It depends on what you like in a relationship. Like the poster has above, these are not relationships for the faint of heart. They are consuming. Every word of that is true. My two major relationships have had it. One has his pluto two degrees conj to my Venus. And I have Pluto conj Venus in my own chart. So that means his Pluto is conj my Pluto as well. You have to be able to handle that intensity without it becoming violent. If you operate well together this can mean continual fascination on every level including sexual, but if you don't it can just as easily mean that every disagreement is a struggle to the death with neither of you willing to give an inch.

You should also see what's going on with your Mars. I typically have Mars/Venus, Mars/Moon and Mars/Pluto aspects. Those are also very powerful and can lead to disastrous results or bliss.

Here's another reading of Venus/Pluto.

Venus Conjunct Pluto

Venus conjunct Pluto in the composite chart signifies the power of love as a transforming agent. In this relationship, whether it is a friendship or a love affair, you are seeking something more than love in the ordinary sense. Consequently, everything about your being together becomes extremely important.

In a sexual relationship, physical lovemaking is approached with an intensity that can make the experience very powerful and beautiful.

At any rate this is not likely to be a casual relationship. You will be intensely involved with each other. Love can be transformed into a power struggle if one or both of you tries to use the relationship as a tool for manipulating the other. The victim is powerless to do anything about it, and a strange love-hate tension is set up. When such a situation finally explodes, it can be disastrous.

Obviously this is not a relationship to play with. You must enter into it with serious intentions of making something good of it. You will both have great power over each other, so use it well.