Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

topic posted Tue, June 17, 2008 - 1:47 AM by  Shaku
To All Nothingness Folks:

I'm having an for open-house to celebrate the fact that I got to stay here a whole year, actually 13 months with at least another to go, then perhaps more after that. (Cross fingers.) And plus I'm turning 49!

It's Friday, June 27th, 6PM till 11PM. Feel free to stop by, if even just for a bit, any time between those hours. I'm at 201 Coggins Drive, # B205, Pleasant Hill, CA 94523. Bring my phone number (925) 435-8554, if you can make it, so you can call and have me open the gate, since the buzzer out front is a bit iffy.

I am only five blocks from the Pleasant Hill BART. Pleasant Hill BART is off the Pittsburgh / Bay Point Line. From the City that line is direct no transfers, and only takes about 45 minutes. There's only one street involved, Buskirk. Pleasant Hill BART is right on Buskirk. You just walk five blocks to the corner of Buskirk and Coggins. I'm on the corner of Coggins & Buskirk. You can call from Pleasant Hill BART, using the above phone number, and I can talk you here if there's any difficulty.

Many blessings.

Melvin.

P.S. - - Some of those Zen Buddhists Scoundrels are thinking about showing up.
posted by:
Shaku
SF Bay Area
  • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

    Thu, June 19, 2008 - 11:37 PM
    Hail Shaku as he celebrates the nothingness...that persists!

    A Merry Happy Birthday to he and his home!
    • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

      Fri, June 20, 2008 - 9:04 AM
      He aint eating that nothing cake anyways no how, but he might pick up your girlfriend and romance her with his sweet brilliant words of nothing that will leave her forever a guru follow of shaku's
      • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

        Sat, June 21, 2008 - 6:35 PM
        A true scoundrel should always make at least a solid attempt to steal girlfriends whenever possible.
        • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

          Sun, June 22, 2008 - 2:20 PM
          Then it' s ok for me to steal boyfriends, I assume.
          Right?

          I'm working on that skill lately..it doesn' t come naturally...perhaps I need to think about nothing...better.
          • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

            Mon, June 23, 2008 - 3:40 AM
            Okay, I have to admit I don't really steal spouses from people. I kind of was glorifying my evil beyond its true current capacity. I am trying to deprogram my conscience, but the progress is slow. Sadly, I'm still mostly a nice guy. Man, is that dull or what?
            • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

              Mon, June 23, 2008 - 2:41 PM
              Its those pheromons, those women smell it on us, they know the alpha males that are having sex, and they are programmed to go after them, its in their genetic make up.

              So get some sex anyway you can, and you will notice that women will come on to you.

              Masturbation doesnt release the pheromon, if it did, lonely guys would be getting laid all over the world, and there not.

              Pay a prostitute or any women who will have sex with you.

              As far as men go, it doesnt matter, Gay men will have sex no matter what.

              Women want the Gay man who listen and cares that has washboard abs, but that guy is gay... They have sex with the alpha dog who doesnt care about them and they can bring home to piss of their daddy's.

              The beta males, they just use if they have a big pay check, they get the sperm from an alpha male, and they beta male thinks its their kids. Thats why they get mad if you ask for a perternity test.

              Just watch Morrie, and you see all those lieing women, who have beta males raising their kids.

              In Roman times, they would just leave the unwanted babies in the aqua ducts, it was the old form of abortion. I bet many of those kids ended up as slaves.
              • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

                Thu, June 26, 2008 - 3:18 AM
                Yeah, in the 70s it was like life was easy enough that sensitive males and all were rather hip. But then, by the late 80s, when the economy started to get brutal, and just kept getting more and more evil and life became really precarious for anyone not totally rich, then the survival instinct kicked in and women decided, "Yeah, fuck poverty and wondering about survival. I want to win this game and that's that."
              • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

                Thu, June 26, 2008 - 9:44 PM
                Moki is there hard science behind your alpha male / phermone theories.. it does sound an awful lot like the theme of a Maurie Povish show..that's hardly where I'd get accurate ideas regarding relationships between men and women.

                There is soooo much bull that falls under the catch-all heading of sociology that really belongs in a tabloid filler piece exclsively.

                Or are you just sort of being uh comical.

                I hate to lump all of one gender together...that's a hell of a lot of people to lump together when speaking of motivation or any given activity.
                • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

                  Fri, June 27, 2008 - 8:33 AM
                  Actually their is a lot of history behind these concepts in psychology and evolutionary psychology.

                  The pheromone concept is know, but how much it influence varies and is not scientifically repeatable so it doesnt fall under real science, but there are many people who bellieve its true.

                  I am sceptical of the science because reality is infinite. I look to the world for the same science that repeats itself.

                  Little girls go after the hard alpha males to be rebellious against daddy who made all those rules for her to follow growing up. And kids want control... thats proven in psychology. There is a great course on how to raise kids by giving them three choices, which is all about letting kids feel they have control, if the child doesnt want to make a choice or wants a fourth choice, then you must get off your ass and choose for them, problem is parents are lazy and take the spanking and yelling route, but its a great method if you get off your ass and work with kids and give them some choice, but not too much. Turns out that in Gang psychology kids want a lot of rules, they make more then parents, so structure is what they are looking for but they want to have some control and choice as a human being.

                  Through out History, women have sought the best strongest male to reproduce with, and that stuff is written into their code, the same goes for men seeking the best mate, healthest. As much as we hate beauty magazines, and their manipulation because most women after have a child or that have low matiablism, low thryoids, have no choice to be on the heavy side, but heavy or curvy doesnt always mean unhealthy. Anyways, there is something to this that we hate in marketing, but is true to our genes.

                  However, these type of hard men in past history were not the type to stick around, or were killed in war. Women will do anything to care for their children, and until womens rights came along, they had to get the help of a man. So some men who were told the truth took on step dad duties with honor, others were duped into the role by a women lieing because she cheated or wanted the help no matter what.

                  The Maurie Povish show is a prime example of this still going on today. And people not want prenuptial agreements and perternity test saying cant you tell its your kid, and dont you love me goes on still, with many divorce lawyers geting rich along the way.

                  The actual proof of pheromones is more a theory. Ever noticed that guys who are dating and getting laid get hit on all the time. Is it just that they feel confident, or that they are not look at women like this, and think they are playing hard to get. Some men give up, and they just stay home and watch porn and masturbate, and they remain lonely, because you have to get out there in the world and meet women to have a relationship. Still I think that they can smell sexual desire on us, I think they can smell that we have been mating, and subconsciously they are drawn to the type of man that is reproducing because there is a reason why other women wanted to have sex with them.

                  There is a lot more going on in every moment then we can imagine.
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                    Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

                    Fri, June 27, 2008 - 12:56 PM
                    I'll have to do considerably more reading on (some of) these topics before I can buy into them to the degree that you seem to. (or at all : )

                    Thank you for shedding some more light on your ideas about these matters.

                    We all see the wrold so differently and fmaily dynamics is a sensitive and complex topic.

                    I dare say you don't insist that everyone see things as you do.

                    I know I don't.
            • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

              Thu, June 26, 2008 - 9:37 PM
              I'd never steal a spouse but some guys cry out to be stolen from their girlfriends...mean unappreciative girlfriends.
              and I've known women who also wanted that to happen...not me.. I always leave long gaps etween relationships.. it's a lot healthier..for me...but whoknows waht's right for another.

              certainly if children were invloved I would not be involved in someone's LTR no matter what they called their signifcant others. What constitutes a long term relationship? 1 year? 4? 8 months? there's no right answer I suppose.
              • Re: Melvin's 49th Birthday Party?

                Fri, June 27, 2008 - 2:55 AM
                Yes, you're right about the not messing with families with small kids to support. Sadly, all of the women that I was plotting to talk out of their marriages all had kids, and so now I have to be like a saint. Darn.

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