Metin, you will love fall gathering at Short Mountain. It is exactly what you are looking for. But you have to go Tennessee, because that's where Short Mountain is. Short Mountain is a radical Fearie sanctuary. I do not know if you are familiar with it, but you should become so and then make regular trips out for the gatherings there, and at other sanctuaries around the world. SO, you can get flights out to Nashville on SW for around 300 bucks, then you get picked up at the airport and taken to the sanctuary. Fall gathering will be around 150 people. You'll love it, and if you want to be convinced of that fact, let's get together for coffee and I'll tell you all about it and show you pictures and you'll become very excited and then you'll go! Let me know!