Baggage...lol. I hear that. Hey, man, everyone has baggage of some sort. It's just a matter of how much of one's own baggage they can carry. Some people need a hand. Others will sluff it off on you. Any way you look at it, it's gonna be there on some level. When you get many people together, especially in a social "crew", there are going to be these issues that come along. If you don't want to, don't take it on. If you care to really get involved, make the effort to help out to your comfortable level and no further. One of the hardest but most valuable lessons I took from working with an underground crew was that I had to make the decision what was enough for me to deal with. there are many activities that one can take part in to benefit the crew. Some you may like; some you may not. Stick with what you like and do it to the extent that you are able. Don't make it your life's ambition to "do it all for everyone all the time" or you'll get burnt. That's my take on it at least. Hope it helps. Much love and keep on dancin'.