dated a virgo
physically beautiful... man I wanted that one to work... just for the trophy.

intellectually/mentally NEVER connected though.

shame.

hm....i'm still trying to date the same virgo....it's been months....but progress is slowly being made...and my understanding is that this is normal, that the virgo will indeed challenge me to new levels of patience......sigh.......

Aries V Virgo is an appropriate title for me. My younger brother and Borderline Disordered mother are both Virgos.

Miserable, self-destructed people. They are both dead to me.

I'll pass on Virgo.

Thought I'd bump this thread back up.

My Virgo pal is driving me batty. I've started a new job and have been going through some serious health problems. She just doesn't get it. She's asked me to do somethings in the past few weeks and I couldn't. The times I couldn't go there were valid reasons why I couldn't go.

Whenever she's needed me I've been there for her. But she doesn't really get how to be there for me. My Virgo guy has been really cool about it, but he's a Virgo/Libra cusp. He thinks she's being self-absorbed.

I love her and she's a lot of fun. But it totally stresses me out when she's in these manic places and creates these issues. The last time (2002) I was living in New Mexico, in a really bad job, with severe family problems. I was so tense I couldn't eat or sleep. She's still pissed at me that I didn't have her out to visit. She kind of catalogs these things. Durng this period I was a whistleblower in an academic setting, in an incredibly hostile environment, being harassed daily. My mentally ill mother was in the ICU across the country as Mass General. When I came home that Christmas, dispirited and depressed, she blew up at me for not calling her more often. Silly me, I thought the phone was a 2 way device...

Even now, I try not even to think about this part of my life, while she keeps insisting that we're going on a trip there soon.

How can you tell a good friend to wake up and get a clue?

I have two virgo friends. One female and one guy. The girl used to be a really cool chick till she turned seventeen and older. She is getting kinda annoying and only talks about herself and critisize everything. All she does is complain complain complain, nag nag nag about her cancer boyfriend and everything she can critisize. i just want to be mean and say well take a good look in the mirror, cause your not so fucking perfect yourself. we were at a party and she asked me if she were fat. ofcourse the answer she were looking for were that she is skinny and beautiful so naturally my answer was no, your kind chubby....

The guy however is totally cool with an aries moon and scorpio rising. generally i get along with all signs anyways, but some virgos do annoy me....like my boss for example.

A couple of my nearest and dearest friends have been Virgos. As peers, they are among my favorite people. They can see "the big picture" of things and work it out in total detail, which can be a great compliment to Aries' ability to "just know" what the next right course of action is. However, my dad's also a Virgo, and my brain does really clench up when I try to go over the details of anything with him as my mentor. Just too much precision, too much detail, too much of what feels to me like "grinding along."

or how about an aries sun, sag moon....and virgo rising
that is just one aspect of myself that i truly do not understand!
and i dont fit most of the general descriptions of virgo rising anyway but im sure somewhere in my personality it must creep out a bit

hey Michael. i am an aries FEMALE having a realationship with a virgo Female.i agree how you see him i believe most of us have those qualities and its funny you say that "VIRGO ALWAYS THINK BEFORE TAKING A COUSE OF ACTION" thats what my girlfriend always says to me:), we been toguether 6 years now :) we had pretty bad arguments because all aries are straightforward and virgos seem to be shady, we dont like that, all we want is honesty and respect. you virgos are sweet and gentle i love that about her, anyways i hope your relationship with this aries man works for you. you guys need to communicate and be patient with each other you virgo will see aries as little child thats what we are, teach us, love us for who we are, if he's a good man he will return the favor,,oooohhh ps.. i just gotta tell ya sex between aries and virgo is great :)

Me too. My mom & little brother are virgos. I love them dearly. I've actually been labeled as a virgo, imagine that..as an aries!! No way, I'm a true aries, just with a soft spot for the virgins.

I might be one of the few, but I find virgos fascinating and engaging. I've made good decisions teaming up with virgos, both in love and business. We balance each other out. My strengths are their weaknesses and vice versa. I love their organizational habits and don't have a problem with their criticism - I have thick skin. It can be a challenge to be patient with them. Virgos take their sweet time and I'm all about now, now, now...gimme action! I have to remember to curb that a little around my virgo friends.

Just send all the virgos you can't handle to me!

wow haha, everyone seems so negitive toward virgos, but that's okay (I kinda hate my sign too)
I'm a virgo but I feel I don't act/seem like one.
I'm not very tidy and I don't really judge people, and tbh I don't like serious conversations.
I'm actually really humorous, generous, and shy. And, a lot of people mistake my shyness for being stuck-up.

and as far as my relationship with Aries is, I absolutely love them.
I'm in a current relationship with an Aries and I honestly think we prove these compatiblity tests wrong.
We're both very humorous, and he's gentle and not 'pushy' like people say aries are, and I've never really judged him on the things, and when I do, it's serious things like him getting hurt yano?
I've known him for a few years, and at first it was awkward and I felt that he didn't really want to get to know me, but as we grew closer, he became the number one friend that I could trust with anything, especially my clumsy mistakes.
and, I have to admit I was (when I was younger) a neater person then I am now, and I used to worry a lot.
But, my aries taught me to chill out, and I'm so thankful for it too because i like who I am now and I never liked who I was before.
Also, Aries and sagittarius are my favorite people because they teach me a lot and let me appreciate the little things in life.
also, I'm born Sep. 2nd so I'm more closer to a leo then a full-blown virgo. That probably also helps out my relationship with him (April 1st is his B-day) < we joke about that often :)

Maybe not easy to please... but the best thing about virgos is they are SO easy to tease! A good friend and old roomate of mine is a virgo and another friend of mine has an aris moon (poor sob loves aries :) and a VERY prominant venus in virgo. You would think he is a virgo. With a quick temper....

I'm no longer as annoyed by virgo. I'm now much more amused. Don't get me wrong, I love my friends, but I just don't have the patience for wallowing in endless details of things I'm not terribly interested in. So... I just tease them. I developed an interest: my own interest.

Does your virgo friend fold his or her underwear? Then comment on it. Don't flatter them, that doesn't help them to get better at it. Make endless helpful suggestions as to how to get that crease out of them or how to color coordinate the underwear drawer. Maybe all the stained underwear should go on one side too. It would help them to save time in certain circumstances. Are you, aries, a bit messy? Maybe (I'll bet there is) one corner of your virgo friend's floor where there is a grimey germ infested gummy coating he or she hasn't washed in a year or so. I find the more nitpicky a virgo is the easier it is to find things like that. If you keep things upbeat then your own detailed helpfullness can be kept up indefinitely. It's so much fun!

It is much much easier than cleaning your own place spotlessly and then having someone be endlessly helpful and point out all those spots you really did miss.

I gave up and now I enjoy my friends much more. They tolerate me. If they are honest they don't have much choice...

Funny you should mention Aquarians. My sister and brother in law are of this match. She is the Aquarian, he is the Virgo. They have been married for 17 years, since high school, have two kids, good jobs, lots of friends, my sister is materialistic and dominate in tthe relationship and my brother in law does just about whatever she says. LOL Sometimes it looks as if something just doesn't fit but it works for them. Unique relationship.

however i really like virgos as friends

"aries and virgo have a very strong physical connection.
it seems to work at first, but i have never seen it work in the long run. "

I have experience with that same outcome.