Aries/Leo

topic posted Wed, November 30, 2005 - 12:58 PM by  Ndelamiko
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Who has done it? Who has survived? Who's still in it?
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  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Wed, November 30, 2005 - 2:28 PM
    All I can say is-it's quite explosive. Burns itself out, though.
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      Re: Aries/Leo

      Fri, December 23, 2005 - 1:32 PM
      I was married to a LEO and I am now divorced. And for some reason LEO's keep seeking me out for relationships and I tell them I am an aries/taurus and I know it won't work. Definitely had good moments but was unable to be myself which the LEO got upset about even though they were the cause. We created a beautiful boy who neutralizes alot of our differences which has made for a solid friendship. Will not go down that road again with another LEO and would advise all other aries who choose to do so, to do it at their own risk, no lifeguard on duty.
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    Wed, November 30, 2005 - 7:12 PM
    I married a Leo in 2001, 4 days after I met him. The first year there were a lot of issues, but we continue to work out the kinks and there is no doubt in either of our minds that we will stay together for good. Of course, we're polyamorous, so that helps any healthy relationship...not being dependent on only one person to fill your needs and desires. ;-)
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    Re: Aries/Leo

    Thu, December 1, 2005 - 1:37 AM
    Who has done it? I have.

    Who has survived? I managed to do that, too.

    The most fantastic kisser I've ever known was she. I still feel the smoldering sensuosness of that tongue five years later.

    It can be a very satisfying relationship, but where as Ar/Ar can clash over both now wanting to back down, Ar/Le pits can pit someone who won't back down with someone who doesn't acknowledge that down is a place for him or her to be.

    Generally, though, it can be a delight. I love my Leo partners.
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      Thu, December 1, 2005 - 2:02 AM
      *shudder*

      I have had bad luck with all the Leo men in my life! The relationships always started out intense and romantic and excting, but it always ended up being manipulative, possesive, and entirely soul crushing! I'm not sure if that's just my luck, or if there's something to the Aries/Leo clash thing.

      I seem to have alot of female Leos in my life, though. I get along great with them!

      Hmmm.... something to ponder....
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Mon, December 5, 2005 - 5:44 AM
    Well I've had a number of Leo lovers and am involved with one now, and you know I think it has a lot to do with the emotional balance, maturity and overall mutual respect between two people.

    All of those Leo guys and I are still friends, and in all but one case it was the best sex I have had with any partner. My Leo lover STAND out, they're all generous lovers and naturally sensuous and hot.

    However, it's not until the most recent Leo that it's been a truly adult, giving, open relationship.

    Mostly this is because this Leo isn't trying to control me at all. Mind you, there is a substantial age difference between us so this may contribute greatly to this sense of calm and strength in the relationship.

    It's kind of interesting so many of you have reported negative relationships, when I can't say the same.

    I remember reading Linda Goodman's Love Signs when I was about fourteen and fifteen and the description for Aries Woman/Leo Man was EXACTLY the kind of relationship I wanted with a man.

    It's also wonderful for me personally because in almost everyway, our relationship has fallen on the good side of this matchup.

    I remember Goodman said that this combination is trined, 5/9 vibration and a good karmic matchup. Also that it could be like the Lion lying down with the lamb, either there's a thousand year war or a thousand year peace.

    So I guess I agree with astrology being as much to do with free will as it has to with the stated potentiality of each combination.

    I'd be interested in hearing from the people with negative experiences, more on why they thought Leos were so awful, because they were Leos or because they were just fuckwits.
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      Re: Aries/Leo

      Mon, December 5, 2005 - 1:42 PM
      have to agree with you there ndel....my one was immature....he also was very manipulative....and seems to have no real awareness of what his actions are...and doe;snt want to....he always thought I was trying to control him...cos he had those issues with his mother...and now is in a rship with someone who he lets control him to the point where he has excluded his daughter bcos of her....yes the sex was great...but in the end heart is more important and it was'nt there with the sex either....and that was the only place he could really get close...he is now 37 and emotionally stuck in his boyhood...prolly cos his father had a heart attack and died in front of him....and he has closed down and allowed himself to be numb,though he says it doe'snt affect him....
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        Mon, December 5, 2005 - 8:46 PM
        Ahhh see, I had a feeling it was something like this.

        What I'd say is, don't rule out the Leo brothers cause you got a bad apple... toss that one back and sift through for another one chick.

        I dunno, I just always wanted a Leo man, a strong, honourable Leo... and it looks like I got one. But I've never had too much trouble with Leo's, no matter how bossy they are... or can be.
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        Re: Aries/Leo

        Fri, December 23, 2005 - 1:44 PM
        Interesting bit, almost identical to my Exs upbringing to the T and even involved losing her father when she was fourteen and that created some real painful abarations for our relationship, lots of misdirected frustration and she saw me as a very good scratching post knowing that I could handle it. In the end, it all worked out she got a simple man that doesn't challenge her and I got to be unleashed from the insecurity she had that was cold and terribly misguided when externalized to the point were cruelty is a mild definition. Don't get me wrong I like LEOS alot and they are good friends and yes the sex was intense, but the understanding of eachothers personality has to be very comprehensive in order for it to work as a relationship.
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Mon, December 5, 2005 - 8:54 PM
    i LOVE leos......i do very well with them all around; as lovers, though, they do have a tendency to slide into friendship.....and i do like female leos more than male
    it should be acknowledged though that i am leo rising (very much so)...this lends a little insight.....
    • Re: Aries/Leo

      Tue, December 6, 2005 - 10:45 AM
      With a Leo Rising, you're quite likely to identify strongly with them...

      Me I have a Virgo ascendent, so get on famously with Virgos... despite their OCD tendencies (and mine as well)...
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Fri, December 9, 2005 - 12:49 AM
    who has done it? Who has survived? who's still in it?

    i am a leo woman but the partner that i had for 4 years (up until a month ago) was an aries.
    ok, we are shitheads at times. ok, when we don't get our way, we sulk like children. ok, we do not always look at the other side of the coin until way later, but sometimes there is no other side of the coin to us i have to say. it is not that we necessarily want to be fuckwads, but we are and we do not know how to be different.

    i have to say that i survived and so did he. i loved to be with him and i shared some of my happiest memories with him. he is sexy and everything an aries man is cracked up to be.

    our disagreements always made me laugh because he would "be right" and would have to make me know that he was right, while i would know that i "was right" and i could just be happy with that fact....it pissed him off that i could do that.....i would tell him that i'm right, but i'll let you talk and think that you are right....

    he also would walk through the door, leave a trail of shit behind him wherever he went through the house while i walked behind him picking it up.
    he could be a real fucking peter pan and that was my biggest complaint and the reason why i ended the relationship. he just didn't feel like taking responsibility with important things.

    other than that, i know that a relationship with a leo can be hard (i don't like myself frequently) but the pushiness of an aries is enough to make anybody snap back at times. i would say that leos have the ability to be patient with aries when others won't, because they understand the need to have intense emotions and impulsive actions.
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      Fri, December 9, 2005 - 12:55 AM
      i'll add to the aries ego....
      i loved the sick sense of humor, he made the wittiest comments that i think that i have ever heard, he was sexy, he would make me almost piss myself from laughter constantly and he was the MOST amazing sex that i have ever had.
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        Sat, December 24, 2005 - 10:14 AM
        demmmmmm'it,i love leo's for thier ambition and thier self love,but ughhh,don't eva want to get married to one,love to have a realtionship,but just for da fun,fuck the serious...not neva gonna happen, to much alike...but aries are better :)
        • Re: Aries/Leo

          Fri, January 6, 2006 - 11:46 AM
          * Leo passing thru*

          I have an Aries friend who has come to mean a lot to
          to me. We are penpals and have confided in
          each other for some time now. I think he is a beautiful
          person-inside and out, and the things he writes sometimes touch me so deeply, I start to cry. I learn so much from him.
          But I also sense in him confusion over being with anyone
          romantically, so I do my best to always remain objective
          in my responses to him. I will admit, tho, that I have come to care about him more deeply then I planned to, but I don't want to lose his friendship. There's so much distance between us. Am I right to keep things on a friendship level- or am I being a chickenshit? I feel a strong need to protect both
          him and myself.
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            Re: Aries/Leo

            Fri, January 6, 2006 - 7:36 PM
            Been there done that and will no doubt do it again... I always seem to fall for leo's, 2 of my longest relationships were with leo's. I guess I just like makin the big cats Purrrrrrr ;-)
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              Re: Aries/Leo

              Fri, January 6, 2006 - 9:16 PM
              I am an Aries and I have never been with a Leo.... I'll be sure to let you guys know if and when it happens......

              wish me luck
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                Fri, January 6, 2006 - 10:48 PM
                I'm an Aries and one of my closest friends is a Leo. He and I are like brothers. Never had a stitch of a problem between us.
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                  Sat, January 7, 2006 - 8:45 PM
                  For me, Leos get my juices flowing if you know what I mean. I've never been able to be just friends with one. My most passionate moments involve leos. I would never marry one, but wow they're fun!
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                    Re: Aries/Leo

                    Sun, January 8, 2006 - 8:57 AM
                    why wouldn't you marry one, terry? are you and aries?
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                      Fri, January 13, 2006 - 8:01 PM
                      I wouldn't marry one because the male leos that I know aren't very true to their wives. I was actually the "other woman" with one....
                      Yes, I am an aries. I feel my brain becoming mush around them. I get all starry eyed and can't do for myself. I hate that. I have to be in control, not over the relationship, but of myself, and I don't feel I have that around them. I can't explain it. It's like they have my remote control!
    • Re: Aries/Leo

      Sat, January 28, 2006 - 8:34 PM
      If I have learned nothing else from being my Aries Picean(lazy speller I am) history....

      I learned to ask myself constantly.....
      "If I could only have one of these things....
      would I want to be RIGHT -or- HAPPY?"

      asking myself that question puts any disagreement into perspective.

      hope this helps others
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Tue, January 10, 2006 - 7:39 PM


    I have two very similar relationships with two different Leotine ladies...
    there is low-level sexual tension, but we have just the most amazing finish each others sentence, kind of relationships...

    Leo's are fire...
    fire is good...
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    Re: Aries/Leo

    Tue, January 10, 2006 - 8:04 PM
    I have never had a romantic relationship with a Leo, but one of my best friends was a Leo, yet she was not as aggressive as Leos I've known.

    I tend not to have very good relationships with Leos. I will treat them like a fellow Aries and will let them lead, but the Leos I've experienced tend to like to control all the time and eventually it leads to a blow up between us, not always initiated by me mysteriously.....
    • Re: Aries/Leo

      Wed, January 11, 2006 - 5:54 AM
      I also have quite a few Leo friends... my closest girl friend was a Leo-Virgo cusp, and she and I got on very well. She passed away a little over five years ago, but we challenged each other and were fiercly loyal to each other.

      Trust me... we both battled with our mothers over our friendship, and our mothers hated each other.

      :sigh:

      I still miss her terribly.

      As for lovers... hmmm... the best lovers I have had have been Leos. But they really are bossy, and have no other view but their own. Lord, I just let it wash over me and don't take it personally.

      Of course a lot of this has to do with the maturity level of the people involved.
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        Thu, January 12, 2006 - 8:55 AM
        my best friend's a leo. we get along great. the fire in us both seems to make itself prevalent in our many common interests. there's never any real competition of who's in control. he seems to instinctively realize that I AM and that rarely changes. he's content to let me lead. and i am content to sometimes follow.

        leos also make great lovers in my humble opinion.

        sags, on the other hand, i find our fires are vastly different. and arent sags supposed to be the most compatible with aries?
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          Fri, January 13, 2006 - 4:18 AM
          My dad is a Leo and we had many, many issues when I was growing up...especially power struggles. Now that he has aged (and mellowed out) it's much better.

          One of my best friends is a Leo and we also grew up together (well, at least for the first 15 years, when I was living in Italy)...but there was alot of tension and although I know we learned alot from each other, he always seems to regret that I'm smart.

          Women Leos: CAN'T STAND 'EM!
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          Tue, January 17, 2006 - 9:37 AM
          Of the fire signs, Aries/Leo is supposedly the most compatible combo.

          For better or worse, it's definately a thrill ride!
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            Re: Aries/Leo

            Tue, January 17, 2006 - 7:00 PM
            ok so the movie was great.....we saw hostel ....we knew nothing of it till when saw it but had very similar responses during and after that horrible movie....
            but that is another subject!

            If this Aries saw this particular Leo stranger walking down the street, she wouldn't look twice.
            But after the movie date..... my interest has sparked...

  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Sat, January 14, 2006 - 6:24 PM
    the sex is worth giving it a shot. if it doesn't work out, hey, the sex was worth it. haha!
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      Re: Aries/Leo

      Sun, January 15, 2006 - 7:26 PM
      Leos are supposed to be best for Aries....

      A friend set me up with her cousin, he is a Leo....we are off to a movie... I will let you guys know how this blind date with a Leo goes....

      by the way, the input here has been great!!!
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Sat, January 28, 2006 - 5:00 PM
    My wife (Leo) and I (aries) will be married 25 years this August!! No doubt that this has been a wild ride for both of us and it just keeps getting better!
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      Thu, January 15, 2009 - 2:39 PM
      >>My wife (Leo) and I (aries) will be married 25 years this August!! No doubt that this has been a wild ride for both of us and it just keeps getting better!<<
      that's really beautiful to hear
      if your still around tribe somewhere :D you have my 2 year late congratulations and best wishes for the future.
      VickZ (a leo)
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Sat, March 28, 2009 - 2:24 AM
    I'm an Aries male who met a Leo female through Tribe.net, believe it or not! Upon first meeting there was no hesitation on either of our parts to give in to each other entirely. We are rapidly engaged and soon to be wed. I have never been happier, and know that she is my twin flame. The universe has proved itself again as all providing and magical!

    Long live the Aries/Leo couples!
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      Sat, March 28, 2009 - 6:33 AM
      congratulations!
      really lovely to hear about your happiness this saturday afternoon (uk time). you have my utmost best wishes for the future.

      i can imagine the wedding will have a fair amount of tribe attendees!
  • Re: Aries/Leo

    Wed, August 5, 2009 - 8:07 AM
    I'm not sure if aries with leo could be a good match, just because one but great problem- both of them are super-sized egos. If only they learn to co-rule the relationship, they have the chance to reach the harmony. You may also discuss this theme at sex positive community: www.edenfantasys.com/

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