It is all about attitude.Positive or negative? Healthy or unhealthy? Anyone could be positive while things are going greate. It's how quickly you rebound back to thet positive state when you get the emotional punch in the solar plexus wich determine if you have a positive attitude.

hear hear!
i know exactly what you're saying about feeling like you and your lover are in a bubble....if i don't forget that the rest of the world exists when i'm with someone, then they're not the person i'm supposed to be with....
and i want my hand held all the time :)
i too have a lot of fire, and a capricorn moon.....

<<Re: Fellow Aries Are You Into Cuddling?
Really? I think it's bullshit.

My sun, mercury and venus in aries. In the 11th house of aquarious nontheless. Capricorn moon in the sixth house. My saturn is in Scorpio.

I am very friendy, warm and social. I love to cuddle and be close to a girl.

If you have issues with closeness it's because of past experiences. Not astrology.

You gotta understand that you have all the potential in the word. Nobody is a victim to their chart. >>

Exactly what I said, sort of. I think alot of my response has to do with a great deal of negative past experiences which leave me unable to let someone into my space. But, even as a kid with no previous experience to draw on, I literally ran from huggy relatives. It was torture for me. Some of my family is very very touchy feely, and that doesn't go over well with me. I'm glad you are friendly warm and social. It's just not in my nature. When someone reaches for me I go stiff all over. But no, I'm not blaming it on a chart. It's due to a few bastards who treated me like crap. Unfortunately, it stays with me. But I also don't think all men are bastards. There are some good ones out there, I know. I just have a little more trouble spotting them sometimes.

Kjetil,

I so agree with you and was gonna say the same thing. I kinda think it's BS myself. My moon is in Capricorn and my Venus is in Gemini and my rising, My Saturn, and my Jupiter is in Virgo, and I'm a very warm and affectionate person. I was also raised by a loving mom (who unfortunately wasn't as lucky as I was with her own mother to receive that affection), so people certainly can move beyond and are beyond their charts and even the circumstances they grew up with.

If you want love, you've gotta give love.

Hmmmmm....glow-in-the-dark boobies....now there's a concept :)

Bobbi,


One of these days Alice....you're gonna show me your boobies!