One's original state of being, free from all limitation, judgment and definition.
In this state, one steps into the freedom of the larger view, which offers acceptance and allowance for how oneself and others are choosing to grow. This is unconditional love.
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In this state, one steps into the freedom of the larger view, which offers acceptance and allowance for how oneself and others are choosing to grow. This is unconditional love.
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Wed, March 5, 2008 - 6:45 AMAll I know is it is not asking for more than is given and giving more than is asked. -
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Wed, March 5, 2008 - 8:01 AMthat is pretty much how i see it as well.
but what if it actually puts some um...so-called "enlightened" and educated people off? or they don't understand what you mean by unconditional? or they mistake/misinterpret it for something romantic or intimate when you attempt to explain that to them? -
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Wed, March 5, 2008 - 8:53 AMI think we just love people and allow them to have their own reactions.
We cannot control others, nor should we try. The minute we don't love someone because they might not "get it", that's the minute our love becomes conditional. It becomes conditional upon them getting it. (Or being enlightened, or being educated, or enter any other way that we can judge each other here ---> { }.) -
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Wed, March 5, 2008 - 10:02 AMyeah, i get that. i don't judge others, there are plenty that do that already. i've got other things to do. the descriptions/labels are what were presented to me.
whenever they're ready to accept that i'm just a good person with my own flaws and i accept them and theirs, i'm there if they need or want to be around.
does that make sense? i thought it did.
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Wed, March 5, 2008 - 12:46 PMShine like the sun, always smile & shine.
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Wed, March 5, 2008 - 3:20 PMfor me, it is the ability to let ego-driven expectations and judgments go, and to allow my love to flow outward from where it is within me, without any need for a reaction, acknowledgement, reward or reciprocity, to love as if all there needs to be is the love flowing from within me to fill the universe. that love is all there is, and all there is is love.
in another tribe, there was a thread about what makes a good person, and someone said "unconditional love" -- but in my life, i have just moments of that, and it's an ongoing exercise to bring myself back to that state, because i do have an ego that carries a running conversation that separates me from others in its observations, criticisms, judgments, and reactions. and there are certainly people and situations that trigger that ego in a way that clouds my ability to experience love in that moment.
but there are those moments... those wonderful moments... when i really am in that place where my love flows out into the world, and that is who i know i am. -
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Fri, March 7, 2008 - 8:05 AMA feeling, not a thought -
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Fri, March 7, 2008 - 6:51 PMNeither just a feeling, nor just a though.
If you your love depends on how you feel or how you think, its not unconditional. -
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Sat, March 8, 2008 - 1:04 PMit's not that it depends on how you feel (because the word "depends" makes it conditional, it is that it IS a feeling, or at least that we have a sensation, a feeling, when we are in that place.
and that rings totally right to me. unconditional love is the feeling of love that exists outside any kind of evaluation or labeling or conditions. it is simply a feeling, a vast, open, free feeling. -
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Sat, March 8, 2008 - 10:19 PMle: it is that it IS a feeling
I disagree. Feelings come and go. If you make your love about you feel it will be a fickle thing indeed. -
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Mon, March 10, 2008 - 12:04 PMthe kind of feeling i'm talking about is not an emotion, it's an awareness. the sensation when you see that you are connected to everything else, which can happen through the sensation of knowing how you re connected to another.
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Mon, March 10, 2008 - 6:48 PMle: it's an awareness.
Awareness waxes and wanes. Sensations come and go.
Connected, not connected, neither connected nor not connected.
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 1:47 PMyep - awareness comes and goes... and that's exactly why we are always going from separateness to connectedness.... from awareness to unawareness.... I think what leslie was trying to say is that there are times when we are just open to the realization that we are unconditional love at our truest core.... the words we choose to describe this realization/awareness/emotion/thought/whatever.... will always fall short...
How can you describe the undescribable??? -
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Sat, March 29, 2008 - 12:59 AMPa: we are unconditional love at our truest core
We are not anything other than ourselves at our deepest core.
Pa: How can you describe the undescribable???
How can you not?
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Fri, March 7, 2008 - 7:05 PMI think it might be what we are. We are unconditional love. -
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Fri, March 7, 2008 - 7:11 PMAnd any confusion I feel. well I must shake it off, because I feel it all comes down to that one thing. -
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Mon, March 10, 2008 - 3:51 AManything that comes and goes is conditional, and who we really are cannot be something that comes and goes, thoughts and feeling come and go. what about being ok with not ok, not having to shake anything of, or feel like crap because l don't happen to love unconditionally,
rather than continuously thinking l have to do something more to be something different and the end result should make me than l am now, which all has its roots in conditions.
love beyond love, sometimes l think love sucks, and is a distraction from living what is, whatever that may be, feeling like shaking a stick at love today, or the love business.
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Mon, March 10, 2008 - 2:25 PMacceptance and gratitude for all that IS
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 1:55 AM*All I know is it is not asking for more than is given and giving more than is asked.*
I think today I made this mistake, i asked for more than what is given, because I still haven't accepted the fact that I don't need people to give to me just because i have given so much.
And if I am ever the last person on the planet with nobody to give back to me after I have given so much, will I be able to accept that for what it is, or expect something in return with nobody left to give? For I have done nothing that hasn't been done already for someone, why should I be special?
I think today Unconditional love is to just accept my still favored weakness of wanting people to connect with me as I have for them.
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 6:01 AMJust remember what Bankei said... it is the giver who should be grateful.
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 1:50 PMI understand that feeling!!!
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Re: What is Unconditional Love?
Sun, March 30, 2008 - 1:11 PMExtreme love for someone but not needing them.....