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once again
trying to understand my various parts
i've been noticing
and i feel kinda dumb for just now noticing
that i am this way with people
all on or all off
i mean i have some medium settings
and some long range settings
but for the most part if can't be all intense with a person i cut out on them. and that means receiving intensity too.
i don't have many light friends because I don’t feel like I have time for that. i don't have many friends at all and the people near me are intensely close. or, i will engage with a preson instensely for a moment then fade away for a while til im ready to engage intensely again.
what is that? is it aries?
trying to understand my various parts
i've been noticing
and i feel kinda dumb for just now noticing
that i am this way with people
all on or all off
i mean i have some medium settings
and some long range settings
but for the most part if can't be all intense with a person i cut out on them. and that means receiving intensity too.
i don't have many light friends because I don’t feel like I have time for that. i don't have many friends at all and the people near me are intensely close. or, i will engage with a preson instensely for a moment then fade away for a while til im ready to engage intensely again.
what is that? is it aries?
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Wed, April 19, 2006 - 11:09 PMso definitely not aries
probably pisces.....
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Thu, April 20, 2006 - 12:19 AMi do the same thing. i do the same things in all of life but particularly in personal relationships.
the best things in life are either free or insanely expensive -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 5:20 PMThat is definitely me. I have few really close friends. When can go long periods of time without seeing each other, but then bam, it's like I just saw them yesterday. The people I'm closest too I talk to almost every day.
I'm great with acquaintances, I'm just not accepting applications for friends right now. I like my solitude and I have the people I want in my life.
I don't have time to waste on problems, or drama, or bullshit.
I've actually heard that as a reason to dump on Aries. Whatever, we don't want them as friends anyways! -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 6:28 PMArize,
Do you have any of your planets in the 12th house? I've got my Gemini Moon in the 12th, and I swing between periods of needing constant interaction of some sort, preferably on a mental level, to periods where I really need isolation. I don't like being physically alone, but I get to where I just can't stand to interact with anyone. It's not like you could say "No one please speak to me today. I'm fine , I just really don't want to have a conversation with any of you people right now.." -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 8:22 PMmy mercury & venus are 12th house on the cusp of 1st, matter o fact, and aquarius.
funny thing is, i couldn't figure out if this was an aries trait or a pisces trait so i posted in both tribes and have now gotten about the same response. maybe i should post it in the aquarius tribe. i kinda think aquarians are a little crazy tho. then again, maybe im a little crazy. -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 9:36 AMI think it is a Pisces thing because other Aries I have know tend to have
a huge network of friends. Alas I never have and never will. Simply because
of the intensity issue. Can't possibly have intensity with alot of people, only
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 5:44 PMyeah, that's kind of what i'm saying too i think. or maybe its a little implied. but cool you put it out there like that. i am an intense person. not only is it hard for me to manage that much energy from people, but its hard for me to spread it very far too.
except when i am teaching or speaking publicly or something. im good at that.
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 6:46 PMPretty much the same. Have a few very close friends that go back in time. Sometimes, I feel the need to reach out to one particularly almost like a physical longing. I don't let people in easily nor become familiar easily, though sometimes I feel a special connection. Still, it takes a little time. I can also do people that are different from my personality but open and respectful of me. It is actually interesting. Have many men friends.
People are a bit shy in my presence. I do solitude very well and am usually found reading or studying, and very busy with various activities. Not lonely.
However, the people I take in are protected. I am a very good friend and will do almost anything for the right people. They are truly cherished and entirely taken in. This is someone else description about me but true.
So intensely or not at all. Beyond astrology. -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 10:44 AMI am also intensely on or not at all...it shows very obviously in my work habits.
I have alot of friends but only a few know the more intimate details about my life. Most of my friends have been cultivated over time...make a friend, keep a friend. I get frustrated often because I feel like I give out more than I get in return. I sense that I am well liked but feared and wish that people would just reach out to me more...I have found a solution to this in social work, tho. That gives me the human contact I enjoy...with most of my friends it comes down to them not really understanding how much they mean to me, but I have learned from experience that being too forward frightens people off...so I often act more mysterious (in RL, that is) and elusive. -
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 10:49 AM"but I have learned from experience that being too forward frightens people off...so I often act more mysterious (in RL, that is) and elusive."
Yeah but, do you want easily frightened people in your life? Just wondering. Always felt
that my natural born brashness is a mechanism to scare off the weak. No room
for that and no patience for it in my life.
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 1:48 PMI think it's your picses for sure. I have so much picses in my chart and I am the same way.
My strongest arian influence would be my boredum threshold which is not very high, and my lack of patience oh and my temper.
Picses on the other hand makes me feel like if things are not intense they are some way artificial.
It's almost a manic personality really. High and low with not much of a middle ground. Personally I don't enjoy it anymore.
I have a hard time maintaining genuine friendships because most of them feel so shallow.
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 1:54 PM"Maybe we should just stop trying to feel?"
I did that for 3 fucking years hon.
Felt nothing, self imposed exile from the world, society, people, feeling.
Sometimes ya gotta do that if it too much.
But I am out and loud again. I loving feeling all of it.
Hurt, passion, hate, happiness, love? (wtf is that?) all that shit...........
Yeah, we don't do gray do we? If ya need to turn off for a bit, the world will
still be here when ya get back.
Scorpio still hasn't called me back yet, sweet torture.
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Sat, May 6, 2006 - 5:49 PMBishop! embrace your pisces!
actually, i don't mind feeling. i don't mind my sensitivity. i think its magnificent. it gives me wonderful insight. i am actually intuitive too. i would never trade it in. being emotional can be kinda like torture, but i think its a matter of management. like i was just checking out how scorpios, IF THEY WORK IT WELL, can take that depth of emotion and sort of go thru it to its completion and use it to aid them in transforming.
and i didn't just say that to make this a thread about scorpios cause they don't deserve this thread. that was a statement about transformation and emotion, OK? OK.
anyway, i think its just a matter of learning to use the strong parts of it and managing the hard parts. make friends with it cause its not going away. :)
i think shallow is ugly anyway. it goes with superficial.
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Re: intensely on or not at all?
Mon, April 20, 2009 - 2:59 AMI have a very close net. I don't befriend to many. I am however very friendly and outgoing . I feel like people are hard to trust. Are there intentions simcere? Will they be the die hard friend that I am? some end up being so undeserving of a friend like me. I'm not a high horse or anything, not perfect untill it comes to being a friend. I just am sincerly a stand up friend. Honest, loyal, sincere, upfrontly blunt, dependable and forgiving to a fault .I don't suger coat anything. I tell It like it is, even if that means telling u something u may not want to hear and expect the same in return. I treat people as I want to be treated......Correction... my "friends" that is, "people" outside my tight net I tend to have a low tolerance for and I am very impatient with. I tend to think if haven't been tight scince grade school or high school, then you will be just an aquaintance in my book. I am content w/ my very small circle. I like how it was put above " I'm not accepting any applications . I mean that in the nicest way possible ; ).
