou're not being negative.... it is very true.
In films they always portray the villians as Capricorn type of men. This is because a lot of Capricorn men can become tyrants
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Wed, July 29, 2009 - 11:15 PMIf I'm not mistaken, the signs square eachother. With that said, generally you'll get an off response asking Aries about Capricorns and vice versa..
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Thu, July 30, 2009 - 5:11 AMHey red,
Your Aries brother told everyone that he had cancer just to get sympathy. Now, that's unheard of!
I once told my boss that my step-mother, who lived in a remoter area, had suddenly passed away because I needed time out for exam and paper work.
My boss was very sad for me and was trying to get an address to send flowers to and the office manager got very jealous. As for my step-mother, she simply deserved to die and even though I've pulled the prank twice more, she just won't die.
She is also an Aries so I guess that the prank is on me.
This whole prank is very strange coming from a person - me - who is usually frank and above-board to a fault.
Bad moon position.
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