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hello,
I am a capricorn girl (moon libra, venus, scorpio, mars libra, ascendant capricorn) interested in an Aries fellow (moon in taurus, venus in pices, mars in pices) I know he is interested in me and we have had a few nice dates but i just want some basic pointers of how to behave with an Aries, I have never dated one - what do I have to know....about that sun sign in general and how do Capricorn and Aries fit together...what do you think.
I am a capricorn girl (moon libra, venus, scorpio, mars libra, ascendant capricorn) interested in an Aries fellow (moon in taurus, venus in pices, mars in pices) I know he is interested in me and we have had a few nice dates but i just want some basic pointers of how to behave with an Aries, I have never dated one - what do I have to know....about that sun sign in general and how do Capricorn and Aries fit together...what do you think.
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Re: capricorn and aries
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 8:37 AMJust be yourself. If he doesn't like the real you, then move on. And if he tries to pull any antics with you, call him on it.
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Re: capricorn and aries
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 11:54 AMIt's a good match for me personally. How to act: Act as if you have known him for six months. Not only does it warm up the relationship faster, but it also saves time in that you can see if you like each other.
Talk about yourself alot. Be expressive and talk about how it made you feel. No depressive stuff. Only positive or funny stuff. I know it's against the grain since the "experts" tells us to allways "be interested in the other person", but in my experience, when I talk about myself alot, the other person usually feels more comfortable talking about themself. So you end up talking freely to each other and "feeling you can talk about anything". Time flies by and you end up building a deep connection :-)
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Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:04 PMThere's a good book.. Linda Goodman's Love Signs... tells you how they match. -
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Re: capricorn and aries
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 10:04 AMYou can't count sun signs all the time, although Aries and Capricorn in general square each other. If the Aries person has a heavily aspected Capricorn in their chart (Moon or Mercury followed by other planets) it could work and vice versa. I don't judge by sun sign. -
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 12:35 AMI don't judge on sun signs at all actually but honestly i have never met anyone like him and i have never been in a close friendship/relationship with an Aries. I do seem challenging enough for him and vice versa and he keeps coming back to spend some more and more time with me, which is good because I kind of like his independence (since i am a very independent person) but at the same time I sense his insecurity and that he actually is a fragile person in some ways. I am just maybe looking for more insight form other arians and their thoughts on capricorns and their experience with capricorns....anyone?
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 3:17 PMMy mother and older brother are Caps and I got along with them very well.
All of the Aries that I know (myself included) are mostly jealous or territorial. I would advise that you keep your eyes to yourself. He will hate it if you even allude to someone else that you might like more than him. And always tell your Aries how you think that HE is ____________ (fill in the blank with whatever nice thing that you want to say) Don't tell him about other people. He could care less. He wants to hear what you think about him.
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Tue, June 3, 2008 - 4:16 AM"always tell your Aries how you think that HE is ____________ (fill in the blank with whatever nice thing that you want to say) "
Anything positive directed towards his ungodly powrful masculinity ;-)
Other than that, just be yourself. If you have to be someone else or talk about things you dont want to, or not talk about things you want to, you will start feeling resentfull and destroy the relationship. You really should say what you feel like. -
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Tue, June 3, 2008 - 4:20 AMbut hey, this is like a month ago. how did it go? -
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Thu, June 5, 2008 - 4:25 AMit has been great until now. I have been myself a somewhat distant cheeky earthy capricorn (sun and ascendant) with a little bit of scorpios ( venus) sensuality and Libras(moon) outgoing social nature. I do not open up easily but it seems that I have challenged the Aries quite a bit and he has been wonderful and chasing me and I subtly let him approach me and step by step we have become close and I feel comfortable. But...there's always a but - he asked me to go to a countryside with him for the weekend and we spent the most delightful weekend together but after that he hasn't asked me out....he usually cannot stay away for more than two days but now it has been like four days and he seems more distant - he did make plans for us on the weekend to go to theatre and cinema and yesterday he kind of talked to me over by skype but very....superficially.
His moon is in Taurus and I know that taureans tend to be slow with things and sometimes retreat to their own comfortable distances when they feel that things are starting to change too much or when he feels that his routine might be a little bit....off balance etc. But his venus, mars and mercury are in Pisces which makes him more dreamy as I have read - and that he is. What really concerns me is that he hasn't had a true longterm relationship - the longest he had was less than a year - and he is 29 and he has had quite many adventures. he told me that he is sick and tired of these short term flings etc and he wants more solid life but at the same time he is telling that he still wants to experience so many things and he is kind of a free spirited person and I like that because I am too but at the same time I am very.....stable - I have had serious longterm relationships lasting up to 5 years and I know how much work they are - he seems a little bit unexperienced in that matter. And now I have this intuition that he might feel overpowered that he has spent so much time with me - for the last month like every day or every other day - and the fact is I never call him he always takes the initiative and calls me and asks me out and sometimes I have my own plans and I have noticed it kind of makes him a bit jealous but in a good way. So I don't know how to proceed - I'll be myself but should I be a little bit concerned...maybe he thinks it's too much for him and I really have started to like him...I mean really and I don't want to ruin anything - maybe it is just my insecurity talking at the moment - he is very outgoing and has a lot of female friends but at the same time when he is with me(in social occasions ) he always wants to touch me or smell me or be close to me and I see that he likes me....but is that enough - I feel that he wants to be the king of his castle......and doesn't like anybody invading....and I am afraid that I am kind of starting to get my foot through the doorway and he is not sure if he should let me in...or smth like that.
A long story....cheesh - he has really made me think about him and the situation....wow.
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Re: capricorn and aries
Thu, June 5, 2008 - 7:39 AMI think you should keep doing what you're doing because he's going to go through panic and sudden shock syndrome regardless. You just may be the first woman he's seriously considered getting involved with and eventhough he says he's looking for a more solid relationship, the fact that he hasn't had experience with that might make him more inclined to pull back. While it's one thing to say you want something, it's another to actually go for it, and the actual idea of settling down might terrify him or make him nervous. Men, in particular, have a hard time with this one and it's normal that they kinda withdraw, so don't let it get to you too much and just stay calm, rational, and active in your own life. He'll come around in his on time, and if he doesn't, still move on.
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 5:51 PMlol this is greate! :-) I never knew women think and analyze so much about this stuff. I usually just feel my way ahead :-P Though with an aries stellium and a capricorn moon, I tend to simplyfy things as much as possible. But this isn't about me. It's about you. I can only tell you how I have felt in similar situations. So he definately likes you. And he may want to take his time and do things slow so that you're not one of those girls. The short term fling girls. You might be special ;-)
I remember my first long term. I was terryfied. It was like the feeling you get when you're about to jump in ice cold water. I had to psyche myself up. "Soooo, wana be my girlfriend?" Not exactly the smoothest line in the world, but hey.. it worked out pretty well ;-)
I love your moon (and sun)! Seriously, my four last instant connections and two longterms has been libra moon. Its facinating. -
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 9:28 PMnot to sound lame , but i can't keep aires off of me and i'll tell you what they love = originality, romance, spontaneous fun, physical touches like hugs and kisses but dont be too gooey, they want to see your an independent woman who appreciates and RESPECTS them but don't NEED them, carry yourself well with your head up and be proud to have him as your date. Dont dare to think appealing to them on a purely phisical level will work since they are intelligent people and must be treated as so. They love to feel useful to you so find out what they are into and ask them all about that topic and have them teach you something new, dont worry they have the patience. -
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 9:33 PMone more very important thing is a good attitude with a positive perspective!!!!!! -
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 9:41 PMya one more thing. He is nothing to be afraid of loving. He'll probably be the most loyal and trusting and just in general great guy you could give your love to. Im a libra with cap moon and my relationship with my aires (of 8 years) started out exactly like you've described. I would say go for it and make him yours, whats the worst that could happen? i know you'll be pleasantly surprised. -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 3:06 AMthank you for your insight....he seems very into me lately again...the weekend was great with one exception - he starts to show his possessive jealous side - he told me that i am the only girl with whom he feels that kind of jealousy, I work as a designer and i have to connect with a lot of people through my work and I do it very easily, I am a social person in that matters and he said that he can't help it but he feels so jealous - the thing is that on saturday I had to go to this event - european art directors awards of the year and he had his own plans (friends birthday out of town) - ok good we both had plans and everything seemed to be ok - but during the night at some point he sent me txt to go to spend the night at his place when my event is over - but I saw the message much later and by the time I answered back at him it was 4 am (he sent the text around 2 am) so I text him back asking if it is ok to come so late - I was afraid to call so late I didn't want to bother him - he didn't answer and I assumed he was asleep and I went home - next day we had some plans to cook together and spend a quiet sunday but when I woke up to contact him - he wouldn't answer - and finally when he did, he was angry at me - and I asked I want to see you - and he was - i am not in the mood....and i am disappointed etc etc - and you ruined my day etc. !!!! I was shocked - and he refused to discuss it - finally he came around and asked me to the movies - I felt really hurt because he was angry - and then I told him my side of the story and he told me his - he had thought that since he sent the txt it is obvious i can go to his place at any time and he didn't answer my text because and I QUOTE - *if I already tell you that I want to be beside you I dont HAVE TO BEG THAt YOU COME TO ME - and I was waiting but you never came and in the morning I got even more angry, you weren't by my side and I didn't know where you were and then I got so sad and angry and sad and by the time you contact me I was about to explode* !!!! And he said he was actually thinking that I met someone in the party and stayed the night somewhere else etc etc-I was extremely shocked to hear that and he thought that he was distrubing my social life if he asks me to come to his place and that I have sooo good time there making NEW friends and that I have forgotten all about him and the plans we had on Sunday - he just made these things up - I was very surprised, I am so very interested in him and he gets this insecurity with me at some point - finally he said yesterday night that he feels stupid and sorry for acting like that but he feels like what is a beautiful girl like me doing with him etc - and it was sweet but made me worried - his reactions were very very unexpected to me......
how to deal with the jealousy thing - i mean he worked himself up and without any reason actually, how should I react in the future, I'll be very very careful with these things but I cannot just not talk to new people I meet etc....
Today I am thinking of going to a store and buying a little present to him - just to show that I really care and he should have some faith in me and himself in that matter...
He has actually given me a few presents already - really really sweet - he made me earrings, and then he gave a fan since always when we go out and I feel hot I use flyers etc to make some air - and he said that a fan really suits me - and then he gave a book with a dedication...so he has been really showering me with things....it is all very new to me. aries people are an interesting breed.
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 11:07 AMyeah,.... that sounded exactly like my man! haha they are funny like that. Just remember everything he says cuz he'll only say it once and mean it. Im always askin my guy "do u love me?" just to hear him say it, and he's always like.."yes i do! i just told u why do u ask again?' i think it's soooo funny! After years with him i'm not shocked by the out-of-nowhere crazy comments or assumptions he makes with me because i see that underneath it all he is naieve little boy who needs a WHOLE LOTTA LOVE!! even though he has a super tough exterior. Its like strange how fragile they really are cuz its hard to ever really see that side of them. I'll tell u one thing though, if u ever see him openly actually really cry in front of u because of your relationship , then you'll know u cut him to the very depths of depths of his soul. In 8 years i've only seen him actually cry ONE time( as opposed to me who cries a few times a week sometimes!) and thats when i broke up with him last year after bein together 7 years, i'll never forget it , it was so sad for him. We are back together now and i appreciate him now more than i ever did before. I love my aries and the honesty and the real true unconditional love they give. So be careful with that boy's heart! I'm glad to hear things are good for u 2. :) -
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Sun, June 22, 2008 - 8:35 AMI think that many Aries get fed up of games. We see how they are done but do not pay attention or play dumb. We are smarter than we look and while we are passing for primary, we are not at all.
I am perhaps speaking for myself but I have seen it in other Aries.
If too much games are involved I give up ojn the person. i figure that it will always be that way and that I will never hit on the genuine being under all the cover.
Who want a relationship that is not genuine.
We are extremely supportive and loyal to the right person. the people that we dump are their loss.
You have to be careful because Aries is good at cutting loose and that can happen suddenly after we are sort of disgusted.
I am speaking for Aries only. It does not cover the particulars of the charts.
A Capricorn-Aries association is a very good one when working well. It is extremely complementary. It is one of the best business combination. -
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Re: capricorn and aries
Sat, July 19, 2008 - 5:11 PMEniad,
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Sun, July 20, 2008 - 10:01 AMHi Jose,
You can definitely trust a Cap. Unless there is something very wrong, they tend to be the most stable.
The person looks like she may have a little fire in her theme so it is a very good.
They also tend to analyse you before getting seriously involved. Are you serious? Are you steady? Will you go far in life?
No matter how party-prone they are, they are very ambitious and equipped to make the steady climb to the top of the mountain. The ambition is always there but it can be subtle.
They tend to be very structured and achieve their goals through the dedication and hard work of Saturn.
If you are ambitious and give her the feeling that you can deliver the goods, you stand a very good chance with Capricorn.
They also keep the intimacy where it is best, at home. This is someone you can grow a long term relationship with providing you have reached a certain level of maturity and are willing to work the obstacles out, this said without analysing the details of the particular chart.
The right Capricorn will stand by you through thick and thin, and that is a lot to say in this crazy world, providing you do your part. They are sterling.
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Sat, July 26, 2008 - 6:56 AMHi unicorn,
In case that it is still relevant. You are dealing with a softer kind of Aries. the Moon in Taurus - reputed a good placement - makes him stable and his Mars ans Venus in Pisces makes him sweet.
The jealousy could be from the meeting of your watery chart elements being sorted.
Aries is not a very jealous sign but jealousy indicates that something important is being threatened. Do you have his rising sign? It could be water. It changes the complexion of a chart.
We do like to feel usefull and will try to make the life of people we really like as easy as possibly can be. As a rule, we are genuine in our feelings.
Oh, and Aries can fall in love like a ton of bricks and the brick turns into putty. Sad but true.. -
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Wed, August 13, 2008 - 10:40 AMThank you :)
Actually the thing is that we have been dating already for four months and there have been some worries on my side - since I feel insecure - I know he is an adventurous type(ascendant saggitaurus like myself) and he is afraid of big changes in his life and he is reluctant to jump into the unknown. He has been this lone wolf kind of guy - and one aspect that I didn't mention before is that we are not from the same country - I was on a 4 month practice and few days ago I came back home but I want to go back there and start a full time job - in few months. He said that he has been so many times in a circumstance like this that he won't believe that I come back until he actually sees me there again - although he said he will be waiting there for me. So to be honest I love him and although he is not the only reason for me to go back but he sure has influenced it and I am not sure - maybe he was not ready for the fact that I come back - but he seems actually really emotionally involved with me - the only thing that does bother me is that maybe he will just change his mind about me - he has been soooooo sweet but he is a pessimistic realist - and maybe I just complicate his life. Anyway only time shows. I am willing to pursue this but I know that Aries likes to be the one pursuing - but in his case I feel that in some way he waits for me to show by coming back and taking initiative that I really care because he seems very sceptic - he is afraid to open his heart and I think he is a bit insecure - I am planning to show that there's nothing to be afraid and I will be there for him if he wants.....
I think with capricorns it is like in the beginning it is hard to get close to us and we react to new relationships very slowly but when we finally start to melt down and open our heart e will be the most loyal and lovable creatures but the slow opening up sometimes results with the other person getting tired and thinking that maybe we're not so interested.
one more thing - maybe I should express my deeper feelings towards him - I am very afraid to dot hat since I do not want to put him on the spot and also I dont want to pressure him like I am moving there to work and then say I love him and maybe I will scare him away.......but ont he other hand I feel that it will make him more at ease knowing that I am sincere....and I really feel smth.
what do you reckon.
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Sat, July 19, 2008 - 2:50 PM!Wow this is a hot one..I am an Aries boy who just started going out with a Capricorn girl ...We have known each other for about 2 months now. I met this beautiful Capricorn when I was shopping for my weekly groceries. I recall walking towards her on the same ile and I just stopped and asked her the dumbest yet best question i could at the moment ..I said something like excusme do you know whats the healthiest cooking oil i can use to cook dinner tonight she looked up and gave me that shy get away from me type of look but with the sweetest voice gave me her advice , I noticed her getting kind of quiet so it made me feel abit odd I really didnt know what to say at the time so I said thank you very much and walked away..As I walked away in my head where so many thoughts like why didnt u keep the conversation going why didnt you ask for her number name etc, well me bieng the true aries that I am i turned my ass right around and went back for a second shot so it worked we chopped it up for a while conversating smooth and than she gave me her number than I called her she didnt show up on our first semi date. i called her a couple weeks later she met up with me and we danced the night away its been less than 2 months and we are actually seeing each other like boyfriend girlfriend status umm I dont know why but i really feel like she is the one! I will never lie to her I feel so loyal like i wont even check out other girls havent hung out with my friends that are girls i have a lot to.simply I just want to love and respect her for life...my only Question would be to you Cap girls can i trust a cap! I love how she is so energetic and we always dance the entire night away every weekend from 10pm to 5 am thats some heavy dancing where young and thats it.. -
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Mon, July 21, 2008 - 8:07 AMI like caps. I'm seeing a girl now who is cap. I say this; they'll do anything in bed. No inhabitions whatsoever. Wich is good when you're dating an Aries :-P The rams atleast - I don't know about you ramettes though :-) -
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 2:25 PMI guess that we do not get the name Ram for no reason. Ram it? (ramette).
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 11:17 PMlol, this is a funny post, i wonder what ever happened w/ unicorn?
well, i'm a sun aries / and moon capricorn .....so worst of both worlds i guess.....actually contrary to popular belief, one of the posts stated that aries dont like games, i myself love the chase.....it depends, like - theres no point chasing a leo or gemini they fall right into your arms, but like a scorpio or aquaries (thats a different story)
its pretty simple w/ aries men, they like u or they don't, and u dont normally have to worry bout other flings he might have even if he is a flirt (which aries naturally are), if hes spending time w/ u then its normally pretty self explanitory...
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Re: capricorn and aries
Thu, July 24, 2008 - 9:38 PMI wish I knew some Capricorns. I never meet any.
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Fri, July 25, 2008 - 12:56 PMbullshit we rock! :D Wouldn't have it any other way. Once we get over our depressive shit, gain selfworth, selflove and confidence and start living from our strenghts - we make people jelous! :-) -
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Wed, August 13, 2008 - 9:05 PMKjetl.. you're an Aries...
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Thu, August 14, 2008 - 1:13 AMI agree with you - with aries the sex life could be so very very playful and for me personally the aries energy and fire brings out my naughty side - and together we have had the most amazing adventures - he also told me that I am a kind of girl he can really show and do everything he likes because I like it too - no boundaries - just enjoying each other - bringing out the best from each other. - never experienced that in the other person. I like fire - makes me burn tooo :)
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Re: capricorn and aries
Thu, January 1, 2009 - 2:05 PMIve learnt something about astrology that indicates to me how you too are a very good match and it can work
there are some signs that like one more than the other and you two balance each other out by the sound of it.
Aries like Capricorns a lot (your sun signs)
Librans like Taurens a lot (your moon signs)
I don't know the full reasons why some signs like each other more than the other but I know that you and this guy find elements in each other that you really like. :)
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Thu, January 8, 2009 - 9:23 PMdon't get hung up on details. Caps can ramble on about bla bla bla and that will bore us to tears.
hhahahah...ok...i kid. Be yourself. if he's a caveman big headed dummy (which...I'm sorry, but you male aries are) move along -
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Re: capricorn and aries
Fri, January 9, 2009 - 12:38 PMI would disagree there.
Most Aries men are philanthropic and jovial from what I've seen. Fiercely intelligent sometimes and put others to shame with their determination and willingness to push themselves. They have a scrappy nature sometimes but you get a genuine friend with them. Muchos respect to the Aries
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Wed, January 14, 2009 - 5:24 PMwhen I was a younger aries this kind of q and a about what to do in relationship with me in it with strangers on the world wide web would have sent me running
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Thu, January 15, 2009 - 5:29 PMnot always
ever heard of the tree of knowledge and its fruit
didn't do much good now did it ;)
all I am saying as an older more understanding aries about my younger self that there are some things you know or you don't, less is more kind of thing
I was once asked - "did you read On The Road," and I said NO - I was on the road at the time, experiencing it in other words. My point is maybe while we are asking for answers we should be exercising some other aspect in ourselves to acheive that answer, knowledge is power granted but the valley is much sweeter with a little blood sweat and tears to get to that moutain top of knowledge.
maybe this line of questioning is a goat thing
maybe my answer is a ram thing
someone said it earlier - don't think to hard about, don't over think it
my best guess is that something else is going on with the person who asked for advice and has less to do with the relationship at hand but some other matter internal struggle she may have with this life context
A poet once was asked why he goes outside to think, his reply was "Because there is nothing in here."
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Re: capricorn and aries
Fri, January 16, 2009 - 2:48 PMHmmmmmmm, you kinda lost me 3/4 of the way there. you got all philosiphical and and bought up three other subjects it seems.
Well, my belief is that everyone gains power in their own way.
My true feeling on power is balance... and to find that required knowledge, experience and wisdom.
The most balanced people in life are the most happy. People who are too passive live their life dreaming of what could've been. People who are too aggressive eventually become self loathing and don't know how to truly connect. People like me, who rely too much on learning about life, loses whats most important which is enjoying life.
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Sat, January 17, 2009 - 11:33 AMand to go back on topic, balance has relevance to unicorns successful relationship with this guy.
aries sun taurus moon finds something they can gain from capricorn sun libra moon and vice versa.
Like, for me a good balance with my Taurus sun and Capricorn moon is a woman with a Sagittarius sun and gemini moon or a woman with a Libra sun, sagittarius moon.
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Tue, January 20, 2009 - 4:18 PMwow
you forgot camomile
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Re: capricorn and aries
Wed, January 21, 2009 - 5:00 PM~if he's a caveman big headed dummy (which...I'm sorry, but you male aries are) move along~
Hey I resent/resemble that remark! I am a caveman/paleolethic, sometimes have a big head> dummy? Nope, I'm usually the smartest person in the room, just ask me...
I have never been involved with a Capricorn woman before. I went out with one once, she was very attractive, and fairly intelligent. The deal breaker was over dinner she chewed with her mouth open, that was a deal breaker. ;) -
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Wed, January 21, 2009 - 6:09 PMInteresting post, would like some advice...
My partner of 2 years is a Capricorn and on the whole it is a fantastic relationship but is plagued with a recurring problem. It's a little more complex but in simple terms, he occasionally arranges to go out with friends without me for "quality" time with them, which in principle I completely appreciate and encourage. But... when the time comes and I have nothing on myself or I get home earlier, or (and I know this is childish) sense he is doing something more "fun" than me, I get irrationally angry and make his life hell. I should add that I often get told "coming home soon" and then hours go by and on me having to follow up I get "bumped into so and so" or I get a last minute invite to join because "they want to meet you". When we talk about it afterwards I try and justify it by thinking he's being disrespectful and excluding me or that I'm being stuffed around by being "left on a limb". I always apologise for the juvenile behaviour but in some instances it is a completely valid argument but he can't see my point of view and thinks that I resent him seeing his friends and/or trying to impose a "curfew", neither of which is the case.
My reaction to these situations could be perhaps that I find the Capricorn reticence frustrating at times. I respect that in them however and realise that they are intensely private people who need their space. I'm usually extremely patient (uncommon trait!!!!) and encourage my cap to have some private time but when the above happens, I think the bubble bursts.
Also frustrating is trying to get over these incidents, getting my cap to talk about how he feels is like getting blood out of a stone and it can sometimes take a day or two for me to feel that we've moved on.
I sometimes feel that I'm bending over backwards to accommodate the capricorn idiosyncracies but that my Aries ones aren't.
God, I'm ranting, anyway good to express it.
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