don't women like foreplay any more???

topic posted Tue, November 11, 2003 - 8:20 PM by  wizardL
I'm finding more and more women, after maybe5 - 10 minutes of making out, who just want to get down to it. I thought that was a male problem that women got to complain about? I'm STARVING for a good 2 to 3 hour hot and heavy makeout/massage/groping/licking/tickling/etc session, and everyone wants to just pump...
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    Re: don't women like foreplay any more???

    Wed, November 12, 2003 - 4:18 AM
    have you ever tried telling someone this is what you'd like to do rather than just going along with them? i can't speak on behalf of all women. but i love it when a man knows what he wants and knows how to articulate it. it can become a part of the foreplay. it's all about the brain after all. show her your brain.
    • Re: don't women like foreplay any more???

      Thu, November 20, 2003 - 10:48 PM
      Indeed I have, dear Dawn. It's not like I haven't tried or simply follow along with what she wants; I can be very eloquent and articulate when I want to be... but it works out only once every couple years - the rest of the time the women I'm with seem impatient - not necessarily to get it over with (admittedly our sessions often go 45 - 75 minutes with a good amount of variety in positions) but to actually get to IT.

      I've tried talking about it before sex, guiding during sex, and mentioning it on a serious level outside of sex. It doesn't seem to be getting thru, if you know what I mean.

      I don't know, I just thought it was unusual and was wondering if anyone else saw the same thing happening. Perhaps the issues are deeper than I've previously looked. But thanks for the try. Let me know if you come up with anything else. :-D
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    Re: don't women like foreplay any more???

    Fri, November 21, 2003 - 7:21 AM
    well I for one use the date for the make out session, it provides plenty of time for groping, kissing, downright heavy petting in all the right places.... after 2 or 3 hours of the date we are both ready to have at it .... however my lifestyle may be different than yours! I like dates to be at fetish clubs, fetish balls or places that are set up for foreplay.

    my 2 cents
    • Re: don't women like foreplay any more???

      Mon, December 1, 2003 - 8:03 PM
      Now, see? That's what I'm talking about, Donald. That's the way dates should go and often do, especially at the beginning of a relationship.

      But that quickly stops with many of the women I've met in recent decades. The first two dates are hot and heavy. But most pointedly when we start living together or spend most of our nights together it gets down to her saying "let's do it" or "oh never mind that... put it in me".

      I like the idea of the club scene - perhaps that's worth a go if I ask my wife to meet me in places like that where we can't "just do it".

      Hmmmm, food for thought... Thanks Donald.
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        Re: don't women like foreplay any more???

        Mon, December 1, 2003 - 8:26 PM
        yeah, I like it! I always start off a date at a club of some sort, well not always but often! I like mixing it up a bit, I'm seeing 4 now but it's a bit much on a weekly basis. so by the time I get around to to them again it's exciting for both of us again! it works!

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