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How do you know if an Aries is really into you?

topic posted Sat, May 22, 2010 - 6:51 AM by  april
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What actually happened was that there is an aries guy who was chasin me for a while and he was not afraid to tell his friends that he liked me, However I didnt know if I should trust him and never really opened up so eventually he thought I was to hard and gave up. Now he is having sex with another girl who is known for being a hoe, all his friends tell him that shes a hoe and even comment on her changing him because they don't get to see him as much. However, he does not mention to anyone he has feelings for her, but they are constantly around eachother, showing signs of affection , and anyone could tell they have something going on. I see him everyday sometimes he asks me simple questions just to talk to me, and other days he just looks right past me. I was wondering if him keeping his relationship with that girl secretive is because he's ashamed of her, or is it that he has deep feelings for her that he doesnt want others to know? THANX.
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april
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  • Straightforward Aries question.

    Are you still into the guy?
    • Yes I am but I was always told that he was a player and shouldnt trust him, thats why I never really opened up and gave him a chance.
      • Do you trust yourself?
        • I dont know.... What do you mean by that?
          • Do you trust your own judgment.
            • Yes and No sometimes choose with my heart instead of my head and I don't want to be hurt by this guy.
              • 3 things we need to look at are Sun(Ego), Mars(Wooing methods), & Venus(Relationship Style) in that order. You've talked to the guy so you're already past the mask of his Ascendent. So hit us with the other 3 and we may be able to help more. I have an Aries Sun/Moon & Taurus Venus/Mars. All the aries openess goes out the window when I am into someone. There are only 2 people on the planet who know about my relationships in realtime. Other people I may give info to after its over and no longer close to my heart, but I don't give many details.
                • He has an Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Aries Venus, and Pisces Mars. The girl hes now sleeping with has an Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Aries Venus, and Cancer Mars; and I a Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, Aries Venus and Leo Mars. Since there signs seem to be more compatible does that mean that they will understand eachother more than I will be able to communicate with him?
              • > an aries guy who was chasin me for a while and he was not afraid to tell his friends that he liked me <

                wouldn't mean as much if he 'wasn't afraid' to tell his friends that he liked the other girl too, or any of a dozen girls he likes. When you say 'wasn't afraid' is that your own take on what he thinks/feels? 'You' might see it as him not being afraid, in a fantasy, but he might see it as just telling his friends of the latest girl he's into. Depends on what kind of man he is.

                > I didnt know if I should trust him and never really opened up so eventually he thought I was to hard and gave up <

                If he gave up and moved on, why linger? He made the decision to bolt and apparently, sleep with a hoe. Why would you still want him after that? That is assuming it is as cut-and-dry as you're telling it.

                > all his friends tell him that she's a hoe and even comment on her changing him <

                Do you talk to 'all' of his friends? IF she's 'changing him' then he's doing more than just sleeping with her. He may actually like her more than you want him to. Do you talk to every single person he knows so you can be certain that he didn't express to someone that he might have feelings for her?

                It sounds like you feel a little jealous and perhaps even guilty for being harder to get close to than he wanted. Which might have turned out to be a good thing for you. Again, it depends on what kind of man he really is. What is it about him that you really find so irresistible that you're concerned about everything he says or does with this other woman after he walked away from you, and after you let him walk away?
                • > an aries guy who was chasin me for a while and he was not afraid to tell his friends that he liked me <

                  I'm not sure why he said it. I know he is a guy who is sensitive, insecure, and tries to show off. I think he said it to see the reactions of his friends, like if his friends would accept him talking to me I guess. He said right behind me "I LIKE HER", and i turned around to see who he was talkin about and one of his friends said awww yu have feelings for april, and the other one was hidding behind him and made a funny noise as if he didnt approve. Then the Aries guy said let me give you my number(as if he was doing me a favor), but then remember his phones off.

                  > I didnt know if I should trust him and never really opened up so eventually he thought I was to hard and gave up <

                  Your right I should move on , but it's kind of hard because I feel like we could have been so much more, and I have to seem his face evryday. He was chasing me for about 7 months, and then he saw me flirting with another guy and assumed I was dating him. Later he said hello but I ignored him because I was upset at a stupid remark he made a couple days before. Then he asked if my boyfriend doesnt want me talking to him, and I still ignored him. The last thing he said was "DOES THIS MEAN WE WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER" , and I shook my head No, but I didnt think he would settle with that and give up. :(


                  > all his friends tell him that she's a hoe and even comment on her changing him <

                  Everyone knows this girls a Hoe. We all know about her abortions, her boyfriends, and all the things she does with them because either they tell or she does, she even wears little to nothing clothing, and demonstrates very loose behavior. When his friends had found out they were talking one of them said "HOW ARE YOU GOING TO STILL MY HOE, YOU KNOW I USED TO HAVE SEX WITH HER ". The aries man did not say anything he was just smiling. Next his friends said "I THOUGHT WE WERE SUPPOSE TO MEET UP LATER, BUT YOU DIDNT SHOW UP, ARE YOU DITCHING US FOR HER, SHE IS CHANGING YOU MAN." and he just denied it.

                  I'm not sure if I really want him or just his attention, because we are total opposites, but because I have a Venus in Aries I am so atttracted to him, and I can't get enough. It's like I want to be with him, but something tells me that I know that its not going to work out, why wast my time? I dont know. : /
  • you can always go here to see if you are more compatible with him then she is...

    astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bi.../comp2f
    • if a guy was really into you then you would know,,,

      astrology tells who we are as individuals, etc, tho
      its also what we look for,,,

      some of the women I have dated later in time I found
      that astro speaking we shouldn't have gotten along,
      and we did, and there have been those we were a match
      that couldn't be denied astro speaking, yet we didn't connect.,..

      every relation has an expiration date, ,, just enjoy a relation
      for what it is,,relating, ,,, if you can't relate then what are you chasing ?

      and if someone is sleeping around,,,the hoe word is way over used,,,
      every one sleeps around at some point,,,get over it, and
      be the best person you can be ,,,

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