Like I said, Leos can be fun, but are mostly too demanding. (for me at least) I don't like high-mateniece relationships!

me too! me too! thats why im in the Love Cursed tribe!

Virgos have been the death of me!

Interesting Aries-Scorp,

In my family... My sister, brother, and mother have Mars in Libra. They are very much concerned on the needs of the community around them.

"Aprilbaby,

I don't think you quite understood the message I posted. I didn't say Aries or other signs aren't deep. I'm just saying Water is known for depth. That's not to say other signs can't be the similar. "


AS,

I know you didn't say that, and I don't mean to imply that you are. I was just saying that you need to also give credit to you just being an Aries for your understanding of things and for your ability to perceive situations and people because Aries have an extremely high level of intuitiveness and perception. The fact that we ARE the babies of the zodiac allows for us to have a certain level of purity and untainted psychic ability and intuitiveness. I also just think we need to give credit to other signs' ability to tap into their own psychic levels.

"I disagree with your comment about Scorpio becoming muddled with the emotions though. I think you're confusing that with Cancer. Scorpio is sharp minded and they're people watchers and have the ability to read people. They therefore have a deep understanding of many other star signs. "


I think BOTH Cancer and Scorpio have a tendency to allow their emotions to get in the way of things. The difference is Scorpios are able to more readily detach than Cancers are, BUT once a Scorpio's emotions have become fixed on a certain things, there's very little room, if any, to show them different or to convince them otherwise, which I think is a great disservice to them and to the other person because they don't get a full picture of things. They only have seen a small portion, while may be seeing the whole picture could greatly change their outlook and perspective. Also, Scorpios tend to come at situations and people with a certain amount of judgement and bias already. Their outlook is "guilty until proven innocent." The assumption is that a person is not trustworthy or is going to do harm BEFORE they've actually committed such a crime, and they therefore have to prove that they are otherwise. I'm not sure I really agree with this approach because it can really color situations and outlooks, and it can really prevent and put distance between the person and someone who could really be a great person or friend!

"I have Virgo friends and a sister who is one. The sister, however isn't the nicest person I've ever met. She's flippant, condescending, and arrogant. My friend however, is a wonderful writer and editor and teacher. There's a dark side to every sign and a more positive side to each one as well and it's up to the individual person as to what path they follow."

I certainly agree, and I have seen the dark side and lighter side of Virgoes, and they can certainly behave the way you described. In a way, I'm biased because just about all of my experiences with Virgoes (with the exception of one) have been really good. I'm always attracting them without effort and they become my friends and my bf is one and he's been my rock. But certain signs aren't for everyone, and perhaps the universe brings to you different people signs which you gravitate towards and are more positive for you.

"We aren't just about our sun signs either. We're much deeper than just that. Our suns are merely our ego's and drives. Our moon sign is more of who we are since it's about the inner emotions and how we react to people around us and circumstances or situations. Our rising sign is mostly a first impression someone gets upon meeting us. It's what is visible to the eye, but has little or no influence on our personalities. I'm sure you know the rest."


Oh, I totally agree and I learned that years later after becoming interested and fascinated by astrology. As I've gotten older, I also begin to just think that people are more a make-up of experiences and their own challenges and the people who've been in their lives. I think astrology may have influenced those experiences, but those people also influenced their own lives and others have as well.

As for the Scorpio that commented about you, Ariesbaby, I think that was going a little overboard. She probably should've just kept her mouth shut. It's so stupid to verbalize anything when you first meet. I like to just observe a persons actions and then later say something if it needs to be addressed, but I would be more cautious about how to communicate whatever needs to be said.

Idk......My Aries sun makes me prefer to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I like the positive energy. I just wish I had more Aries energy than just my sun (ego/drive). My 6 year old has his moon and Mars in Aries. Ah to have Mars in Aries! He's gonna be an athlete! Dontcha think?

"Pisces moons are highly perceptive but they have that deep empathy that can get in the way of their perceptions (IE walking into a room full of people at a party with a good mood and end up taking on someone elses anger or physical pain within that room). It sometimes makes it hard to seperate themselves from the sources."

Spot on. That is one of my New Years resolutions actually, to instead of absorbing the pain from someone else to actually
eradicate it so that neither of us have to shoulder the burden. Too burnt out to be the martyr anymore........

"I'm not disagreeing with the Aries part but fire is passion and therefore acts accordingly. Water is emotion and acts accordingly. And honestly? Yes I do believe that myself or Bobbi could probably read you if we met you and be pretty accurate. I've done it before."


AS (Gosh the ABs and AS are gonna get confusing),


Passion IS emotion...it is a form of emotion. Emotion isn't just emotion...emotion comes in many forms...whether it's anger, passion, excitement, sadness or depression, etc. Aries are very emotional and are just as emotional as any water sign. Both fire and water are very emotional, although it may sometimes show in different ways, but it's all still emotion.

I'm sure you or anyone could read or have a good idea about someone ONCE you met them. That's the key part though...you have to meet them first and actually SEE and SPEAK to them, and even then you probably wouldn't know them to the fullest. I'm sure a person, including myself would be just as capable of reading and understanding you as well if we met you, but there would still be some questions and things that don't show a full picture.

Similarly to what you said about not fully identifying with or feeling like an Aries...I feel the same way. I have the motivation and drive, and I am blunt and upfront about things, but I too am a lot more cautious about things, I don't like taking the lead on things, I'm not an overachiever or a loner, and I'm not into sports or any of the more common descriptions about Aries.