Stories about your retreat experience...

topic posted Tue, July 17, 2007 - 7:55 AM by  Samantha
Last night in class we were talking about documentation of all the downtime, talks, connections, behind the events moments. We have tons of pictures and video. I wanted to start a thread for people to write memories so we have them documented in writing. I am not sure if this is the best place to start this, but it could be....

Some memories I have just begun to process:
The sound of the birds at Mary's during Bonnie's meditation, the quiet peacefulness and safety I felt, the heat of the fire, Conversation with Colleen on Mary's porch about our lives and the story of her son eating coco puffs out of a martini glass and saying something like "isn't this just lovely?", getting ready for the ball, the asparagus at the potluck, lighting the firehoops, Caroleeena putting a firehoop over my head for the first time and blessing me with the power of transformation, driving back and forth from Durham and feeling the pull to hurry and get back to Carrboro, singing my lungs out on the way to Beth's rolling meadow, the sunset in the sky during the drive, the immense feeling of freedom and joy all weekend...and on and on....
posted by:
Samantha
North Carolina
  • Re: Stories about your retreat experience...

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 1:06 PM
    Samantha I think this is a great idea. I am running around like crazy getting ready to leave for Tranformus tomorrow but when I return, I plan to do this. I think it's a great way to chronicle shared experiences and also to re-experience our own special moments. Thank you for thinking to start this thread.
  • Re: Stories about your retreat experience...

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 4:48 PM
    hey sam!! this is so off the cuff... i am sleep deprived, but here goes! It was great to not feel rushed for 3 days. everyone was going at a pace that was comfortable and in the moment not thinking of all the things to do. Staying at Mary's house was incrediable!! If she was any more hospitable I would have never left. Hottub's before bedtime with Melissa, Mary, Jess and Vicky!!! Baxter's incrediable talent for storytelling. I can't wait for the day to hear more of the Maiden. Baxters incrediable workshops. THE FIRE!!! simply amazing, thank you to all brothers and sisters for sharing. Kaiya and Lori singing. DRUMS, they were perfect. weaver street market is a truly special place and i believe this world would be alot better if every community had a place like this to hang. the enormous feeling of being welcomed by everyone in carborro. hugging, laughing and smiling soooo much! having melissa make coffee for me, jess driving me around, mary packing snack bags...it was wonderful to be so taken care of. My one on one conversations that I got to share with alot of you :) Kava. Nipple's (nuff said). Knowing that there are so many people who's approach to life is to move through it with love and joy. it was amazing....so much more to come
    oh, Khan spinning poi, nikki fire hooping (badass), becoming a family. thank you everyone.
    • Re: Stories about your retreat experience...

      Tue, July 17, 2007 - 5:29 PM
      sam, thanks for starting this out.i've been wanting to do this since the retreat ended.what a beautiful time with such beautiful people.i love seeing that many people so happy for so long.to all the people who came so far, you blesssed us with your presence. it was so exciting to meet new people yet feel such a common ground with them.i made so many new important friendships, and deepened some that already exist. i think this weekend transformed all of us and made us all so glad we're doing this. it reminded me just how wonderful life can be.the jam was great,just hanging at weaver,the drumming was phenomenal,and getting to fire hoop was such a rush.the ball was one of the best parties ever-oh hell, it was all great.one thing i hope we can all do is carry this joy and positive energy forward as we go back to our daily lives.and let's just all be so grateful for each other.who ever thought that the secret to happiness would be plastic irrigation tubing wrapped in tape? i love you all
  • Re: Stories about your retreat experience...

    Tue, July 17, 2007 - 5:46 PM
    Thanks to Sam for starting this thread! I think it will be wonderful to read about everyone's experiences and memories of the retreat. I'm still so tired that I can't quite form cohesive thoughts yet, but I wanted to share one thing.

    Melissa's positive thoughts are what inspired me to share at the fire. The first day, the thought that I received said, "It is now safe for me to forgive all of my childhood traumas. I am free." The second day (a few hours before the fire), I received one that said, "Forgiving makes me feel free and light. I forgive everyone, including myself." The theme of forgiving, along with the repeated theme of trees, came together and whispered, "Let go." I wasn't sure whether it was too much to share since I'd only known some of you a matter of hours or days and I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but I felt so much lighter afterwards.

    Thank you so much to everyone who shared, listened, accepted, and loved - at the fire as well as all weekend. Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes. Thank you to every member of the Hoop Path tribe for making me feel so welcome and at home, especially Bax, Ann, and Beth who opened their homes and their hearts to me. It means so much to me that you took me in, literally and figuratively.

    Heed the call: BAAAAAAAA!

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