Traits you look for in a partner

topic posted Fri, July 20, 2007 - 9:25 PM by  Blue
As a Venus in cancer .........what are the traits you look for in a partner?
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Blue
New York
  • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

    Fri, July 20, 2007 - 11:36 PM
    I am "dreaming" of a partner that can be so moved with me listening to Luz Casal singing Piensa en mi
    youtube.com/watch
    who can be moved watching a special movie, thrilled taking one bit every 3 mns of my tarte tatin, who can look into my eyes looking at his eyes and simply lose any conception of time and place.
    A kind, sweet yet opiniated man who can look at the world with a new look yet with experience and take me with him on the road to bliss.
    Obviously my Venus is in Cancer...
    I stopped looking for him.
    I am still hoping though but...
    • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

      Fri, July 20, 2007 - 11:37 PM
      I forgot, who knows or can taste the difference between eating a tarte tatin with creme fraiche rather than vanilla ice cream...

      Yes, I have my Venus in Cancer...
      Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

    Sun, July 22, 2007 - 7:54 PM
    Someone emotionally giving, who is willing to nestle close and close ourselves off from the world. I often think of it like turtles in a shell. :) Not that it's antisocial (because I am not), but it's very much a two-person team/union that can nurture and sustain itself on love, compassion, understanding, and nurturing.

    I dislike people who are emotionally distant or dishonest, or don't have a softer side. I need someone with edges in other aspects of their personality..but not in how they treat me.
  • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

    Tue, November 20, 2007 - 6:47 AM
    Good question although ever changing as I hone my desires.

    Humor, confidence, tenderness, a streak of wild, commitment to joy, sensuality, COMMUNICATION, enriching conversation, spiritual propensity of some un-fundamantal sort or another, independence and respect for mine, kid loving, friendly, open minded and experimental, snuggly, warm, loving without velcro, can't be peeling anyone off my side, it feels like strangulation, but I do enjoy touch and intimacy.

    I have a complicated chart.
  • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

    Tue, May 13, 2008 - 3:16 AM
    Oddly enough, I tend to be attracted to guys who seem very distant emotionally. I have no idea why... they drive me CRAZY as a cancer moon, as you can imagine. I'm looking for reassurance and security... and I go for guys who give me none!
  • Re: Traits you look for in a partner

    Tue, May 27, 2008 - 11:05 AM
    funny, intelligent, strong in their ideas, know when not to coddle or pussy foot around me, can keep me interested, passionate but level headed, UNDERSTANDS (whatever the f that means), not afraid of peaceful conflict, driven, likes sex, likes me

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