Those little fakes had me thinking I was the bad person and should refine my ways. But after growing up a little and hanging out with people who appreciated me, I began to feel like a good person who had a lot to offer the world.

I believe the Libras I’ve encounter had a problem with me (the double Aries that I’ am) because I refuse to kiss anybodies as in life, I do what they don't have the courage to even think, I'm probably better in bed (I hear Libras are a horribly fuck) and I don't need outside justification.

Hmm....Perhaps I’m somewhat bitter. I'm sure these intensely negative feelings will pass in time but for now I find comfort in venting my thoughts to the world especially because all too often Libra’s are portrayed as the angels of the zodiac. Well I here to say they're little demons who wear pink!!
So beware!!

i hear alot about how aries have a opposition to libras well maybe you had a running start when you where born into life but maybe others like to sit for a second and consider stuff passive aggressive i can see that fake i can see that and puzzling definitly with these things mixing together at all times it could be hard to understand whats going on. have any of you ever met an older libra with expirence me and my grandfather where born on the same day about 3 hours apart. and i can say that in his 70s after WW2 in the german army and immigrating to america right after the war i would say that he has had an interesting understanding of life. i am or was everything that i described above until the day my grandfather died. since then i have found that through understanding that the world is HIGHLY out of balance that its always a beutiful and suprizingly awsome time to be and i just suggest if you have a libra make sure they have done more than sit at home and watch tv all the time. in these times experienceing the true ups and downs of the good and bad are getting harder to see and understand i am sure we will be some of the first to be lead into being idouts because what is all over the news and media. you know better yet take your libra outside and punch them in the face and show them what liveing is realy like. libra are beutiful but once you open one up i have seen the intence passion that can occur. i make it a habit to walk my own walk i meet 10 to 15 people a day in every day passing i never now what i am gonna do next and the expriences that i find on my own are so far off that i have been called a lier many times. we need people but we need to 7understand orselves first. so go punch a libra with great love and passion. its what did it for me

i've been recently judged into deletion by a hypocritical selfish libra on the cusp of scorpio. evil piece of shit. passive agressive. yes. totally. the first argument we had he disappeared for a week. i explained to him what "passive agressive" meant. then i think he started doing it on purpose.

anyway, i'm done now.

the most influencial person in my life was my grandmother.... and she was a Libra...

so all this talk about how good Libras are in bed is weirding me.

You may be right about that Lindy. I was being real mean when i wrote that.
But i let you know for sure in a couple of days.
Sure hope he can hang cause you know the aries ladies got that fire in the bedroom.
holla!!!

<i havent read your whole message yet but i need to respond to you would you like it if we slap you comment.

Now you dam well you dont have the balls to slap a aries. An aries would kick your fucking ass before your hand lands.

Im describing a Libra for sure but most of you folks have a hard time seeing yourself in a negative why,

Be real with yourself. Now back to the rest of your post

<tell it like it is Lydia

Love your name by the way

Luna

Interesting thing. I did a "what Coloris,,,," in all the sign tribes.
in Libra I got one responce the a week later another posted another thread.
"I think green is a good Libra color........" somthing like that and Bam about a 12 responces.
All agreeing w/ the 1st poster. no variation. no personalizm...
One houde towde psycic post and the lams folow..LOL
Ok that was mean.. but isn't that what this thread is about..
Oh well.
Well Leo is a leader, so I guess on the other side is the folowers..

Wow! The only Libran I have a problem with is my sister! She's got moon and rising in Libra. I have a few other friends who have Libra and I like them. It depends on the person I suppose. I just don't like the braggy "I'm so pretty" attitude from Librans. I also don't like the flippant remarks from my sister from time to time. It's irritating but I do like some Librans. I won't rule them out as friends. Would I ever consider a relationship with one? Not really.

Well, I have a male Libra friend and we were the greatest palls for many years. They are sort of laid-back and a nice counterpart to the Arian energy which is often intense and inwardly churning (when not outwardly on the go) in my case. He always had a glass of wine ang logical take on situations, completing the picture.
However, He was a total jerk at picking love interests and had no discernment whatsoever. (Venus in Scorpio, a rough ride for a Libra). I tried to talk some sense into him on the odd occasion but it is always touchy to intervene. I even did it recently as he said he is now afraid of the dating scene. He is good looking with a keen sense of humour, owns a few properties and is a professional. But he also has a few kids in need of life-long psychiatric care because the mothers were certified crazies (with the hospital stays to prove it) and he had kids with such people! He was extremely unhappy when he lived with such women but nevertheless stayed on for years! I would almost take care packages to him.

Luna,

I had a Libran male friend too. He decided we had nothing in common and therefore walked away from the friendship. I preferred to engage in DEEP conversation whereas he didn't. He was into the doom and gloom talk. I prefer to remain upbeat much of the time and yet remain reserved. He was into chess, I was not. It all depends. I think Librans look for getting something out of a friendship and if they can't understand where you're coming from or enjoy conversation they walk away. Remember they're the ones who weigh out the decision making and tip the scales. I'm sorry this happened to you though. I understand how it hurts to lose friends or aquaintences because I go through so many due to the intensity of my Scorpio moon and my emotions. Some people can take me and others can't. I feel hurt at first by it but then I pick up the pieces and move on. If that person has burned me really bad though, then they will hear from me again in a very subtle manner somewhere down the road, via messageboard, or whatever. They will know I've returned and whatever message I leave will be very subtlly directed towards them. For example I will post about a situation if the conversation started pertains to an incident this person put me through, without naming names. It's devious but it works! I'm in no way a maliciously mean person. If someone confronts me however, then I won't back down and I'll hand them the brutal truth about who they are and what they've done. I've had to do this confrontational thing with my male Libra former buddy. How I deal with a situation is entirely up to the situation itself. I remain calm much of the time.

But most of the Librans I've encountered are all about "What do I gain from this or that?" In the end the decisions they make can be hurtful.

I've read alot about communiation and human nature lately. Were basicly all the same, and react the same way. Astrology just kinda adds colors to that personality baseline.

Libras are hard to be around...they talk too much and are very insecure...

Timo, my scandinavian bretheren! :-) Rockin up north with da vikings! Suomi power ;P

Signed Kjetil, norwegian doggcrapp ;-)

Anyways, don't take it to heart. It's general sign bashing. If you dont judge people, yo will be liked. Insecurity and indecisiveness is not really a problem. From what I've experienced with my buddys, youre indecisive for like 10 seconds max.

My buddy is pretty decisive for a libra. He's aware of his indecesiveness. So when he have to equally good options to choose from, he visualizes the choses with one option in the left hand and one option in the right hand. He allways chooses the option in the left hand. Why? Because he is right-handed. Go figure.

hey im darth vader and i think your findings are poor... but its fun to bash scorpios cuz its always sounds smart right ?

the scorpios you talk about have no ego, no guts and no personality.. thats all.

for my part.
i have a need to help people. (its in my nature)
if they are my friends. even more
:)

i have a need to help people.

I know a few Librans but I'm not close to them. They're very charming to everyone. A little too damn charming, I wouldn't trust one. There is a lot of bitching about them on Astrology boards. I always thought people with such a refined sense of 'fairness' would be LOVED. Great people for fun and small talk, but for the tough shit I don't know.

Hell no!

Libra bosses make social bosses. they're awful!!

with Libra bosses they have favouritism and hypocrisy. It's not who works the hardest, or is the most useful to the company, it's whoever talks and chats to them the most. I have a fat lazy Libra boss in work and I really rebel against her in any way I can.

I have another boss in work whos a Capricorn. they are the true leaders. Lead by example, hard work, commitment and no favouritism bullshit. F***ing Librans! The capricorn boss also has a good sense of humour whilst the Libran boss just laughs at other peoples misfortune and always has to talk in this "I know everything" way.

And I'm not exaggerating

LOL...the funny thing about Taurus people is that most Taurus people don't get along with each other or like each other, but I always love to watch their interactions because the way they get on each other's nerves is hysterical! I mean it's really quite comical.

LOL. This has been my experience also. But I will add that I am dating one. :-)

Sister? Thats gotta be interesting.

Lol. Aprilbaby's got it right. Taureans get on each other's nerves. *Shrug* You really can have too much blunt and stubborn in a room.

And everyone's judgemental ;). We'd all be dead if we weren't.

typo:

"And she's most comfortable talking about her own troubles."

They should have an edit feature on posts!

Were polar opposites! Ocource it's a closminded and pretty biased discussion! :-) This thread is like a bar. Where you go to get a drink and complain about the wife. Not to be taken as law.

Don't worry. Most libra are good people. Some just get on our nerves. Just like "stupid aggressive selfish insensitive assholes" - aries tend to get on your nerves ;-)


It's a good thing you use charm, wit, and social skills to achieve what you want out of life and situations. The thing is - youre acting like someone youre not. I want you to act as if you've known me for six months. But you dont. You act like someone else and its transparent. Also called fake. But libra, unoriginality and fakeness aint exactly a new discovery. It's one of your weakness.

But this is worst case ofcource. I like libras as a whole.

I've actually learned to appreciate libra since I first posted. My sister isn't too bad, she was just messed up and going through a hard time in her life. My son is a Libra sun with Libra rising too. I think they have a very wonderful charm to them.

You're completely right they rush into a relationship and then the next moment they may rethink it and decide that it is not what they want.....and then after deciding that they don't really want it they might reconsider again..... lol
And the Libra usually doesn't want to hurt the person and sometimes they just stay with the person because they feel bad that they cannot make up their mind and they're so afraid to tell about their doubts...etc
Libra's are so good at making everybody believe them, because they are sincere and they actually believe all the things they say(they even fool themselves) but they just change their minds and when that happens they're afraid to express that and rather disappear than confront.

I've seen that happening with a lot of my Libra friends

Oooo speak of the little charming devils themselves. Sorry kids! I'm a Scorpion crashing the aries board but I saw this topic and couldn't resist.
I've been seeing a Libra for a couple months. At first he laid it on so thick... compliments and such. I was highly suspicious but he almost smothered me with all of it. And we scorps don't mind a little smothering if we are into you ; ) Besides when I slipped into my darker moods he'd bring me out of them making me laugh and let loose. I'd honestly never felt so light hearted with someone before.
WELL turns out the little shit was "charming" more then me. When I found out I blew up (scorpion jealousy) and told him it was done. But oh no... he poured it on thick again. "I promise it meant nothing... your the only one for me". *sigh* I gave him another chance after a couple weeks of his manipulative BS. Just this weekend I found out he bought another girl a very expensive present and invited her for a weekend away after he told me he was sick. He's fake, a liar, and thinks nothing but of himself.
I've yet to tell him what I've learned but I assure you I WILL let him know in no uncertain terms that we are through. Oh and little miss thang that he's taking out... she's gonna find out he's two timing too cuz I'm going to tell her myself. HA!
It makes me miss my Aries man. He was a handful and we fought like no other but at least he was up front with me. That man didn't know how to tell a lie.

Hmmm, I'm Libra/Scorpio cusp and Scorpio Rising so I have my Libra moments where I have to think everything out and weigh it all. I don't tend to react emotionally especially to emotion. On the other hand, I can be very Scorpio and God help anyone who flips that Scorpio switch because that Scorpion tail will whip right up and sting the crap out of them before they knew what happened. I don't hide what I am or lie. Why bother? Complete waste of time. Life's too short and we're all too different so if people don't agree with me, c'est la vie.

Now, about Aries. I have an Aries brother with whom I'm very close. We seem to always be in synch even though we are very different. When we were young, we'd fight, but if someone else went after one of us...watch out. We'd both gang up on the person. That is the Scorpio in me, I guess.

In addition, I've had a best friend who is Aries for 29 years. We always called ourselves mirror twins which suprisingly we probably are astrologically. I never felt competitive with her and I don't think she felt that way with me. We are very opposite in what we like in men (she also likes women just as well and I'm just not into it but never cared that she was). As a matter of fact, she wrote an essay about coming out as bi at one of my parties and all I said was, "We knew that. Do you want me to scope out some chicks for you?" LOL She did have to explain to me when a woman was trying to hit on me though because I was clueless. But, we were extremely tight and I wouldn't give her up for anything including my toxic boyfriend Bob or my soul mate (an Aquarian). My friendship with her ended my relationship with toxic Bob when he didn't want me to be friends with her. My soul mate was much wiser and learned to like her. We still have this uncanny ability to simply be in the same place at the same time (say D.C or MI when I live in FL and she now lives in S.D.). Of course there are times we blow up because she's Aries and I have so much Scorpio in me, but the solar flare up calms down and we go back to being best friends. She's great the way she is and I wouldn't change anything about her. She is beautiful inside and out.

I have another Aries friend that I've had for at least eight years. She's larger than life, fun, funny and fiery. That is exactly what makes her so appealing. I love that she doesn't find my bluntness harsh (not that I ever direct that at her because I don't). She's very matter of fact herself and not afraid of the truth. I'm okay when she's emotional over a breakup or something else and she's okay when I have to go off alone for long periods of time and regenerate. We just know these things about each other. I'll tell you one thing though, she used to work for me and when another manager tried to attack her I went after him with all the facts and shut him right down. Could she have defended herself? Of course, but I was her manager and it was my job to protect her. Besides, no one tries to hurt my friends without meeting the Scorpion tail. If she wants to beat their ass too, no problem.

I will say though that I have a Libra friend (one of many Libra friends) who married an Aries and I have to wonder why. It seems like constant wanting to change him. It drives me crazy. And she does act passive aggressive with him. I call her on it. I guess I missed the part where you weren't supposed to just say what you mean? On the other hand, he married her so he must like it. It's not my type of relationship, but I don't have to live with either one of them! :o)

Oh, and I've never dated an Aries. Only Aquarians for me and only one week of Aquarians at that. Nothing indecisive about that.

Oh, I forgot to add that the strange thing is that I've also met and worked with at least two lesbian Librans and I LOVE them! I got along really really well with them and it was easy to share a deeper level of understanding with them, more so than with others. After finding out that they were Librans, it made sense since they are the opposite of Aries, perhaps the two can be perfect companions when it's a homosexual union.

Anyway, that's my two cents. It at least makes me feel better to read this, that maybe there's a reason for disliking my boyfriend's ex so much, and it's not me just being a crazy jealous insecure girlfriend :P

i wouldn't worry about it too much. :D fire signs are known for their passion, honesty and getting things off their chest. you know that libra is supposed to have the same sort of relationship as leos and geminis do... well check out a leo tribe thread on the gems. it has 104 replies!
tribes.tribe.net/8278a1ba-...e8fb3ed3d0
despite that and despite myself being a leo and openly critical of their faults, check out this thread and specifically the post third one down. tribes.tribe.net/8278a1ba-...ff72af3f74
i posted that link to the article but unsubscribed a while ago. so i would take it with a pinch of salt. at least you know what a fire person thinks (negative and positive), warts 'n' all.
libras mean a lot to aries as gems do to leos but negative has to come along with the positive too.

I go by a feeling I get from within when meeting people. If I get a bad feeling I don't say, "we can't be friends."

There lies the answer that a lot of people don't know - the gut feeling. The instinctive feeling.

Chinese astrology explains who you choose to get along with. it explains peoples outlook on life and who they look for to balance them out.
that is the truth in relationships and a lot of people go with shallow calculated choices rather than natural choices.

Check out universal tao system as it will explain better.

it's all about charts of course and the variables in it but yeah ... i can't tell you how many times a libra male or female has kind've shown me how selfish/self-centered they are/can be and left me with a bad taste in my mouth ....

was married to one for 5 years..... that was a lesson in demonic posession and sheer self-indulgent/sociopathic ways and means ...

oh messy marvin

I know a few Aries Moons and they are much tougher and abrasive than me, a Pisces Moon.

Only talking about one's sun sign really does not tell the whole story!

I don't think that Aries are necessary love bugs but we let Kjetil have his say because he is a nice guy.
I am very much my Moon Sign maybe also because it is my dominant feature according to classical astrology.
It's just another tool.

Just do your best, even when you feel that it does not make a difference and you can't see the result.
In the medium and long run it does.